Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Thu Jul 14, 2011 10:10 pm

Hello all

I am with a great guy, who incidentally I met online in March. After 4 weeks of speaking on the phone, online and on the web, we met up and hit it off instantly. I never had a guy so intensive and so romantic ever! He pulled out all of my seats, opened my door, kissed me constantly no matter where we were and held my hand from the second we met. Obviously I was in doubt about it continuing because we weren't girlfriend/boyfriend, but in May that changed and we all of a sudden became official "as he put it".

We everything is still the same. I still get complements, we text eachother all day every day and he still treats me great. However, it seems that we are stuck in that stage and nothing has moved forward. I mean we are sexually envolved and we go out every week, but it's like he acts like hes in love but he wont say it. Even when I mentioned how I felt, he said im glad babe this makes me very happy and he smiled and hugged me and as I said still treats me the same but he said when I get feelings Ill tell you but for now I have no new feelings to tell but I will soon I know. We constantly text how much we miss eachother and how were thinking of eachother when we donmt see one another, but still he dosent spark. The most he has said is that he feels I am his gift from God sent to make him happy....totally sweet.....but damn I want him to looooove me

What product should I use or conjure to kind of nudge him into love....or at least to get him into the "falling" stage. I just feel like my heart skips a beat everytime I see him and I think he knows it, because everytime I see him and I look at him like that hell kiss me and smile.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Fri Jul 15, 2011 12:34 am

I would recommend you use the love me spellkit.

From the catalog:
"Love Me spiritual supplies are designed to draw a person of the opposite sex closer and cause him or her to openly declare feelings of love."

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html

The spellkit comes with all the supplies and instructions.

Duin1 · Unread post by **Duin1** » Sat Jul 30, 2011 4:45 am

hi there, i was just wondering if anyone has any success stories using these spells recommended here. Would be great to hear stories of how resistant someone was and how their resolve eventually loosened. Thanks

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 10:22 am

You may perform a Marriage spell to get a proposal and/or have your proposal accepted.

Read this website for recommendations on working the spell:

http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html

You can keep a vigil light going at home while you are meeting with your boyfriend.

Good Luck!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 5:48 pm

If you cannot perform the work at home, you can have a Marriage candle set for you on the altar at Missionary Independent SPiritual church.

CAN-MIS-MARR
Marriage Blessings Candle, Set on Our Altar
$20.00

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Thu Aug 18, 2011 9:37 am

Hi everyone, Im trying to get my boyfriend to move closer to me temporarily (He lives a few hours away currently). He has the opportunity to come to my state for his job, but there seem to be some obstacles. Being that we are already in a loving established relationship Im wondering if come to me products would be appropriate? I thought that they were primarily to draw new love to you? Im also confused if follow me boy would be a better option vs. just general attraction oil.

Again we are already in a relationship, Im just trying to remove the obstacles (im adding road opener products) preventing him from moving to my town, because hes made it very clear that he wants to, but currently he cant.

Thanks!

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Aug 18, 2011 10:16 am

Hi Olivialeigh,

since you are already in a relationship with this man, Follow Me Boy (http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html) would probably be more appropriate than Come To Me which is better geared to attracting someone new. Adding the road opener is definitely the way to go to get rid of the obstacles though.

You may also (or rather depending on your inclination) do some lodestone work to bring your boyfriend closer in conjunction with your use of attraction and/or Follow Me Boy. You can read about it here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html; and the Lodestone Spell Kit comes ready to go (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-lodestone.html).

Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Aug 21, 2011 1:05 pm

Follow Me Boy is most definitely the work I would go with! As Aura already stated, the man is with you already...now you just need him to get a little closer! Good luck on your Road Opener work! May you work it with clarity and focus!

-Joseph Magnuson

MissBec · Unread post by **MissBec** » Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:33 pm

I have a long term partner, who I have lived with for nearly two years in a marriage like relationship. I keep pushing for marriage, he keeps telling me to wait (he wants to achieve business goals first, but every time he reaches a goal, he makes a new one). It's the same old story, he has the milk, why buy the cow? He gets all the benefits of marriage, without me getting to be married and I'm sick of it.

I love him with all my heart, and he adores me and gives me everything I ask for (emotionally, physically and most importantly spiritually). It is a wonderful union, but he is scared to marry.

I have done readings, and had readings. All of them state that the love and desire to marry is definetly there (4 of cups, the world, the sun and other cups cards frequently come up). But he doesn't want to marry until "all the ducks are lined up" so to speak.

It's reached a crossroads though. Either I have a ring before our lease is up (December) and a wedding next year, or I go. I'm not waiting any longer, if he wants any more milk, he buys this damn cow.

I have at home (huge variety of coloured candles, pink bride and groom candle, white bride and groom candle, red lovers candle, whole QE root, QE powder, single lodestone; Oils: (Commanding, Blessing, Follow Me Boy, Attraction, Look Me Over, Uncrossing, Crown of Success, Van Van, plus various money/protection oils); Bath Crystals (Stay With Me, Love Me, Dixie Love, Fire Of Love, Attraction, Follow Me Boy, Look Me Over; and a couple of incenses (Attraction and Look Me Over).

I am going to get Love Me oil/bath crystals and Marriage oil/bath crystals.

I am thinking of using Marriage products with Compelling products but not sure how to use them.

I have noticed from experience though that I do much better with bath magic than i do candle magic (have no clue why....maybe because I'm a water sign, or because I'm relaxed enough for things to be effective).

I'm thinking of doing a series of hoodoo baths, and then washing his socks/underwear in the water.

Any suggestions? Any other products you suggest?

I would like a proposal very soon.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Aug 24, 2011 3:49 am

Use Marriage products on the Bride and groom candles and pray for him to propose. Trust in the work and let it go.
Also get some small toy ducks, pray over them and "line them up" hidden under the bed.

Best of luck!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Aug 24, 2011 5:12 pm

Sprinkle some orange water in his food and around your house. Put it in his laundry.

Unread post by **Joann Lee** » Thu Aug 25, 2011 7:51 am

I respectfully think zengirl could benefit from losing the dichotomy in her mind between lust and love.

Men process love sexually and visually. That is how they are. That doesn't mean they are fiends only interested in hookups. A sincere love in a man starts with a strong component south of the waistline, but it doesn't stop there. No man can fall in love from the neck up--it is not possible, even if he is in a wheelchair.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:18 am

No man can fall in love from the neck up

I will very much disagree with you on this statement. I have had every type, size, style, and grouping of women as long term girlfriends. While I understand that a majority of men may possibly be described and categorized as the above quote, we all must remember that each human flame is an individual light unto itself and unfortunately, we often find it easy and convenient to classify people as a group.

I do have a strong sense of attraction to females, however the first thing I am attracted to in a woman is a strong and active brain. This is a MUST! Sounds insincere? I'm very happily married to a wonderful woman who challenges me with her mind, matching me thought for thought in a perfect tandem partnership.

We're not all neanderthals...you just have to have perseverance in looking for someone that is worth being your partner.

Great thread!

-Joseph Magnuson

stelz · Unread post by **stelz** » Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:38 am

All magic aside, you're always going to have guys approaching you who are basically panhandling for "spare sex" right off the bat and incapable of a conversation. It's not the products, there's just a lot of stupid guys out there who immediately try to grill women on whether they have a boyfriend, where they live, etc. You just don't let them attach themselves. There's a lot of satisfaction in putting them in their place right away and it clears space for the real guys.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:42 am

Bravo, stelz! That's a great post! I agree with you....in my life I have been privy to some of the most heinous words and thoughts imaginable, mainly because I saw or heard it done by a terrible guy. That in no way should indicate that ALL men are like this. Love can be a funny game sometimes, and the pay-off can be wonderful. It just takes a lot of time and effort to find what you want and someone that truly appreciates you as well!

-Joseph Magnuson

stelz · Unread post by **stelz** » Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:46 am

Thanks...there's actually a mythological motif called "refusal of suitors"...if you keep at it awhile, the magic eventually happens.

JackieLove · Unread post by **JackieLove** » Tue Aug 30, 2011 1:31 pm

Hello,

I have read the thread. It says to place the root and the candle remains in a mojo bag. Do/Can I make my own mojo bag? I do not see any empty bags in the Lucky Mojo Catalogue.
Im still learning.
I appreciate any help.
Thank You,
FireAnt

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Aug 30, 2011 1:44 pm

Making mojo bags is a much deeper process then just adding correct herbs into a bag. Since you are just learning, I would suggest that get a mojo bag kit from Lucky Mojo that is suitable to your needs since it will come with completely instructions. Or hire one of the AIRR workers to provide you with some magical coaching on how to put together a custom bag for your needs. AIRR member Mamma Starr actually offers an AMAZING teleclass on making mojo bags that I hightly recommend.

You can also start to get an idea of how to craft a mojo bag by reading through these pages and threads:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo.html
mojo-bag,-conjure-hand,-toby,-gri-gri-q ... t9261.html

Lucky Mojo does carry empty bags, though. You can find them in the complete inventory list (http://www.luckymojo.com/lucky-mojo-inventory.html):
BAG-USA-MOBK Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Black $3.00
BAG-USA-MOBL Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Blue $3.00
BAG-USA-MOGR Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Green $3.00
BAG-USA-MOPI Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Pink $3.00
BAG-USA-MOPU Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Purple $3.00
BAG-USA-MORE Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Red $3.00
BAG-USA-MOWH Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, White $3.00
BAG-USA-MOYE Bag - Flannel Flannel Bag for Mojo, Yellow $3.00

JackieLove · Unread post by **JackieLove** » Tue Aug 30, 2011 2:02 pm

Thanks Devi Spring,
I have purchased an empty bag, gosh I looked at the inventory, but apparently in the wrong spot. In the meantime, Im going to read the link you provided. I have some time because a waning moon is about 2 weeks away or so.
Thank you!
FireAnt

maxYoung · Unread post by **maxYoung** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:15 pm

[Young marriages work if couples work for it. My grandparents were together at a young age and got married at the right age. My grandma was 15 and grandpa was 17. They are the sweetest couple I have ever seen.

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:13 pm

Hi All,

I'm sorry if this is not the right place to post the thread - I couldn't discern where to post this query.
Thanks to the LM products and help from AIRR I did bring back my sweetheart in my life – he returned in a platonic way though.
Readings show marriage between us possible but cannot say when. My rootworker says we'll continue with the rootwork but it’s already taken 2 years to get here.

Spells like Come to Me, Follow Me Boy, Skulls, Moving figurals, vigils, honey jars, novenas - all done.

The only option I now see is to reveal all my reading info of 2 years to him and directly ask him if he considers our marriage a possibility.

My rootworker says this may scare him but left the ultimate choice to me - so maybe some perspectives may help.

1. Would revealing reading info to him be a wise step? I feel it'll help him to understand what I've been through and how long I've waited for him

2. Should I light any specific vigil during the time I tell him this?

All readings indicate he is unhappy in his current life, needs to do some soul searching, muster courage and take action. (I'm slightly worried if this may hurt his ego, that I know too much of what's ongoing in his life). I have casually told him that I got some spiritual consultation on us but he doesn't take it too seriously and tells me also not to.

Any thoughts on this will be greatly appreciated!

Unread post by **BLindstrom** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:26 pm

Hello

I can just tell you as a usually tell my clients in situations like this. And that is to set at deadline and a date where you no longer work on your relationship magically or have any more readings.
Sometimes making a decision is a magical act in itself, releasing a lot of energy that will have to have a new focus. And no one can make those kind of decisions for you. That guidance has to come from wthin youself. Have you tried good old praying?

My personal opinion is that you should not present the readings to him if he has no intrest in such topics at all.
If the readings shows that he feels misrable in his life, why not try to set some vigil candles alone just for him, instead of focusing on your relationship with eachother? Maybe a John the Conqurour candle and a Blessing Candle will be a nice thing to set for him?

Luck and Blessings
Miss Benedikte

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 8:33 pm

I wouldn't present it at any costs but that's my personal opinion. I keep all work private.

MissBec · Unread post by **MissBec** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 10:17 pm

Thank you both!!!

Mama Micki I've been sprinkling orange water around and already he's started to talk about marriage more without prompting. Wonderful advice!!! Its definitely got him thinking.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 12:23 am

path2success wrote:The only option I now see is to reveal all my reading info of 2 years to him and directly ask him if he considers our marriage a possibility...My rootworker says this may scare him but left the ultimate choice to me - so maybe some perspectives may help.

Your reader is right. If the man has some serious religious reverence and respect for what readers say, strong enough to outweigh all other feelings then it might make a positive difference. Most likely short lived, but still a difference.
If he does not have this great reverence, telling him so will most likely help you to end any possibility of marriage and make him think you are desperate, scary and wierd.

Possibilities of marriage does not always mean a happy marriage, a marriage that will be of most benefit to the two of you or even a marriage that will last longer than a Vegas night. If the readers concurred that this will lead to a good and lasting marriage for both parties, then you should continue the hard work. If not - well.. Many women ruin half their life just because they decided a certain man is Mr. Right. They forget the thousands of other good men that are out there, who may be more suitable in every way, just because of their own strong feelings.
It usually ends up with bitterness either way. Bitterness within a marriage with the reluctant Mr. Right or bitterness in solitude towards the unfairness of life and men and the universe in general.

Many tend to think up their own version of what a "soul mate" should be and try to force a man into it - "You are Mr. Right - you just do not know it yet! I will teach you and show you!". While they are occupied in the struggle with this, the real soul mates have no chance of entering their life.

Cut and Clear is a very good spell. It can make a person ready for a soul mate, receptive for the experience of real love and romance and may open the eyes and heart to something beautiful. Letting go can sometimes be the only way to get what one wants in a marriage. It is not a man named Mr. "Right" or "Left". It is the experience of being loved, cherished and cared for a long time by a man who do so willingly.
Putting that in a spell instead of banging ones heart against a concrete wall named "Mr. Right" usually produce results much faster.

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:17 am

Thank you all for all your perspectives!

Miss Bendikte - your're right, just plain old prayer from the heart to find peace now. I did a lot of meditation for a month to get guidance from my inner being to decide but the indication I got and physical reality are not the same.

Dr. Johannes you've explained it so perfectly. It's a cycle one gets into, despite logic & reason pointing the other way and heart takes over the mind. I wouldn't have understood this few years ago but having been through it all, every word you've said sounds true.

Maybe not be a good idea to tell him now (though he expressed that he wouldn't mind seeing it, so he also gets a perspective of what i was told)

This case was not about forcing him to love, he already does, he has loved & cared for me since 8 years which is why we feel strongly attached to each other. We've had dreams of our kids, of our future life. The only problem here is his family did not accept me, still doesn't & he has not learnt to say no to his family. He tells me he's gonna be there for me for life and even the next, but marriage topic he is helpless. He wants to know how he can help to reduce my pain, because seeing me suffer like this is making him sad & though we've had discussions many times, we've not been able to reach a conclusion. He says it's not that he doesn't want to do certain things but that he can't do them. So now I've realized this setup is not healthy. I just had to give him some time to see if he could take the decision rather than regretting in life that I didn't try enough for us. Now I'm in peace that I gave it my best, I know did all I could for us - I lived up to the promise we had given each other of giving our all to our relationship.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 9:31 am

I see. That is another matter. Show him the readings then. Did you get an astrology reading as well? Those are of tremendous importance to parents in some cultures and may be good to add (if it looks good).

But by the looks of what you are saying, you are ready to let him go and start clearing the path to a good marriage with someone else.
Sane action may sometimes be a bitter medicine, but it usually helps. Stock up on Cut and Clear products, Black Wahlnut baths and a big batch of Majoram (to ease the sorrow while releasing), Lemon Balm (to cut and open the way for new love) and Hyssop (for dips of self blame and to help forgiveness procedures).
Best of luck to you.

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 4:34 pm

Thank you Dr. Johannes! The seed of Cut and Clear is sown in my mind because of the unbearable pain but I feel a strong pull towards him. Astrological Report - we are very compatible. We blend perfectly. Any arguments - we always resolve very amicably because we care for each other. For his family the problem is I'm a Catholic he's a Hindu so I'm unacceptable to them. So maybe we will love each other all our lives but may not be able to unite

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:14 am

Before you do a cut and clear, think of this. I can tell you love this person very much and he loves you back. You love him enough to do 2 whole years work of magic. You're determined as hell.

Must have had a reason, in which the AIRR worker still does this work for you. If they are anything like me, I'd refuse to do work for someone in which I see it looks hopeless or for the worst.

It probably has crossed your mind but I'll say it anyway. Which do you love more, your religion, or him? If religion is the only thing standing in the way (and not race) then convert. Go on, become a Hindu. Sometimes you need to give up something to gain another. All's fair in love and war. Your love may not be a lion to stand there and fight opposition which is his family, but you love and accept him knowing it is his nature. Why not give in and convert? It is his family which is the problem not yours.

If you cannot do this, do the cut and clear. Be thankful your case apparently seems not very complicated due to just one factor: religion. I've seen much more worse.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 12:59 pm

The religion itself may not be the issue.

In many places religion and culture are inseparately intertwined, along with many social conventions that someone from outside that culture has simply no way of broaching - whether or not they convert to the religion. I know many Indian Hindus, and while some are open to non-Indians marrying into their families and see no problem with those outside the culture integrating, many are not. It's not just religion issues, it can be related to notions of caste, and all kinds of other things. In that case, if you're from outside the culture, you have no standing. There's no way to remedy that. As my one friend who comes from such a family said, "a non-Indian can worship Hindu gods all they like, but they will never be Hindu". It sounds as if her lover comes from a family that takes this kind of standpoint. And despite whether we agree with that, or even whether other Hindus agree with that or not, that is how it will be with them.

In such a case, unless the lover decides to go against his entire family, there will always be problems.

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 7:30 pm

That's true Devi

...

Jinglepop thank you, you've understood me so perfectly...Even though I've said cut n clear i still haven't been able to act on it...I have my vision of our wedding in my mind's eye even more stronger than before and this time with open eyes..We love each other very much but I don't think his family will accept me even if I convert .Though, that never occurred to me. I can mention this to him..

Thanks everyone... If only people could understand it's love , care and affection which is required for 2 people to be happy more than anything else...

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 8:56 pm

path2success, go ask him. And tell him to be honest. If you are so despised by his family,they would have told him to not even be friends with you. Tell us of your results, at least I want to know how this goes. If you ask me, try and hoodoo his family into liking you. Maybe you've been working on the wrong thing, you should work on sweetening his family not just him!

Love is a beautiful thing and it depends entirely if or not you want to fight for it. Although what Devi Spring says is true, if you are willing to live with the fact that his family might not always like you, but as long as you have him. Go for it.

If you're going to meet his family, go calm and sincere. I say you've come this far, go ALL THE WAY. Even if you fail, you'll at least feel that its justified that you did your very best and have been satiated. Then when you know there is nothing more you can do, do the cut and clear.

I sense you are unable to just see him as a friend as long as he exists. If you fail do a cut and clear. If your feelings are so strong, you may have to keep away from him to spare yourself the torture. I understand your pain, and pray for your success. And remember, if you won't keep us updated on what happens, at least PM me. I want to know how this plays out.

May the fates be kind to you.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 9:38 pm

I'm sorry, but if his family is that important to him then them not liking you is an issue. Your love may be great, but in many cultures love is not seen between two people, but between two families. I think you've been given some good advice by seasoned workers like Devi Spring, Dr. Johannes, and Miss Benedikte--take them into consideration.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 12:03 am

Do Cubeb berries pop while burning? Has this ever happened to anyone?

Thx,
Hapinys

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 12:53 am

Me and my huni have been together for 6 months . We met online in March and spoke by text, phone and messenger and then stepped it up to webcam and then met in person about a month later. We hit it off instantly and have been together ever since. We txt eachother everyday and see eachother about twice a week from May onward...

I have been looking for a bigger apartment so I can expand my office and also because I live with my roomate (my x's mother) I really wanna be out of here. Me and the current love discussed getting an apartment close to him so he could spend more time with me and the neighborhood’s nice and prices are good. I agreeed and found the place.

Here’s the thing....my health got kinda bad for a bit so I have been just extremely fatigued and unable to do my normal workload. I am better now, but I have that lagging after illness fatigue..ugh! The apartment is unrented still as if it is waiting for me. I am a writer and I get paid for my writings daily so the money isnt an issue but me being tired is......

Also he is being very patient waiting (over a month now) and still sweety and baby's me everyday through txt, but our relationship is stuck. He says it will get better once we can spend more time together and for me not to worry because im his and hes mine and nothing has changed. But I have fallen in love with him.
I told him one day after we were intimate that I had something to tell him. He asked what it was and held my hand and I told him I was falling in love with him and he displayed a huge smile and said are you sure? And I said yes, he said have you thought this out and concluded this? and I said yes then he said good good im very happy, this is good.

He says he has no changes in his feelings and that once he did he'd tell me. I asked why not, he said because I feel if we spend more time together we can only go forward and not backwards and my feelings will expand for you I know all it takes is being around you. Then he texts me saying he cares for me and is still as attracted to me as he was from day one, which is new because he never even says that much about his feelings. He’s gone from calling me huni to darling and luv and babe so I know something is changing.

Here's my questions:
What can I do/use to:
1. Give me more energy so I can get my work done...
2. Continue his patience....
3. Increase his feelings for me...or want to be around me more (on dates like we used to be all kissy and touchy, we still are just not as intense)
4. Speed up getting the apartment (funds for it)

Also everytime I think of doing a honey jar on him I mean right as its in my mind because I feel sad or stressed hoping that he dosent go away from impatience, he texts me calling me sweety or huni and says hes thinking of me. This happens EVERY SINGLE TIME im about to do work on him? Why is that?

JackieLove · Unread post by **JackieLove** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:15 am

ConjureMan Ali wrote:I personally wouldn't crush the Cubeb berries. The way I work this is to studd the candle with them. Yes they will fall out, yes they will burn and pop, but that's the point. Every time you push that berry into the candle you are pushing through their resistance and everytime those pop its a break through.

Hi Hapinys,
I found this by ConjureMan Ali. Its on page 2 of the thread.

FireAnt

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:29 am

mrslight wrote:Me and my huni have been together for 6 months . We met online in March and spoke by text, phone and messenger and then stepped it up to webcam and then met in person about a month later. We hit it off instantly and have been together ever since. We txt eachother everyday and see eachother about twice a week from May onward...

I have been looking for a bigger apartment so I can expand my office and also because I live with my roomate (my x's mother) I really wanna be out of here. Me and the current love discussed getting an apartment close to him so he could spend more time with me and the neighborhood’s nice and prices are good. I agreeed and found the place.

Here’s the thing....my health got kinda bad for a bit so I have been just extremely fatigued and unable to do my normal workload. I am better now, but I have that lagging after illness fatigue..ugh! The apartment is unrented still as if it is waiting for me. I am a writer and I get paid for my writings daily so the money isnt an issue but me being tired is......

Also he is being very patient waiting (over a month now) and still sweety and baby's me everyday through txt, but our relationship is stuck. He says it will get better once we can spend more time together and for me not to worry because im his and hes mine and nothing has changed. But I have fallen in love with him.
I told him one day after we were intimate that I had something to tell him. He asked what it was and held my hand and I told him I was falling in love with him and he displayed a huge smile and said are you sure? And I said yes, he said have you thought this out and concluded this? and I said yes then he said good good im very happy, this is good.

He says he has no changes in his feelings and that once he did he'd tell me. I asked why not, he said because I feel if we spend more time together we can only go forward and not backwards and my feelings will expand for you I know all it takes is being around you. Then he texts me saying he cares for me and is still as attracted to me as he was from day one, which is new because he never even says that much about his feelings. He’s gone from calling me huni to darling and luv and babe so I know something is changing.

Here's my questions:
What can I do/use to:
1. Give me more energy so I can get my work done...
2. Continue his patience....
3. Increase his feelings for me...or want to be around me more (on dates like we used to be all kissy and touchy, we still are just not as intense)
4. Speed up getting the apartment (funds for it)

Also everytime I think of doing a honey jar on him I mean right as its in my mind because I feel sad or stressed hoping that he dosent go away from impatience, he texts me calling me sweety or huni and says hes thinking of me. This happens EVERY SINGLE TIME im about to do work on him? Why is that?

Hi there,
I think your situation sounds pretty straightforward. The only thing I would caution you on is making sure that the fatigue is not physical or psychological in nature. Go to the Dr and get a physical, tell them what's going on, make sure they check your thyroid. As far as psychological--I have seen stuff like this happen when there is a part of a person that is ready for a chance and change but another part that is not-holding onto old wounds, old fears, old patterns. So make sure neither of those things are at play! Now..onto your questions!

Honey jar--Lucky Mojo sells honey jar spell kits that have everything you need. You can also hire a worker from AIRR to fix a jar for you, though they may require a reading first.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

1. Give me more energy so I can get my work done...
I like High John the Conqueror for vitality, since you are a writer I would combine it with KS Wisdom and Crown of Success:
http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

2. Continue his patience....
Stay with Me

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

3. Increase his feelings for me...or want to be around me more (on dates like we used to be all kissy and touchy, we still are just not as intense)
Dixie Love:
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
Kiss Me Now (use in combo with something else like Love Me or Dixie Love as this particular formula focuses on the physical):
http://www.luckymojo.com/kissmenow.html
Fire of Love:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html

4. Speed up getting the apartment (funds for it)
Money Drawing and Money Stay with Me!
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html

Good luck and blessings,
Bri

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:18 am

Thank you so MUCH. I do have hormone issues(PCOS) but everytime I think about working too many hours I automatically feel sleepy. I used to be able to pull it off when I was in my 20s but since I hit 31.. forget a bout it! lo So it is a bit phsychological. Since if we go on dates I can be wide awake but the moment I sign into my work database I feel zapped.

And what about the very end of my post about what happens everytime I'm about to do work? Why do you think that happens. (Refer to the statement under my last question in the original post)

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:18 pm

Oh, yes, they can definitely pop. I always recommend being careful with this candle by watching it and setting it somewhere safe. Sometimes the cubeb berries go flying, sometimes they don't. Either way it is best to be safe.

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:08 pm

All of them are burning very calmly....eerie actually all burning at the same speed too, but the kiss me now candle stopped. It was dressed in oils but it burned down the middle and stopped completely. He txted me around this time asking how I was and what i was doing....the other candles are all fine but that one stopped...what should I do ?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:17 pm

See if you can get it going again. Part of candle work is working the candle in the instances that it burns oddly. In this case I would say that you may find obstacles and delays to having that particular angle of your work take hold, and that you'll need more work on that.

So see if you can get that candle burning again, and then look at what other ways you may approach that goal. You could get a reading with a rootworker to help you get to the bottom of it: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Next time try to save the candle before it goes out completely.

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:25 pm

Okay I will

Yea its weird the Dixie, Fire of love, stay with me and the candle on the jar all burned perfectly and the kiss me now one was like na i dont think so and snuffed out lol. Its weird that the stronger candles are burning strong and the lightest of them all cut out.

mrslight · Unread post by **mrslight** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 4:28 pm

Devi Spring wrote:See if you can get it going again. Part of candle work is working the candle in the instances that it burns oddly. In this case I would say that you may find obstacles and delays to having that particular angle of your work take hold, and that you'll need more work on that.

So see if you can get that candle burning again, and then look at what other ways you may approach that goal. You could get a reading with a rootworker to help you get to the bottom of it: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Next time try to save the candle before it goes out completely.

Okay Devi, upon inspection There is a hole straight down the middle of the candle with no wick at all....its like the wick dissapeared and the candles still whole looking from the outside?

tikiwiki1001 · Unread post by **tikiwiki1001** » Sat Oct 01, 2011 9:41 pm

Hi Conjureman Ali, how can I apply this spell for a gay/lesbian relationship? Do I need to alter anything like the herbs (John the conqueror, elizabeth root). Thanks!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Oct 02, 2011 6:19 pm

Nope. It can be used for any type of love relationship!

tikiwiki1001 · Unread post by **tikiwiki1001** » Mon Oct 03, 2011 2:31 am

Then there's no need to alter the spell except to use the appropriate oil (Follow Me Girl, if the target is female)? How about the candles, if we're both females do I need to substitute the Adam and Eve candles with two female figural candles? And how about this part "Place a John the Conqueror root in front of the Adam candle and a Queen Elizabeth root in front of the Eve candle" should I do it as it is? (Really sorry for the many questions, just want to make sure I do it correctly)

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Oct 04, 2011 7:49 pm

I wonder... can this be burnt on top of a honey jar?

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Tue Oct 11, 2011 7:38 am

CM when you said load them, what that mean? the herbs are around the Adam and Eve candles or with the black candle too. one more question, the only candle to move is the black candle?

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:42 am

i finish the jumbo candle spell and he called me few hours latter, he's sill distance but i feel that he's more quitet. to be sure that everything will go fine i just started the second spell with the Adam and Eve. Thank you CM Ali , i love your tricks. To be honest i don't think he's taking those classes very seriously i'm pretty sure that's excuse, the reason that he broke me is another woman in his country but now the ball is in my court. she is miles away and he's here near me and St. Martha never leaves me alone.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:26 am

Well I do know a thing or two about such things

. I am glad the spell worked wonderfully for you.

As to "loading" it is term for preparing a candle by stuffing it herbs and such.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Wed Oct 12, 2011 3:25 am

what you know about such things, i'm confused.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:25 pm

It was a figure of speech in reference to your success with my spell.

Emjae · Unread post by **Emjae** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 6:33 am

Someone asked this earlier and I am curious about this too. Conjuman, would you think this is okay to burn on top of a honey jar, particullarly if you are using a 6" candle? (I could not see placing a jumbo candle on the honey jar) But it seems it might give the honey jar some extra oomph. Or do you think it might be too harsh for the honey jar? Thanks!

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:57 pm

to updated my spell. i'm doing the one with Adam and Eve Candles. well i'm in the 5 days, Adam is almost melted with a lot of pool of wax and for she had only burned until the chest with not to much wax, the black candle has some tears not to much wax. some advice, please.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 6:49 am

When it says to carve 'so and so's resistance' on the black candle am I right in thinking you carve the name of the person, and not the words 'so and so's', whose resistance is to be overcome.
Also. there are no crossroads in this area so is it ok to collect the dirt from what used to be crossroads but one of the roads is now blocked off?
Thanks for any advice.

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:14 am

yes, you carve the person's name. ConjureMan Ali's use of "so and so" was meant as a placeholder for the person's name considering the name can be anything.

I would not use a crossroads where one of the streets is blocked off. You dispose of things at a crossroads so that the energy is dispersed to the four corner of the world. You want an open road in each direction. I would look for another. There are probably plenty more crossroads than you realize. It is just two intersecting paths. Try a park, maybe, if you have to collect dirt.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 8:19 am

So it can be crossing paths? it doesn't have to be actual roads? There is a large park near my home so i guess there are a few crossed paths there.
Thank you AmaSarah for your help.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 10:15 am

I agree, don't use a blocked road--you want to open roads, not close them. A crossroads is any street or path where they meet and cross like "X" "+"

serafin · Unread post by **serafin** » Sun Oct 23, 2011 9:11 am

Hi to you all.I am new here..but i learn a lot from this amazing site!

Today i start a honey jar on a guy i ve been seeing now a couple of months.We start like nothig seriouse..but i think i start to fall in love and hes trying to keep same distance. Hes kind of a ladys man..and is not up to a relationship.

I read a lot here on this forum and today i finally made the honey jar.I add on the paper his name my name my petition written in circle..and in there i add my hair his hair 2 rose petals red his picture and his finger nails and some hair from when he was shaving in my bathroom.I wrap the paper eat 3 spons from the honey jar and after i stick the folded paper inside.

Now a red candle is burning in the top of my love honey jar and i sourounded it with 7 tea lights candels and i put in the back of my honey jar a pix of us together holding each other.Is that corect?What else shall i do.

I understand that honey jars are working well with other love spells so i have decided to make a doll baby..as well.

I havent start this yet but i want to make it today.I have a tshirt he wear and clean his nose on it ,i still have some hair and facial hair since he shaved in my bathroom...plus some nails clipps ..Got ginger to carve dolls manhood, got cinemon, got his pix, catnip and cinemon stick.

Can anyone please tell me if i am gonna do the right thing with all this personal concerns?

Any response will be big help.I am trying to make the baby doll today so please post some of ur opinions.
Many thanks.

Serafin

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