Spells to Dominate Control Rule Over Tie Nature of Lover Mate Spouse Friend

Fox · Unread post by **Fox** » Fri Sep 13, 2019 4:15 pm

Hello,

My fiance comes from a narcissistic family and himself has some narcissism, and I read that narcissists are difficult to work with. When he's away from them he seems to improve and accept my influence more, but his narcissistic side when it comes out is very difficult to work with. I think he's not a full blown narcissist though as he's not nearly as destructive and can discuss his issues openly. I want to put a coercive/bend over spell to tame his narcissistic side, would a regular bend over ritual work? Or would I have to make it seem like my suggestions are his thoughts? Any ideas?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Sep 13, 2019 6:35 pm

Hello Fox,

You can work with Essence of Bend Over if you believe he would be receptive to that kind of coercive energy. Only you can know if he would resist that kind of pull on his mind.

If you prefer a more gentle approach in which the thoughts seem like his own ideas, I would work a white skull candle spell and dress it in Influence oil. This is more of a gentle nudge vs. a whack upside the head.
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I hope this helps. Good luck.

Unread post by **Shutter** » Sat Oct 19, 2019 7:30 pm

May I do a version of the DAIS spell as Miss Cat has it written here https://www.luckymojo.com/doasisay.html in which I could use a picture of a man I'm working and write my command circularly around his picture and burn my candle anointed with DAIS oil on it once a week until he texts me every day and I've got him where I want him?

Unread post by **Shutter** » Sat Oct 19, 2019 7:35 pm

May I use this spell https://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html with DAIS oil instead of Bend Over? I want to do a work with what I've got right now before I place my next order.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Sun Oct 20, 2019 9:15 am

Shutter,

I'm not sure which spell you are referring to, there are a couple of spells on that page. They are different products so I wouldn't expect the same results. Do As I Say does exactly as the label says, that person will obey you. Essence of Bend Over completely subjugates the target to your will and desire. It really depends on what your goals are. I understand your position on it saving money. You could give it a try but adjust it to just having the person do what you tell them and not be completely dominated.

Good luck!

Unread post by **Shutter** » Mon Oct 21, 2019 5:36 pm

Thanks!

Fox · Unread post by **Fox** » Fri Oct 25, 2019 4:42 am

Hi,

I've cast a Bend Over spell on my lover (the spell listed on the Lucky Mojo site with the bathing, the cross candle etc). and things were going well (he was being attentive, going along with my wishes) then he messed up/made a mistake which directly went against my stated wishes and we had a huge fight and almost broke up. It took a lot of cajoling and a little candle work to get him to calm down and reconcile. He's now complaining he's feeliing out of control and doesn't want to be pushed around. Is the spell still working, or has it failed? What do I do now?

Unread post by **FreyaRose** » Fri Oct 25, 2019 7:33 am

Hi Fox,

As far as I understand it, this can happen during these types of coercive spells, depending on the personality of the one you're dominating. I'd say the fact that he told you he feels out of control and "pushed around," means your spell was ABSOLUTELY working--but he just doesn't like it.

Essence of Bend Over has a certain humiliating element to it, which may definitely rub someone the wrong way if they're not the naturally compliant sort. You might combine it with a honey jar, to keep him sweet while he's being forced to bend to your will.

But, I'd definitely say it's working! However, if you don't want to fight, or him to be uncomfortable, you can also try something less coercive, like Influence:

https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

Xpocdude · Unread post by **Xpocdude** » Sun Nov 17, 2019 12:50 pm

Hi,
A little about us first.
Were married 38 yrs. HAPPY, Trusting, Loving, But one problem we've not had a sex life in 3 years. We were in the lifestyle of swinging for 2 years, it was amazing our sex lives were great, even when we were by ourselves. Then we stop because my wife said the people were fake and pushy, so at this point I'd love for us to get back into the lifestyle of swinging again. Would like for you to cast a spell for my wife, so she will do it again. And send the spell so I know my wife is ready to start again, by telling me she's ready for the lifestyle again, that way I know this is real and working for her. We only want good things and good people in our lifestyle this time. Would LOVE for this to happen AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
I need the signs to believe.
Make my wife wanna be a Swinger.
Thank you ,

Unread post by **FreyaRose** » Mon Nov 18, 2019 2:41 pm

Hi Xpocdude,

If you're looking for a rootworker who might be willing to take on your case, you can find great workers here: www.readersandrootworkers.org

One thing to consider as well is dealing with the root of why your wife left the scene in the first place. She says people were fake and pushy, so was she potentially feeling unsafe? Did something negative happen that you need to discuss? Were boundaries overstepped?

These are things you can work on in the mundane world to help get to the heart of the matter, and even help you focus which ways magic can best help you get you the best outcome.

Serenaali · Unread post by **Serenaali** » Tue Dec 24, 2019 6:20 pm

Many Blessing to Lucky Mojo fantastic team,

I read on facebook someone talk about a ZOMBIE LOVE DOMINATION spell, and heard those kind spell are very powerful and if you perform properly you can break anyone will, in order to dominate them, and they will do exactly what you want.

I need help to perform ZOMBIE love /Domination spell. I went through almost entire domination and Influence spells. but didnt found anything zombie style.

I really need in order to bring my husband back. past one month I'm working with DOLLIE which Ms. Catherine made for me.

Thanks

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue Dec 24, 2019 9:04 pm

Serenaali,

Never heard of a zombie spell. There are darker works like Intranquil Spirit but using it may bring your husband back a ruined and desperate man. I don't think that would be good for either one of you. There is also spells involving graveyard work. This would involve you asking an ancestor who loved you dearly to aid you in bringing your husband back.

Using graveyard dirt: https://www.luckymojo.com/graveyarddirt.html

Serenaali · Unread post by **Serenaali** » Thu Feb 20, 2020 7:50 pm

Ms Catharine and her fantastic team Many blessing to you all.

Ms. catharine thanks for the doll which you made for my husband. I'm working on that doll.
But I really need help to dominate my husband so he can come. please share some powerful spell which perform to bring him back.

he start reply my text and come to see me couple time. but still not ready to stay. also his PARENTS giving him pressure to file divorce so they can REMARRIED him so he can have child.

please need help to STRONGEST DOMINATION spell including breaking his RESISTANCE. because he is very STUBBORN & his WILL POWER is strong too.

Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Feb 20, 2020 8:53 pm

Hello Serenaali,

You made a similar post elsewhere on the forum, and I moved that post to the thread on preventing divorce. Please refer to my answer there.

As for spells to dominate another, you are in the correct thread here and I encourage you to read the posts for advice and ideas. You will find that your kind of question has already been asked and answered several times here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Fri Feb 21, 2020 12:53 am

An earlier post gave a spell using DAIS. I can use that for one of the parties (B), but I also want to protect someone (L) from that person who is hurting them. Can I use DAIS to get L to toss B out of their life?

L is a kind, calm soul. So kind that B is using it to manipulate and use B. I read earlier in the thread that someone who used Bend Over had success, but had the target feeling out of control, too. What is the comparison between Bend Over and DAIS? Can Influence do the same level job but gentler? B needs to go and soon, but with the least amount of damage to L. Thank you!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Feb 21, 2020 2:54 am

Hello MrsSchaeffer2020,

You could use Do As I Say to help nudge L to avoid B.

Essence of Bend Over differs in that it has an element of humiliation to it. Literally getting someone to bend over and follow your orders. Do As I Say is similarly coercive, but without the added humiliation.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Fri Feb 21, 2020 4:16 pm

Thank you Miss Athena. I will pick up DAIS, then. I have Influence already but I have a feeling that isn't as strong as I need it to be in this case.

nino_x3 · Unread post by **nino_x3** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 8:54 am

With the essence of bend over kit can I put his semen on his photo or I just use his photo

Can I put my blood and his semen in the honey jar since I no longer have his hair

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 8:58 am

nino_x3,

1) Yes, I would use both for the kit. Semen would be a very strong link to the target.

2) Semen is fine for the honey jar. I wouldn't use his blood.

Good Luck!

nino_x3 · Unread post by **nino_x3** » Tue Aug 25, 2020 10:51 am

Do y’all know any spells that doesn’t require candles and oils??

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Aug 25, 2020 12:56 pm

Hello nino_x3,

This thread (indeed, this forum) is full of spell advice, not all of which includes candles or oils. Read through the posts here if you have not already done so and I think you will find several spells that could work for you.

Excluding certain items like candles and oils does limit your choices, but many do remain available for you to consider. Powders, incense, baths, talismans and others are still options.

Good luck.

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melaka_01 · Unread post by **melaka_01** » Tue Jul 19, 2022 11:54 am

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Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jul 19, 2022 11:58 am

melaka_01,

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JayDee

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Ms.TIANA · Unread post by **Ms.TIANA** » Sat Mar 04, 2023 8:18 am

Greetings to All,

Is there a spell to tie the nature if i do not have his personal concerns? Also is this permanent and how is it reversed?
How many times will the spell need to be done before it works?

Thank you,

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:00 am

Ms.TIANA,

In Hoodoo it is common to work with personal concerns, contagious magic, contact magic to get the desired results. If you do not have his personal concern than tying his nature in the traditional sense of the work is not possible. You dress the string according to the size of the erect penis and dress it with the semen.

It is permanent as long as you keep the string, or the person does work to untie it, the specifics of that can be found in Miss Cat's book Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic.

How many times? We do not do work assuming the first 4 wont work, why do them then? The goal is one. How many times will you tie a string without his personal concern a lot, since it does not have his concerns. You may want to try using figural penis candles to dress and or burn to control his nature, use a pickle that is named as him and freeze it in alum powder.

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Ms.TIANA · Unread post by **Ms.TIANA** » Sat Mar 04, 2023 2:01 pm

Jay Dee,

I understand we have to have faith! If i do not have personal concerns just keep timing the knots every so often over maybe like 6months ? I will get personal concerns if we see each other again. As of now we are not talking so i did not know if there was another way.

We already have strong sexual chemistry together when we we were together ! So i do not want to cause him issue to be unable to perform. I would like to know which spell i use to tie the nature for him to be faithful to me. I will be doing this without personal concerns. Unless there is a suggestion for another love spell to do that is better for our situation.

Thank you,

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Mar 04, 2023 3:30 pm

Ms.TIANA,

Personally you are focused on the wrong spell for your situation at this time, as the old saying goes dont put the cart before the horse. How do you tie a mans nature you are not even sexual with, you miss the point of the string, its to catch his nature (semen) as you call his name, when he answers you pull it tight thus catching his nature. Tying string without his semen simply is not the same, there is no substitute for that specific spell.

You are focused on making him faithful to you, when he is in another relationship and not talking to you, tying his nature is not at all where I would advise you to start with Break Up and Love drawing work from him. I suggested Reconciliation because you are not talking, this product is known to create communication, to foster forgiveness. I would also suggest Mercury oil for. communication and Deers Tongue Herb for communication. I would start with a break up jar and a love jar on this.

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Your question is similar to what I answered earlier in another post and I think it is worth sharing this with you as well on how to think and plan your work:

When you plan work, think about the desire, what do you want to accomplish, then look at the products and see, which products best can meet this desire, which product lines support this work, then do that work. You may also want to think about different types of work, for example, you may use a skull to influence them, a break up jar to destroy a relationship, a honey jar to sweeten him to you, a Reconciliation spell to foster forgiveness.

Some tips:
1. Get a reading and spell advice.
2. What is your goal? Write it out, then rewrite it until you can fit it in 1-2 sentences. This is now your petition.
3. List the work that can be done for this situation and aligned to the work based on the petition.
4. Plan the work and think about multiple perspectives, such as, a break up 7 day candle from MISC while you also do a break up jar, then a card sent to her dressed with Break up sachet powder, an influence jar on the husband to get him to favor your position.
5. After the work, reassess and see if more needs to be done, this is common with a reading and watching for signs, movement and manifestation of the work.

JayDee

crystalangel · Unread post by **crystalangel** » Fri Jul 21, 2023 4:24 am

Hello

Iam planning to order the triple nation sack .
Is that coming personalized? Meaning, should I note somewhere name of my husband birthday date etc, or I will personalized when I will get it?

Also, what color of male penis should I order to tie his nature, blue or black?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 21, 2023 11:27 am

crystalangel ,

It comes with instructions to personalize it along with a vile of oil. You personalize it at home.

Depends on the purpose of the candle, do you want to dominate (purple), do you want lust and love (red), do you want to curse (black).

JayDee

crystalangel · Unread post by **crystalangel** » Fri Jul 21, 2023 2:52 pm

Thanks JayDee

I want to tie his nature not have erection and sex with other
women except me. To get hard only with me.
So in that case which is the appropriate candle color?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jul 22, 2023 6:58 am

crystalangel,

I would use red for sexuality, but blue to tie his nature. Tying his nature is done with the string and his semen. Use a blue penis candle with Controlling Oil. Then you can follow that with a red penis candle that you dress with I Dominate My Man and pray that he can only get hard for you.

Penis Candles:https://www.luckymojo.com/peniscandle.html

JayDee

crystalangel · Unread post by **crystalangel** » Sat Jul 22, 2023 10:53 am

Thanks a lot JayDee

LaoLe · Unread post by **LaoLe** » Sat Dec 16, 2023 4:48 pm

I am recently divorced after a LTR. I've been dating around a bit while trying to figure out what I want and need. If you've ever been divorced, you probably know the feeling of being caught between wanting to sleep with a lot of people but also being vulnerable and confused as heck. Really confused.

Anyway, I am talking to a lot of people and going out on dates. Of the different men I am talking to, there is one guy that I talked to for a bit and spent time with in person. In all honesty, I'm not quite sure what I want from him, but I know that I feel a weird connection. I did some manifesting and sugar work when we first met as practice, and I don't know if that caused me to feel more attached to him than I should have. I'm not in love, but I am interested in having him in my life in some positive capacity. Or maybe I'm just trying to gently toy with him, not in a way to cause extreme misery, maybe just some acute heartache. He's honestly kind of a jerk and a f'boy, but I'm an adult, and I don't have any allusions that I'm going to change his core personality, romantic partner-wise. But we were able to talk in a real way for weeks, which I am learning is very rare these days.

I'd honestly love a genuine and real friendship with him, but I know those only come about if he still has a big crush on me. And I'd honestly like for him to have a big ol' crush on me that doesn't fade away, even if we are just friends, but a friendship that actually serves me in a real way is my primary goal with him.

I should add that I put him in my left shoe and also honey jarred him a few weeks ago. I've only burnt a candle on the lid twice and had to stop because the second candle melted a very small hole in the lid (whoops). I plan on eventually buying a new mental-topped jar to avoid that issue in the future (for working him and others). I also added a couple drops of domination oil to my petition. I'd love more advice, its all a big experiment right now.

For people ready to tell me to walk away, don't worry, I've probably talked with 50 other men since him. I'm okay!

I should add that I know he has/had a crush on me and genuinely likes me, but isn't looking for a relationship, which is what he thought I wanted. Again, I would love for him to still have a big crush on me that doesn't really waiver, and to have him in my life as a true friend.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Dec 21, 2023 3:09 pm

LaoLe,

Get that metal lidded jar before you burn the house down! (Just kidding, but thaving he right tools is very important.)

Now, as to what you want -- i find it difficult to reply because i see several desires and intentions here. I am going to quote from you message:

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I'd honestly love a genuine and real friendship with him
[Friendships] only come about if he still has a big crush on me.
I'd honestly like for him to have a big ol' crush on me that doesn't fade away.
I would love for him to still have a big crush on me that doesn't really waiver, and to have him in my life as a true friend.
A friendship that actually serves me in a real way is my primary goal with him.
I am interested in having him in my life in some positive capacity.
I'm not in love
I'm not quite sure what I want from him
He's honestly kind of a jerk and a f'boy
I'm just trying to gently toy with him, not in a way to cause extreme misery, maybe just some acute heartache.

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This sounds like domination work, or maybe friendship work, but not a love spell request, so i am moving it to a different thread.

You believe that friendships only persist if a man has a crush on you, but not all people believe this; it is not a law of nature; for instance, i believe that most long-lasting friendships are built upon mutual shared interests and shared good humour.One size does not fit all

So i think that a honey jar, while a nice idea in theory, is NOT what you want (and maybe that is why your candle burned a hole right through the lid.

Instead, try a binding spell, something to tie him to you -- perhaps with doll-babies or with pinned-together photos.

Good luck!

Baabyd · Unread post by **Baabyd** » Sat Jan 06, 2024 3:31 am

Any love spells I can do with a left sock? I have all the books and only found one

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jan 11, 2024 12:58 pm

Baabyd ,

Socks are used in foot track magic to catch a person or to send a person away. It can also be used as a personal concern, take the part of the sock that was worn and is still dirty and cut it out and use it in a spell, such as a doll-baby or a love mojo bag

JayDee

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Sat Mar 23, 2024 9:44 pm

Hi All. I have done a search on the board about tying your lover's worn underwear in a knot and putting it in a potted plant. I am posting in here because several posts came up in this thread.

I can't do it in the house since he doesn't keep any plants inside. However, right outside of his door (and each door of the condo complex; they aren't going anywhere) there is a huge potted tree. Can I put them in there?

I have our worn socks tied in a knot under his mattress already. Would putting my worn tied panties under there as well just boost the work? Thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Mar 24, 2024 4:12 am

MrsSchaeffer2020 ,

I moved your post from the section on menstrual blood to tying a person's nature.

You can put it in a potted tree, or a tree in the backyard of the condo to represent holding him down at home. A old trick is to take his dirty underwear and a railroad spike, tie it around the spike and nail it into the ground at the root of a tree to hold him down and keep him at home.

I would take the panties and rub them on his headboard so as he sleeps he thinks of you.

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JayDee

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Sun Mar 24, 2024 12:40 pm

HI JayDee! Thank you. I didn't mean to go off topic.

There is a rooftop deck that is part of his condo (it's his individually; not part of the collective building); would that be sufficient for me to get a plant to put his worn underwear in? There is no "backyard" to his condo. Or is it better to just put in in the putted tree that's already there in the front? I want to do this right, but there are limitations given the way his home is laid out.

I can't do the railroad spike (even though I have one) unless I can put it in the potted tree. There are no rooted trees around the building, either. At least not on the property. Would it work if it was a tree nearby?

He doesn't presently have a headboard, so would doing it above the mattress have the same effect? Thank you as always for your assistance.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Mar 24, 2024 2:10 pm

MrsSchaeffer2020,

You can take a railroad spike and nail it down in a potted plant tree to hold him down. Modern situations require some flexibility to make it happen.

No headboard, rub his pillow with it.

JayDee

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Sat Apr 06, 2024 7:03 pm

I did the spell without the spike because I accidentally put them into storage. Should I leave it or do it over with a new plant and pair of dirty underwear?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Apr 09, 2024 11:42 am

MrsSchaeffer2020,

I would leave it where it is, when you get a spike drive it down over the spot where you put the underwear.

JayDee

SaturdayWitch · Unread post by **SaturdayWitch** » Sat May 11, 2024 8:17 pm

Hello again. It would be greatly appreciated if you could assist me with a matter that is very important to me. The story goes like this: My partner was previously married and divorced from his wife (partly due to his desire not to have a child at that time, as he was very young). We met several years later, and our relationship appears to be working well. However, despite his financial stability and professional success, he continues to be afraid of becoming a father. What is the most effective way to work with him?

1. I intend to order a skull candle along with domination and influence oils. My plan is to open a hole in the candle's head and put inside a honey covered paper that states what I would like from him: to agree to become a father. The skull candle will be anointed with domination and influence oils and some personal items will be placed on its head (hair from my target). I'm going to blow my partner's favorite scent of tobacco on the skull (to promote communication) and burn the whole candle down stating clearly what I want: "Change your thoughts and be sweet to the idea of becoming a father".

2. Would it be a good idea to order a penis candle and anoint it with passion and dominance oils in order to make my partner so lustful in bed and force him to ej*cul*te inside of me? (Sorry, I tried to be as polite as possible).

Do you have any other suggestions regarding how I might influence my partner to have a child using dominance products? Thank you in advance.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun May 12, 2024 7:45 am

SaturdayWitch ,

1. The petition in a skull candle is to have them think like it is their thought. I would change the petition to "I want to be a father, I want a child".

2. A lust spell and sex will certainly help increase the desire.

3. Since he says he does not want a kid and divorced a women already over not wanting a kid, I suggest a reading to see what work to do, and if he will change his mind.

AIRR: https://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/ ... ootworkers

JayDee

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Sat Oct 04, 2025 10:10 am

Hello,

I’ve decided that I want to use some dominating/controlling products on my partner for him to start listening to me and doing what I say (within reason).

Back at the start of the year, I had a long talk with him regarding things I’d like him to do in our relationship which he said he promised, but nothing has amounted to this. The main issue is that he is still friends with his exes on social media and has one on his phone (which he sees not as an issue). I was going down the Hot Foot root with one in particular with good effect, but I know and appreciate removal of exes from social media, including old pictures, would probably require a dominant, controlling vigil or products? Unless I’m wrong?

On top of this, what spells or products can I use to convince him some of his decisions are poor and to put me first more? (He’s a good boyfriend but I sometimes don’t feel like a priority to him).

I have Follow Me Boy products but unsure if this will need something a little stronger. Thank you

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Oct 04, 2025 11:40 am

Hi, Nony65,

Well, first of all, to your final question, yes, Follow Me Boy products can be added to any domination, ruling, or controlling products to place the emphasis on love. For example, in dominating in the workplace, think of dominating products plus Boss Fix or Steady Work. Or, in dominating on the athletic field, think of dominating products plus Crucible of Courage and Victory. In all three cases, the main objective -- ruling the situation -- is modified by products that describe the situation.

Okay, having dealt with that, you say that you want to "convince him that some of his decisions are poor." I would not do that. Just as in training dogs or horses, i believe that the best plan is to convince him that when he does what you like best, he will be rewarded. Reward training is 100 times more effective than punishment training, and the reward trainer, unlike the punishment trainer, is developing a sense of leadership rather than a sense of cruelty. That is why i greatly prefer Follow Me Boy over I Dominate My Man -- except for professional doms, for whom domination is part of a social contract with their subs.

Now, as to a list of these products, we have the following:

Commanding -- leading someone to follow your plans
Compelling -- forcing someone to make good on their promises
Controlling -- taking charge of someone's mental thoughts and physical actions
Do As I Say -- giving someone instructions which will be followed
Domination -- keeping someone beneath you in all ways and at all times
Essence of Bend-Over -- having someone acknowledge your superiority
Do As I Say -- giving someone instructions which will be followed
Influence -- getting someone to think the way you wish them to

plus

Follow Me Boy -- attracting a submissive man or encouraging submission by a man
Follow Me Girl -- attracting a submissive woman or encouraging submission by a woman
I Dominate My Man -- exerting sexual, mental, and physical domination over a man
I Dominate My Woman -- exerting sexual, mental, and physical domination over a woman

I would recommend a blend of no more than four oils and their corresponding bath crystals -- one of which would be Follow Me Boy, which you already have. Choose the blend you want and then introduce the oils into bath products, add some of the bath crystals to the laundry (especially the bedding), and use the oil to dress candles -- or have us burn the appropriate candles for you at our Candle Ministry.

Read about blending oils for specific purposes here:

Oil Blends and the Narrative of Intention
https://luckymojo.com/oilblends.html

I hope this helps.

Good luck!