Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

farheen_c · Unread post by **farheen_c** » Mon Jun 08, 2009 12:08 am

i have been married for 3 yrs now, but my in laws were always against me,which my husband is aware of but always takes their side and always abuses me for them. it feels as if he is blindfolded and no matter what he always would say his father, mother and sister and other is right.

i have broken up with him now and stay seperate but he is still living alone. i live in different town where he doesnt have his sister around. i asked him 2 come and settle down where i am and to keep his family away from me so that there are no problems. now i want him 2 listen to me and come back and do what i want to keep my family together, we also have a child and i want him not to listen to his father, sisters and step-mother at all, just stay away from them and hate them.

recently when he spoke to me over the phone all he said was i should come back to his town and i should keep good contact with his family and if i cant do that he will leave me for good. he is very loyal to his side of the family instead of beign loyal towards his own family which is me and his child. he doesnt trusts me and lies a lot to me. sometimes he would even lie to cover his familys faults.

i want him to move away from his family and move with me in another town. i want him only to think an concenrate on our love and our child.

plz cn u help me to choose the perfect kit for me to solve this problem and get my husband back to me. even if it invloves 2 kits one to get him back and one to develop bad relation between him and his side of family. i am in urgent need. thank you so much.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jun 08, 2009 12:16 am

It is a little late now, but i would have counselled you to not move away, but rather to work a honey jar spell to cause his family to like you more and accept you as a valuable person. A Peaceful Home spell would also be useful, between your husband and yourself. After that, then you would begin to work on dominating his mind.

But now, having moved away, you have a far weaker position, and you may not be able to control and rule him -- much less to get him to hat his own family. Your case is complex, and i am not sure that you have the personal power to undertake such work as this with a spell kit, having had no experience in spell-casting prior to this crisis.

I would suggest that you go to a hoodoo practitioner who is also a spiritual reader and get a personal diagnosis of what to do next. Do not go to one of those fake psychic rip-off places that promise to "reunite lovers overnight." Instead, get a reading from an experienced older woman who has performed this kind of spell work for others, and listen to what she says. Check out the prctitioners at AIRR for some good workers of this type.

If you do want to do the work yourself, i would suggest a Reconciliation spell for the two of you, followed by the honey jar for his family. Only when you are secure in your role as hiswife and the queen of the home can you then begin work to drive the unpleasant in-laws away.

jhoompa · Unread post by **jhoompa** » Mon Jul 13, 2009 11:47 pm

Dear Friends,
My critical and ever complaining in laws are planning to visit us again for three months which is an extremely stressful period.I am ready to tolerate them for one month but three months becomes too much for me.Are there any spells that will prevent them from staying so long or they themselves change their mind and stay for a shorter period.

2)How to make your husband listen to you?I have a bottle of essence of bend over oil but don,t know how to use on my husband.If he himself told his parents to stay for a shorter period the problem would have been solved,but he will never tell inspite of knowing how difficult they are.How to make him tell that?

Thanks,
Jhoom

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Jul 20, 2009 3:52 pm

Hi Jhoom,

I would create two honey jars, one for you and your husband, and one for you and your inlaws:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

I would also use peaceful home products in and around the house to foster peace between all parties:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

For your husband, I would skip the Bend Over or incorporate it with the following formulas:
I dominate my man, follow me boy, do as I say, and compelling:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-i-dom ... y-man.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-do-as-i-say.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html

These are also compelling formulas like Bend Over, but they are especially suitable for domestic situations where the wife needs to be heard and obeyed.

good luck,
Bri

jhoompa · Unread post by **jhoompa** » Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:47 pm

Thanks Bri for the wonderful suggestions.I will surely try to do them.Thanks a lot.

rickets · Unread post by **rickets** » Tue Jul 21, 2009 1:52 am

You can do a floorwash before they come over, commanding to do as you say and respect you and your house, Bri had good suggestions.

SouthernGirl · Unread post by **SouthernGirl** » Tue Jul 21, 2009 7:35 pm

Could also do some crucible of courage on your husband to maybe give him the courage to speak up?

venusofwillendorf · Unread post by **venusofwillendorf** » Tue Jul 21, 2009 8:41 pm

Sprinkle Hotfoot Powder in their bed between bottom sheet & mattress so it won't be seen. I'd make a poppet out of hubby and work on him that way. A good talking to even to a poppet, especially one filled w/ controlling-compelling herbs and anointed with bend over or a similar oil, maybe play a few mild binding games with dolly also, done daily could make him see things your way much more quickly.

jhoompa · Unread post by **jhoompa** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 6:34 pm

Thank you everyone for such doable and wonderful suggestions.I don,t feel nervous anymore.Thanks a lot.

curlieredd · Unread post by **curlieredd** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:11 pm

Hello Everyone,

I hope I'm in the correct area for this question and that is hasn't been asked before but here it goes...

Where to start? I will spare all the sordid details of the past and try to narrow down the history just to preface my question a bit but my mother in law for no LEGITIMATE reason has never, ever, EVER liked me or even so much as given me a chance.

My husband and I have been married for 10 years and together for 12 and this woman has done everything from talk ish about me and spread lies about me to show up to my house uninvited and unwanted AFTER doing everything she could to try to keep us from getting our house.

She took out a line of credit for 4 grand in his name ONLY and ran up some credit cards with his name on them and then refused to pay on them after he told her (against my wishes) that we were buying a house. Her actions also caused our interest to go up 1 point and we had to pay extra at closing.

She stole the money out of my washing machine that I left in there as a Feng Shui practice.

She has stolen child support money meant for his older son (who is now grown).

She's given collectors looking for her our phone number.

We still get mail with her name on it after 6 years.

When I was pregnant with our son she made comments about what SHE was going to call him.

She doesn't talk to me she's never tried to get to know me as a person, the list goes on and on... and so several years ago I decided not to make an effort at all to deal with her and except for the 1 occasion in 6 years when I went to her house to appease my husband, I stay away (she lives 2 hours away in Birmingham...

So anyway, I know she believes in root work because she has always claimed that my brother in law has had roots put on him by his first wife and from what hubby tells me she has paid someone to negate those efforts...

That being said, about a month ago, hubby went to see her after her 2nd hip replacements and he came back with a stack of new washcloths. Me being an the optimistic cynic (probably bordering on paranoia) that I am, a red flag went up inside but I ignored it. However, I notice that when ever he uses one of these cloths his attitude takes a complete 180 turn. He's accused me of cheating on him, he took my phone in the middle of the night and went through it thinking he was going to catch me doing something (I woke up in the middle of the night out of the blue and caught him after he tried to lie about having my phone in the first place), he's accused me of acting weird and different.... BUT, when he uses our regular washcloths, he is normal.

Now, maybe she didn't intentionally jinx the washcloths or maybe she did, but there is definitely some energy liked to them that I definitely do NOT want for obvious reasons.

So I guess my first question is, what can I do with them short of me flat out getting rid of them to undo the mess associated with them (I would love to throw them away but then I have hubby to deal with).

Second.. I want this woman out of my life for good... this is tricky since she is unfortunately my husband's mother. I don't EVER want her in my house again E-V-E-R... and I don't want anything FROM her to cross my threshold either, be it directly from her or another family member, husband included. He doesn't necessarily believe in root work ether so approaching him with this possibility would be hopeless.

Anyway, I have gone on longer than I probably should have... Thank you for your patience in reading this, I tried to be brief.

Any advice/assistance in these matters is GREATLY appreciated! :0)

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:17 pm

First, cleanse the washcothes by washing them in Chinese Wash. It will remove all that mess (and yes, i think there was a mess put on them).

Second, you cannot separate a man from his mother. many women have tried and failed, and it is almost always a hopeless cause -- and may lead to divorce. So you need to work this more cleverly.

(1) Put her in a honey jar. Yes, i know, she doesn't deserve the sweetness, but do it.

(2) Put down a Barberry cross and call on it to "bar the door" against her. See
http://herb-magic.com/barberry.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:29 pm

This is timely...my daughter is experiencing this and doesn't seem to want to understand...

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 11:20 pm

Wow! Your mother in law is my goodness so many words to describe, but Ms Cat is right unless he had a bad relationship with his mother your not going to be able to separate them. I saw a candle for stopping gossip you might want to try that too. She could be one of those mother's that feel that no one is good enough for their child, so you know just try to sweeten her.

Good Luck!

curlieredd · Unread post by **curlieredd** » Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:24 am

Thank you Ms. Cat so much for the advice!

I have collected all of them and set them to the side out of sight until I can wash them in the Chinese Wash. And I will follow up with a Honey Jar Spell.

In hind sight, I honestly believe that she has been trying to split us up from the beginning. Our first 2 years were particularly hard. And believe me, I know that I can't separate them. I never really wanted to. I just don't want anything to do with her and I don't want her in my space any more than I want to be in hers. Especially if she's not going to genuinely change her ways. Although I must admit that I am very stubborn and even if she did mend her ways and attempted a relationship with me, I would be extremely resistant. Once I'm done with you, I'm pretty much done with you. If need be I will do the right thing and that's it.

As far as the Honey Jar Spell, which one would be most appropriate?
INFLUENCE ANOTHER'S MIND FOR ANY GOOD PURPOSE (or)
STOP GOSSIP & SLANDER, PUT AN END TO BACKBITING
I did order some essence of bend over oil as well so it will definitely be added in... or is the powder better?

@ Tabbylove - I can absolutely think of so many words to describe this woman but I would most likely be banned from the forums for life. lol.

Her main problem I think is that I don't kiss up to her. I wanted a relationship with her when we first got together but once I saw that wasn't possible, I just basically said forget it and washed my hands of her. And not only do I not have a lot of money but she probably feels like I stopped MY husband from supporting her credit card habit as well (which I did) but oh well, he has a family and seeing that her house WAS paid off and she runs a daycare business out of her home, her credit card habit was NOT going to be our problem. Like I said, I could go on and on about all the things she's said and done but I just want her out of my life. He can have a relationship with her if he so chooses and as long as she treats my son right I won't interfere in that relationship either but she must be dealt with.

By the way, can I bind her if she pays someone else to do the work?

ProudMommy · Unread post by **ProudMommy** » Thu Aug 20, 2009 4:22 pm

HI, IM NEW TO THIS FORUM WHILE I WAS SEARCHING ON GOOGLE FOR A SITE LIKE THIS. I'M MUSLIM AND MARRIED W/TWO CHILDREN. I SPOKE TO A SPIRITUAL HEALER REGARDING MY RELATIONSHIP AND BEING THAT I'VE BEEN HAVING A FEW ISSUES WITH IT AND I WAS TOLD THAT MY IN LAWS ARE WORKING WITH SOMEONE TO PUT NEGATIVE ENERGY UPON ME AND ALL I HAVE UPON ME IS 'BLACK CLOUDS'? UNFORTUNATELY I CAN'T AFFORD HER TO HELP CLEANSE ME FROM THE EVIL SPIRIT THEY PUT, AND GET RID OF THIS PROBLEM SO I NEED TO KNOW WHAT IS USED TO SEND BACK TO SOMEONE WHAT THEY DID TO ME? THEY SUPPOSINGLY DID THIS SO MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE MANY ISSUES AND END UP GETTING DIVORCED

ANYTHING WOULD BE HIGHLY APPRECIATED!! THANK YOU!!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Aug 20, 2009 4:29 pm

You need to do a bath cleansing
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... ssing.html

Then some protection
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

And if you want to return to sender do
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... gmirrorbox

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Aug 20, 2009 5:03 pm

First, take off the cap lock when you type, its internet short hand for yelling and no one likes to be yelled at. Second Get a reading from a trusted source as this sounds like the classic scam. Any one at the AIRR can give you a good honest reading, from their go with what starts has said its good advice.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

curlieredd · Unread post by **curlieredd** » Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:17 am

I MUST say "Thanx Again Miss Cat!!!!!" That definitely did it for me... I rewashed all those cloths and added some Chinese Wash to the water along with some Uncrossing Oil (for xtra umph) and I prayed over the wash water and saw (in my minds eye) all that mess going down the drain. No more problems. When I put those cloths in the linen closet the first one he grabbed was one of those 'new' freshly cleansed cloths and I have had no more problems. Ha Haaaa YES! M.I.L. 0, Me 1... Gotta Love It!

luckycharms · Unread post by **luckycharms** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 7:01 am

my sister is curious because she was at her boyfriends house and found a list that said turbentine, water, epsom salt and urine. we were just curious as to know if this could be any form of rootwork being prepared and what could it be for? someone please help because my sister is curious if he's going to do work on her

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 7:14 am

This forum is for LuckyMojo products, choosing them and using them, it is not a general hoodoo discussion forum, and I don't know that we can help you, there is a lot that can be done with the items on that list, could be hoodoo, might not. Maybe your sister could ask her boyfriend what the list was about?

luckycharms · Unread post by **luckycharms** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 7:24 am

no, the reason i asked because we were concerned and it says help with spell casting on this section and i have seen so many people ask for help with something they are concerned about. I asked was it a hoodoo spell because it said URINE on the list..it was obvious and i wanted to know what could these all lead to on someone. Sorry, that is why I barely come on here. I already know what this site is about, everytime i happen to ask something people will act like I am naive on here and say this is a hoodoo site, we don't do that when there's more than one person who happens to know. thats why there is a ask for help or forum so we can share our thoughts, ideas and discuss products but if i am misled i apologize. But I will delete all my spells and posts so there will be no confusion and leave like I left last time

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:19 am

I agree with you luckycharms. Many people come on this forum do not know what products to get or are seeking some help on a manner. I do not think your manner is any different because obviously if you sister was being worked upon by her boyfriend you would consider buying lucky mojo products to help her. So I can see how you can be frustrated. Many people email me asking me questions they are afraid to ask on her for the same concern you have. If you ever want need a question answered, you can PM me, or email me from my profile.

As for the mixture your sister's boyfriend is getting together, all those ingredients lead towards cleansing, or unjinxing. He could possibly be using it as a floor wash to get rid of some negative influences in the house. Now based on this..its not enough information to see if he is working on your sister. My recommendation would be to get some divination to see if he is or has ever done any rootwork or kind of magic on her. Perhaps, he might not even be as advanced as you think. He could have very well looked up something online. Not sure, but get some divination done.

MadameKoiteh · Unread post by **MadameKoiteh** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 8:37 am

Peace to All,
I would like to get some advice from anyone who is interested. I have several clients who are dealing with a similar situation. They are married to men from other countries who still stay in close contact with their families abroad. The problem is the relatives are constantly asking for money, some of them are even using magick/manipulation to get it. It is causing problems in the marriages. Does anyone have a spell/suggestion to keep greedy relatives out of their pockets? Thank you.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:27 am

I would look at it from a protection standpoint. Cleansings to get things back on an even keel for your clients, and the set up strong protections for the afflicted family in general, with some extra precautions surrounding their finances. You might want to do some mirror work &/or freezer work on the greedy relatives to bounce back any negativity that gets tossed around - either emotional guilt trips, angry arguments, or actual magic - and to help cool off the overly-familiar energies that allow/encourage that kind of request. Maybe think about a very control-based honey jar to sweeten the in-laws to submit to the commands (meaning "no means no") the clients give.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 11:07 am

I'd advise the women to set up separate bank accounts and keep it secret if possible to avoid any pressure from the husbands. Anoint the bank book with Wealthy Way and Money Stay With Me Oil or dust it with the powders. They can start making small deposits that won't be missed and make sure that any money that is strictly theirs goes into the account. This way at least some of the money is protected.

Burn a green skull candle with the offending relative's name to get it into their head that this is not their money, and they need to back off. If they're really bad, use black.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 6:46 pm

Cleansing to eliminate their current influence and also to empty any power objects/ tags they have set in the house either physically or astrally. Then, I'd put up Fiery Wall to keep them out, sprinkle salt in the four corners of the house and other such protective measures. I'd then use the courage products to help empower the husband to be able to stand up to the demands made upon him by the relatives and use Master products to help the wife master and control the situation. Finally, if they continue to persist to take the power to them, by using mirror boxes, doll babies, and similar work to turn their influence back on them. It'd also be wise to have the wife employ Money Stay with Me products to keep their money from flowing out to the in-laws.

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Tue Dec 08, 2009 6:34 am

thank you MadameKoiteh, for asking this question. This issue was lingering on my mind for a very long time...

I want to keep the relationship but i do not want to hot foot them. They are not only in laws, they are also friends, cousins, uncles and aunties...

I was treated like a bank. After they borrowed they disappear or I never heard from them when i turned them down... I don't mind helping if they are willing to pay back...

I had the worst problems during my previous marriage (one of the many reasons for the failure of the marriage, were the irritating in-laws).... I am happy that it is over now....

I want a solution too for this problem, to take precautions in my next marriage....

MadameKoiteh · Unread post by **MadameKoiteh** » Tue Dec 08, 2009 10:09 am

Peace To All.
Thank you all so much for your advice, Devi Spring, Mama Micki, and conjureman, I will get to work immediately in that area. Stelselv, you are right, it is a tricky situation to work with, because the relatives are not open enemies and there are so many mixed emotions circulating throughout these extended families. Love, loyalty, resentment, jealousy, greed... These clients are struggling with a lot of guilt, feeling sorry for their impoverished in-laws, their overburdened husbands, and still trying to survive in difficult times. I'm seeing more and more people with this problem as my community experiences a surge in immigration and many more intercultural marriages. A lot of people are breaking up after just a short time, and I think this may have something to do with it in more than a few cases. But love, I think, should always triumph over greed. I needed a fresh perspective on how to approach this work, I greatly appreciate all your suggestions. Many Blessings.

rjwcim · Unread post by **rjwcim** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 4:14 pm

Hi guys,

I'm just brainstorming ideas and wanted to know if anyone had some ideas on this. My partners parents are constantly arguing, it's getting really bad, my mother in Law is coming up to visit us and to take a break from her husband. They both decided to go to marriage counseling, they really want to fix this. My mother in law also wanted to know if I could do anything on the hoodoo side to help, she is sending me both her and her husbands hair to work with. I'm trying to figure out the best way to go about helping them. I thought of using the apple spell to stop them from fighting, and a honey jar. But does anyone have any other ideas?

Thanks in advanced,
Rashay

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 5:13 pm

The honey jar is a good idea. You can also do some Tranquility and Peaceful Home work to help settle things down.

rjwcim · Unread post by **rjwcim** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 6:00 pm

Oh yeah i forgot about peaceful home, that's a good one to use too, thanks

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 11:58 pm

Perscribe a cleansing of their house of all negativity. Cleansings don't only eliminate jinxes and curses, but the negativity that builds up from our own emotional turbulences. A basic wash down with Chinese Floor Wash should do the trick. Then they can add some Peaceful Home products to the water and wash *inward* to draw the influence. Have them both take Healing, Tranquility, and Reconciliation baths, while you work on a honey jar while having them bury the apple spell. You could back up the work (especially the candle of the honey jar) with 3 vigil candles: Peaceful Home, Reconciliation, and Tranquility. Good luck.

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Thu Dec 24, 2009 1:28 am

Re: How do I get other women to back off of my man?

Postby ConjureMan » Wed Dec 23, 2009 4:24 pm
Use power and separation oils, things like Essence of Bend Over, Break Up, Separation, Command, Control, Inflammatory Confusion etc. Make sure to read the previous links as well-they give great info on the subject.

how-do-i-get-other-women-to-back-off-of ... t4025.html

We can use the same method above (a freezer spell) to get rid of the greedy in laws, can't we????

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:33 pm

Indeed. The freezer box spell is made to freeze anyone out of your life or the life of someone else. You can do it for friends, family members, and lovers.

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Fri Dec 25, 2009 2:19 am

thanks again CM... it is a fantastic idea.....

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Wed Dec 30, 2009 2:38 pm

So, in the case of a MIL who is using guilt tactics on her son (my DH) to get money, what should I do? I keep seeing the honey jar spell pop up which I am willing to try. I am also trying to think of what else I should employ. I got a reading on this, and the reader says that the MIL is pressuring DH tremendously, leaving DH feeling torn, and that is no surprise. She actually wants DH to move back home with her, and while I am married to him, I wont be doing it. Just too much going on, it is causing a huge burden on our new marriage.

faith2008 · Unread post by **faith2008** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:46 pm

Hi everyone!

I am going to do a honey jar for my in laws. I'm not their favorite person in the world and I know they will be in my life because of the kids so I want to make the best of things especially where my mother in law is concerned. As far as personal concerns go I'm kind of out of luck at least for now but possibly in the future I can get something. For now though I will just have to use a picture and name paper.

My question though is what are the best herbs to use. I want to make them LOVE me. They are around my kids a lot now. How funny is that...when my husband and I were together you couldn't get them to babysit for nothing. Now they are grandparent's of the year...ha...or at least that's how they act. Anyhow I don't want them saying anything bad about me or influencing my kids negatively towards me when they are there. I'm thinking a honey jar would be the best place to start. What herbs would you recommend for this situation though? And should I included a commanding herb like calamus?

Also I read CM's post about a one sided mirror box and I was thinking that would be of help too. I could write things like "Hope is the sweetest person I know" and things like that inside but would I use the same herbs as the honey jar? I had thought about doing just a regular mirror box for my MIL but I think this may be of better benefit to me.

I've always bought the packaged honey jars from LM so this is the first one I am going to try and put one together myself so your input is greatly appreciated.

Thanks for all your help and I hope everyone has a wonderful night.

Hugs,
Hope

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:59 pm

The mirror reflection is used mainly to reflect on a memory. You can try it for thought, but there are other methods like a skull candle, doll baby, and influence work that works well for such situations.

For the honey jar I'd include things like Cloves, bit of brown sugar, or white, Balms of Gilead, Calamus, Pennyroyal, Basil, and Rosemary. Work with Peaceful Home products to bring about peace and harmony in your home.

(Why sugar when its already going into a honey jar, you ask? Sugar can be added to a honey jar as a separate element for friendships, family, and children and has a long tradition of it).

faith2008 · Unread post by **faith2008** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:05 pm

Thank you CM for the quick reply and thank you for clarifying the mirror box. It is so good to have such knowledgable people to consult with on these things. Saves a person from a lot of wasted time and energy. Thankfully I have most of the herbs you recommended so I won't have to wait on another order from LM. You are such a great help!

Hugs,
Hope

skyme714 · Unread post by **skyme714** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:09 pm

ConjureMan, I know I can always count on your wise advise! And yeah, I was thinking why sugar, if it HONEY jar

I will def add sugar to some of mine in the future!

I had asked similar question in the past (to sweeten his family), and not to repeat CM's list, I was given: Lavender and Rose petals (buds).

Myself Im thinking to add Althaea for healing effect (would it be wise?) and Licorice for a little domination (cause I dont have Calamus).

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:23 pm

Healing herbs like Althaea and Angelica can be used to heal rifts in families and are great for home situations. Honey jars can also include elements like Camphor or Sage to clear out negativity and sweeten a person. Lavendar and Rose can be used to increase love.

Yeah adding a tad of sugar can act as its own ingredient. Powdered sugar is great for a child or baby, regular sugar or lump/cube sugar works wonderfully for family situations

I tend to use Calamus in honey jars more than Licorice, but there are times when a bit of domination is definately needed in a honey jar.

faith2008 · Unread post by **faith2008** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:31 pm

CM how do you feel about reopening honey jars. Like I said I have most of the herbs you posted above but I like the idea of sage and camophor to clear out negativity. I will have to order camphor though. I do have white sage that I burn, would that work? Thanks.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:36 pm

You can fan a bit of Sage smoke into the honey jar to cleanse out negativity or fan some onto the candles while you work them, praying for negativity to be removed. Honey jars can be opened as long as your intention and focus remain strong and the same.

skyme714 · Unread post by **skyme714** » Tue Feb 09, 2010 5:05 am

Just a thought: can I add "stop gossip" herbs such as Slippery Elm bark in a family honey jar?

faith2008 · Unread post by **faith2008** » Tue Feb 09, 2010 9:21 am

skyme714

That's an excellent question. I'd like to know that too.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Feb 09, 2010 6:53 pm

I don't see why not. If your intent is to keep peace and tranquility in your home and family adding a stop gossip element may help that along.

GIFTEDHANDS · Unread post by **GIFTEDHANDS** » Thu Feb 11, 2010 11:47 am

I think my parents could use a boost in the romance & communication Dept.
They have been together over 30 years but I can see they need a kick!!!

I am not sure what to do though! I thought a honey Jar
but i cant seem to get anything personal enough of my dads. i am always doing my moms hairs so that was easy & of course I have photos but i'm still lacking something from my dad!

I have a hankerchif he uses but it was clean he had not used it, he gave it to my baby to use.

Maybe a honeyjar is no good for this situation. Should i have a candle burned for them.
Any suggestions? I'm all ears

This is really important to me. Thanks

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Feb 11, 2010 11:52 am

A candle burned for them is sweet and considerate since children dont normal like or even discussing their parents as anything but parents. You could also consider a reading to see where they are in their relationship but do you really want to know? Children want their parents together its natural. But now understand after 30 years thats a long time to maintain a level of romance (or what you think is romance) I am sure they have their own way of romancing each other.

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:51 pm

I think it's really nice that you want to foster romance between your parents...just in time for St. Valentine's day! The following spell comes from Ms. cat's book and is something probably more often used on newlyweds. It is an old-timey apple spell and requires no personal concerns. You need a red delicious apple, a clay flower pot that will hold the apple plus allow room for plenty of rootspace and a living fern. Take a square of paper no taller than the apple is high and write out the couple's names in an X shape, so that they cross each other. Around that, in an unbroken circle, write your petition. Core the apple, roll up the name paper and place it in the apple's center. It will unroll to fill the space; then put the apple in the flower pot and into the core of the apple add some cinnamon and a sweetener like honey, karo syrup or sugar. Fill the rest of the pot with good potting soil and plant the fern in the pot. Ms. cat indicates that the plant should be watered with holy water while the spell is being worked. Easily done if you keep it at your place; if you send it to your folks, you may need to pop in every so often and give it a covert drink of holy water. Just make sure you water it with unsalted holy water or you'll kill the fern eventually.
Easier, but maybe not quite as fun, is setting a light for them -- something like Fire of Love would be appropriate.

Good luck,

Michelle

annie2 · Unread post by **annie2** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:03 am

I'm not sure If I've posted this on the correct portion of this forum; if I have not I will gladly re-post.

About 4 days ago I did a 'stop gossip' working on an in-law. The trash talk against my husband had gotten so bad that to continue to ignore it would have eventually landed us all in a court-case. I decided to put a stop to it as this in-law was not interested in actually coming to some type of mutual agreement but rather much more enjoyed the gossip and drama that he was creating.
(Back story complete)
So, my question is:
Within an hour of completing this work my husband and I met for coffee and he mentioned his mother and the in-law in question. Except he could not say the in-law's name. I found this fascinating as it certainly is not a name any of us would forget. The next day both of my children also stumbled over this man's name.

I'm curious as to what others think of this; I have done this type of working before (we live in a small town--ripe for gossip) but have never encountered this type of situation.

For the record, my thought is that the nasty in-law wasn't the only gossip involved ...

**My family doesn't know I did the working**

I would be curious as to others thoughts on this

Thanks so much!
Annie

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:06 am

My first impression, is that part of the problem is that talk is coming from both sides. So in order to stop the in-law talking, other talk needs to stop, too. So that could be the effect that you are seeing.

annie2 · Unread post by **annie2** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:28 am

Hello Devi--
This was my thought as well., I was part way amused and part way annoyed. *smirk*

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:17 pm

It might very well be a sign that gossip was taking place on both ends and the spell is working to eliminate the gossip.

annie2 · Unread post by **annie2** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:22 pm

Hello ConjureMan--

Thank you

I had wondered the same

wowee · Unread post by **wowee** » Sun Mar 28, 2010 4:07 pm

I have been having problems with my in-laws for years and they are the type of people who like to do bad hoodoo work to people. I notice that lately when they see me they would turn their backs to me and mumble something under their breath and I have never heard of this type of activity. I have looked and looked on the internet to see what they are trying to do now but can't find anything about this. Does anyone have an idea as to what they maybe doing?

This is my husband brother and his wife. She stole my brother-in-law from his first wife and with several accidents in my life and us not liking each other I know she has tried to lay tricks for me also but I try to stay protected and order things but I can't figure this one out. I mean they both will just turn their backs towards me and mumble. I am confused.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Mar 28, 2010 4:11 pm

People can speculate on what they are doing, but you want divination performed in order to really get down to the bottom of things.

A reading can help you discover if they are working against you, how they are doing it, and what to do to reverse and protect yourself.

They may be turning their backs and praying curses against you, but again you want to check that with a reading.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Mar 28, 2010 5:09 pm

There are certain spells that do consist of a person turning their back on heir target and cursing them out of their lives. These spells probably originated in Germany, and are more common among German Americans than among African Americans, but they have been adapted and adopted by some practitioners of hoodoo. The purpose of these spells is always to send the unwanted person away.

I can't say for sure that this is what yoru in-laws are doing, but it sure sounds like that kind of spell.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:50 am

The apple trick is actually a great spell to use for married couples. Not only can it help them overcome any issues that are going on, but it rekindles the love by combining sweetening elements with the kick of Cinnamon. Having the fern in your parents house is a great sneaky trick as the plant will continuously put out your prayers in the house.

I'd probably use the Apple Sweetner as a way of getting the spell in the door while working a moving candle spell in your altar work. Use Fires of Love to get the passion going. Consider also sprinkling some of the powder in the home for them to come across, putting oils and crystals in their shampoos while you are over, and maybe tossing a few bath crystals in the wash. This can help keep the flames going for a bit

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Africanqueen · Unread post by **Africanqueen** » Wed Mar 31, 2010 4:53 pm

i am married to a man who gives all his love and attention to mum and none what so ever to me and the kids his mom is currently living with us now he makes sure she gets whatever she wants and me and the kids have to manage or i get it with my own little i make and right am out of work like i earlier posted right now i and his mom do not talk to each other because of her lack pretence when her son is around i tried talking to my husband its even worse because she thinks his mom is perfect .

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Mar 31, 2010 6:27 pm

You could work with Clarity and Wisdom of King Solomon products worked on a skull candle to help him see clearly where his obligations lie and to see the wisdom of supporting his wife and kids.

To add a bit of heat to the situation add Compelling products to compel him to make good on his promise to take care of you and your kids.