Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 10:03 am

DangerouslyInLove. Here is my advice:

1) Change your screen name to something pleasant. With the name Dangerously In Love, you are broadcasting "I'M OBSESSED AND OUT OF CONTROL." The Universe hears what you say and gives you what you ask for.

2) Set a time limit on how long you will work to return things to the way they were when you were happy.

3) In another thread that you started (which is now merged into the long "Dream Interpretation Wanted" thread), you told us something rather HUGE that you left out here -- that you have a child with this man and the two of you share custody to a certain extent. (You mentioned him bringing your son back -- and you also described a dream in which you threatened to kill another woman and declared that you, not she, had birthed his child.) So you have a very strong link to him based on co-parentage and this is NOT merely a case of being "****-buddies."

4) If you stop having sex with him, all you are doing is hastening the inevitable break-up. So go back to step (2) above. SET A TIM LIMIT. Work for his return and his greater emotional involvement with prayer, rootwork magic, marital and co-parenting counselling, and spiritual assistance from a pastor or conjure worker until your time limit expires, and continue to have sex with him until that date. If you win, then rejoice. If you do not win, perform one last family-binding spell to keep him in the child's life, both financially and emotionally, and cut the sexual tie to him, and seek a new life-partner.

5) Don't come here crying that you can't afford to buy Lucky Mojo products because, babe, in that other thread -- the one about your dram of killing the women he was marrying -- i had to cut out all your mentions about purchasing products, readings, and rootwork services at another store. Be real.

Greenfruit · Unread post by **Greenfruit** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:47 pm

Hi All,

My husband and I are separate for a month now. He is confusing about the marriage. He doesn't want to get divorce and for sure I don't want that neither. I still have time to save my marriage. So my questions are:

If I use the menstrual blood would that be good for this situation?

And also I would like some advice on getting product from LM because I don't know which one will work best for my situation!

Thank you very much.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:58 pm

Hello. I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Perhaps we can help.

Yes, you may use menstrual blood to feed him and draw him back to you, (and you should have used it earlier, before he left!). Here is a link to the long, long thread titled "Menstrual Blood Questions and Answers," which is in the section of the forum on "Herb, Mineral, and Animal Curios in Hoodoo and Rootwork":

menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t4800.html

As for products for reconciliation, i always suggest getting a reading to uncover the roots of the separation and see what methodsa are indicated for a reunion, setting a time limit on the work, starting a honey or sugar jar, and then performing, or paying a root doctor to perform, a Reconciliation or Return to Me spell.

Good luck and God bless you.

Greenfruit · Unread post by **Greenfruit** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:03 pm

Thank you Ms. Cat. I will set appointment to get reading right away and will also find the way to bring him food or drink. Sorry about the other posted because I didn't know how to post the topic at first!

Thank you again!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:35 am

You can go to AIRR or the radio show to get a reading.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 8:39 am

Things were great and then when we got back things blew up. She still doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship. In fact she wants time and space to figure out if she wants to pursue a relationship with me. She is undecided. Which is better than what she was saying before which was no. I am trying to be understanding but recently she went away to a concert that I had talked about going to with her and she decided that she didn't want to go and do anything that weekend and told me she was staying home. Well she went and went with a guy she had met a work. I was totally floored. She said that there is nothing between them and no attraction. That she loves me and is attracted to me, but she can't trust me and is still
really hurt from the past that she can't get back in a relationship with me right now. Without the trust she can't move forward with us. I am hurt beyond words and can't even begin to know what to do next. Do I break them up? Do I hot foot him. Moving spell? I thought we were gettting closer. It's almost like she it testing me to see if I will do something or fight with her so she can have it easy and walk away from trying anymore with us. To blame it all on me. I love her more than anything and I want to be able to work through all this mess and help her see we belong together. I don't want to fight and I don't want to give up either. What to do?

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 10:10 am

Disclaimer: Note to people reading this, I do magic but am new to hoodoo, I am doing as what I have learnt from forums and the Lucky Mojo theory online book and following common-sense. I may very well be doing it wrong although what work I have been doing is working. Do not do as I do. Better get advice from more experienced workers.

UPDATE: Been 25 days since last update.

Personal Notes: Special Oil #20 kicks ass along with Lucky Mojo Love Herbs mix. Special Oil #20 smells like cakes and tasty things. Is strong and works fast for me. Have been using it along with love oils. Don't know why, just like it very much.

Couple fought in the past week. They each tell me once a week how things are going.

Have been watching couple ever so gradually be able to be comfortable with seeing each other in-person. Before this I told them not to force and rush, they have been talking on the 'phone. I told them for now do not raise the subject of reconciliation up, just talk and build strong relations all over again. May have to do clarity work along with healing on the gentleman who is very conflicted. Noticed that the connections/bond between this couple is very strong. They do love each other deeply although they have not been entirely honest with each other in the past, for fear of hurting the other. (Thank god for deer's tongue.) They went out with the children for a family dinner, Italian.

Recently did a love and reconciliation honey jar. Filled petition paper with personal concerns, pair of matched balm of gilead buds, and love herbs mix.

Around jar burnt three candles. Arranged in an upright triangle facing the east (for influence), one white for healing (with healing oil), one pink for reconciliation (balm of gilead oil and Chuparrosa) and one red for love (Love me). All also have Special Oil #20. On the lid of the jar, burnt a pink candle (with reconciliation and healing). Around this whole thing sprinkled in circle Love Herbs mix. At one side is a reconciliation vigil burning standing watch. At another burning is a coil of lavender incense for cooperation between the two of them.

On altar for this case are now three things. Reconciliation painted bottle spell. Blessing painted bottle spell. And now honey jar. Will be burning candles and praying Psalm 23 and Psalm 131 (because these two have a tendency to worry alot) every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.

Progress is not exactly smooth (they fought trying to reconcile) but there certainly is progress. Gradual progress. As they have stated many times, this is "slow and steady work."

Maria95 · Unread post by **Maria95** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 11:59 am

Yes, but amazingly he said things were revealed to him. like in dreams and he told me everything I told him was true. He is trying to get me pregnant, he brought it up out of nowhere, well he was, and now he is acting agitated and telling me I am stressing him out (which i am not). I was happy and now I am very sad. I thought this would be it. I do not want to be a baby mother on the side when i feel I am his real wife. Especially after all we have gone through. Big argument today-which was one-sided. Now I am confused. I told him let's forget about the baby thing. He also told me all he is promising me is a baby.

Maria95 · Unread post by **Maria95** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:05 pm

@ Octoberbaby-Sorry you are going through something similar, and hope it changes for the better!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:17 pm

All he can promise is to try to get you pregnant? Any random guy can do that. My advice is to Cut and Clear him out of your life and find a man who will marry you before starting a family.

A lot of married men will say anything to keep a woman on the side, such as "We don't have sex." "I'm only staying married for the children." "My wife doesn't understand me." You deserve better.

Maria95 · Unread post by **Maria95** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 1:37 pm

Thanks for your insight.

smokey08 · Unread post by **smokey08** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:06 pm

Hello!

I was curious if I could use a honey jar to reconcile with my ex boyfriend? I started one but I'm so sure I did it wrong. And I also haven't been lighting the candle because I have no privacy & my mom found it. Would love some advice thanks!

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:22 pm

Hi asmalls08,

It sounds like you know what you want to do, but it's also about having confidence in your work and not OVERTHINK it too much to where you ask yourself what you did wrong already as SOON as you made it. I would consult with an AIRR to get more in depth with your situaiton, believe me, they're great help.
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

You can dispose the one you made into a river, or a crossroads if you believe you want to get rid of it. Here, you can have this, to help reconcile with your ex using the RECONCILIATION HJ to order...if your having issues, here is some help with conducting a HoneyJar on the forum:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html

Also, you don't have no privacy in where your living, I HAD THE SAME EXACT issue lol

, I MOVED out, and I do my work at my new home/ apartment, you should read my thread. The forum supports everyone, you should also order catherine's book, to add some herbs that may help your situation! It's so lovely, and has LOTS of magic tricks...
mom-discovered-my-rootwork-rituals-need ... 12328.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooherbmagic.html

GOODLUCK AND BE BLESSED. Keep Us Posted.

smokey08 · Unread post by **smokey08** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:37 pm

Why thank you

ill be sure to look at your thread! But yes I actually did talk to a reader which was elvyra..she was great! But I forgot to tell her that I was in the process of a honey jar. But she told me that there is hope in me and my ex's relationship even though he isn't talking to me at the moment. But I guess hell come around. But I did ask her if I could pay for someone to set up reconcilation candles at the church and she said yes. I just been having financial issues.

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:47 pm

If your havinq financial issues, then I'd recommend thiiis:

If you don't have a job, work with STEADY WORK for qettinq a job and maintain inccome...I'd also work with GRAVEL ROOT, to help get hired at a job, put it in your left pocket with anointing a piece with STEADY WORK Oil and carried with Salt...
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-steady-work.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/gravel-root.html

If you have a job, but have a spendinq habit, or need to save money for movinq out [unlike me...] MONEY STAY WITH ME is an option too, carry a mojo hand, [a spell in a baq], here is some more on it to help ya!
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-money-stay-with-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo.html

"It's Not How Much You Get, It's How Much You Can HOLD ON TO" lol...... NO...SERIOUSLY!

Greenfruit · Unread post by **Greenfruit** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 8:31 am

I got a reading and the psychic said I have a lot of blockage. Is it true that if I have a lot of blockage and the spell won't work? thank you very much!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 9:15 am

Did you get your reading from an AIRR worker?

Emjae · Unread post by **Emjae** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 7:20 pm

Well, to be honest I can see a few things wrong here. One, you said you made a honey jar but that you are sure you did it wrong. That is not the type of mind set to have when approaching conjure. As TBanks stated, there is a thread on honey jars and before I created mine I scoured every single page several times to find answers to all my questions. I also bought Miss Cat's book which is a wealth of knowledge for the beginner. My honey jar has been very successful in keeping my ex sweet to me. However it is nit the only thing I have used. I have an experienced root worker taking care of the more complex conjure. I do this not only for the knowledge but for her ability to remain focused and nit become overwhelmed with emotions as people trying to reconcile with their exs tend to do.

You also stated that you have not burned candles on it due to privacy issues. Well, if it didn't burn candles on my honey jar then it would just be a jar of honey with a load of various herbs sitting beneath my altar. I prefer privacy when performing my work so I burn the candles every Monday, Wednesday and Friday before I go to bed and then put verifying away in the morning. It does not impact the work in any way that I have seen and I do not have to worry about my work getting negative energy from anyone who doesn't understand.

If you feel that your honey jar is not adequate, Lucky Mojo provides a description of the herbs and their uses. Figure out what you would like to do, remake your honey jar if you feel the need to or even purchase the kit to take out the guess work. If you have worries about someone opening your mail, have the kit sent to a friend's house.

TBAnks gave you some good ideas on your financial issue, but I strongly recommend reading every thread in the forum that pertains to your issue. Including the archived threads. This place is a wonder when it comes to finding answers to you questions and suggestions on how to proceed.

Good luck to you!

P.S. When I did my first honey jar my ex and I had not spoken in a month. Between the honey jar and my root worker, we were back together from the time we began to work!

smokey08 · Unread post by **smokey08** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 7:32 pm

Thanks emjae! I feel like I'm not good with making items or meditating so could I just hire a rootworker to do my honey jar? Or would it work best if I try to do one over again ? & so did your honey jar work after a month of doing it?

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:40 pm

Yes asmalls, look at my previous post above, consult with a rootworker of your choice and purchase a reading if you need further direction and assistance. They'll work with you anyway they can. Click on the link and please review the site.

Best of Blessings,

TBanks91

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 10:07 pm

Once you read the threads TBanks91 linked above, you might feel more confident about building a new honey jar. Why not try?

If it doesn't work, a rootworker could certainly build you a honey jar (I have four on my love altar and one on my prosperity altar right now!).

Some rootworkers -- not all of us -- say you should see signs within three days, movement within three weeks, completion within three months. Or you could set your own time limit: "my birthday," "Christmas," "three months," whatever feels right. But do set a time limit and respect it -- that shows respect for yourself.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

smokey08 · Unread post by **smokey08** » Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:35 am

Thank you tbanks & miss michaele! Ill read & follow the directions throughly for my honey jar. Cause I honestly would love if we could talk again instead of it being on again & off again.

CrazyBeautiful · Unread post by **CrazyBeautiful** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:16 am

hi im intrested in purchasing a spell kit to bring back my childs father i know he is feeling guilty but his pride is in the way so he is mia ; i noticed that for all your spell kits the target has to touch a certain powder like sending him a letter ; since my ex is mia this wont be possible with my situation can you reccomand something effective ; ive already done the honey jar; but im also intrested in a kit where i wont have to send it to him

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:41 am

Well in this situation you need to work in stages. First you need to find out where he is. I think you can do this by calling him to you--look at the Black Tobacco conjure. Then work with the Reconciliation spell kit. If you still can't find a place where to send his letter then do the work and keep calling for him to return and save the powder for a time when you can lay it out and he'll be in contact with it.

open heart · Unread post by **open heart** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 8:22 pm

I want to bring an ex boyfriend back. However after reading about some of the spells, im not sure a reconciliation spell is right for me, as we are not speaking and i thought i saw something saying if we were not on speaking terms not to use that one.

So how do i know which spell would be right?

Also i have no way of collecting items like hair from him. I do have some of his personal belongings though.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 8:28 pm

To cause someone to call you:

In African-American hoodoo, there is a belief that the use of black candle tobacco (twist tobacco, not flaked) is
efficactious in this regard. Folks may soak it in whiskey and then sprinkle a bit of the liquid and the tobacco in
their mail box to draw a letter, on their phone to draw a call, or, i guess, on their computer (carefully!) to draw
email. (http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/white/f ... pells.html)

...further discussion on the Black Tobacco Candle Spell (black-tobacco-candle-t3272s270.html)

Reconciliation Spell kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html)

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 9:32 pm

Actually if you are not on speaking terms the Reconciliation spell kit is ideal for you as it aims at restoring communication and healing the rift.

If you are ever confused about which product to use you can post on the forum or you may get personalized help by consulting with a rootworker.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:10 pm

Deciding which sort of spell to use is not always as simple as deciding "this product or that" -- Reconciliation versus Return to Me, for instance.

How close the parties were at the outset (just Facebook friends versus three children and 25 years under the same roof, for example), the circumstances behind the break-up )anger, cheating, interferring relative, forced reloation due to job or career), the current state of contact between the parties (speaking, not speaking, seeing one another versus not, whether either has gotten into a new relationship, etc.), the length of time together versus the length of time apart (two months together versus ten years apart or ten years together and two months apart) -- all of these will have a bearing on the type of work to be undertaken.

Generally speaking, Reconciliation is used when there has been a quarrel or disagreements. Return to Me is used to heal a separation that is physical. The two are very, very, very often blended. You need not choose just one -- you can always blend the two together in your works.

I suggest, as Ali did, that you might benefit from a consultation with a root doctor who has done this sort of work. Many of the folks in AIRR will combine a divination with a consultation of this sort.

Good luck.

open heart · Unread post by **open heart** » Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:29 pm

Thanks for the help. I believe i will try a consultation

morenitabarbie · Unread post by **morenitabarbie** » Thu Oct 27, 2011 6:48 pm

Hello everyone

I tied my partners dirty boxers in a knot and buried them in our backyard. It backfired apparently because we had a Terrible fight today and he pretty much moved out. Is it possible that I did something wrong?? I had a reading done a few weeks ago on the radio show and I was told that he loved me but felt like I had trapped him with the baby I'm carrying. Pretty much as he was packing his things he said that I used him and trapped him.. I don't know what has happened. Any advice on what to do?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:23 pm

I think I remember that radio show about two weeks ago, although I am thinking ConjureMan gave you some advice to work conjure to soften him and draw him to the idea of accepting the situation. Because I do not remember exactly, I will not attempt to duplicate the advice. However, there is no such thing as conjure backfiring ...and maybe that is a term you are using to indicate something didn't go right. Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) work is what you need to begin a healing process since he walked out.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:52 pm

what did you do with the boxers? what oils, incense, prayers, etc.? Did you just knot them and bury them? I have never done this spell, so I am not an expert, but more info might help you get an answer on the forum. I think a Nation Sack would be what I would do. Its for "keeping" a man. Also, you can get a reading from Ms. Cat for like $10 for 10 minutes...that's pretty darned cheap! And you'd be getting expert conjure advice! Back to the spell, we need to know what you did in order to know if you did something that caused the spell to go wrong.

morenitabarbie · Unread post by **morenitabarbie** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 2:56 am

Thanks for the responses this is exactly what I did: Keeping a Spouse in the Home
This spell was originally used to keep a "wandering husband" in the home, but it can certainly be used on women who like to be out on the town instead of staying by your side. Simply take a pair of their used underwear (panties or boxers/briefs), tie a knot in it and bury it in the backyard of the house. Your partner will be compelled to stay at home by your side and want to spend his time with you.

Of course, with any of these spells, the trick is to pray hard and loud for what you want to accomplish. Call out your lover BY NAME, and command him to love you, stay faithful to you, or stay by your side, and do so in "the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit!" in the true hoodoo fashion.

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 6:58 am

It seemes as if you did it correctly, I'd also recommend the Reconciliation that Jwmcclin had posted, also....if there is a chance for a LOVE ME, RECONCILE or STAY WITH ME HoneyJar that your able to purchase, I'd do so immediately just so he'll stay sweet to you and return home.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

Once you obtain your readinq, and if everythinq qoes accordinq to plan, here is 2 tricks you can do:
1. STAY WITH ME spell kit - [to ensure fidelity and settled-down-ness] lol http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
2. To keep a man faithful, wake up early in the morninq before he qoes to work or school, boil him a tea of your soiled (already worn and used) underwear qarments, up to 9 minutes, then add the soiled water to his tea, or coffee, even a smoothie for him to drink, he'll passionately love you, and keep you by his side...

I'd also recommend these 2 threads for your love situation...qood luck

advice-on-encouraging-a-sexual-need-for-me-t16286.html
break-up-spell-without-knowing-the-pers ... 15959.html

[I recommended these threads because they have details in which may help keep your man to you in a lovinq, kind and qenuine state in the relationship]

Blessinqs Be With You,
TBanks91

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:37 pm

Well, we did warn you that he felt trapped, so at least you were forewarned. Now, given that advice, I personally would have gone with things that would have sweetened him and drawn him to you, not made him feel more trapped. Tying his underwear and burying it in your backyard is to bind a spouse to you, to tie them down so to speak. Its a great old-timey trick aimed at keeping a man home.

I don't believe in backfire, I simply believe that you failed. Your situation is complex and needed more than you knotting up the underwear and burying it. We gave you quite a bit of suggestions on the radio show and I believe you should use them.

morenitabarbie · Unread post by **morenitabarbie** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 1:52 pm

Thank you all for your responses. It seems that this has become a blessing in disguise. I've been hit with all kinds of interesting news the past few days. He physically assaulted me and I kicked him out. The baby is fine and im happy to be Away from him. The next step for me is moving forward and making a life for myself and my children. Thanks so much!

AoD · Unread post by **AoD** » Sat Nov 05, 2011 8:37 am

Alright... I read through a lot of threads on love spells on here, and the forum really is a mine of information. But I am still very confused about what would be best for my situation. Here's the story:

I met someone at university this fall, he's perfect (well, almost). He was interested in me and flirting with me, etc. I slept with him, but we were not dating and kept talking to each other. My roommate convinced me to tell him I wanted a serious relationship with him, and I did. That scared him away because after that he stopped talking to me and became very distant. Then I made the mistake of hooking up with someone he knows (said guy took advantage of the fact I had been partying too hard and I wasn't in any condition to make any kind of logical decision). Basically, after that he really cut all contact with me (although we do share a circle of friends so I see him about once a week and he says hi but that's it).

Now, we are both graduating from university this December so by mid-December I will no longer have the possibility of seeing him as easily because I am moving to a different town for a few months (then, I'm free to move wherever I want, so I could move to where he will be at that point). But that leaves me with little more than a month to at least get him to talk to me on a daily basis again, which will enable me to have a solid background to do more elaborate work on. I know honey jars are great for that kind of reconciliation/sweetening work, but they take a long while to work. I thought of petitioning St. Expedite on that, but I read that he's not the best choice for love work. I am working with St. Marta, asking to bring him back to me and reconcile with me, and I saw some signs but I take it that she might take a while to work. I also started a honey jar last night for reconciliation and sweetening and I am burning a pink candle on it for about an hour daily (my candles are too big to leave them to burn all the way through each day).

Yes, I know that any type of work takes time, but there must be something that will work quicker to at least get us reconciled before the end of the semester? What would be my best bet to speed up things on that front while I continue my long-term work? Can anyone recommend a specific type of spell or saint to petition to get quick results for reconciliation/love? I would rather avoid ordering dressed vigil candles because shipping here (to Canada) is very expensive for those. Here's the supplies I do have (or will soon receive, I placed two orders from LM recently):

-Oils: Love Me, Dixie Love, Kiss Me Now, Triple Love (from a AIRR worker, it's a bit of compelling, passion, love, etc), St. Martha, Compelling, Intranquility, Reconciliation, Return to Me, Reversing.

-Candles: Bride and Groom (pink, red), Adam (red, pink), Eve (red)

-Herbs: Lovage, Orris Root, High John, Cubeb berries, Hibiscus flowers, Catnip, Calamus Root, LM 9 Herb Love mix, Comfrey, Hawthorne leaves, Spikenard, one Jezebel root. I can also get my hands on pretty much any kitchen herb (cinnamon, cardamom, saffron, ginger, etc..) without any problem.

I also have some Adam and Eve bath salts (half a packet), some Come to Me inscence and sachet. I don't have a very nice altar (lack of space, nosy roommate) but if I need to work with saints I usually print their picture and display it on my desk. I can't really get any concerns from him, but I do study in the same faculty as he does so I can lay tricks in the rooms he uses (although they are public spaces) but I can't really lay tricks on him directly since we're not even on talking terms right now. Keeping this in mind, please give me spell suggestions! Thanks in advance for any advice you will give me

Sorry for the extra-long post.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Nov 05, 2011 6:06 pm

First you need to get communication going, which entails the reconciliation product line. Do you have a picture of him? ...or some personal concern? Read about the use of reconciliation products here (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html)

You can work the candle ritual for the reconciliation of estranged lovers , lodestone fidelity love spell and adapt to reconciliation or petition Saint Anthony for the return of lost lovers

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Nov 06, 2011 9:34 pm

Well what do you want from this man? If you are interested in a serious relationship and that made him run away then you two are on different pages and unless that's addressed reconciliation isn't feasible. You need to focus on that first and foremost.

Second, each situation is different. You've mentioned an AIRR worker so ask them which would be ideal for your situation. If they've read on the situation they can generally tell what will work best.

Heartz1 · Unread post by **Heartz1** » Tue Nov 08, 2011 11:55 am

I am having a bit of a dilemma and need advice. I recently entered a relationship with someone and everything seemed to be going well and then he just kind of did a 360 and decided maybe this wasn't working out because of distance issues. I really care for this person and i do not want them to let go so easily especially after just 2 months when i though things were fine. Anyway i have been crying and praying for the past 2 days asking and begging for a miracle of forgiveness and a second chance because i can be a bit deamanding and not understanding at times. I've prayed to Jesus, God, St Jude, and the Virgin Mary. I just want to know what else can i do to make this miracle happen i'm suppose to talk to him via phone today and i have also written an extensive email explaining how i feel because i am better at expressing my feelings in writing, but didn't send it because i thought maybe i should read it to him tonight. He is very stubborn and set in his ways and getting his mind to change is going to be a big challenge he says i am a wonderful woman and he loves me, but the distance is hard and honestly i graduate in one month so i will be much closer to him. I do not want him to give up easily.

I am in desperate need i got out of a difficult horrible relationship and it took a year and a half to recover. This guy i gave a chance to he opened my heart and he is truly special. I do not understand what happened or why these feelings came about, but i can say that his who has hurt him has been texting him he ignores her, but still people can wish ill will on other relationships.

The oils i have are victory, power oil, attraction, follow me boy, come to me oil, blessing oil, love me oil, protection, healing, john the root conqueror, van van, and crown of success.

I really need help i can't focus, im crying, and right now i just need an urgent way to get him to give me this chance and that things end up getting better not worse over time. He claims that things will end badly if he gives me a chance and its cuz he has that set mind set he never gives women a chance only one time and that was with his ex who hurt him badly and he gave her many chances on and off a dysfunctional relationship. I have treated him like i said maybe i can be demanding and the distance is hard, but i honestly believe this is fixable. Please help its urgent at least for things to get reconciled and that this relationship can continue to blossom like i know it can. I want to make a honey jar but i have no hair but i have a picture of us could that be just as effective? HELP!

In desperation,
Heartz1

Heartz1 · Unread post by **Heartz1** » Tue Nov 08, 2011 11:02 pm

UPDATE:

So my boyfriend and i decided to take a break. Honestly, this to me is better than completely giving up. He really is a great guy and we talked all summer and dated for 2 months and everything was good we were happy he was happy we met each others families, but i am away at school and this put a rift on the relationship because i eventually always wanted him to come see me and was demanding about it and i kind of smothered his space and we would fight and argue and we would talk and fix it. And he would tell me that he is interested and happy still and then he did a 360 and wanted to break up because he reached a breaking point/realization that the distance was just not going to get better and he just wasn't feeling the relationship anymore. However, this distance is temporary we both graduate in December and our hectic schedules and stress will be a lot less. I will also be in my own apartment A LOT closer to his house. After talking we decided we needed a break and that maybe in 2 weeks we would see each other over our Thanksgiving breaks. He said i can still text and call him to talk and of course i am going to, but i am not going to be so aggressive because i know that is something i need to change in order for him to see that i am going to respect his space. I know that it will also keep the communication open and show interest instead of completely fading out and i will just keep the conversation casual. I do not want to bring up the issues of the past with us that caused this rift, but focus more on the positive and the things to come with this new change coming for us both in a month.

I will say he is very stubborn and set in his ways this stems from a difficult past relationship where it was on and off and he kept giving chances to someone who was not so good to him which is why he runs as soon as a problem arises because he thinks its always going to get worse because of that old relationship and how it worked. I guess he just really is cautious and has his guard up. He truly is a wonderful guy and I know that this relationship has the potential to blossom into something amazing and i would like for this break to help our relationship and turn into a reconciliation and that the chance that is given to our relationship will really flourish into a good thing. Just wrong timing for it now. I understand that it takes time and patience but i know it is well worth it. I am optimistic and positive about the outcome and i'm shutting all negativity out because i truly believe it hinders things. I have been praying and staying faithful. However, i guess what i want in this time of break is for him not to move far away from me, but to get closer to remember why he loves me and that this relationship is worthy of effort especially with the circumstances changing and working more toward our benefit. I want him to be attracted to me, want romance, and that he think about and just open his heart to me and not close it as soon as he is getting close to me cuz i know he is afraid of getting hurt again so he runs away before it happens. I was thinking of a honey jar to sweeten him up and to call me and text me and follow me and just want to give this relationship the chance we both deserve because i have also been in a dysfunctional relationship and i know where he is coming from, but i am a bit more open despite being hurt cuz he changed that for me and really brought my walls down. He did open my heart and he is special to me and i want him to open his and just feel the same without fear.

If anyone could offer me wonderful advice or who i should pray to or what verses in the bible i would appreciate it.

I have been praying to St jude and lighted a sacred heart of Jesus candle as well as reading the bible like Psalms or random verses i have highlighted in my bible just to keep my praying going and positivity going and keep my mind at ease.

I appreciate all the advice/responses. Thank you!

tyler · Unread post by **tyler** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 3:22 am

Looking at your problem, it may be that she needs some time. My suggestion to you would be that you should give her some time and space, maybe that make her realize that she needs you and comes back to you. While letting her think about it make a honey jar or perform other spells to sweeten her and dress the candles with Return to Me oil and Reconciliation Oil, blended together.

I did the same when my girlfriend broke up with me! I simply left her on her own but made a honey jar, then, after about a week I contacted her. This helped me. Give it a try!

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Thu Nov 10, 2011 12:53 am

UPDATE: 24 Days since last log.

Waiting for 7-11 Holy oil to come in. Things are going slightly smoother. They are comfortable with each other now. Gentleman has been silent but lady has told me thanks in e-mail and says that they should be fine. They have been physically intimate.

Have been continuing work on painted bottle (Reconcilation and blessing/healing) plus honey jar. Probably should have done honey jar sooner, but was waiting for supplies to come in. (Personally feel that honey jar is more effective though seems to strangely work damn slowly.)

I am imagining soon enough they can move in back together and be a happy family– again. So far I see nothing particularly exciting happening. After this is over I shall pass them the honey jar and pretty painted bottles.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Nov 10, 2011 10:57 am

This is an old thread -- the first post was back in April -- but I know there are many folks in similar situations, so:

becks29 wrote:im 29 and she is 19. Weve been going out for 6 months now but 2 days ago she dumped me because of an ex of mine she had a problem with.

... She even told me I was the love of her life and her best friend a few weeks ago. Now I saw her today and she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore, that she couldn't give me what i wanted, be who i wanted as the age gap was an issue ( never ever was before for her) ... I cant understand how she just change her mind so quicly. I really think she is hurt.

She may have begun to suspect, even while she was still calling you "the love of her life," that she couldn't get over the age gap or the thing with your ex -- and "lying" to you be cause she was hoping she could make it true; and then discovering that she couldn't make it happen.

It's a possibility that is rarely considered when couples break up.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Pixie-wish · Unread post by **Pixie-wish** » Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:25 pm

Hi all,
I'm hoping there is someone out there who can help me.
I am a happy customer who has bought her novena candle lightings: Reconciliation and Love me. I have good trust in the people of Lucky Mojo Co.

However I'm wondering how long these thing take to become effective or even last? Is there anything I can do at home to make the magic happen for me? Here's my situation: my boyfriend broke up with me this summer after 4 years of being together. He said I was still beautiful and that he still cares for me, but that this was just something he needed and he fell out of love with me.
I still love him with all my being. We stay in contact every other day.
What can I do?
I have done some candle spells with some small good results. I have tried a honey jar spell I saw online ( I may have done it wrong) and it doesn't appear to be working. Maybe I am just greedy but am seeking trully powerful, positive fast result.
What can I do? I am seeking help. I feel so lost, lonely and confused.
Thank you
If there is another post just like mine please redirect me to it.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:29 pm

Hi there:

First, I recommend that you change your username. "hisdesires" suggests to me that you're making your life all about your boyfriend and what he wants. What do YOU want? Choose something positive and go after it.

Reconciliation work can require a lot of patience. You may wish to get a reading from an AIRR reader. Deacon Millet is excellent at Reconciliation work; you may want to book a reading with him to see why your boyfriend broke up with you and if the relationship is worth saving.

In the meantime, please take care of yourself.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 9:09 am

Hi guys,

Well, the guy I love started pulling back from me a little over a month ago, after I hurt him (according to readings that's the reason). I apologized to him since (although it was a general apology, because we never discussed our feelings I couldn't really say I know I hurt him..). But he's still distant.
He replied to me everytime since but always very cold replies. We used to talk daily, now I only message him once a week or longer (trying to give him time off, which he apparently needs).

Today I messaged him after almost 2 weeks and he didn't reply which worries me I'm losing him. I was thinking maybe trying some reconciliation work going. My problem is I live in a foreign country and in my awaiting orders from LM (waiting for 2 orders) I only ordered love products and no reconciliation stuff (except for the reconciliation oil). Also, I do not have any personal concerns from him..

Any suggestion what simple thing could I do? I also bought a road opener vigil candle to be lit at the LM missionery.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:11 pm

You can also ask the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church to add a Reconciliation candle.

You can start a honey jar and include a prayer or wish for reconciliation on the petition paper.

You can add damiana to your love work -- or the heart-shaped leaf of a violet plant.

Damiana
http://www.herb-magic.com/damiana.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:18 pm

Thank you Miss Michaele, that is very helpful.
I actually have Damiana already. And a love honey jar.. should I make a seperate reconciliation honey jar or is it possible to mix a love honey jar with a reconciliation intention?

And I'll add a reconciliation candle now. Thank you

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 3:05 pm

I believe you can turn a love honey jar into a reconciliation honey jar. Are there paired lodestones in the honey jar kit? That would be fab.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:26 pm

not yet. ordered from LM. when i get my order i'll either redo or just add them if it feels right opening it

thanks missmichaele. i feel a lot better about my honey jar now.

AoD · Unread post by **AoD** » Tue Nov 22, 2011 8:00 am

Alright, sorry for the late reply..

Basically, I would like to remain friends with him at the very least. At least that way if there is a possibility of more than a friendship, we will still be in touch and even if things can't work out I still think he's a great person to have as a friend (I don't meet many people that I get along with so well). And I guess doing further work on him would be easier if we keep in touch. I was waiting to get a reading, because I've been short on money lately, but I just booked a short consultation on the matter and we'll see what happens.

bossladybah · Unread post by **bossladybah** » Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:20 am

I am 8 mos pregnant when I was 2 mos and didn't know I was preggo me and my bf separated ...... I didn't want us to break up but his family kept intruding in our private affairs.....we have been intimate ever since the break up and he admits to me he still loves me and wants to be with me........I love him and think of him constantly ....I did a phone charm spell...he called ....I put his pic under my bed he came into my home.....which he said he would never enter again due to problems with my brother...I have the strength to make the spells work... He is currently with a girl who is homeless and using him as a form of shelter for her and her daughter....but he doesn't see it ....she is using him though...i want them to break up so I can have my family back any suggestions.....should I seek a spell caster

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:37 am

You should get a reading to see what your course of action should be. But on the surface, it seems that he is playing both you and the other woman; he is having his cake and eating it too. A lot of men love the idea of two (or more) women competing for them.

Breaking up your ex and his girlfriend will not guarantee that he will come back to you. You do not know how many other women he may have out there. The other woman may be your rival, but she is not your enemy. Concentrate on his behavior, not hers.

Focus on your baby and get him to pay child support. Do not stress yourself out. Tranquility and Peaceful Home can help, as well as Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom.

bossladybah · Unread post by **bossladybah** » Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:51 pm

She is my rival though..... she knows me and knew about us and secretly went on dates with him.....when we would argue he would go missing....he would tell me he was venting with his friends but in all reality he was being comforted by her .....she also said out her mouth "b@!#$ I got your man now and you will never get him back" a woman I know who cast spells told me that she in fact does have a spell on him....I want him back and I am willing to result to black magic for him.....

Naavle · Unread post by **Naavle** » Sun Dec 04, 2011 12:26 pm

My story is very long and sad. Through it all comes to simple thing. My loved one left me. I really love her deeply. Which spell should I use to get her back? So far I found http://www.luckymojo.com/intranquility.html . Is this it? Help please.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Dec 04, 2011 7:14 pm

That is likely NOT what you want to reach for, since it is much more a harsh and torturous curse, then a love spell. It's calling on a damned spirit from hell to torment the target - not a loving act at all, and one that will likely cause many more issues than it will solve. It's also not at all a work for someone new to the work.

You should be starting with Reconciliation and Return to Me products to draw your loved one back, and encourage forgiveness, and rekindling of romantic feelings. I would recommend working a Reconciliation spell kit, along with a Reconciliation honey jar. You can add some Return to Me oil to the candles that you burn with those two conjures.

You may also want to seriously consider getting a reading and rootwork consultation with one of the AIRR workers to determine what exactly has gone on, and the best way to go about resolving the problems. Sometimes, a relationship will just not be able to be reconcilied, and in those cases the most wise course of action is doing the work necessary to move on and draw a new suitable love. You'll want to know your chances.

Best of luck.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 04, 2011 7:29 pm

Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) and Return To Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html)
AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org)

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Dec 05, 2011 1:45 am

In cultures where warriors are held in high esteem and a fierce curse could socially be regarded as a token of love the Intranquil spirit and its counterparts had a good use. Considering the stress and tendency to wander from lover to lover in modern culture, petitioning these spirits is the last option in love, if ever. It is a gamble in which the petitioner also risk to have more restlessness, confusion and stress added to their own life, when all they wanted was peace of heart.
Many people are already of a restless heart, if your ex. lover is of that nature (a reading will tell) you should consider offering a place for his heart to rest and attract him to that rather than sending a demon to drive him like a mad dog into a den.

The best way to do it is to get clean first. Wash away all that grief, sorrow and hurt with "Cut and Clear" and other cleansing products. Then start building with Loadstones and "Peaceful Home", "Love Me", "Come To Me" and so on.

RebelleFleur · Unread post by **RebelleFleur** » Tue Dec 06, 2011 1:25 pm

Hello everyone!

I'm so very new at this and I just wanted to know if I can get any help from you.

I'll tell you my story so you can give me some advice

My name is Núria, I'm 25 and I'm from Spain.

I was with my ex-boyfriend for 7 years and he left me (and cheated on me but that's not what matters) in July. It was hard but I knew we weren't meant to be, I wasn't happy with him. Well, the thing is I met someone in August, and I felt in love almost inmediately. He's all I ever wanted. We met, we spent the whole night talking, he kissed me and we spent the night together in bed just kissing and cuddling. It was magical, movie-like. We saw each other again during 10 days more or less and everything was perfect, we talked, we laughed, we had sex but then we spent a weekend with my cousin and her boyfriend (who is his best friend) and everyone got mad at my cousin. After that fight he didn't want anything to do with me (I always thought it was because of my cousin, cause he hates her but now he talks to her and not to me). I tried to talk to him by phone, message and even by mail but I got nothing in response. Right now we don't live in the same city but next month I'm moving to his city. I just want him to talk to me, I want to be able to go for a drink with him, to meet, to talk. I'd be lying if I said I didn't want him to be with me... What can I do?

Thank you so much in advance