Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 1:31 pm

Thanks Mama Micki, I will def look into it!

lovingblueeyes · Unread post by **lovingblueeyes** » Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:20 am

Hi,
Im curious in working the Red candle Cubeb spell curious, do you burn the candle in one burning or is it burned through out several days?
Thanks.

Brandywine · Unread post by **Brandywine** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 4:06 pm

Hello,

I'm a little confused about what love products would be best for my situation. I've been dating a man from work for about 3 months but would like to spend more time with him, for him to be more affectionate, passionate and loving towards me and eventually to have a committed relationship with him. I have a honey jar going but I want to do more. What love products would you recommend for the outcome I'm looking for? Thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 4:21 pm

Try some Follow Me Boy to get him desiring to be around you much more. That, in and of itself, may lead to the greater committment. If not, after getting him spending more time, then you could move on to something like Love Me &/or Chupparrosa to draw him into a more committed emotional place.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 5:23 pm

I agree with Devi's assessment of Follow Me Boy. Get him interested and motivated to persue a relationship with you.

I have a lot to learn about the different options available to ladies looking to affect the men the are after!

Thank you, Brandywine for posting this question as it allows me to vicariously learn, for my own knowledge, through your situation.

Brandywine · Unread post by **Brandywine** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:33 pm

Thank you Devi and Joseph! Since we had two votes for Follow Me Boy, I went ahead and ordered the spell kit from LM. I'll keep you posted on how that works out!

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:59 pm

I am also a BIG fan of Dixie Love to create or encourage warm/loving/family centered relationships

Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:14 am

Ooo, Dixie Love! How could that one have slipped my mind. Thanks Miss Bri.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 11:31 am

Dixie Love ALWAYS evades me! I need to print out a giant chart of all the available Oils/Products and their labels, so , at a glance, I can remember all of the different varieties! Thank you Miss Bri!

Brandywine · Unread post by **Brandywine** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 4:38 pm

Miss Bri wrote:I am also a BIG fan of Dixie Love to create or encourage warm/loving/family centered relationships
Blessings,
Bri

That one sounds interesting! I'll give that one a try with the FMB.

Also, which product do you all think is best for heating things up in the bedroom that would work well with the other two already mentioned?

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:53 am

Fire of Love all the way for keeping things interesting in the bedroom

If it's mostly him that needs the ''heating up'', combining that with Nature oil is also a good way to go.

Working Fire of Love on penis and vulva candles is a great way to magickally get things going while ''setting the mood'' in the bedroom as well. Alternatively, a small drop of the oil placed on a light bulb before turning it on will diffuse the scent into the room you intend to heat things up in.

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 7:21 pm

there's a guy ive had a lot of history with and says im not his type and that he will never give me what i want etc but yet he gets mad if i ignore his calls or am busy.

the other day he blew up my phone took his break at work to come get me instead of waiting til the next day to see me. he works overnight and he had me stay at his place while he went back to work...this continued for 3 nights. I finally came home today, I was going to yesterday but he wanted me to stay again. then today as he was dropping me off we discussed possible weekend plans.

He just makes no sense he says he doesn't want anything but has been around me for a few days. I don't know what to do. I obviously want a relationship, we have done the friends with benefits, use to talk etc I'm not going to do the have his cake eat it too thing.

He says he's not looking for anything right now and is fine with hookups and that "she's out there somewhere" and he'll "find her eventually."

what can I do to make him see what he has and want more and start realizing what we could have since obviously he wants to spend enough time together, but the situation is weird and messed up?

thanks

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Jan 05, 2012 7:29 am

I'd work with Adam & Eve products, as it helps someone realize that their love is already in their life! Try working the Love Me kit on him, adding the Adam & Eve oil to the mix.

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:10 am

A rootworker recommended a moving candle spell for reconciliation. Would it be better if I remove his resistance and fear with this spell before I proceeded with the reconciliation? Can I have one candle for fear and one for resistance?

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:07 am

Ask your rootworker and follow the recommendation she/he gave you, i would do it like they told me. Why you pay a rootworker if you don't do it what they recommendet?

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:09 pm

cool thanks

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:59 pm

k so im going to order the kit and a few other things someone very helpful recommended and i was thinking of ordering a vigil to be set at the church should I do the adam and eve or love me candle until i receive my order, thanks

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Jan 07, 2012 5:31 am

You can order one candle of each kind, or do a run of 3 lights (odd numbers are traditional in Hoodoo) of Adam and Eve, Love Me, and Adam and Eve.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

mahakali · Unread post by **mahakali** » Sat Jan 07, 2012 11:44 am

I have been having a sexual relationship with a guy for the past 2 months. he has a gfriend. they fight a lot. he said he is using her.

I met his friends and they even said I am more suitable for him.

I want this guy to pursue me, to want me, to tell me he loves me introduce me to his family give me money and marry me, I want to be the only woman in his life make him madly inlove with me n be faithful.

I got a reading that said he will leave her we will be married after a year of us being in a relationship.

But as of now in his head he dont know if he can be with me cause im different than any girl he dated cause I`m not dramaticim not controlling or bitchy and his whole life thats all he had with girls which he told me about his past a few times which I believe is true.so my reading made sense until she said another guy will come into my life and I will have to choose cause I may get tired of waiting.Even the exact day she predicited the fight it happened so my readin with AIRR was sooo true.thank you

I dont know what spell would be suitable so I got the following from lucky mojo products:

1 male figure candle
1 female figure candle
1 red bride n groom candle
1 7day chupprosa candle
1 red skull candle
2 package rose buds
1 package deer tongue
1 package cat nip
1 pair loadestone
1 bottle bewitching oil
1 bottle fire of love oil
1 bottle come to me oil
1 bottle adam and eve oil
1 bottle chupprosa oil
1 bottle attraction oil
I got a picture of him and I got some personal fuild which I wiped of me during sex on a napkin

CAN YOU PLEASE advice me what I can do with these products and what order to have them done. I also know monday is a fullmoon.

Thank you again everytime I ask for assistance it works *_*

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jan 07, 2012 3:58 pm

i'd just use a Love Me spell kit as it has everything you'd need for a complete working with explicit instructions. Hopefully since you're intimate with him you've gathered some good personal concerns that you can use, too.

But since you had the reading with an AIRR worker, why don't you book a little bit more time with them and get them to suggest which work would most suit your situation. They've already looked deeply into the situation and are familiar with all the particulars, so they would be in the best position to suggest appropriate work for you.

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Sat Jan 07, 2012 6:39 pm

thanks

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 10:08 am

I would like to try the first spell but I have a few questions before I do so...

I am involved with someone and I actually posted a few weeks ago regarding my situation. I have done 2 candle spells in succession: both were red vigil candles dressed with love oils and had his named carved with my name carved over his all over the candles, they were the type of pull-out candles that can be taken out of the glass. I got great results! The man I am still currently involved with has become more affection, has pursued me more, and has open up to me more as well. He is still very resistant in the dating aspect and keeps pushing that our feelings cannot become too involved but he also says these things and then acts quite the opposite. His resistance I think is apparent because I have gotten black smoke at the top of both of these candles with a clean finish at the end.

Now for my questions: Is the first spell suitable for this situation and is it OK to do yet another candle spell? I don't want to aggravate him or "overdo" it.

The oils I have are Follow Me, Come to Me, Domination, and Magnet. With regards to the first spell... Can I use a red vigil candle and crush the berries (or stud them if there is room to slide the candle back into the glass) and dress it with these oils? Also, when carving the name... should I just carve his name or can I carve mine over his as well? And should the name (or names) and the command be carved all around the candle?

I know a lot of questions I have here! Any advice is greatly appreciated! Thank you all!

lovingblueeyes · Unread post by **lovingblueeyes** » Wed Jan 18, 2012 1:21 pm

Hello,

Today, I worked on the resistance spell with cubeb berries, I enjoyed very minute of it!
Time consuming in preparing the candle but wonderful to see and hear (popping of berries)the outcome of it.
My candle burned high and clean throughout the entire burn. I wonder if my target will be effected?
Well, time will tell......All in all, great spell and Thank you Conjure Man for sharing your wisdom with us !

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:34 am

Missy228, the spell calls for a stand alone candle for reason. You aren't working with crushed berries, but studding the candle with the berries. Each pop of the berry is a barrier that is being broken down.

lovingblueyes, I'm pleased you enjoyed the working--its a good one and has always produced lovely results for me.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Thu Jan 19, 2012 5:22 am

How often you can do this spell?

lovingblueeyes · Unread post by **lovingblueeyes** » Fri Jan 20, 2012 8:08 pm

Thank you Conjure Man.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Sat Jan 21, 2012 12:55 am

I wasn't sure what topic to post this under so I thought I'd post under this one since it has to do with my boyfriend.

Our relationship has become serious and recently he said that he would like it if I would move in with him this summer. I would love to live in his neighborhood, always have. However, I can't afford it on my own and would like the chance to live with him. Living together would help us both financially and our quality of life would possibly be better because I wouldn't have to commute back and forth, and we are much happier when we are around one another.
The biggest obstacle is his parents. In his culture his parents are very involved and have more control than he wishes that they would have. My questions in regard to this situation is:
1)What can I do to have his parents be in favor of what it is that he wants and needs?
2)How can I help seal the deal on us living together so that he doesn't waiver and change his mind?

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:00 am

When i do this spell my last words are "I will break the resistance of (the target name)"
with affirmation and power.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jan 21, 2012 12:17 pm

The first place to start would be to sweeten his parents to you with a Honey Jar. However if they are involved in his life (remember this a strong bond) and do not want him 'living' with someone..they can still love you and would rather you 'marry' and live together.

DZelda98 · Unread post by **DZelda98** » Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:15 pm

This is my first time posting, sorry it's so long.

I've known this man for four years now, I'll call him K. The first two I was in a relationship and he stood a strictly platonic internet/texting friend. After about two years my ex and I split and K jumped at the chance to come see me. He drove 7 hours to see me and I was shocked given the fact that he is a very handsome, intelligent, successful man.

From the moment we faced each other we were mesmerized. At first neither of us were ready for a relationship then after the second time he came to see me he confessed he had feelings for me, "adored" me and said he hoped I could tell by the way he looks at me.

The catch? He refuses to commit, he's "not ready". This has been going on almost 2 years now.

I've tried to walk away several times and each time he finds a way back into my heart and each time our bond gets stronger. I've told him he should have respected my wishes and let me move on but the other day he said "You don't understand, its not that I wanted to talk to you it's that I NEEDED to talk to you. I couldn't take it." He also has some sort of connection with me, he knows what I'm doing sometimes without me even telling him, things he couldn't have known. He says its a "feeling" and he goes with it. I feel this man is in love with me, we've been through so much, too much and yet our bond is SO strong.

I know he had problems with a clingy ex and I feel like its not that he doesn't want to commit it's that he's afraid I'll try and hold him back and won't let himself.

I've tried moving on and I recently found myself liking someone else but my heart is with him and I feel like he'll always be there in the back of my mind even if I find someone new.

I don't have direct access to him, he's been a few places over the years but there's been talk of seeing each other soon. I don't even know where to start, I want to help him commit and help him see that it's not that scary.

He believes no matter what I'll always come back to him and I'm afraid it's true.

I need some way to make this amazing bond official.

keylewm · Unread post by **keylewm** » Fri Feb 03, 2012 3:32 pm

I have worked a red skull candle with Essence of Bend over on my love target. Lately hes been distant, resisting and hes actually told me he feels like hes being "forced into something". I know this has to do with the bend over candles and oils Ive been using. As soon as I realized the essence of bend over was too strong and causing the issue I stopped using them lest I ruin things.

Ive since quit using the bend over products in this case and have been focusing on my honey jar, doll baby, and a new skull that only has love oils on it. I know it will take time to overcome the resistance from the bend over products. Should I just keep working with the Love oils until he comes back around or is there something else I can or should do?

I have thought about doing ConjuremanAli's red candle, cubeb berry spell to overcome the resistance but havent started that yet.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 03, 2012 10:16 pm

Sounds like you need some coaching...starting with a reading to get recommendations on what to use to get the results you desire.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:01 am

You've located the problem now address it by changing tactics. Work with gentle, encouraging, and sweetning love conjures. A honey jar, moving lodestones/moving candles, baking him conjure goodies, and taking drawing baths are all things that you should consider.

In the post about resistance in a lover, I suggest that you work with the moving candle spell version as it may have a better effect for your target.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Feb 05, 2012 11:23 pm

I was thinking of that spell ConjureMan when I read this post....I am positing it here for your reading keylewm (candle-spells-to-overcome-resistance-in ... tml#p91753)

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:22 am

Hi,

I saw the post to use" orange blossom water, Spikenard, and Deer's tongue on a honey jar to get a marriage proposal.

you write his name 9 times and your name over his 9 times on the paper."

Can anyone elaborate on this please?

Thank You.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:34 am

In what way do you need it elaborated, blessedlady?

Orange blossoms are used for marriage work, spikenard is used to draw a permanent partner, and deer's tongue helps get a man opening up with his speech to encourage a proposal. So those would be excellent herbs to use in a honey jar that you work for the purposes of gaining a proposal.

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:28 am

LOL!! I was not clear. (apologies) I thought it meant on top.. not "inside".

I already have a jar. Can I add those items to the jar. Or should I start a new one for that purpose?

Thank You

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 4:37 pm

Good to know

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Feb 13, 2012 4:50 pm

My first recommendation is that you get a reading with one of us at AIRR: http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

You really need a reading to determine if this is the right man for you or if you need to cut and clear from him in order to fully be with the other man you mention.

Products like Reconciliation, Marriage, and Dixie Love can help with commitment and getting back together, as could a honey jar, but first I would recommend you get a reading.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html

Blessings,
Bri

allheart777 · Unread post by **allheart777** » Mon Feb 13, 2012 7:36 pm

Are there any good spells to make my lover become interested in marrying me again. We were engaged til about a year ago, then broke the engagement off. We split up for a little while but have been back together for a while. I want to marry her, but she expresses no interest in the idea of marriage or living together. Any suggestions?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:30 am

We have a line of spiritual supplies called Marriage -- Oil, Candle, Bath Crystals, Incense, and Sachet Powders -- that may be used as part of spell-casting to accomplish the goals you have in mind.

Read more here:

http://luckymojo.com/marriage.html

Good luck!

DZelda98 · Unread post by **DZelda98** » Sun Feb 19, 2012 5:53 pm

Thank you for your reply, Miss Bri. We had a horrible falling out and things have gone bad since my last post. I've decided to get a reading because now I'm very conflicted. I was actually drawn mostly to you so hopefully we'll be speaking soon!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Feb 19, 2012 6:28 pm

http://readersandrootworkers.org
This is the link to AIRR that is discussed here in The Forum daily, for all of you here who are new.

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... e=Miss_Bri
Here is the link to Miss Bri, whom you have chosen to work with. She is great!
Good luck!

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Tue Feb 21, 2012 3:26 pm

I just recommended this spell to a guy who was having resistance with his lover...I had to put this one in my B.O.S. I like this one and I will be using it when I feel it is appropriate..Stay Blessed....

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:52 pm

Hope you enjoy it, Ikee jackson--its a good one.

Best,
ConjureMan Ali

blonde_gurl · Unread post by **blonde_gurl** » Wed Feb 22, 2012 6:06 pm

Hello everyone

I am new to this forum. I have to say after reading some threads, this site and you all have brought me some hope. I am new to all of this and would really like some advice.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year.

I have had several readings and all say that he is my soulmate. He is always in my cards.

I love him very much but he is just one of those guys who have problems with commitment. The thing is that we've been having some problems in our relationship. I am scared that he will leave me and I'm scared that we will break up in the future. I eventually want to marry him.

We are both happy but i just want to know my options.

1) What should i do to make our relationship stronger and to make him stay with me?

2) I am confused on the concept of a honey jar and how you put items into it such as deer tongue.

3) I don't know how to set up an altar.

4) What do you all recommend i do to increase his commitment?

Any help is appreciated

Thanks again

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Feb 22, 2012 6:44 pm

Here is a topic that answers your question about Marriage (get-him-to-propose-marriage-and-complet ... 3s553.html) with recommended conjure

blonde_gurl · Unread post by **blonde_gurl** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 1:26 pm

Thank you but that thread doesn't answer all of my questions. I am very confused. Any other help would be greatly appreciated

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 1:49 pm

Well, what other questions do you have? Ask specific ones and we will try to help you

In the mean time, since you asked about how to do honey jars, here's a link on setting up one of your own:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Mary Bee

blonde_gurl · Unread post by **blonde_gurl** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 8:03 pm

MaryBee wrote:Well, what other questions do you have? Ask specific ones and we will try to help you In the mean time, since you asked about how to do honey jars, here's a link on setting up one of your own:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Mary Bee

Thanks Mary Bee. I was wondering what would be the best method to get my boyfriend more committed to me. Should I get a stay with me candle that is already dressed by lucky mojo or one that I dress myself? Or should I get a kit? Or should I get an adam and eve candle? I'm just a little overwhelmed

Unread post by **Madame Pamita** » Fri Feb 24, 2012 1:31 am

If you want marriage - go with some marriage oil - http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html

blonde_gurl · Unread post by **blonde_gurl** » Fri Feb 24, 2012 7:12 am

Madame Pamita wrote:If you want marriage - go with some marriage oil - http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html

Thanks Madame Pamita. What prayers should I used with the marriage oil? Do I say the prayer if i want to wear the oil?

Thanks

Unread post by **Madame Pamita** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 12:55 am

If you are overwhelmed and not sure what to do, you might want to get a reading from one of the AIRR rootworkers though and they can give you specific guidance based on what blocks they see going on with you and your boyfriend. They can then prescribe you a spell specific to your situation.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 9:58 pm

So verryy informative. I like

salinton · Unread post by **salinton** » Tue Mar 06, 2012 4:45 pm

MAY I USE CUBEBS (PEPPER) TO INSERT IN THE CANDLE

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:06 pm

If these spells are done during the planetary hours, is there a certain time on those days that they should be done?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:21 am

I'd do them during the hour of Venus in the day of Venus.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:02 am

Thanks ConjureMan.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Sat Mar 24, 2012 2:00 pm

My boyfriend talked to his parents about us living together and they had a blow up, now he's not talking to his parents, and they will be visiting to convince him that he should dump me and find someone more suitable to marry.
Recently, I started a stop gossip honey jar to stop the bad talk about me and sweeten the parents up to me. My boyfriend's siblings have been nice and accepting of us, it's just his parents.
His parents are already mentioning cutting him off from the family. He's still willing to live with me and be cut off.
Is there anything else that I can do? I have a personal concern of his mother (writing on a letter), anything I can do with that?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Mar 24, 2012 9:29 pm

celine_celeste wrote:I have a personal concern of his mother (writing on a letter), anything I can do with that?

I hope that letter is yours to keep, because it would make a fabulous petition paper for a sweet jar. It's almost as good as her hair, since it not only came from her hand, it expresses her will.

Turn it clockwise and write YOUR intentions and commands across it; leave room at the end to sign your name nine times -- over her signature, if you are lucky enough to have that in the letter.

Most people are very cautious with Essence of Bend Over -- but it was formulated for the use of people who traditionally had few or no rights -- as is the case with daughters-in-law in many traditional cultures. I'm not telling you to use it, but I do think it is worth considering in a case like this.

The history and proper uses of Essence of Bend Over
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

From the above link:

Essence of Bend-Over is similar to the formula for Compelling in that it forces another person to do your bidding, but Essence of Bend-Over products are both more intimate and crueller in intent than Compelling products, because they may actually bring about degradation or subjugation.

Strangely enough, Bend Over is one of the freshest, most innocent fragrances I have ever come across.

I would ordinarily NOT recommend mixing Essence of Bend Over into family life, but your future in-laws are talking about "excommunicating" your husband from his family -- it sounds like they are prepared to force his (supportive) siblings to end their relationship with him. If that's so, well, I wouldn't stand for that. There's Principle, and then there's Straight-Up Meanness.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele