Help Family Member or Friend With Love Marriage Reconciliation Stopping Divorce

Post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:28 pm

In line with CM's wonderful suggestion of Rosemary consider Motherwort for the same reasons.

Post by **CopperFox** » Fri Apr 16, 2010 4:57 am

You might also consider working on the father to influence his way of thinking as well. If dad agrees that your son is better of with you, you'll be in a better situation to get the results you seek.

Post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Apr 16, 2010 8:51 pm

You know that's a great idea, Copperfox. This will help create support and backing and may help influence the child even more. I've noticed that if there is dissent or a disparity in what their parents are saying children will take advantage of that. Nothing like a united front.

Rosemary and Angelica can help you assert female dominance, especially in regards to your household.

lachina · Post by **lachina** » Sat Apr 17, 2010 5:45 am

thank you guys sooo much, he is ALL of 14 but he's so hardheaded. he's going to be over this week and he's so moody and miserable without this girlfriend. i would like to hotfoot his dad from that town so they move back over here. i'm seriousle considering that

Post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Apr 17, 2010 7:17 am

lachina wrote:thank you guys sooo much, he is ALL of 14 but he's so hardheaded. he's going to be over this week and he's so moody and miserable without this girlfriend. i would like to hotfoot his dad from that town so they move back over here. i'm seriousle considering that

I suggest Peaceful Home products, that way even if he is moody and upset and being a general teenage boy you won't suffer as much, fewer or no fights, and a general calm and loving environment. His father will also be a lot easier to deal with. I probably sound like I'm gushing,lol, but those products have helped me and my family so much. I really love the Peaceful Home honey jar mini-kit LuckyMojo sells.

I know its not exactly what you were looking for, but I felt I should tell you

omgee123 · Post by **omgee123** » Wed May 12, 2010 8:42 pm

i need something simple to stop my mom from moving to another state asap she wants to move on the 27th of may so i need something fast!!!! or if theres something that i can get my boyfriend and his family to move with us there? i need help fast please i beg u!!!!

Post by **Devi Spring** » Thu May 13, 2010 6:28 am

Well, first you need to decide which of those two things you want to happen. Then I would do a divination to determine if St. Expedite is appropriate for this case or not. If so, then petition him for your need.

kalpana2186 · Post by **kalpana2186** » Sat Jul 03, 2010 2:14 pm

hi every one

my daughter turn 18 last week. she want to rent a seprate appartment 4 her self. she have no boy friend. she is never involve in love or sex in fact she dont talk with boys (she know her calture and limits) she is a good daughter.

last year my husband and i asked her oppinion for marriage she said she will marry any boy we choose for her. i talk to her abt leaving .she said what ever happen last couples of month in the house (me and my husband fighting and arguing) had made her up set and after seeing u and dad i will never marry so stop looking boys 4 me.

i am using peaceful home in oil burner. i wear crown of success before i burn peaceful home (so i am successful in bringing peace at home)

can i use stay with me for her. or this is only for lovers? i have attractin oil also.

any thing from Quran & Bible is appriciate (i believe they are sami circle religions)?p

lz dont advice any kit spell, just Lucky Mojo products.

wish u all good luck

Post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jul 03, 2010 5:34 pm

You are saying you want your daughter to not move out and stay at home with you?

kalpana2186 · Post by **kalpana2186** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 10:40 am

Hi

i want her not to move and stay with me.

tradionaly girls leaves their house two times in their life first time on her wedding night with her husband to live her entire life with her inlaws second time she leave her inlaws house on her husband shoulder to live in grave after death. My daughter think she is been treated different from her 3 brothers because she is a girl. which is not true. She is born in america and never been to pakistan in her whole life she have no idea how girls are treated back home.

her teachers co workers always say how wonderful well behave she is.so i dont want to change her i just want to change her decision of leaving the house and abt marriage.

for marriage her oppinion is american men r better they help wife in cooking & cleaning they are not boosy and paki men treat their wives like slave.s

he agree to marry the boy of her grandpa choice on a condition that she want to meet the boy and ask him questions no matter in adults presense which is not possible this is like dis respecting and no trust on grand pa choice. so for this situation i was wondering to use commanding & band over bath crystal in her shampo and boody wash and stay with me schat in her shoe. i want to know if i can use them for her or they are made only for lovers.

Miss_Liz · Post by **Miss_Liz** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 4:41 pm

I found out today that my ex got orders to get stationed to Korea next March. He's trying to get clearance to be able to take our son with him. I'd really like for my son not to be in Korea. I swear this is more for safety concern than being vengeful, if it were anywhere else (except Israel, same concern) I'd be sad but ok with him having the experience of living in a different country for a while, I just don't trust something horrible to happen with N. Korea. Is there any kind of spell I can do to make it so he doesn't get the clearance to take him, or better yet keep him from going at all, like reassigned somewhere else even if it isn't near here? I'm just not comfortable with Korea at all. I am going to see a legal advocate to see if there's any legal avenue to take, but if I can make it so he won't get mad at me, that would make my life easier.

riverofpeace · Post by **riverofpeace** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 8:20 pm

Eilis,
Are you sure your ex would even be taking your son? My info is about a year or so old, but I thought Korea was an unaccompanied tour, meaning your ex can't take your son with him.
I don't want to get your hopes up if I am wrong. My info could be outdated, but if Korea is unaccompanied, that would bode well for you.

riverofpeace · Post by **riverofpeace** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 8:26 pm

Oh, wait, I get it,(sorry for the duh! I just had) he is trying to get permission to take your son with him. Yeah, not good. I don't see that getting approved, either, but still doing what you can to prevent that request from getting approved would be wise.

Miss_Liz · Post by **Miss_Liz** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 9:23 pm

I thought so too, but apparently he can try for clearance. He doesn't want to go at all but if he gets the clearance to take our son he'll be there 3 years instead of 1 and a half, he just doesn't want to be away from the kiddo for that long, which is understandable but that's about how long most deployments even are so I don't really see his logic in that too much. So really if I make it so he gets reassigned I'd kinda be doing him a favor too. I just really don't think it's a safe place for a toddler to go and I'm pretty sure he'll do something awful if I legally block it, tho if it comes down to it I'll still try.

riverofpeace · Post by **riverofpeace** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 9:43 pm

Okay, perhaps I am going out on a limb here, but if memory serves me right, I thought you wanted more time with your son. If Dad goes to Korea and doesn't get clearance to take junior, doesn't that mean he is with you for the time he is gone? It may be difficult on your son to go that long without seeing his father, but that is a part of military life, one your child's Dad accepted when he signed or renewed his contract.
You can try for all kinds of requests in the military, lots of them are fat chance! Compassionate reassignment is one option if Dad can show that the child will be in detriment if Dad leaves and can't take his son. I think he has to be able to show that there are no fit options for parenting the child, besides himself.
I am (mildly) surprised he got this assignment - weren't the detailers aware of his parental status?

Miss_Liz · Post by **Miss_Liz** » Sun Jul 25, 2010 11:35 pm

They had to be, I'm not sure of the details and everything all I know is he has the orders and I'd like to stop him from taking my son. There's probably a low chance of that happening but I'd just like to make sure

Maljen · Post by **Maljen** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 1:07 am

Eilis, if you have primary custody, you can block him from taking your son anywhere! He has to have your permission to take him out of state, so unless he's got primary custody, he's not taking him to Korea, period. My guess is he's trying to get you to panic again.

Post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 9:26 am

Stop worrying about what your ex wants and start concentrating on what you want and what is best for your son. He's your ex for a reason, and you indicated in another thread that he is an expert at pushing your buttons. Stop letting him.

I served in the Army and and the Army National Guard. It's unlikely that a non-custodial single father will get permission from the Army to take a small child to Korea. If he does, you would have approve it, as Maljen pointed out.

Get some Essence of Bendover oil and purple candle or a Essence of Bendover vigil candle. Write you ex's name on it, and cross it with your name. (Or use a petition paper.) I'd suggest doing this on a regular basis until you get the upper hand over him.

Miss_Liz · Post by **Miss_Liz** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 11:46 am

I don't have primary custody though is the issue, that's why I'm a little afraid of legally blocking it, because I can see him trying to punish that by permanently taking him away from me

riverofpeace · Post by **riverofpeace** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 9:37 pm

Well, as I think I said before, I am far from one of the more experienced practitioners here. I would think that you could use the same idea that was suggested in the freezing a court date thread, where you could right out a petition like "X's attempt to take child with him to Korea." and freeze it, or otherwise destroy the petition.
I think it may also be a good idea for you to follow up on your thought to seek out some legal advice on this whole child custody thing you have going. I do think that a single parent wanting to take a kid on his Korea tour is pretty stupid. It sounds like you are afraid of your ex's retaliation, though. A parent who wants to put their child in a bad situation rather than with the other parent where the child would be safe and well-cared for, doesn't sound to me like they should have primary custody. If you are afraid to do what it takes to keep your child safe, there is something really messed up going on.

This situation is way to complicated to be solved on a board like this, and besides, people here are either not qualified to give you legal advice, or if they are qualified, they are not in a position where they can do so. There are attorneys that will do hour long or half hour consults ( like rootworkers...) and you may even be able to get some advice or help through a women's agency.

You mentioned in another thread that your ex has used physical violence on you before. Often, that will qualify you for services with a nearby battered women's shelter/organization, even if you did not report the violence. They may be able to get you in touch with pro bono or another type of legal help.

Miss_Liz · Post by **Miss_Liz** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:42 pm

He has prime custody due to financial reasons only...and because he told me at the very beginning that if I didn't sign the papers the way he wanted he'd get people to sign depositions against me and I'd never see my son again. I don't know what do to about him mundanely or magically, he went to Iraq and lost his freaking mind, only he has the Army behind him (thanks to his lies about me to his commanders) and I've got bupkis. He's also EXCRUCIATINGLY wishy-washy so there's always a 60% chance what he says one day won't even be on his radar the next. I don't exactly want to take our son away from him, but I do wonder if trying legally and magically to get some reason to get if not sole custody but main custody. My fiance has expressed interest in adopting him if he needed to. I will admit to having issues myself, but I was still the only parent for 2 and a half years, and I've never hauled out and hit anyone in anger. I am afraid of him, but maybe I shouldn't be because he had been bluffing/lying before. That and my fiance could snap him in half. I have some EofBO, I think I'll add more to my next order and use some on him and maybe petition St Martha on top of that and have LM light a vigil on it. Now I know where my birthday money is going, right. Do you think a honey jar to just get him to not fly into a rage and discuss things like an adult would be a good start? I am still going to try and find a lawyer, though.

siren · Post by **siren** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:54 am

Is Cat's 10min readings by phone or email? I really want to get a reading with her but shes booked for some weeks for full readings and I was wondering if the 10min reads were by email instead because others only offer them by email.

Post by **cabriellenil** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:05 am

Cat's readings are by phone. Miss Bri, Devi and ConjureMan do 10-minute readings by email.

Post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 2:53 pm

Miss Cat and Miss Elvyra do 10 minute phone readings, Miss Bri and I do 10 minute email and phone readings.

hoodoohottie · Post by **hoodoohottie** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 4:23 pm

Hello everyone,
I have a family member that I would like to come down and visit us. All of our family lives in the same area and we all don't get to see him often and miss him. We talk to him often and he tells us he misses us and loves us and he is going to make more of an effort to visit. He lives in another state and I was wondering what could I use to get him to come visit us Asap. I know he works alot but even seeing him for a couple of days would mean alot to us. Any suggestions??

Post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 6:36 am

You could try some Road Opening work to help open his ways to you, along with an Attraction kit to start drawing him to you. The combination would likely be a really nice one for your purposes!

Post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 10:21 pm

Mix some Tobacco with Attraction incense and call out their name as you light. Pray over it that this person comes to you and visits, then toss some of the ashes on your front lawn.

You might try dressing a letter with a pinch of the mixture to send to them. For this use the powder.

sandi613 · Post by **sandi613** » Mon May 23, 2011 3:20 pm

I need help we havent spoken to our son in over 2 years. She hates us and he does what she wants he follows her lead. I sent several emails and he finally responded to one of them and his response was angry and he said leave his wife out of this but I never mentioned his wife in emails, only love and how much we miss him. He has 2 boys who we haven't seen either. I think his wife changed the email before forwarding it to him. She is very controlling and only wants him to visit her family, he hasn't spoken to his sister, either grandparents or aunts and uncles. He has completely aliented everyone in the family. What kind of info can you give me to help get him back into our family as we miss him so much.

Thank you for your help

Sandi

Post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue May 24, 2011 1:26 am

1. Get a reading first.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

2. I would get a reconciliation sweet jar going for everyone, and then heed the advice of the rootworker in the reading

www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Post by **curiocrow** » Tue May 24, 2011 10:24 pm

I might suggest working with Blood Root in this case. It helps with the ties between blood related relatives. I'm dealing with a sibling in which they are somewhat troublesome and disrespectful. I'm using the root. Just a thought. Hope things work out for you.

BellaMars · Post by **BellaMars** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:41 pm

A friend and fellow LM forum member has been working on a reconciliation and love work with her rootworkers for a long time.
She has been told that success is very soon and I would like to light a vigil candle to reinforce her work and success or maybe there is something else someone on the LM forum might suggest that is better.

I have lit a vigil candle or two with herbs and oilsin the past for her and it has helped but this time I would like some other workers thoughts on what I can do.

Post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 4:56 pm

You can purchase a Reconciliation vigil candle from LM and have it burned on her behalf. You can either have the candle shipped to your home and burn it yourself, or you can request the Missionary Independent Spiritual Churchto burn it on their altar and they will give you an interpretation of the burn when it's done.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

BellaMars · Post by **BellaMars** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:04 pm

Thank you MaryBee for your response but I was thinking something more along the lines to for her to Achieve Success or for her work to be More Powerful. Has anyone ever done something like this for a fellow LM member or friend of theirs?

BellaMars · Post by **BellaMars** » Thu Dec 08, 2011 11:46 am

I hope someone can give me a little advice quickly bc I would like to do this today.

I was just writing an email to my friend that I was going to just pray over a Vigil prepared with Success herbs and Oils. When my vision darkened and I saw my hands held palm down over a set of candles, the center of which was a vigil with what seemed a photo attached to it of two people. My ears buzzed or more felt like when your ears need to pop and my body felt flushed. This has never happened to me, usually I have visions in a half sleep state with my eyes closed. I have never gotten something so vivid in the middle of the day while not asking or expecting it.
Unfortunately my reaction of being spooked made the vision disappear before seeing it more clearly. Has this happened to anyone? This is all very new to me!

Ok from what I did see I am thinking maybe I need to work more than a vigil.

I am thinking of lighting a red candle with love herbs and a photo of the two of them attached, surrounding that I will have 3 white candles in triangle formation annointed for success.

ANyone have any thoughts on this? I would love to hear any opinions

barat · Post by **barat** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 4:44 pm

My 18 yr old daughter is pregnant and my husband which is her stepfather dont want to take her back in, in our house. Can somebody help me ? Is there something I can do to influence my husband to accept her back? I dont want my daughter on the streets.
Thank you..

drjumba · Post by **drjumba** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 1:57 am

There are many root work to get someone agree with you on something. please contact the admin will refer you to one best remedy that will get your husband to stop this attitude towards your daughtor.

Post by **aura** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 4:45 am

Hi barat,

Prayers and good will to you during this rough time. If you haven't already, sign up for prayers from the Crystal Silence League: http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

You may also want to start a peaceful home honey jar with everyone in the family in it as well as an Influence for a Good purpose honey jar on your husband specifically to help him come around: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

If your husband is particularly resistant, consider getting an AIRR member to help you with work: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

Blessings and best of luck.

barat · Post by **barat** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 5:38 am

Hi Dr. Jumba what do you mean contact the admin? I should contact lucky mojo? Do you work at the office? What time should I call you?
I appreciate all the answers here

Post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 6:37 am

Dr Jumba is not associated with Lucky Mojo. I think he meant call the shop, but that will not be necessary. There are plenty of things you can do on your own. As Aura stated, the Peaceful Home and Influence honey jars would be a good place to start. If you work with saints, you can petition the Holy Family.

I would also suggest a reading at: www.readersandrootworkers.org

You can also sign up for a reading at the Lucky Mojo Radio Hour. It is every Sunday at 3pm Pacific Time.

drjumba · Post by **drjumba** » Sat Mar 03, 2012 11:20 pm

barat

Hello friend am sory you got me wrong,i dont work at lucky mojo, all i ment that you contact an administrator at lucky mojo. He or She would surgest a way of help to your situation of which they have like i can see now.

its just that i love being around cause in this way of sharing we learn many new things about different cultures.

blanksean · Post by **blanksean** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 2:39 pm

i need help and am not sure where to post. i have been in an amazing relationship for 3 years. recently her little brother took ill. and i had to send her home. about that time my father got sick i needed her so i went to be with her. but her parents kept us apart then i caused out first fight ever.
i said things i didnt mean i hurt her and she left me. though we both want to get back together. she has blocked me out of her heart and hardly speaks to me. when she does she tells me she wants this to workout. but she cant seems to show me how to get closer to her. i think a road opening something or other would help in combonation with a honey jar. but i dont know what to do. please my father has gotten even more ill and i need help i need ehr to get through this. please.

theusurper · Post by **theusurper** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 8:59 am

This is the situation, my son he moved to another country looking for better life, that happened 3 years ago and he is up and down. RIght now , no job, no car, no place to stay and as a mother i'm desesparated, i want him to come back home where we can help him, he is scared to come back because he own child support but his wife want to help him with that situation, she is very nice lady and she said she doesn't want her girls daddy in jail, they are separated but they have a good relationship, when he was working he was sending the support and give something extra for his daughters. How can i bring him back home? What can i do?

Post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:28 am

I would suggest Influence products.

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

They can be used to influence your son's mind to a good purpose; that is, to influence him to come home. You can get the sachet powders and dust them lightly over any letters or cards you send him, and pray that when he touches them he'll be compelled to come home.

You can also have a vigil light set at the Missionary Independent Spiritualist Church altar with your son's name, picture and your prayer that he return home:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

lbcamera · Post by **lbcamera** » Fri Oct 26, 2012 12:04 am

I was wondering what I can do to get family and friends to visit my mother more often at her home? She lives in Florida and I live in NY.
She refuses to relocate yet always complains how lonely she gets when early evening rolls around. Is there any way I can accomplish this long distance.

I know it's a long shot but I figured I would ask.

Thank you for any suggestions you may have

Post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Oct 27, 2012 8:29 pm

You could work Attraction conjure for your mother.

d1angel · Post by **d1angel** » Sat Dec 15, 2012 4:39 pm

I have 2 boys who were taken by their father years ago (it's a long convoluted tale, but I fought him for all I was worth and still couldn't prevail). Anyway, now that they are grown, I'd like to reconcile with them. He's not hoodooing them, but he does have them convinced that I am the Wicked Witch of the West.

I'm considering a honey jar to start sweetening them toward me, but I'm just at a loss....

I am starting to seriously consider a revenge spell against him because of all he's done against me, but honestly, as long as I have my kids speaking to me again, that's what I really want.

Post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Dec 15, 2012 5:21 pm

You could start by writing a letter dusted with Reconciliation powder. A honey jar is a good idea also. Maybe they would consider seeing you for a holiday dinner or lunch.

d1angel · Post by **d1angel** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 6:02 pm

I'll start there, for sure. Would I work this like a reconciliation between lovers (without the sexual component, of course)? I hope I'm not asking stupid questions - I read a lot on the forum before I post anything.

Post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 8:10 pm

Reconciliation is not "sexual" per se -- it can be used to mend sexual break-ups, but basically it is to bring people back together who have had misunderstandings, arguments, other non-accidental separations.

d1angel · Post by **d1angel** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 8:33 pm

That's what I thought. Thank you.

Post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Dec 17, 2012 5:12 am

And when you do meet up with your sons (phrase that in the positive, like you've already accomplished it), bathe before hand in Reconciliation bath crystals and wash your clothes with pinch of the crystals in the rinse cycle. That way, your whole body will be dressed for reconciliation.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 11:14 am

Beyond the bath, dress your hands with a drop of Reconciliation oil and make sure to shake hands with them, touch their shoulder -- or their hair, if you can do so in a natural way.

You might mix in some Influence products with the Reconciliation, too.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:52 pm

Post a prayer at the Crystal Silence League (http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html)

d1angel · Post by **d1angel** » Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:08 pm

Thank you, all. I'm certain that *eventually* they will want to talk to me, but I'd like to gently move that along.

Making notes for my next order....

Mamaki · Post by **Mamaki** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:24 pm

I'm wondering how to help my boyfriend with spellwork. His grandson's parents are going through a very difficult time/ divorce and the best place for the grandson would be with him until everything is settled and custody established. The boy is in Nebraska while we live in California. What kind of spell can I use to bring his grandson here where he will be loved, happy, safe and very well cared for. I was thinking of something to sweeten the father's view of the boy staying with us? BUT, I don't have any of his personal concerns. I only have the boy's personal concerns from some items that were left here the last time they visited. His mother ran off with some other guy so, I just wish the grandson can feel safe and loved with us even though his mother is gone and his father decides what to do.

Post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:34 pm

Mamaki

Did he grow up in the house where you and your boyfriend are now living? Use something from the room that was his bedroom: fibers from the carpet, a paint chip, etc. If you're not living in his childhood home, well, a picture might do.

Put some sugar and Tranquility Oil on an Influence candle and set it by a picture of the baby's father. Light another candle -- a Tranquility candle with Safe Travel Oil on it -- for the baby, and another (Peaceful Home or Money House Blessing) for your boyfriend and you.

Put a little Protection Oil on each candle, too.

Start with the baby's candle and his father's candle touching. Over a period of seven days, move the baby's candle so it's touching your candle.

If the boy's father is a straight-up Golden Rule man who is just going through a bad time, and you have no objection to letting him raise the boy when things are better -- tie his candle and the boy's candle together with a blue or pink ribbon long enough to reach all the way to your candle.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Mamaki · Post by **Mamaki** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:11 am

Perfect!!! The last addition with tying the ribbon is also a great thing to do in this case!

Post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:21 pm

Glad you like it, Mamaki! Please let us know how it all works out.

Miss Michaele

ceramicat · Post by **ceramicat** » Sat Jan 19, 2013 11:21 pm

My son is 29, and he's too trusting.

A friend talked him into moving from Los Angeles to Des Moines, IA with the promise of a job, and an eventual promotion. The guy paid for his bus ticket right after Thanksgiving, and after all this time he's still not getting paid. My son was suppose to be hired on with him and work as an assistant.

Today my son told me that his friend wasn't aware he expected to be paid, and he must have misunderstood the job offer. My son didn't misunderstand! The friend of his isn't stupid, he just plays dumb.

We told him not to trust the guy, because he's proven untrustworthy in the past, and he's dangerous (I won't go into it) but my son said we are just too suspicious, and went anyway. And we told him to get everything in writing with a signature of what was expected and what his salary would be. He didn't do that.

He needs to come back home where his rent is taken care of, and where he has medical insurance for his disabilities. I know he needs to grow up and eventually move out, but that was not the way. He's being taken advantage of, working 12 hour days and getting nothing out of it. I am so worried about him. The kid is freezing out there without winter clothing, we can't afford to buy him new clothes or snow boots since were on Social Security of $800.00 a month.

But that friendship needs to end since that friend isn't a friend, he's just using my son as his personal slave. He's always taken advantage of his friendship by playing dumb, and we even let him stay here which he took advantage of. If that guy gets in the door you practically have to have the police escort him out. Help!

I have Compelling, Controlling, Money Drawing, and Uncrossing oils, but none of those seemed appropriate for this.

cat ninja heroe · Post by **cat ninja heroe** » Sun Jan 20, 2013 7:29 am

Hi ceramicat,
I am a beginner in hoodoo no expert of course, but I thought I could get the ball rolling on your question. I've been thinking about your question because my son also has friends who are doing him no good. I am planning to use Cast Off Evil and Clarity, and maybe Rue, to protect him and help him to see what's right.