Spells for Better Communication Between Lovers Spouses Mates Friends

[JayDee]

Marys,

If you would like to increase communication and love in your relationship, I would work with a few items, Reconciliation products because it helps foster forgiveness and healing in a relationship, add Mercury oil to bring forth communication, and Tranquility or Peaceful Home to bring a more peaceful happy state in the home life together.

You can work a honey jar and add Balm of Gilead buds for forgiveness, Deers Tongue Herb for speaking, and other love hers, such as the 9 Love Herb Blend mix.

Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-reconciliation.html
Mercury Oil: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-mercury.html
Tranquility: https://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html
Peaceful Home: https://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Balm of Gilead Buds: https://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html
Deers Tongue Herb: https://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Love Herb Mix: https://www.herbmagic.com/love-herbs-mixture.html

These items can be used on a honey jar, placed in a mojo, and loaded into candles.

JayDee

[Marys]

Hi Jaydee, thanks from the heart for all your precious advices. I'll try with the product you listed. Blessings.

[ChaoticAngel]

Curious if this is possible.

Wanting to send my LD lover an array of sample sized items of a brand of skincare, men's products he started to use.

What could I do to them to have communication increased between us? Him with me.

What about a certain bar of body soap as well?
Perhaps dressing tea lights?

I want to be on his mind a lot more where he does reach out more.

I have read through this forum, however I did not see anything that touches on this.

[JayDee]

ChaoticAngel,

Sending cosmetics that are made of inorganic products does not have a magical effect on a person. What matters is the ingredients and the spiritual power of those ingredients.

You can take those items, dust them with Sachet powder or a light touch of oil, pray for him to speak more with you and be more loving, set a candle over them, then mail them to him with a card dressed with a love sachet powder. When he touches them, the oil or sachet will get on his hands and thus influence him.

How to use Sachet Powders: https://www.luckymojo.com/powders.html
How to use Oils: https://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

JayDee

[ChaoticAngel]

Much thanks once again

[Msmoody]

Hi Marys you are dealing with someone who has a strong egoic personality. Instead of suggesting couples therapy and try to get him to change, use a different strategy, encourage him to do better. He is also dealing with death of his only brother. This is probably why he is trying to be strong while dealing with this loss.

Use healing oil with white skull candle add healing herbs. Chamomile is good to bring about healing add his hair to it pray over it everyday for 15 mins. "Ask and it is given" psalms

Include yellow candle Mercury oil for communication burn it on Wednesday

Read about rubber band effect in relationships.
For skull candle inscribe his name date of birth and talk to the candle as if it was him.
Do not let him see the candle.
You can encourage him to bring about a change

[JayDee]

A honey jar is a great and traditional method to get a person to be sweet to you and open to communication. Add herbs like Deers Tongue Herb to make them speak and be more eloquent. You can add Mercury oil for communication, Clarity if seeing clearly is needed, or add Love oil. Look into the Church Blend and how to make a custom blend of oils for your needs.

Church Blend: https://www.luckymojo.com/oilblends.html
Honey Jars: https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

JayDee

[Mistycr]

I need some general advice about a new relationship and I'm not sure where to post. Admins, please move this to the topic you think it should be in if it doesn't belong here.

I have some Come to Me vigil candles burning with Lucky Mojo candle ministry for a new guy I'm seeing. He's really nice and sweet but has a very demanding job. He's currently working on a project that has him working 14 hour days. It's only temporary and he's meant to finish late December.

When we first met back in September, was very attentive with communication, but since this new project, has been practically a hermit for the past 2.5months. He replies when I message him, and we meet every couple of weeks (we live about half an hour away) but he doesn't initiate conversation like he used to. He would go for days without communicating if I don't do it first.

My intuition and gut tells me he is just busy and really stressed. He's even told me so himself and I can see it in his face and feel it when we're together. He also once told me he feels trapped in his work and has been looking for something else.

Because of an abusive long term previous relationship, I have a lot of anxiety and tend to overthink because I was in survival mode for so long and I find that I am letting friends influence me who say he's wasting my time and I get anxious that he's just using me, which I don't think he is.

I think what I'm asking for, is for two things -

(1) Is there hoodoo work I can be doing on myself to reinforce traditional methods I'm doing (ie, therapy, mindfulness, meditation) to free myself of these kinds of self sabotaging thoughts?

(2) Is there work I can do for him to help ease his burden? I'm concerned about the pressure he's under and I would like for him to have more free time for us to develop our relationship.

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, Mistycr --

I moved your post into the thread about bettering communication in love matters.

I suggest that you start by skimming through this thread from page 1, because there are lots of folks with similar questions and the moderators here have given some great replies over the years. If you still have questions, just ask!

Now, to your specific quesions, here is my advice:

(1) Yes, there are are spells for increasing courage and mindfulness, -- with respect to life in general, not only in love -- and you can find many of them in other areas of the forum However, when working on your own mind, never forget to tap into exactly what you are referencing already, namely therapy, meditation, and the like.

(2) To free up his time and his mind i would recommend doll work or sugar jar work, and either of these would also be a way to open up more frequent communication. Feel free to ask more specific questions.

Finally, i recommend that you get a reading on the relationship -- either astrological or via tarot cards. The reading may help you decide what kind of magical techniques would be best in your situation.

Good luck.

[Gothbarbie1313]

Any spells I can do with mercury oil to get someone to talk to me again? I've read somewhere I can use both orange & yellow candles with this but I wanted to double check? I also have deers tounge herb. Thanks <3

[JayDee]

Gothbarbie1313,

Mercury oil is a planetary product sold by Lucky Mojo, some people use it in their magic when working with planetary seals, in conjunction with Zodiac products, or to enhance a desire such as communicating. Mercury's color is orange, you can carve your petition on a candle, dress it with the Mercury oil and sprinkle it with Deers Tongue Herb as you pray for communication.

Planetary Products: https://www.luckymojo.com/planetary.html
Candle Colors: https://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html#colour
Deers Tongue Herb: https://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html

JayDee

[NaidaBelle]

All of the problems in my current relationship can be traced back to one major source. He will avoid topics that he thinks of as heavy/emotional/vulnerable, and just says “I need time to think about it” without ever following up. We’ve gotten into major fights because I’ve gotten fed up with waiting for answers to fairly simple questions, only to find out that he’s been getting resentful because he thought I was trying to nag him about something only vaguely related to the original topic. (Some examples would be, “my friend is getting married on X-X-XX, will you be my date?” becomes “my friend is already getting married, will you be proposing to me soon?” Or “I’m changing birth control, are you comfortable with the one I plan to start?” becomes “I’m getting off birth control, are you ready to try for kids yet?”) We work through it with ease as soon as we find out what the other THOUGHT we were fighting about, but it could be avoided entirely if he would just have a ten minute conversation with me about something that makes him a little uncomfortable.

I’m thinking of making a honey jar with Balm of Gilead, calamus, deer’s tongue, five finger grass, lavender, passionflower, pennyroyal, periwinkle, and rosemary. Does this sound like a good blend? What oils/powders would work best for this? Our relationship is otherwise perfect if he would just gtfo of his own head and actually talk to me.

[catherineyronwode]

NaidaBelle --

I know that kind of thinking -- and i do believe it can be overcome with good mental focus, self examination, auto-suggestion, and retraining.

You have chosen a lovely array of herbs for your honey jar. Go light on the Pennyroyal, though, as it is toxic. Add Eyebright herb for increasing his clarity of vision.For best results tie the herbs in a little white muslin tea bag, so you can open the jar and use a spoonful of the honey in cooking, for him to get the contact needed. Top up the jar with more honey as needed.

No oils in the honey, but if you burn small candles on the jar now and then, dress them with a blend of Clarity and Love Me Oils.

Good luck!

[NaidaBelle]

Thank you for your response, cat! I hadn’t originally considered using the honey for eating after doing the work, but I actually love that idea and now think it would be even more fitting to put the herb sachet into a jar of sugar instead so that he can “dose” himself with his morning coffee addiction.

[catherineyronwode]

NaidaBelle,

I didn't mention it earlier, but sugar jars work the same way as honey jars, and more people cook with sugar than honey, in part upon cultural culinary history and popular recipes. Just another thing to add to your thinking.

[NaidaBelle]

Yes, ma’am! I had already planned to do a more generalized blessed/peaceful home type of sugar jar to keep on the counter for the whole family as a separate work but, when this is the only noteworthy problem in the home, your suggestion that he eat the contents made me realize they shouldn’t be separate after all

[JayDee]

NaidaBelle ,

Feeding the person some of the honey or sugar is a form of contact magic. The effect comes about by the person interacting with the contents along with your petition and prayer. The following two books are filled with great tips and tricks for this type of work.




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