Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Wed Oct 01, 2014 7:18 pm

Just got a text from my ex......he still hates me......

He say " your car registration was mailed to my house. You were suppose to change it to your address. What do you want done with it now?"

How cold and hateful.....I guess I better get that honey jar going....

I responded with "just mail it to me please."

God he is cold

MissyA · Unread post by **MissyA** » Wed Oct 01, 2014 8:20 pm

ILoveMyExAndrew wrote:Just got a text from my ex......he still hates me......

He say " your car registration was mailed to my house. You were suppose to change it to your address. What do you want done with it now?"

How cold and hateful.....I guess I better get that honey jar going....

I responded with "just mail it to me please."

God he is cold

I'm currently working a honey jar on my stubborn boyfriend of 1.5 yrs and it's working so far. I've been working it for about a month now. We had a fight and decided to take a break, so that's when I started a honey jar. I included his semen and my fluids in the jar too

We are now back together and he's actually a little sweeter towards me now. Yst, he told me he's helplessly in love with me. That it's gonna take a divine intervention for us to part....lol. Now, I'm gonna have a Dixie love candle set for me to prevent the constant arguments. I hope this helps

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Wed Oct 01, 2014 9:21 pm

Thanks! This helps!

How long were you guys broken up? I have been broken up since March 2014! I didn't think about magic till like August and didn't find luckymojo till a few days ago! :/

I wish I could have started right when we broken up.....my ex will still talk to me if I text him first but he refused to meet up for dinner when I ask him in July!

Sigh.....before your honey jar was your ex nice to you at all?

I don't have his semen either...only pictures and something he has touched before that's all....

I hope my honey jar will work as good as yours!!! I am so happy you got your ex back!

I actually got someone to do my honey jar for me the person is a professional and has done several in the past for other people I hope that will help....

One of the things I need to send is my vaginal fluids.....she told me menstral blood is better....my period starts on 10/11.....so I may wait till 10/11 to send her my stuff....still not sure yet....would you wait the extra days to get them menstral blood? It's suppose to work better....

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:15 am

Hi, ILoveMyExAndrew,

j82 gave you excellent advice. I agree with j82!

Here is the link to the reconciliation kit:

http://luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

You can do the kit to back up the rootworker.

Get the menstral blood to the worker.

For readers and rootworkers who are reputable:

www.readersandrootworkers.org

or go to: www.hoodoopsychics.com

Good Luck hon!

Susan

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Thu Oct 02, 2014 7:34 am

Thanks! I will order the kit!

I have to wait till 10/11 for the blood.....

if someone has a negative reading and God says NO does that mean all the spells won't work at all?

I have faith that my ex and I are soulmates and meant to be......he hasn't found anyone better and neither have I.....we are best together.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Thu Oct 02, 2014 10:18 am

Hi, ILoveMyExAndrew,

That's a darn good question. I can only vouch for the readers and rootworkers on AIRR and HOODOO psychics.
But if a reader told me that no, it wasn't going to work out and I wanted it too. You can bet I'd still try with
everything I've got. However, I would keep it in the back of my mind what my trusted reader told me.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Now, I'd give it a time limit though. Because who wants to spend their precious life pining away for someone?
I sure as heck don't. Life is too short and there are way to many other prospects out there that are candidates for
being a soul mate.

As far as God goes, I can't speak for him. I do know there is such a thing as free will. And if you decide to continue
to work on this situation that's up to you. As far as waiting forever? Naw...

I have a question for you, let's say ole Andrew decides to be nice one day and listen to you on the phone. Maybe he's even thinking about getting back together, what are you willing to give up in order for that to happen?

Ms. Susan

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Thu Oct 02, 2014 8:16 pm

If a reader says NO would the magic even work? Would the honey jar work?

I am waiting on my period now and mail from my ex.....I have a list of things to get for my friend's niece to do my honey jar.....a letter from my ex with his energy and handwriting will help! So glad he is mailing me my mail to me lol....I also have another item that my ex has touched.... I wish I have his semen and hair too....oh well....

No I won't wait forever...if after my honey jar and love spell is done......and 6 months later my ex still hates me gives me bad attitude and refuse to see me then it's time to move on....if after one year my ex still refuse to see me....then its def over...

But I honestly have faith that we are meant to be....I can't think of anyone else better for him or me! I have faith that my honey jar will get him at least willing to see me in person again!

He is still single and I am the best person for him!

I will give up anything and everything for Andrew! I spend $6000 on Andrews love spell....it just sucks that the caster is fake....I'll do anything for Andrew....especially if it will help get him back for sure!

Would you give up anything for your soulmate?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 02, 2014 8:25 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

In all honesty: No. I would not give up everything for my soul mate if my soul mate hasn't given up anything for me

I'm so sorry that you have spent so much money on these spells. That's amazing how some frauds out there will take people for their money. It breaks my heart.

Every reader performs readings differently. And root workers perform spells differently.

Most will give it a try unless there's some horrible stuff in the readings. For instance, I would not perform a love spell to win a serial killer, or an abuser, etc.

It's not common for the cards to say: "God said "NO"".

So, you won't know until you have asked.

Wishing you the best

MissyA · Unread post by **MissyA** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 5:52 am

ILoveMyExAndrew wrote:Thanks! This helps!

How long were you guys broken up? I have been broken up since March 2014! I didn't think about magic till like August and didn't find luckymojo till a few days ago! :/

I wish I could have started right when we broken up.....my ex will still talk to me if I text him first but he refused to meet up for dinner when I ask him in July!

Sigh.....before your honey jar was your ex nice to you at all?

I don't have his semen either...only pictures and something he has touched before that's all....

I hope my honey jar will work as good as yours!!! I am so happy you got your ex back!

I actually got someone to do my honey jar for me the person is a professional and has done several in the past for other people I hope that will help....

One of the things I need to send is my vaginal fluids.....she told me menstral blood is better....my period starts on 10/11.....so I may wait till 10/11 to send her my stuff....still not sure yet....would you wait the extra days to get them menstral blood? It's suppose to work better....

We were broken up for about a week. I started the honey jar 2 days after we decided on a break. My ex is not a nice person in nature, so I wont say he was extra nice to me before we broke up, but after we got back together, he was sweeter towards me. I burned a Stay with me candle with MISC on Dec 2013, and I believe it still has effect on him because we have been on the verge of breaking up so many times, but he just cant stay away from me. He's even surprised at himself. Menstrual blood is better or his sperm or your vagina fluids mixed with his. Any body fluids will make the honey jar wayyy stronger. I'm on my period now so im thinking about feeding him my blood. Maybe a tiny drop in his food. I would definitely wait the extra days to start my period cuz it makes the spell a DNA spell. Its definitely worth the wait.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 9:50 am

Dear ILoveMyExAndrew,

I completely agree with Miss Aida in everything she said.
To answer your question if I would give up anything for my soul mate my answer is exactly the same as Miss Aida's.

What I meant when I asked you the question, what are you willing to give up in order for you and Andrew to get back together, Is from your previous posts, in particular one made on Oct. 1, you said that Andrew had a lady friend that you insisted he not be in contact with. But then you and your ex Greg got back into contact. You had Andrew take a picture of you for Greg. I thought from your post that Andrew was upset with you because he said you did things behind his back? And he said according to you that you "did things behind his back.."
Also, with the apartment situation and you not telling him about that. You said he was upset if I read it correctly.

So, that being said and I hope I was clear even though we're going into a mercury retrograde and communications can go hay wire, I meant, what type of behaviors are you willing to give up in order to get Andrew back?

I'd encourage you to look into the clarity products and King Solomon's Wisdom products also.
They help you to understand where the other person is coming from.

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I'm just trying to unravel this for you.
Sometimes we do or say things that upset others and we are unaware of what we did.
It takes some good old fashioned introspection to take a deep look into you.

Step back, take a few deep breaths. Go back over what you might do differently in the future with this man.

I'm on your side, I want you to get him back but I want you to have an idea of where he's coming from too.

You can do this, you're a strong girl.
And you have a strong support system with good friends who care about you. People who aren't going to rip you off,
people who will be honest with you.

Many Blessings,
Ms. Susan

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 9:54 am

MissyA,

Wow! Those are some amazing results!

Keep doing what you're doing.

Thank-you for sharing your story.

Blessings,
Ms. Susan

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 6:28 pm

Miss Aida,

Thank you for the response!

Yes! It's sad! I decided to try her b/c her reviews on YellowPages were really good.....but she turns out to be a fraud! :/ The SADDEST PART IS SHE IS A CHRISTIAN! She told me she is a hardcore christian and tells me to pray to God everyday and talk to him everyday etc. SO SAD! lol...Oh well.....I just want my ex back....I can make that money back.

Well my reader lives in Tunisia.....she is my friend's grandmother....my friend is born in a family of spells casters....her grandmother is a medium and did my reading. My reading was basically that "I should try to move on, but she is able to help me get into contact with my ex to so that a relationship can develop between us again." I had a lot of negative energy around me....I had to do a 5 day LONG CLEANSING before I could even start my spell!!!

Now I am just praying to Oshun Goddess of LOVE and BEAUTY and hoping she can help me! I prayed to her every night for 1+ hr during my 5 day cleansing!

Well my friend told me that her grandmother has turn down cases before......if there is NO CHANCE at all between two people she will not attempt a spell at all. So she has turn down cases before.....I got accepted so I HOPE that means I have a chance!

But you are right....I won't know till I TRY!!

Did you recommend using only one spell and one reader at a time?

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 6:32 pm

Miss Aida,

It's common that God saids NO?

If so....do NONE of those people get their exes back?

Any succeed in getting them back even though God saids no?

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 6:39 pm

MissyA,

Thank you for sharing your story!

I am SO HAPPY that your spell worked out so well!!!

I WISH MINE will too!

I will have my hair in it and my menstrual blood and vaginal fluids too but I do NOT have my ex's hair or sperm b/c I haven't seen him in 5 months! The only thing I have is a ribbon touched by him before but only once and LUCKILY he recieved MY MAIL at his house....he texted me and told me about it...I ask him to mail it to me and he agreed! So I will have a letter with his handwriting on it and also touched by him....but that's ALL I have! NO hair. NO sperm...how can I get that without having sex with him? lol...

We have also been broken up for 6 months now.....NOT 1 week!

Do you think I still have a chance????? It's just been so LONG now....sigh...I wish I knew magic BEFORE we broke up lol..

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 7:44 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

First, I don't ask God. I ask my Spirits. So, I don't know how common it is that Psychics ask God directly (as I can't speak for other Psychics).

And I don't think it's a good idea to have 2 different spell casters working on the same thing unless they both agree and work together. I personally will have other rootworkers "back me up" with many of my spells. But, we are working together.

My suggestion to you is to relax and stop fretting. I also ask that you do me a PERSONAL favor and read this webpage:

www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html

This webpage that Miss cat wrote will answer many of your concerns.

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 8:06 pm

Susan,

You have NO idea how much it means to me that you actually READ everything that I wrote! That is so sweet of you to read what I wrote and try to help me and unravel me! That is the nicest thing anyone can do for me.

OMG. I am def NOT perfect hahaha....there are TONS of things that I wish I could change about myself......

1) I wish I wasn't so HOT tempered! I got that from my father! I am MUCH better now....but my temper is still NOT perfect....you will meet sweet women that are always quiet and sweet and never get mad or pissed or argue....I wish that was me lol... If that was me I would be MARRIED with children by now lol....

2) I am a STRONG woman....you got that right...but sometimes that can be a bad thing...good thing is I am NOT scared to ask what I want...I am not shy to ask for it. Bad thing is I can bitch about things that are better let go....for example...my ex is a very honest guy I did NOT have to bitch about that other woman at all. He would NEVER cheat...but I am just too strong and insecure and always ask for what I really want...and what I want is for her to disappear forever! hahaha...so I ask for it....but sometimes I need to learn that if it's NOT that important then I should just drop it!

3) I wish I was more confident! If I was confident I would NEVER bitch about any woman he talks to....My insecurity is what killed my relationship.

4) Be more frugal with money......right now I am pretty frugal bc I owe 100K in student loans...most of my paycheck goes to student loans and fake casters (LOL JK! but yeah) My ex is extremely frugal....he prefers investing every penny he has lol....He and I got into a fight b/c he thinks a trip to Europe is a waste of money! I think it's expensive YES, but it's a once in a lifetime vacation...it is a nice experience. My ex thinks spending $5000 on an engagement ring is too much! I think $20,000 is okay...again it's a ONCE IN A LIFETIME EVENT! PLUS if you love someone you should be willing to do anything for them! My ideal bf would spend tons of money on me and would love me and be super generous with me....Andrew isn't like that...I will have to get use to a boyfriend that doesn't like to spend money at all and doesn't like to buy gifts or spoil me.... One time my boss messed up my pay check and had to take the money back! I already paid 5000 that month on my student loans...I owe 1300 on the 28th of every single month....I didn't have 1300 at the time...I ask my ex to let me borrow the money and I'll pay him back as soon as I get paid....he was SOOOOO MAD about it....a generous loving boyfriend would GIVE ME THE MONEY! LOL...but he got mad even though I paid him back 3 days later! WTF! Anyone elses boyfriend would GIVE UP that money easily....IF you love someone does the money even matter?????

5) I would give up Greg for Andrew....I would be OKAY with NEVER talking to him again! I gave up one of my other friends for Andrew too....Greg talks to me now...but I am OKAY with never talking to him again if Andrew comes back....

6) Be better at communication......honestly I do NOT know why Andrew thinks I do things behind his back I do NOT....I guess it's because I started talking to Greg (behind his back) and the apartment issue....I told him I was moving out...he KNEW I was moving out...that wasn't a surprise....however I just put down deposits on the apartments without talking it over with him first! He was mad about that and he was mad that I told my sister I wanted to move out BEFORE I told him.....in my defense...I was MAD AT HIM for being so nasty to me those last few days...But I still end up telling him everything AFTER I did it lol....

OVERALL I know where Andrew is coming from he thinks 1) This woman gets mad and talks to other people about her problems first before she talks to me...(I like to talk to my sister) I do eventually tell him everything...he is such a baby really... 2) This woman bitched about me talking to another woman, but she turns around and talks to her ex Greg....(That is MY FAULT fine....but if that other woman really doesn't mean much to you does it matter???? why do you NEED HER? that's what I don't get) 3) It's just one thing after another....that's from his own words....he says I always have something come up....whether it's my insecurities with that other woman or the apartment issue or the trip to Europe or borrowing money from him...I always have something come up...whats next?

Lastly, he thinks I have LOW morals, I am NOT a good person, I am NOT a nice person etc. B/c of all this....WTF...that's what I don't get. What did I do that was REALLY THAT BAD???? did I cheat on him? NO. Did I spend his money? NO (I use my own money) yes I got bitchy with him over the other woman okay fine I was wrong...but AGAIN if that woman don't mean shit to him...then WHY DOES IT MATTER?????

I am still waiting on what I did that makes me so wrong and unforgettable!

Andrew can't find anyone better.....that other woman won't even drive 1.5 hrs here to see him....I MOVED TO FLORIDA FOR HIM! And she is better? I am younger and hotter! What is he thinking?

He is still single and most likely NOT talking to her...but still. LOL...Should I put a spell or curse on that woman????? If it will help me I will put a huge curse or get someone to do it for me! lol...

So what do you think???? I been broken up for 6 months now...do I still have a chance???

I hope my honey jar works...at least get Andrew to remove all these CRAZY ideas about me out of his head.....some of it is so stupid and not true!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 03, 2014 8:11 pm

MIss Aida,

Thanks for the link...I am going to read it now.

They ask the spirits too...I don't mean God. I mean spirits. The other poster used God so that's where I got it from...the reader I am using now ask the spirits for me...

The person I am using now will NOT do a case if the spirits say NO or if they refuse to help. She told me the spirits will help me get back into contact with Andrew so that we can see if it's possible to rebuilt a relationship....but she never told me any guarantees.....sigh this is so HARD.
I am a pharmacist and this is harder than any class I have taken in school. lol

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 04, 2014 7:54 am

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew ,

No spell is guaranteed to work.

If any spell caster tells you that then they are lying.

Take care

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Oct 04, 2014 8:11 am

ILoveMyExAndrew,

I agree with Miss Aida! I also worry about how much effort and thought you are putting into this work, not that effort and thought are not good, but OVER thinking something and OBSESSING is a work killer. I tell you this because in the past I was you, I went through what you are doing, and I acted similar and it killed the work. Also I warn you that how it happens is often not the way you think it should happen. So be open. Some of your post seems to be making excuses. I would prefer to see you apologize to God for your mistakes in the relationship accept them and ask for forgiveness and a second chance.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sat Oct 04, 2014 4:07 pm

Hi, ILoveMyExAndrew,

Wow, you did a great job answering the question! I'm very proud of you.
What did you learn from your answers?

What I took from them is that you guys are vastly different in the financial aspect of a relationship.
He's stingy, you're generous.
I'm assuming you are very demonstrative in your actions while he is not.

I don't know, I just want you to think about the pros and cons of being in a relationship with Andrew.
Write them down. See what comes up.

You're doing a fantastic job with this. You're strong and you're bright.
If you were my student you'd get an A plus.

Miss Aida gave you a great link:

www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html

I'm not seeing where you've done anything wrong at all.
Sometimes we never know why someone has left.
People do it all the time.
With you being a Scorpio you feel things intensely.
He may not feel as intense as you do about anything.

Just breathe. It will be alright.

Be well,
Ms Susan

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Oct 04, 2014 7:16 pm

Thanks everyone for your posts and response!

I just worked a 14 hr shift today 8am to 10pm and will need to work another 8am to 4pm shift tomorrow.....sooooo tired....will respond to all the awesome posts tomorrow!

Missy Aida! You are right! No guarantees in life except death and taxes!

J-yes I need to apologize about a lot of things....will post it tomorrow after work

Susan- A+ student awwwwwww..... You are the sweetest person ever lol.... I was a straight A student in college and for the first 2 years in pharmacy school....but I didn't have much of a life either lol.... Will respond to your post tomorrow....need sleep now.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sun Oct 05, 2014 2:32 am

You are most welcome, ILoveMyExAndrew!

You being a straight A student in college is no surprise.

Good Luck!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Oct 05, 2014 8:44 pm

Just got off the phone with my mom tonight!

I wanted to respond to my posts tonight but my mother called me......She knows about me being scammed out of $6000 in August b/c I told my sister and my sister told my mom! They all want me to MOVE BACK HOME. I live in South Florida now bc I moved here for Andrew. They all want me home bc we broke up and they all think it's CRAZY that I am considering magic. They all tell me there is NO SUCH THING as magic and that I need to just move back home etc. etc.

Has anyone ever told any of you that there is NO SUCH thing as magic? I think there is magic. I believe in it!

Is it bad to EVER tell anyone that you are doing magic? will your magic NOT work if you tell someone else about it? I did NOT tell my family that I am trying magic AGAIN (well the first time I was scammed so this is my FIRST time with real magic!) I didn't tell them b/c I know they will NOT approve of it but I don't care. I believe I have a chance with Andrew I just need a little help getting him sweeten and get contact back!

Will any of you ever tell anyone about your magic spells? is it bad to talk about it?

Susan, I was a great student, but sadly I traded my love life to be a great student....hence why I am almost 30 yo and still single and don't have a husband or children.

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Oct 06, 2014 4:13 pm

Hello ILoveMyExAndrew,

The reaction that your family is having is one of the reasons that we tend to not talk about the work we are doing. I had a person explain it to me that by talking about what we are doing to everyone we are spreading it thin in a way and allowing other people to put their judgments on whatever we are doing. I Suppose there are some people that I will mention work I might be doing to but these are people who are either kind of mentors in this type of work or people that are very supportive, but even then I tend to not talk it up a lot.

In essence telling someone about the work you are doing is kind of up to you and is probably a case by case type of situation but in general I would say just stay silent on it and do the work. Sometimes keeping it a little secret gives it its own kind of power. Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:41 pm

Hello Miss Aida,

Yeah, it sucks that there are NO guarantees in life except for death and taxes LOL....

I read the link you posted! Thank you! In general do you agree with the time frame 3days/3weeks/3months posted by Catherine? Is that mostly true? So a spell won't start working AFTER A YEAR its casted?

I will start my honey jar hopefully in two weeks or so....I have ALL the right ingredients....except I don't have any body fluids from my ex no sperm, semen or blood etc. I don't have his hair either....I just have his handwriting from a letter and something he has touched before. Is that good enough? Will that work just as well?

It's kind of hard to get semen or hair if I don't live with him or see him.

I will use my hair and menstrual blood though....

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 06, 2014 8:17 pm

Hello J82,

Thanks again for your response to all my posts!

I was NOT the best girlfriend in the relationship...I admit that. I am MOST sorry for my attitude and hot temper during our relationship. NO matter what happened I had NO reason to get so angry at him or yell at him or give him nasty attitude. Nothing justified giving someone nasty attitude or yelling at them. I was taught only yell when you see a bus about to run over another person! LOL...Otherwise there is never any reason to yell....I yelled, I got nasty, I had bad attitude...there was NO excuse for it. I didn't need to act like that to Andrew or anyone else ever. I am SO VERY SORRY for it and I think about it and feel sad/bad about it still. My temper is so HOT and I had no reason to be nasty to Andrew or anyone else. There is NO excuse ever for a nasty attitude and I am sorry.

I am sorry for being a "hypocrite" I expected Andrew to LOVE ME and ONLY ME and NOT GIVE ANY attention to anyone else....he really did do that for me....A lot MORE than I had for him anyways....I still had feelings for my other ex Greg when we first met.....I still thought about Greg once in awhile. I NEVER try to plan to see him again or flirt with him or did anything wrong with him (Greg lives in Texas. Andrew and I live in South Florida)...but I did think to myself many times...I wonder if my life will be better if I ended up with Greg instead. I wonder if it's better with Greg or Andrew! lol...I did think about that sometimes. BUT I NEVER TRY TO CHEAT! I NEVER cheated! I am NOT a cheater! But I did think about Greg and sometimes wonder what my life would be like if I was still with Greg. Greg contacted me last year for my birthday and ask me if I wanted to visit him again in Texas! Greg has a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend!!!! Obviously I NEVER responded to that kind of message b/c I would NEVER visit him if I was with Andrew, but when Andrew and I fight I would think about Greg and imagine meeting up with him again! I know I am WRONG and I was a hypocrite for expecting Andrew to do something that I am NOT DOING MYSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so SORRY FOR THAT! God, please forgive me....I am a Scorpio...it's hard for me to move on and let go of things...especially relationships. I HATE change in relationships.....But I am now def 120% OVER Greg...I just want Andrew....If/When Andrew takes me back I will NEVER talk to Greg again nor will I even consider Greg again. I will put him out of my mind b/c I want ANDREW AND ONLY ANDREW! I APOLOGIZE from the bottom of my heart that I was such a hypocrite. God please forgive my weakness.

I took Andrew for granted.....Andrew LOVE ME A LOT in the beginning....so very much! SO much that I didn't think he would ever leave me! So that's why I didn't cherish him as much as I should have! I never could have imagine that someone that love me as much as Andrew did would leave me so fast! If I would have acted differently he would still be around today. Because of my nasty attitude and crazy demands he left me. I am so sorry. I would never do it again. If/When Andrew come back I will cherish him more than anything! God please give me another chance!

I wasn't perfect during my relationship with Andrew....I was insecure and hypocritical and I am SORRY from the bottom of my heart! Please God, give me another chance. I will cherish Andrew forever if I can just have one last chance! PLEASE!

J82, what do you recommend me do than? I am about to do my honey jar....I got my friend's niece to do it for me....she is a professional and done several honey jars and saw success!

I have everything except for my exes body fluids and hair....I have his handwriting and something he has touched before...is that good enough?

I guess just wait and see what happens now? Just pray everyday?

What else do you recommend I do? I mainly work, make money, pay off my student loans etc. I don't do much else...my life is pretty boring! haha...

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 06, 2014 9:07 pm

Hello Susan!

Thanks for all the sweet words!

Andrew use to be the perfect boyfriend in the sense that he LOVED ME so MUCH in the beginning....He use to love me and say the sweetest things to me and was totally in love with me! I still had a little bit of feelings left for Greg and I took Andrew for granted....treated him badly and give him bad attitude and was VERY INSECURE about that girl he use to like (for whatever reason I don't know!) and gave him a ton of crap for it....

Andrew later on started hating me more and more for it...and think I am not a very good woman....so he started becoming nastier and more critical of me....before he was never like that. I ruined it.

Being with Andrew use to be ALL PROS...but now there are CONS because he started becoming very critical of me.....

PROS still of being with Andrew is that he is a very honest guy, a very nice guy, he makes great money and is very good with money, he is smart etc. Very hard to find a great guy like that!

CONS Should I blame myself for it? I mean he was never like that till after I started taking him for granted.....He would never complain about me for anything but after our relationship starting going south he would get mad at me for my spending my own money, me sleeping late he prefers sleeping early, me paying him my rent late he didn't care about that before (my boss messed up my paycheck!), he would not be as romantic with me anymore etc.

But at the beginning Andrew had no CONS!!!!!!!!!! It was all my fault!! Please forgive me!

Andrew is born in 2/1/82 and I was born in 10/28/84......I hope we match in signs! lol...

I still want him so much....what else should I do besides a honey car? will it be okay without his hair or body fluids that I DON'T have?

What else do you think I should do?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:39 pm

I love myexAdrew,

Honey honestly the truth is this, you keep writing a lot hoping for validation. you tells us over and over the situation hoping someone will give you hope and tell you what you want to hear. I understand how you feel, I have been shitty to bfs and also had shitty bfs, its a reality of life! That being said, stop making excuses and asking us to validate what happened and realize what happened and do work to address it.

I cant answer why Andrew criticizes you in the end but not the beginning, I cant answer why he talked with a girl and you still cared for the ex, I cant answer if your cousins friends work will do.

I can say you are over thinking the work, obviously still really attached to it and that makes it harder. I can tell you that you need a reading, not from the cousins friend but an AIRR reader like Ms. Cat or someone else on the forum and and ask them what work to do.

Repeating the story over and over is not changing it, its just showing your insecurity and wanting to constantly get approval. Truth.. your break up is not all your fault any more then its all andrews. Relationships are about that relationship.

Personally I would do a honey jar and work it a month then do the LM reconciliation jar and follow it to the T.. send the letter and keep doing the honey jar and watch and wait 3 mo for it to happen.

If no movement or anything at that point then do cut and clear and move on.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 6:10 pm

Thank you J82,

Sadly you are right....sigh...

Okay I will follow what you say no problem....

Just a few more questions.

1) My friends niece is about to do my honey jar soon....she has done several for people with success....was it smart that I got her to do mine or did you think it was better that I did my own? (I have no experience in it). Overall is it better to hire spell casters or do the spell yourself? Or both at the same time?????

2) why the reconciliation jar out of ALL the different love spells on Lucky Mojo?

3) you don't recommend that I try at least 4 or 5 love spells on Lucky Mojo before giving up?

4) I am strongly considering hiring my friends grandmother to do a love spell for me....she has done several spells and is a real caster. Should I? Give me your opinion on hiring spell casters. She lives in Tunisia.

Thank you for all your help!

I will get a reading from Catherine if I see no movement in the honey jar in a month or so....but I am praying it works well!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 6:19 pm

1) Neither is "better." However, given your constant stream of doubt-filled, worried, and obsessive posts retelling the same story over and over, i advise you, in particular, to work with a professional root doctor who has experience assisting clients such as yourself. I would advise that root worker to assist and guide you to perform your own spells at home to back up the work.

2) The reconciliation jar is a traditional African American spell that can easily be worked at home and is formulated with herbs for a return and reunion of the type you desire.

3) Given your admitted obsession, i make no recommendations at all as to how many spells you try. My time limit is three months. Yours will doubtless extend well beyond that, even in the face of failure.

4) I have no idea what "a real caster" is in your mind or language. I presume this term arose in some televised or internet description on professional spell-casting, but where i live, which is the USA, clients from or working within black American traditions seek the assistance of spiritual workers, root doctors, hoodoo women, root men, conjure doctors, and the like. For this reason, the term "a real caster" sounds phoney to me, and in any case, if the woman is a traditional spiritual worker living in Tunisia, she is certainly beyond the provenance of the Lucky Mojo Curio Company to discuss. Please stay on topic in this thread, which is "Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite."

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 7:36 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

Answering your first question above, I prefer both. I encourage my clients to work alongside me and we coordinate our works.

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Oct 11, 2014 2:33 pm

I only got one real personal effect from my ex....it's an envelope with his handwriting.....I am hoping he licked the letter too but not 100% sure. I am mailing this along with a few other things to someone that I got to do my honey jar for me....she is a professional and know how to do a honey jar much more than I do...... But I wish I had some of my exes personal effects left just in case I need to do a jar myself to move things along even more....

I basically made a copy of the envelope my ex mail me....it's just a copy of the envelope.....will that work just as well if I need to do a jar myself?

I mean I am hoping the first jar done for me would work perfectly but we can ever be too save.... I made a copy of the envelope....is that just as good??? :/

Unread post by **J-Mo** » Sat Oct 11, 2014 4:48 pm

Hello ILoveMyExAndrew,

A copy of his handwriting is better than nothing, but it is not as powerful of a link as a genuine sample of his handwriting.

I would try to get a photo of him off of social media (facebook, instagram etc.) or a foot track if you have access to where he lives or works http://www.luckymojo.com/foottrack.html

Please be aware that there is an entire topic thread on personal concerns here in the forum and you would get more information if you would read that thread first, then post your question in that thread. It is here:

Personal Concerns (Hair, Photo, Name) Questions and Answers
personal-concerns-hair-photo-name-quest ... 20concerns

best of luck.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Oct 11, 2014 5:16 pm

Hey

Thanks a lot!

My honey jar (my first one that will be done by a professional/friend) will include:

My hair
A picture of ME
A picture of my EX
My ex's envelope with his handwriting and his saliva (he licked the envelope to seal it right? no tape was on it....)
A red ribbon touched by my ex before
A petition by me with my wishes on it
A sample of my menstrual blood
A piece of paper with my name and dob and my ex's name and dob

Money for Oshun
A gift for Oshun

I pray to Oshun and is asking for her help!

My first honey jar will have my exes handwriting on it with his saliva on it as well......

I only made a copy JUST IN CASE I need to make another jar in the future myself. I hope that will work....

Obviously I HOPE that this first honey jar will work and I would never have to make another one again!

My first honey jar will have a picture of my ex in it too!

I wish I have his hair/semen/blood too! Too bad I can't get those things.....we aren't currently seeing each other...

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 8:47 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

I hate to be a "Kill-joy" but this is a Hoodoo Forum.

We don't discuss Ebbos to Oshun (which is Santeria and not Hoodoo) here.

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 9:33 pm

I just booked an appointment for a reading with Catherine! TOO bad her earliest appointment is on Nov 26th!!! :/

I am NOT sure what to do now....my friend that's going to be starting my honey jar soon was just in a car accident...she hasn't responded to any of my emails in 5 days now.....

There are SOOOOOOOOOO MANY DIFFERENT spells out there and I am NOT sure which one to try first.

I want to try the honey jar.....and something else. Not sure what.

I wish my reading with Cat could be sooner. I'll try to start the honey jar as soon as possible.

There are just so many spells....not sure what to try first. Not sure WHO to hire to cast my spell either.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 9:47 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

Go to the AIRR webpage and click on honey jars. Then, a list of AIR members who do this will show up.

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Explain to them that you have a reading with Miss cat. they will understand.

Or buy a honey jar from Lucky Mojo and do it yourself until you have spoken with Miss cat
www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Take care

mae51 · Unread post by **mae51** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 9:55 pm

I just wanted to update everyone. Had my reading with Miss Cat last Wednesday and it was awesome. She was spot on! It's going to be a challenge but she gave me some things to do towards a reconciliation with him so I placed an order for some supplies.
In the meantime, a few days before my reading I found a forum re: Reconciliation trick: letter and a cup of water, so I set that up about three of them (they did not require oils, herbs, etc).
Two days before my reading while I was preparing breakfast for myself, I cracked an egg and it had 2 yokes...hmmm...what does that mean?
Approximately 6 hours after my reading with Miss Cat, my BF contacted me to ask if I wanted to go with him this past weekend to do a catering for a friend whose sister just passed away from cancer (my BF does catering on the side). I usually helped him with all his caterings. He said he thought I might want to go because I was with him when he catered her birthday party earlier this summer. I said yes. Based on my reading from Miss Cat, I thought this would be the perfect opportunity for me to be around him to collect some personal concerns.
Well the next day, Saturday (yesterday) he came over to pick me up. I was able to make him a cup of coffee in which I put a small amount of my urine. When we were loading the stuff into my car the strangest thing happened, a white butterfly flew in through the window. He tried everything to get it out. We even drove with the windows partly open. When we arrived at the home of the deceased lady's brother where the catering was going to take place, the butterfly flew out the window. hmmm. when we finished setting up, we left and went back to my house. He said he was going home so I said, oh I thought we would hang out for a bit. he said he had to go get a hair cut but could come back later. I said ok.
When he came back I had the perfect opportunity to give him the vodka popsicles that I made. now I had the sticks I needed for the sugar jar. Well one thing led to another and he ended up spending the night and the next morning he said....."wow how did that happen. I did not intend to spend the night. where did that come from? we are no longer together...we are broken up. I don't want to give you the wrong message. we are no longer in a relationship."
Anyway.......I prepared breakfast for us and was able to use the sugar from the sugar jar.
When he left this morning he said he will be back later in the week to pay me my portion of the money he made on the catering job.

I can't even begin to imagine how things are going to be once I receive the supplies I've ordered.
Mae51

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 10:11 pm

Hello, mae51 ,

Wow! that's GREAT progress!!

Keep up the TERRIFIC work you're doing

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 10:57 pm

Omg. My friend still hasn't responded to my email! I can't believe it....if she doesn't respond in a few days then I will use Deacon. He sounds really good at honey jars! I may use him for a reading too if he is available soon.

1. Besides the honey jar and the reconciliation spell kit is there any other spell kits that would be recommended to use to get your ex back?

2. How about the love me spell kit or the intranquility spell kit? Should those also be used on an ex to get them back????

3. How many spell kit should one use at a time? 1 or 2?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 7:18 am

Deacon Millett is a good worker.

1. Yes, i would recommend that you do a red skull candle. You can read more here:

Skull Candle Questions and Answers
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

If you have questions about skull candles, please post only in the thread mentioned above about skull candles. Do not try to make this thread be about skull candles, as this is a general condition thread, not a product-type or spell-type thread.

2. No, the Love Me work is not to get a lover back. It is to lure someone to love you. The Intranquility Spell is a CURSE, not a love spell. I do not recommend it in your case.

3. There is an entire thread on that subject.

Too Many Spells at Once? Overload? Interval Between Spells?
too-many-spells-at-once-overload-interv ... t6140.html

Please read it, and if you have any questions about what you see there, please post in that thread, not this one, as this thread is about "Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite."

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 7:37 am

ILoveMyExAndrew,

being you are new with this I would do one spell and watch and wait for signs. You would not use a honey jar and intranquility at the same time as you are doing two separate things..honey sweets, intranquility tortures them back. you could use the come to me or love me with it.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:14 am

For someone that's been broke up since March 2014.....my ex REFUSE to see me in July, but will respond to my text messages if I text him first (I haven't since August 11th)

I know I need a reading first and am scheduled for one.....

Should I do the

Honey Jar + reconciliation spell

or

Honey Jar + love me spell

or

Honey jar + come to me spell

Also should I hire Deacon or do it myself?

Any opinions?

I just want my ex back and it's SO HARD! HARDER than any thing I have ever had to do.

cassiopaeia · Unread post by **cassiopaeia** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:29 am

Honey jar + Reconciliation, since he does not currently want to be with you.

But ... please understand that I mean this with the best of all possible intentions, but you need to chill.

I know how hard it is, I have been where you are, but because of that I also know how that frantic energy affects spellwork and it's not good. I mean that for right now, and I mean it for when the work is happening. You need to be operating from a place of strength, and that's not where you are right now.

Take several deep breaths, remember what you like to do when you're not obsessing over someone else, and then go do that. It will help the spellwork function better, and it will also make you a far more desirable person to return to.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:52 am

Thank you. You are right. J82 is right.

I haven't bother or contacted at my ex at all since August.

My ex has texted me twice since then....

Once he texted me "hey do you know what happened to the shower? There is no hot water."

And the second time he texted me and told me he received my mail at his house and asked me what I wanted him to do with it. I asked him to mail it back to me.

That was it.....

I work a lot to keep myself busy.....I don't ever contact or bother my ex in anyway.

Should I do my own spells or hire a root worker to do it?

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 11:42 am

Hello ILoveMyExAndrew,

It sounds like you are person that really thinks about things a lot which in some instances can be helpful but it can also get in the way and cloud things up for you. Because you seem to have this tendency it might be good to work with a rootworker some just help keep you a little grounded in the work, even if the rootworker is just coaching you through doing the work yourself. I think that may be a good route is to have a rootworker work with you as you do magic alongside them.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 7:49 pm

Thanks Nat!

I am already scheduled for a reading with Catherine, but she is not available till Nov 26!

I am thinking about getting a reading from Deacon especially if he is available much sooner!

Should I get a reading from just ONE person or can I get a reading from BOTH of them?

Yes, I do think a lot! haha....

Some people think I have OCD! :/

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:19 pm

Hello, Ilovemyexandrew

Please use your own judgment on this one.

The moderators cannot make these types of recommendations or decisions for you

If you think you have OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), you should see a mental health professional.

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Oct 14, 2014 6:51 am

What I really mean is can I get more than one reading or not?

My friend told me only get one reading and do one spell at a time.....doing multiple spells at once or getting multiple readings is bad.... I was just trying to confirm this that's all.

She says multiple spells at one time and multiple reading can give you tons of negative energy.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Oct 14, 2014 4:11 pm

ILoveMyExAndrew ,

the fear that it is negative is not true, though running from reader to reader shows a lack of faith in the work and is bad in that way. Working more then one spell at a time is not negative either, lots of rootworkers work more then one spell a day! And often people do more then one working for a cause, such as love you may do a honey jar, a moving candle spell and a mojo, those are three spells but they work together. Keep the readings both can give you some great advice and tips on work both are great readers and to the point, which is what you need.

As previously mentioned, your questions bout consulting more than one rootworker at a time are not on topic for this thread, which is about return and reconciliation spells. This Forum thread is for that topic:

Okay to Go to 2 AIRR Rootwokers / Readers Simultaneously?
okay-to-go-to-2-airr-rootwokers-readers ... rootworker

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Oct 14, 2014 9:16 pm

Thank you J82!

I am thinking about going with Deacon only b/c Catherine's reading is all the way in Nov 26!!! LONG WAIT!!!

I really want a reading now....I may keep both but it's NOT b/c of trust...it's because I really want a reading now! haha...

Another thing.....My ex Greg...the one before Andrew.....He is showing me some interest now! It took me THREE YEARS TO GET OVER HIM!!!!

When we first broke up Greg did NOT want me at all...he was so over me and wanted NOTHING to do with me. I gave up on Greg and moved on with Andrew.....

But now Greg is showing me interest. Greg isn't desperate for me...he has a girlfriend now but he still calls me and wants to facetime with me, wants pictures of me....he wants to have sex with me (he tells me all the time)...he wants to meet up with me in Dec! He lives in Texas but he is flyingg over to Florida for a friends wedding and he wants to come see me too!

He has a girlfriend now though....so it's CRAZY that he is OKAY with cheating on her....OMG....I don't care about him or love him like I use to so I am def NOT going to beg him to break up with his girlfriend or anything...

But it's just weird now that I am NOT interested anymore he decides he wants to see me and talk to me more. LOL....

He told me also that if he didn't have a girlfriend he would TAKE ME BACK in a heartbeat! OMG...this would mean the world to me 2 years ago! lol....now it's just BLAH lol......

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Oct 14, 2014 9:36 pm

If I meet up with Greg in Dec will it mess up my work?

Obviously if I get Andrew back BEFORE Dec I won't meet Greg...but if I don't will it mess up my work????

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Oct 15, 2014 11:07 am

Hello lovemyexandrew,

Like J82 said you can see more than one reader if you want to. If it were me I would just let the readers know. Also doing more than one spell at a time does not create negativity as far as I can tell. A professional rootworker could have a dozen spells all going at once if he or she were really busy! As long as you are not doing more than one spell at time because of a lack of trust int eh work or something I think it is fine.

For the Greg thing my question is if you are not really interested in him why would you want to meet up with him? I don'y suppose it would mess up the work you are doing on Andrew but it is kind of sending a mixed signal as to what you want.

Peace~

Nathen

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Wed Oct 15, 2014 8:49 pm

Hello Nathan,

Thank you for your response! I have schedule a reading with Deacon and it's very soon. Currently I am still schedule with Catherine too.

I am very excited about my reading coming up. REALLY want to know what my reader has to say.....

As far as my ex Greg goes.....If I have NO CHANCE with Andrew and Greg decides he wants to dump his girlfriend and begs me to come back to him....I will give him another chance.

I don't dislike Greg. In fact it took me THREE YEARS to get over Greg! LOL....It takes me a LONG TIME to get over people... I can't change.

I am a Scorpio and I am extremely loyal person.....I do NOT like changing boyfriends a lot or at all. I am a ONE MAN woman....

But anyways, I don't dislike Greg. If I have NO chance with Andrew and Greg wants me back and dumps his girlfriend for me I will give him a chance again.

But I highly DOUBT Greg will beg me. He doesn't beg for anything....he is a very proud person! So that's fine too....I am OVER IT in that I am NO longer obsessed over Greg and I won't beg him to come back to me etc. But if he wants another chance and I can't get Andrew back I will give Greg another shot...

Hell, if I can NOT get Andrew back at all for sure....I may try some magic on Greg to get him back! hahaha....But I strongly prefer having Andrew back!

I don't even know if I can trust Greg...Greg is OKAY with cheating on his current girlfriend with me....that doesn't sound like good news to me...:/

mae51 · Unread post by **mae51** » Wed Oct 15, 2014 9:32 pm

Update....My BF called on Monday just to say Hi and to see how my family wedding went that I went to on Sunday. (he never calls...he is a text person) He asked if I want to do movie night this coming weekend. I said ok. He said he is totally stressed at work. I have not heard from him since then. I texted him tonight to see how things were going. I did not get a response...really don't expect one. Any way, another opportunity has surfaced for me. I am in the process of changing out a bunch of pillows that I have. He asked me not to get rid of them and that he wanted them. This past weekend I asked him if he still wanted them and he said yes. Can anyone please tell me how I can dress these pillows for reconciliation, influence to love me, stay with me, have our love be stronger, think of me only me. Could I cut the pillows open and insert herbs, sachet powders, bath crystals? if so, which ones. Essence of Bend Over, I Dominate My Man, Love Me, Follow me Boy, Come To Me, Influence? I don't know if I should do the Reconciliation Spell Kit (difficult for me to do the spell kits without being interrupted. the only uninterrupted time that I have is during the day. Can these spells be done during the day) or just the Reconciliation Bath Crystal ritual that I saw in one of the forums. I do for 3 days and read Psalms 32. Please....someone advise.
Mae51

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Fri Oct 17, 2014 6:54 am

Hi Mae51,

Whatever Miss Cat told you to do, do it.
You can dress the pillows with, Stay with me, Love me and Come to me. But not too much or he'll smell the scents.
You can also dress them with your personal concerns. Take out some of the stuffing, put in a few pubic hairs
and heck, wipe some of the stuffing on your vaginal area so the scent is on the stuffing. Put it back in the pillow.
Pray over it as strong as you can as you are sewing up the pillows.

Other people may have different ideas for you but that's some of what I'd do.

Good luck Hon!

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Fri Oct 17, 2014 7:00 am

Hi ILoveMyExAndrew,

I'm so happy you are set up with professional readers!

Good Luck!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Oct 17, 2014 6:49 pm

Hey Susan!

Yes! I am very excited about my readings! I have two scheduled so far!

Do you personally recommend one reader or two? My honey jar should be starting on in 7 days!

Actually I wish I was able to MOVE ON easily from one relationship to the next and not ever be really hurt.....it sucks to be so sad and torn over an ex! I would love to be able to move on and let nothing bother me. That's actually a good thing.... I wish I was never hurt in relationships and move on easily and nothing bothers me.... I wish I was like that.....who likes to be sad? Not me!

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sat Oct 18, 2014 3:29 am

Very happy to hear you have two scheduled readings coming up.

Good Luck on the honey jar!

Blessings

mae51 · Unread post by **mae51** » Sat Oct 18, 2014 10:17 pm

re: Possible Reconciliation with my ex BF underway...hopefully

Thank you so much for responding Susan. Those are great suggestions. I just needed to know if I was on the right track before I placed another order.
Yes, I am definitely going to do what Miss Cat told me to do. I was able to do the sugar jar right away. I was just waiting for my first order to get started with the cleansing and I just received my package today.

I am still waiting to hear from someone about the double-yoked egg and the white butterfly that I mentioned in my previous post. I was just curious...guess I will let it go.

Thanks again for your suggestions.
Mae51