Reconciliation Spell Kit Honey Jar Kit and Painted Bottle Spell Questions and Answers

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:39 pm

ShadowyEmbrace, are you saying that you are antzy about writing the letter? Just don't include anything 'heavy' focus on keeping the letter 'light.'

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:43 pm

Well it says to write a letter asking to be reconcilled. She told me that "She would tell me when she's ready not to ask" So I can't write a letter asking to be reconcilled and get back together then can I? Or am I just suppose to be crossing my fingers that within the next 9 days the spell goes 100% I mean I have faith in my magic but I'm worried if I do that it'll just make her back way off if it hasn't done the trick. I write her 'light' and goofy letters all the time she get them and say 'that was sweet' but I'll just write a letter about some good time and how much I enjoyed it not a letter saying lets get back together she's made it clear she will tell me that when she is ready.

Sparkles · Unread post by **Sparkles** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 9:07 pm

My friend, let go of the nervousness and .. reach for that jar labelled 'Confidence' !! You have come this far, have faith that you will reach your goal (faith can move mountains after all!

). Spellwork will feed off the energy that you exhibit, and uncertainty, worry, nervousness, confusion, these are all doubt instigators which in turn will do no favours for the hard work that you have already put in.

I would wait it out for the next 9 days- maybe your lack of action is what will add that vital ingredient to kick-start or push along in the direction that you want. Universal energies need time to make manifest for you that which you desire. The cake is in the oven, so let it cook at a temperature that suits it; by turning up the heat are you likely to make it cook faster and be how you want it or burn it totally? ..

She has said that she will let you know when she is ready, right? So, trust that she means this. If that were me, I would be saying in a subtle way that I need space, please give me room and time to breathe, until I can be sure or be close to figuring out my feelings for you. Give her the privilege of missing you a little, Shadowy..

I wouldnt be worried that if you back off that she will too - in fact, in relationships, when women do too much for a guy, 9 out of 10 chances are that he will start to lose interest. However, the less you do for him, the more he is interested. Weird, but that is how it goes.. I suspect, that in some way, us women, deep down react similarly when a guy shows too much interest. Its the pressure factor.

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 10:51 pm

Hi, I addressed this same exact issue when it was my turn. Water it down if you have to but send that letter. There is more value in that the letter is tricked than in the words you have written on the page.

Take a look at my thread and all the responses I got there. It gave me the courage to go for it.... The thread is called, "I just can't mail that letter..."

good luck!

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Wed Jul 14, 2010 12:20 pm

Darn it I think I screwed up the crossroads part this morning I got up early and went to the crossroads. The directions said to "Throw the water over your left shoulder toward the sunrise in the east" I was facing east and threw the water over my left shoulder west I guess I'm going to have to redo it tomorrow morning and start work tomorrow night?

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:25 pm

I'm placing my order today, I understand what fixed means LoL but I'm not exactally sure what the deal is b/t the two b/c the description says that you fill in the unfixed jar so what comes in the fixed one?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:48 pm

The fixed one comes with the contents that are needed. The unfixed jar comes with nothing. No contents.

"Painted bottle spells that have not been fixed are empty of contents and you may select your own ingredients and fill them to your own specifications."

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbottles.html

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:50 pm

Okay one other question then if ordering the fixed jar can I then add other items? I.E. pictures or just leave it as is?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jul 22, 2010 2:05 pm

Yes, it comes with directions. You are expected to add your own personal concerns.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Thu Jul 22, 2010 2:09 pm

KK Thanks starsinthesky7 that's all I needed to know.

missyd915 · Unread post by **missyd915** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 4:52 pm

Hi All
So ive just completed the 3rd mornig of the ritual for the reconcilliation spellkit and i have a problem with the candle, it is buring down way too fast, i marked 9 spaces for the 9 mornings of lighting it but tonight it just seems to have burned so incredibly fast. I will make it last 9 days i'll have to keep a close eye on it and brn for a short space of time. Im just wondering if any of the more experienced hoodoo practictioners would see this as a sign of anything, good or bad? Also the male side of the candle has run wax to heck and back tonight which is why i think it's burned down so fast, im talking loads of wax in 2 pools from his side which im thinking might mean something? Any insight with this would be much appreiciated.
Many Thanks

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 6:07 pm

It could mean anything - the spell is hitting your target, or it's not hitting home considering the large amount of dripping wax. I wouldn't discuss ongoing work on a public forum - it contaminates the energy, others' thoughts and opinions. Also you'd want to withhold your 'judgment' until the candle is finished. Then I'd wait for at least three weeks to see movement and to get a reading on how things are going.

missyd915 · Unread post by **missyd915** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 6:42 pm

Hi All
Ive been working a reconcilliation spellkit and have just completed the 8th morning and have one more to go, but when i went to pinch out the bride and groom candle both the wicks came off in my hand, ive managed to stick them back in for the final morning of the spell. I was just wondering if this will affect the spell in any way?
Any help appreiciated.
Many Thanks

Elveta · Unread post by **Elveta** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 7:53 pm

missyd915 wrote:Hi All
Ive been working a reconcilliation spellkit and have just completed the 8th morning and have one more to go, but when i went to pinch out the bride and groom candle both the wicks came off in my hand, ive managed to stick them back in for the final morning of the spell. I was just wondering if this will affect the spell in any way?
Any help appreiciated.
Many Thanks

I have that same spell kit. Haven't used it yet. Am not willing to send that lettertlo the target.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 8:20 pm

Well, the letter is the key to the whole thing Elveta.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 9:18 pm

missyd915 wrote:Hi All
Ive been working a reconcilliation spellkit and have just completed the 8th morning and have one more to go, but when i went to pinch out the bride and groom candle both the wicks came off in my hand, ive managed to stick them back in for the final morning of the spell. I was just wondering if this will affect the spell in any way?
Any help appreiciated.
Many Thanks

If you're able to, finish the spell and then get a reading on the matter. It could be a mundane thing and have no significance whatsoever, but just be safe and get a quick reading.

It might also be a good idea to get a candle snuffer.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 11:07 pm

most likely it's a mundane issue, the wicks are a little short and don't quite reach the bottom of the candle, so they come off or drown in the wax towards the end sometimes.

missyd915 · Unread post by **missyd915** » Sun Aug 01, 2010 4:55 am

Thanks guys, am glad to hear that the wicks have done this before and its not just me. Im balking a little bit at the letter as my ex is not the type to be pushed, he's been coming closer recently and ive been making progress but my feeling is that if i bring up our relationship or getting back that it will push him ten steps back (he's a conntrol freak). Ive got bill info i can send him and perhaps a note saying it would be nice to meet for a chat just the two of us? If the point is to get him into contact with the powders/oil and not so much the words?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Aug 01, 2010 6:07 am

Miss Cat says the letter is just meant to basically say "Hi - thinking of you". It's not meant to get deep or sappy or pushy. It's a TRICKED letter - you need to get it into your target's hand so that they touch it. So, just write something neutral and pleasant and then send it at the point in the spell where you are instructed to.

missyd915 · Unread post by **missyd915** » Sun Aug 01, 2010 6:21 am

Thanks for clarifying that for me Devi, thats what i thought really that the main point was getting the spell materials onto them pysically rather than the actual words of the letter. I also saw him a few days ago and managed to get some oil on his tap handles and car keys, and some powder over a dirty towel he left laying on the floor. Fingers crossed i have good feelings about this spell!

Elveta · Unread post by **Elveta** » Sun Aug 01, 2010 8:19 am

Devi Spring wrote:Well, the letter is the key to the whole thing Elveta.

I realize that but I also work part time for this man, we are very good friends, former lovers, and I don't want to endanger working relationship and friendship.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:13 pm

here is my situation

I recently got into an argument with my significant other. We reconciled but i havent heard from him in a week. So Im confused about our relationship status. I had a reading prior to this saying that we had an amazing connection and that we were both in love and crazy about each other and it was all positive. However now, Im wondering if I screwed that all up? I have a honey jar starting this week, but now Im wondering if reconciliation work is in order as well? We did make up, but Im wondering if it wasnt a real reconciliation and more him just being nice?

I have never not heard from him for this long since we've been together. He usually calls me everyday.

We arent angry with each other anymore, but I feel like the love is fading? I dont know if recon work is really appropriate. Would a honey jar in theory boost this and bring things back to the way we were? or even make us love each other more than we did before?

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:47 pm

I'd recommend you get another reading due to this turn of events. Remember that readings aren't set in stone and something small can change the entire outcome you were told. IMO, it sounds like he might still be a little miffed, but there's really no way to tell without a reading. I would personally hold off on the reconciliation work until you know exactly what's going on as it might be unneeded. A simple talk might fix things.

Doing a honey jar is a good idea if you'd like him to be sweeter towards you, but that alone isn't going to put the spark back into the relationship. If you're looking to boost your relationship, I'd look into using Fire of Love and/or Chuparrosa products in conjunction with the honey jar.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:59 pm

Have you tried to contact him Olivialeigh?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 12:01 am

I would not wait for a reading. A week is too long. Call him, make nice, pray for reconciliation and work for it spiritually as well.

If a reconciliation can be effected, remember that Return to Me is another good line of herb-based supplies that is intended to bring a lover back.

Blessing, and good luck.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 6:08 am

Thanks everyone. I will contact him, keep things light and play nice. If he rejects me and refuses to respond, then he rejects me.. I'll just have to do deal with that. I keep waiting for him to contact me first. He always has in the past. I hate swallowing my pride and making the first move. I guess in this case I have to

satc_fan84 · Unread post by **satc_fan84** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:38 am

Hello, i am going to buy a spell kit and a honey jar kit.

What i would like to know is if bought a Reconciliation spell kit, could i also add other ingredients to it, such as Love Me and Commanding powders and oil?

And the same theory for a Honey Jar Kit -- would it be ok to add additional ingredients?

Thanks.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 7:45 am

Commanding products are not exactly compatible with a Reconciliation honey jar, which is to sweeten someone to you and have them forgive past problems.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 10:56 am

There is an Influence and Commanding Honey Jar kit, if that is the way you want to go.

satc_fan84 · Unread post by **satc_fan84** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 1:54 pm

It's just my situation is tricky, and it's not going to be a straight forward love spell.

i will need to introduce a bit of force with it, and i was wanting to use a spell kit and also a honey jar to have to working at the same time.

thanks for your replies

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 2:39 pm

If your case is a tricky one, and one in which you will need to be working with controlling and love elements, then I would strongly suggest that you have a reading and consultation done on your case by a good rootworker. They'll help you formulate the best plan of attack for things.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 2:59 pm

satc_fan84, I agree with Devi, browse through the AIRR (Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers) list of respected readers...found here http://readersandrootworkers.org/

Elveta · Unread post by **Elveta** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:11 pm

Devi Spring wrote:Miss Cat says the letter is just meant to basically say "Hi - thinking of you". It's not meant to get deep or sappy or pushy. It's a TRICKED letter - you need to get it into your target's hand so that they touch it. So, just write something neutral and pleasant and then send it at the point in the spell where you are instructed to.

If it's just a matter of having the target touch the reconciliatin powder, oil, I have access to his office and am able to lay tricks anytime that I want.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 9:14 pm

AIRR also has magical coaching services where an experienced rootworker can walk you through the spellwork, the prayers, and the tricks that you may need.

satc_fan84 · Unread post by **satc_fan84** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 11:12 am

Thank you all for ur replies!!!

I have paid for a reading already, i'm just waiting to see what the reply is, and i have also paid for work to be done.

Its just i want some hands on myself, and theres that much stuff to buy on this website (its like shopping for lip sticks haha) i love it.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 12:47 pm

That's a really great way of putting it, Devi. The "Amen" at the end of a prayer. I like that.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 8:30 pm

Hello all!

Now I have looked over the spell kit options, but I'm not quite sure if the pink couple candle would work best for me in the reconciliation spell. I'm looking for more focus on my husband then myself. Would it be more effective if I also got a red or pink nude male figure candle and used it to add more specific energy just for him during my overall spell? or simply replace the couple candle with the male figure?

Any suggestions or opinions? thanks for your time.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 9:25 pm

What if you don't have a way to hand over or send a letter to the target?

would it work if I placed the letter or a quick note into our son's diaper bag? Maybe in between the diapers so that when he goes to get one he will at least touch it.

I doubt his willingness to read anything from me at the moment.

Unread post by **corazon** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 9:43 pm

I think the effect of the couple candle is supposed to represent the relationship and you two working together. Honestly, I would do the spell as it comes from the shop.

You could probably augment the spell work with a plain pink candle and write your husband's name on it with a prayer that he comes around...

just my 2 cents..
good luck!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 10:27 pm

You are working a spell with the kit that will start to get him to turn towards you in love and affection once more. If nothing else his curiosity will be piqued if you give him a letter and he'll read it it and thus get the trick on him.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 10:38 pm

fantastic! Thank you Conjureman.

so hiding it in the diaper bag ,while it may seem silly, is a good idea? LOL

I'll just keep the note short and sweet with seemingly no real reason behind it, so far as he could tell

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 10:41 pm

If putting it in a diaper bag will get the letter to him then why can't you mail it or give it to him?

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Sep 24, 2010 10:46 pm

His current mailing address is still here at our home. He has moved out. and he isn't even supposed to be staying where he is, So he can not receive mail there.

As for just handing it to him. Right now prior to any spell work, I doubt he would even touch it, let alone read it if I was to just attempt to hand it to him.

So I was trying to figure out a "sneaky" way to get it in his possession. lol

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 12:20 am

If you wanted to work an additional candle to the reconciliation spell kit you can. I would need more information to better recommend what else you can do, but if you wanted to work an additional vigil light or nude pink figural candle on your husband then you can do so.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 12:56 am

In the Reconciliation Spell Kit, the bride and groom candle does represent the two of you as a couple. You can also do a divination on the way the wax melts from this candle that may tell you something about the way he feels about you.

You could use a pair of pink nude figure candles (Adam and Eve) or pink clothed figure (Gentleman and Lady) and tie them together -- but then you would not have actually worked the Reconciliation spell kit -- which is more than just a candle spell.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 8:10 am

Oh no, I have every intention of using the Reconciliation spell kit! It will save me all kinds of time and money over all! Your products are great. Using the two figure candle is definitely staying

thanks

So then the question here is; since I have another purpose towards the same target, would it be better to add another figure candle to the ritual to extend further elements to my target, such as the "come to me" or "bend over" qualities?

or would it be better to do a separate spell for that altogether?

If it would be more beneficial to do a separate spell, should it be before or after the reconciliation casting?

Thank you all so much for your help.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 10:00 am

If there are problems resulting from a past break, do the Reconciliation spell first.

If the second spell you are planning is for something that enhances the Reconciliation spell, such as Marriage or Stay With Me, or any sort of renewed commitment in addition to re-friending and forgiving past issues, then start that second spell when you see signs of movement with the first spell.

If the second spell you are planning is for something more coercive than a Reconciliation, such as Pay Me (to reclaim a financial debt owed) or a Nation Sack (to bind up his sexuality), then wait until you have re-established good and peaceful communication and gauge the timing of the next stage of the work according to your own best instincts.

I am bundling this thread into the Reconciliation Spell Kit thread, since it is primarily about the use of this kit.

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Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 1:14 pm

Building the thread here makes perfect sense

thank you!

I have multiple things that I need to work into this. I am just trying to sort out the order in which to execute each casting. or if I can combined them.

I have just ordered the spell kits. Hopefully they will arrive asap. I bought , Reconciliation Spell Kit, Break-up Spell Kit, and Cast away evil Spell Kit. I also have ordered the come to me oil, compelling oil, 1 nude black female candle, 1 nude red female candle, and 1 nude red male candle. and a dozen black 4" alter candles. ( good black candles are so hard to come by).

The situation with my husband is quite complex. But it seems so worth it to try and salvage our marriage.
This is my over all goal:

*To heal past hurts between us bring my husband home to us.
*To help my husband break away from bad habits and destructive people.
*While I am not Positive of this, my intuition tells me that he has been seeing his ex as of late.So she must go far far away... lol

I am trying to get him to come home healthier, with more love and honesty between us. I also wouldn't mind making this other women suffer a bit. That sounds awful but it's how I feel. When it comes down to it, just getting her out and KEEPING her out of his our life will do I don't need to hurt anyone. My Main focus is our Rekindling love and Healing our family.

I have already contacted a Rootworker, My doing this work is defiantly worth the effort. These readers are very good and will not lead people astray. While My husband is lost in a fog at the moment, there is more then just hope, there is still love for me for us within him.

Any suggestions would be helpful! thank you so much everyone. This has been a difficult time in my life but knowing that there are people with the will and knowledge to assist is so very comforting! I am by no means new to casting. I have just never worked on such a complex situation before.

Bananas+ · Unread post by **Bananas+** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 11:13 am

Is it necessary to mail the dressed letter for the reconciliation spell kit to work? Would it be possible, as some have suggested, to dress a post-it note or office supplies (that you know the target will come in contact with)?

Thank you in advance.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 11:41 am

Although there are variations used in the reconciliation spell, I find following the instructions such as the letter a necessary and important part; of course, in situations where you do not know the target's address...and you see the person at work on a regular basis, writing a post it note and dressing it appropriately, is a nice alternative.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:11 pm

You're missing an integral part of the that particular working. The idea behind the letter is three-fold.

1. You are reaching out to the person you seek to reconcile with and are opening up a line of communication. This is important for success in reconciliation.

2. You are getting them into contact with a tricked letter. The powders go to work on that person.

3. You are forgiving AND asking for forgiveness. You can't have healing without forgiveness.

There are tons of ways of doing reconciliation work, but if you are using the spell kit do not cut corners, especially when it comes to the letter. The instructions provide you with the method that has shown the most success as well as one that really covers all the bases.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Nov 08, 2010 9:18 am

I find that most ppl who dont want to send the letter is because they are affraid to take the first move and affraid of rejection, further more they often feel or know how they will react.. If you find yourself in one of those situations then you may want to rethink if rec work is right for you. you can use a rec honey jar for a few weeks to sweeten them to you prior to doing the rec spell to help swaye them to a mroe positive reaction.

flounder · Unread post by **flounder** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 4:08 pm

Hi All, I have this kit and a come to me kit. My question is what one do I work first? Also, if he is not talking to me at this point and dating someone else (I already have break up work going on) Is it a good time to start these even though I don't know if they have broke up yet? Thank you for your help.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 8:17 pm

You want to work Reconciliation first to put an end to the sorrow and hostility that has kept you apart. The Come to Me is appropriate to draw him to you. Remember there is a time issue here, how long has it been since you have talked with him? Have you had a reading to see if there is a possibility of reconciliation, what broke you up? Where is his mind? I would get the reading first, before working the kit which will also answer the question of the break up.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 8:36 pm

If you've had a falling out with your lover then definately start with the Reconciliation kit. This can help you heal the past hurts and get him back in contact with you.

flounder · Unread post by **flounder** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 9:15 pm

Hello, Yes I have had a reading done. For the letter part of the reconciliation kit would I be able to do a generic Holiday card? The point is he just needs to open the letter right? Does he have to know it is from me? He is currently not speaking to me so I think it would look funny if I just sent him a letter. But I could do an Holiday card from someone random and he would open that.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 9:29 pm

I would think the letter needs to be from you with a few words, happy holidays e.g.,

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Nov 16, 2010 10:34 am

Sending a random letter or tricked flyers may work for other jobs but for the reconciliation kit the letter should be from you. Remember the letter is aimed at opening communication between the two of you and getting the ball rolling on forgiveness. Do your part.

angelindisguise · Unread post by **angelindisguise** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 4:53 pm

Devi Spring wrote:Well, the letter is the key to the whole thing Elveta.

What if you can't send the letter to the target? They refuse to give their address. What can you do then?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 4:57 pm

Then you are going to have to find out through other means. I mean you can pay a people search to find out their address if you have some information about them. If not then you are going to have to do other means of reconciliation work such as a skull candle, moving candle spell, and so on. I would get a reading to see what is the best means. But I wouldn't hound them about giving you their address. That would prompt some suspicion on the target's part, and may make matters worse.