Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Aug 05, 2017 1:48 pm

Hi stillsosola,

Is he getting hostile towards you personally or in general? It could indicate that he's feeling the effects of your spell.

If you want to try a different approach, I would work with Banishing products instead. They are geared to the same goal of getting rid of someone (or something), but it's gentler than Hot Foot and may not provoke hostility. Try that and see if it helps.
http://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

If you want to use a spray bottle, dissolve some of the bath crystals in water instead of using oil. It will get the product where you want it to be more discreetly, without staining or leaving an oily residue.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Sat Aug 05, 2017 9:36 pm

He's getting hostile in general and talking about leaving the state but more so hostile towards me then friendly hostile then friendly like I think he knows I did something to him like maybe noticed the polvo on the ground and floor but I'll definitely dissolve the crystals in water try that to amp it up

Thanks for the advice miss Athena

melaka_01 · Unread post by **melaka_01** » Fri Aug 25, 2017 7:17 am

Hello everyone. I'm seeking help with what to do in a family situation.

My cousin whom I'm very close to decided to move out to the Midwest. She has been married for over 10 years and has two children 12 & 8 with this man. He is unstable mentally and has trouble keeping employment therefore they are always struggling financially. We are under suspicion that he was cheating on her and he filed for divorce last year (2016) but they reconciled. As part of a fresh start my cousin decided to move out to the Midwest and bought a cute little house on a small property. They seemed excited at first and my husband and I were willing to help in anyway we can to make the transition go smoothly. Including watching her kids for free so her and her husband can both work.

Her husband is having bouts of drinking now where he gets very violent. He had fights with a few of his neighbors. On one occasion he banged on his neighbors door across the street and tried to force his way in. He threatened to kill their new born baby and his wife. He is also saying he is affiliated with a violent gang in the west coast and said on multiple occasions that he had to get permission from his gang family to move here.

He has been to jail twice since he's moved here (they have been out in the Midwest for 3 months now) because of violence towards neighbors and the police have been called. He drinks and gets insane, he will constantly say derogatory comments and raciest comments towards other people (which I find deplorable).

Yesterday he came to my house and threatened to kill my husband and my children. He was drunk. Again.

My cousin is in denial about everything. She doesn't believe he has a gang affiliation and said they have no other problems except his drinking which only occurs every few weeks to a month. He is non violent towards her and kids but has tried to leave the first time he was arrested and she begged him to stay.

I know he lies to her about his drinking (hides his alcohol in the garage) and I am at the point where I do not feel as if my family is safe. He is mentally unstable and I believe he is capable of deadly harm to my family, his own family and even his neighborhood. He manipulates my cousin constantly and she rationalizes out his threats. But he has said the following; he is going to kill my husband and my children, he is going to kill the neighbors baby and their family and he is going to kill the police officer who initially arrested him.

At this point I don't know what to do. He is getting out of jail this afternoon. I want them all to move back to the West coast. My cousin has her family there that will be able to help with her kids and help her financially.

I would like to know what your suggestions are at this point to get them away from me and my family, to move back to where they came from, and possible get him to never come back here again. I don't feel safe.

Thank you for your help in advance and I apologize for the long read.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Aug 25, 2017 9:15 am

Hello melaka_01,

Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry you had to come here seeking help for such a stressful and scary situation.

First of all, get serious protection up on you, your family, and your cousin and her children:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Then here's an idea for a working if calling the police just isn't doing enough. I'm paraphrasing from a working that starsinthesky wrote toward the top of this thread. First, make a doll baby to represent your cousin's violent husband. Tie his feet and hands together so he's completely "hogtied" and as you do so, tell him that he can't hurt anyone anymore. Put the doll baby into a glass jar with a good dosing of Hot Foot powder, put the lid on tight, then throw it into a river that flows out and away from you and your town.

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
general-doll-baby-voodoo-doll-poppet-qu ... t8946.html

You may also want to put him into a mirror box:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

For more ideas, go to the first page of this thread and start reading. You'll find more ideas for spellwork.

Stay safe and keep us posted.

Beginner01 · Unread post by **Beginner01** » Sun Sep 03, 2017 4:55 pm

Hi I'm not sure if this is the right spot butthis is the only thread I was able to find that kept mentioning banishing products and there isn't too much information on the page where I can order the product so I just thought I would ask whether or not this product can be used on abusive people? Can the product work peacefully? I don't want to add any additional danger to an already dangerous situation

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Sep 03, 2017 8:15 pm

Hello, Beginner01

The answer is yes to both of your questions

take care

Kgirl84 · Unread post by **Kgirl84** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 8:29 pm

Hello,

This is my first time on here/and doing spell work with kits. I need recommendations for several issues. My parents are controlling and sometimes we still argue and i fear them. What can help with that? I don't live with them.

Also, they don't know I'm back with my boyfriend and they do not approve of him. Is there something I can do to change their mind?

Third...months ago when my bf and i broke up...he was with another girl. I went to see a psychic and she said that a female on his side wished bad luck for me and him. Well six months later...were still talking (never stopped). They broke up and were trying to get back together. What should I do for that?

Any help is much appreciated! This site can be overwhelming. Thank you!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Oct 15, 2017 12:22 pm

Hello Kgirl84,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. If you would like to, you're welcome to introduce yourself under the "introductions" thread.

I'm sorry your parents are so controlling. You could try putting the three of you in a honey jar to sweeten them to you, and then use some Crucible of Courage products on yourself to get you the courage you need to stand up to them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

You could do a skull candle spell to try and change their mind about the boyfriend. Do a skull candle per parent dressed with Influence oil:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

For your third question, are you asking what to do about this mysterious female relative who is working against you and your boyfriend?

Kgirl84 · Unread post by **Kgirl84** » Thu Nov 02, 2017 9:04 pm

Hi sisterJean... i barely saw your reply. I am still trying to figure this forum out. I did a honey jar on my mom but I have issues with both of my parents. Should I put two different petitions on one jar for each parent? As far as my boyfriend, I bought an unjinxing vigil candle and was wondering if that will take away any bad wishes for us. Also, how do i light the unjinxing candle? i also bought a clarity candle. Do i light those and let it stay lit till it ends or light it in sections each day?

You also mentioned skull candles...what color and which oil would help and do i write a petition on the candle or on a paper under it?

Sorry...this is all so new to me! Any help is appreciated!!!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Nov 03, 2017 7:11 pm

Hello, Kgirl84 ,

I encourage you to read the forum threads because most of these questions have been answered many times. Chances are you will find a response that speaks to you.

Also, we keep the questions on the topic of the thread. For instance, Honey jar questions go under that thread, Candles go under that thread, etc.

I will answer each question after the question:

1- Should I put two different petitions on one jar for each parent? YES

2-As far as my boyfriend, I bought an unjinxing vigil candle and was wondering if that will take away any bad wishes for us.-YES

3- Also, how do i light the unjinxing candle? Light it and let it stay lit

4- i also bought a clarity candle. Do i light those and let it stay lit till it ends or light it in sections each day?-Let it stay lit

5- You also mentioned skull candles...what color and which oil would help -This link as the influence skull candle spell: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

6-and do i write a petition on the candle or on a paper under it? Please look at the forum thread on petition papers

Take care

Kgirl84 · Unread post by **Kgirl84** » Sat Nov 04, 2017 12:11 am

Thank you Miss Aida...sometimes I can't find the exact answer I am looking for in the forums. I appreciate you answering me!

Armywife · Unread post by **Armywife** » Mon Jan 15, 2018 12:30 pm

Hello forum,
I’m ashamed of what I’m about to ask, but my mom and dad don’t have a good relationship.

I finished nursing school in 2008 and passed the NCLEX and have been nursing since then. I have 2 children and pride myself with knowing that I’ve raised them both to be responsible and respectful, I’ve always up until a few months ago had my own place. My daughter is 19 and my son is 10, and they are used to stability and know I’ve provided well, my daughter now has her own job. All I do is work. About a few months ago I decided to go back to school to further my career in nursing.

My dad told me that I could stay with him, but we got into a fight and this happened in front of my children, they were upset and my son continued to say” men don’t hit women, my granddaddy hit my momma” my daughter was Livid

I currently live with my mom. My mom is manipulative and feels like she can speak to me in any manner. She acts as if I don’t belong, she even told me I think I’m better than my other family members, I don’t act that way, but my mom's side of the family are very nosey and that aggravates me, I don’t tell my business and I won’t start. I have 136 days left in my mom's house, I just wanted to save more money.

Idon’t and haven’t had the support from them and It hurts, I’ve worked since I was 14 and I know what it takes to have something. This has been ongoing for years. I help out in the house with the bills, but the fact still remains I’ve Always had my own! When I talk about meeting Army guys or my job she doesn’t want to hear me. This is why I wrote in another part of the forum about New Love. I

I said all that to say I need help. What type of oils can I use to keep them away or get them to stop the crazy behavior towards me?

Help me
Suggestions please

missmoonica · Unread post by **missmoonica** » Sat Feb 17, 2018 7:16 pm

Looking for ways to stop my mother in law from trash talking and manipulating my husband and our lives. Her husband (my father in law) recently died. My mother in law is drawing on my husbands guilt and sympathies to manipulate and put ideas in his head. Whenever my hubby spends a weekend with her to help her out he comes back with an angry attitude toward me. I have tried a honey jar for my MIL. Was going to try a stop gossip spell or STFU spell. She feels the need to manipulate and micromanage our adoption process and I don't want her influence to jepordize our adoption in any way. She is helping us out financially with the cost in the form of a loan that she controls, yet we will pay back. Need to strengthen my connection and influence with hubby and help cut the cord of influence with the mother in law and get her to stop talking trash. And bless our adoption !!! Need to order some supplies pls help !!!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Feb 19, 2018 9:58 am

Hello missmoonica,

I'm sorry you are having to deal with all this trouble. There is some advice in this post that I think would help you:

spells-for-freedom-from-controlling-fam ... ml#p378453

And if you scroll up through this thread you'll find lots more ideas.

Be well.

ashliew · Unread post by **ashliew** » Mon Feb 19, 2018 5:28 pm

My mom is controlling but takes care of me financially which i am trying to change
at the moment my step grandfather is staying with us and there is some tension
im disable and dependent and they dont respect me as an adult

he always takes her side even when she is wrong
she provokes constantly

i didnt want him to leave because he takes care of my brother
i was forced to take care of him before and my mom didnt care that i have limitations and on my opinion was abusive

i just want to cool the situation before it gets out of hand

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Feb 21, 2018 8:55 am

Hello ashliew,

A good first step would be to put all of you in a sweetening jar, and burn blue candles on top dressed with Peaceful Home oil:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

For more ideas please scroll up through this thread and read the other posts. After that, let us know if you have any questions.

Take care.

Steffylis · Unread post by **Steffylis** » Tue Mar 13, 2018 9:18 am

Hello all,
I'm really new to this I have not done any real work, but I have attempted to start and before I can gather all my materials my wishes are somewhat granted. Except for this situation: My husband and I have been living with in-laws for the past 3 yrs, we rent an upstairs apartment. While his parents are nice, they are way too attached to my husband. He has a sister that, although has her own family, is always at her parents house and she is OBNOXIOUS!!! We are currently looking to move, but yet still I know they will be super hard to detach. I don't want to harm anyone I just need them to give us space and not be wanting to be around us all the time. His sister and mom call my husband everyday, everyday! And they see each other almost everyday as well. It looks like it has been like this forever but if there is an outing they all want to tag along and they are just too loud, obnoxious and involved for my reserved personality, i'm also an empath and their energy simply leaves me so dizzy that I usually need a mental detox when I'm with them all day . They don't know how to be calm, they are way to hyper for my taste. So his parents are way but coming back in 3 weeks. How do I keep them away a bit longer and my SIL too, or just have them stay away from us. I need help!

Thanks for any suggestions!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Mar 14, 2018 9:11 am

Hello Steffylis,

I'm sorry you are in this tough situation! Instead of working on this in-laws, who may not change, I'd make it your top priority to get out of there. Do money-drawing and road-opening work to help you get your own place, and do some Crucible of Courage work on yourself to give you the courage you need to stand up to these people and set some boundaries. There may be some hurt feelings, but if your sanity is suffering, it must be done.

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Good luck to you.

Steffylis · Unread post by **Steffylis** » Wed Mar 14, 2018 12:58 pm

Thank you Sister Jean. That sounds like a good way to work around this. Without any work, it has taken 3 years to get my husband to this point of agreeing to move out and away. I can do this, but In the meantime I still need them at bay. Would banishing be a better choice over hot footing? I did try it once while we were getting married, I did a candle spell anointed with hot foot oil and not sure it worked as I planned. His sister is still pestering don’t think there was ever a time she was not. I probably didn’t do it right.
Thanks again!

515xllih · Unread post by **515xllih** » Sat Apr 28, 2018 8:25 pm

It’s not a relative. It’s someone I just want to simply move back to her home state. I have a copy of her domicile certificate with her signature on it. If I was to put goofer dust and hotfoot powder on the document and bury it in a graveyard, will that be sufficient?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Apr 30, 2018 10:56 am

Hello 515xllih,

You could work with the document that way, but instead of burying it in a graveyard, I would put it into a bottle and then throw that bottle into a river that flows out of your town, to move her away from you.

You can also scroll up through this thread for more ideas.

Good luck!

515xllih · Unread post by **515xllih** » Sun May 06, 2018 6:29 am

Thank you, Sister Jean.

Sunnylove · Unread post by **Sunnylove** » Mon Jul 23, 2018 10:45 am

Hello

I was wondering if I can remove My husbands mother from our lives she’s extremely toxic.

I’ll share my story on how our relationship went downhill. So last year around June me and my husband went through financial struggles so we decided to move to Upstate NY with my mother In law we drove cross country from California to NY I was so excited to have a fresh start and be able to pay off debt and be rent and bill free for a little we are both only 24/25 and I thought we are too young to be in debt let’s do something about it

so she offered us her home with supposedly open arms I was extremely happy to be able to finally be able to breath and enjoy a different state with my husband we left, but my husband asked if it was ok if she would stop smoking do to his asthma and do to my allergies and breathings problems

she said yes she promised to stop

Anyways a week went by and she started smoking and it was hell we asked so many times if she can stop and she would say yes but she would come home from work in a terrible mood slamming doors saying mean things under her breath breath we asked a total of 7 times is she can please stop during our stay. Anyways the first time we told her to stop I can already sense that me and her weren’t going to get along because she was already saying rude things to me about her only cleaning when that wasn’t true she would throw shade when I was eating with my husband saying she was the only one that cleaned the stove/kitchen and she never uses the kitchen. But that was not true.

She would always get mad when I would cook with oil yelling that it smelled disgusting that everything I made smelled gross.

Another time was when she went to the bathroom and got out and slammed the door and said are you really to lazy to put the toilet F***** toilet paper and she New I was the only one home she yelled it near my room door.

She’s just plain disgusting she would always complain about the tissue paper how I finished it and keep in mind I never touched her things I was independent and bought my own things and she would get mad when I did my own things she couldn’t stand seeing an independent woman besucase she’s used to people depending on her.

She also gave me hell for cleaning my room with scents she would give me hell when I would light candles that had scents she would say it smelled like shit!

She would try to control what I loved. She ruined our thanksgiving!

She made me cry on my birthday she ruined my birthday that despicable woman she made a big deal of me taking long in the bathroom cursing out saying rude things to me but never in front of my husband.

She ruined our New Years Eve by acting like a total psycho because I lite a candle that smelled like wood she caused the biggest drama if it was up to me we would’ve left but it was terrible weather in NY so we couldn’t.

Until finally in January I couldn’t handle her waking me up everyday at 4 am in this terrible winter weather with the house smelling like cigarette smoke and me sneezing like crazy do to the smoke and not being able to breath it was the worse experience of my life when we decided to leave she made the worse drama ever! She told my husband you are making a big mistake.

After we left weird things happened to us I know she wished the worse for us I believe she did jinx us.

My husbands new laptop stopped working just 2 days after we left I honestly felt like she wished bad on us! My husband couldn’t find a stable job it took him forever we had to sell so many things and bad things would just happen to us we would fight everyday.

Still to this day my husband can’t find a job with his profesional career and he graduated on December

Every time he would speak to her he would have anger towards me until I finally broke down and asked him why are you so angry with me after you speak with her and he said he was tired of her drama.

The sad thing is she didn’t end the drama she made the worse drama on my Facebook and I had to block her because she commented the most disgusting disrespectful thing on my quote that I shared.

We haven’t spoke since we left which I’m fine with. But she still loves the drama she shares post on Facebook about me but it’s not directly to me idk how to explain it.

I just want her out of our lives for good I can’t take this anymore. She doesn’t deserve her sons time. She’s pure evil.

Please if anyone can help on what to do that would be amazing Im just tired of this drama I just want to put an end to it.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jul 26, 2018 9:20 am

Hello Sunnylove,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I'm very sorry you're having to deal with this woman. I'd recommend approaching this situation with some strong Hot Foot work. You can learn more about it here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
hot-foot-powder-questions-and-answers-t5399.html
hot-foot-to-drive-away-rivals-enemies-b ... 8-540.html

Also, if this woman is gossiping about you, add some Stop Gossip work:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

You could also submit a prayer request to the Crystal Silence League (it's a free service) to help your husband find a job:

http://crystalsilenceleague.org/

Good luck to you.

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Kayelaine · Unread post by **Kayelaine** » Mon Oct 08, 2018 8:42 pm

Hello everyone on this lovely new moon.

I recently got an apt with my boyfriend who i have known for years. Once we moved in my intuition has been telling me that he no longer feels the same love for me and is just here out of convenience.

Unfortunately right after realizing this his entire immediate family had to come stay with us. Intuition told me this was coming so we rented a two bedroom in advance. However since they have been here my relationship has gotten much worse. My boyfriend does not pay his share of things unless I nag him daily.

When i had to quit my job due to being assualted by a violent client my boyfriend refused to help pick up the load financially. He also refuses to give me rides places since my car was repossessed in july.

His family also has terrible communication not only amongst each other but also with me. They have been helpful with paying his share of things since they see he is not willing to do so, however I fear that since they have helped financially they are no longer looking for their own apt to move.

Basically my life has taken a turn and Im not so naive to think that this situation has nothing at all to do with it. Im hoping to get them out ASAP and begin money attracting work afterwards so that I can financially afford to keep my apt.

I purchased Lucky Mojo banishing oil and hot foot oil from Madame Pamita's shop here in los angeles however I want to be sure I dont cross myself while trying to get these people out.

My plan is to cleanse before, during and after the work, to dress a black candle and put thier names on a petition paper dressed with hot foot oil. I will also be placing banishing oil in their shoes and on the car door handles of all their vehicles.

Does this sound like enough?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Oct 09, 2018 9:50 am

Hello Kayelaine,

Oh boy, what a nightmare! I'm so sorry you've having to deal with all this. I think the plan you have to do candle work with Hot Foot oil and put Banishing oil on their car door handles is good, but I wouldn't recommend putting oil in their shoes because it will leave stains on the cloth lining. Instead, you could put a tiny dot on the *underside* of the shoe, and pray for them to get the hell out as you do it. Also, don't leave too much oil on the door handles; you don't want them to be slippery. And you will not be in danger of "crossing yourself" if you keep up the cleansing schedule you mentioned--you'll be just fine!

Here are some links you might find helpful:

hot-foot-powder-questions-and-answers-t5399.html
banishing-oil-questions-and-answers-t12744.html

Also, scroll up through this thread for more ideas!

Good luck to you.

Kayelaine · Unread post by **Kayelaine** » Tue Oct 09, 2018 10:16 am

Thank you so much Sister Jean! I will take your advice on the oil

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Oct 09, 2018 1:20 pm

Kayelaine,

Sorry to read your situation, sound like you need a cleanse of yourself regularly and after that put in Fiery wall of protection oil. When they move out clean the whole house with a wash such as ammonia then do the money drawing you discussed. Psalms 23 is good to bring luck and attract all things, Psalms 51 to recite after doing revenge work, Psalms 57 to turn bad luck into good luck, Psalms 104 to pray away harm, evil, sin. You can combined these with the oils you use, with wiping their items down, and also recite over candles.

Kayelaine · Unread post by **Kayelaine** » Tue Oct 09, 2018 2:35 pm

Thank you jay!

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:24 pm

So quick question:

I've had a full limpia and I've cleaned my whole house ceiling to floor with Chinese wash from Lucky Mojo and I keep my house saged.

Well four months ago my hateful sister in law moved in with her thieving boyfriend and since then my father in law has been on her side. now we have built two stories onto the top of my father in laws house I've sunk all my money into it to make our lives here work and have safe housing. well she's trying to convince my father in law to kick us out and put the whole house in her name.

My husband had a falling out with his dad because his sister physically attacked me a week ago. she lied and said I'm the aggressor. she cussed out my kids and she does petty things to me daily.

Leaving ain't in my budget but I've come at her with everything I have. I've sewn up her personal concerns in Guinea peppers added mustard seeds, poppy seeds and hot foot to make her quarrel with my father in law. she has lost her job due to a souring spell I did on her and her mom.

I'm consistently spraying her door down with hot foot oil in water throwing powders souring her, I've froze her as well I always do my name papers as cat instructs in her book, I follow it all to a t im exausted by the energy I'm putting in

I'm doing reconciliation and calming work on my father in law but I need this sorry excuse for a sister in law gone asap

I am placing an order for more hot foot and some herbs I need. what do y'all suggest I add to the order and what should I do now? any suggestions?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Oct 14, 2018 7:08 am

stillsosola,

I would put the father, his son, and you into a honey jar to sweeten you all together. I would use a sour jar on the father and the sister in-law specifically break up oil and break up products like black cat and dog hair to make them fight. You may also want to use I can you cant oil on the family members you want to override. Make sure to cleanse with hyssop and to pray Psalms 51. Because this family member is also spreading gossip and lies I would wear stop gossip oil on you and slippery elm in your shoe for protection. Pray Psalms 52 to end all gossipers

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Sun Oct 14, 2018 9:28 am

Thanks jaydee right now I have my husband and myself and father in law in a sugar jar because honey is very expensive where I live I've also added reconciliation powders to the sugar, and I've added break up oils to thier name papers I'll start the sour jar this Tuesday and go looking for slippery elm and add I can you cant and stop gossip to my upcoming order also I was thinking should I add my kids to the sweet jar? He seems a bit swayed by them and I was wondering if his love for his grandkids increased he'd maybe be on our side. Also I was wondering if I should use clarity oils on my poor father in law to help him see through the games and manipulation she's so good at?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Oct 14, 2018 11:59 am

stillsosola ,

Yes you can add the kids to the jar that makes sense. You can use other sugars or syrup as well, some people select the sweetener based on skin tone: black strap molasses for very dark skin, syrup for med dark, kane syrup for white people. Others do not use that and simply use honey. Also, make a new jar and add the people to it, add the reconciliation powder into the petition and fold it closed. Then use the sugar to cook with when you feed the father, kids and your husband, replace the sugar as you use it.

Clarity and cast off evil are a great product for people to see the truth and cast off evil people in their life. Use on a skull candle, if cant a skull then use on a white candle on top of his photo.

Kayelaine · Unread post by **Kayelaine** » Sun Oct 21, 2018 11:46 pm

So here is a brief update.

My boyfriends family just announced they will be moving out before Nov 1st. Im happy however I still plan to use banishing oil to speed them along and to make sure they actually leave this time.

However, first I have been doing prosperity work so that I can afford to cover my share of bills and so that they have money to move. Just within the first two days of burning my dressed candle and completing some incense spellwork I had to shell out money for bills and need money more than ever now.

I dont know how to take this since my dressed candle finished and is black all around the top from the flame burning so high.

Is this a sign the work wont be successful?

Unread post by **Rev Ernest** » Mon Oct 22, 2018 7:49 am

Hi, Kayelaine --

Congratulations on getting the unwanted folks to move out!

Back on October 8, you said that you planned to burn "a black candle and put thier names on a petition paper dressed with hot foot oil" and you later refer to it as "my dressed candle" -- so i am guessing that you dressed it with. Maybe Hot Foot Oil.

It burned black -- they had resistance -- but In any case, it worked well!

Then you bring up financial issues, for which you "have been doing prosperity work," and you ask if you should relate the apparent failure of your prosperity work to the black candle.

As a Candle Deacon at Missionary Independent Spiritual Church, Iwork with and read more than 100 candles at a time. This includes candles for all kinds of conditions from love and marriage to job-getting, casino gambling, protection, and curses. I can tell you from personal experience that candles do not cross-contaminate one another. The two spells are not connected.

Here is a thread about doubts such as yours:

Too Many Spells at Once? Overload? Interval Between Spells?
too-many-spells-at-once-overload-interv ... t6140.html

Kayelaine · Unread post by **Kayelaine** » Tue Oct 23, 2018 2:29 pm

Hi Rev Ernest,

Thank you for your reply. I have'nt performed the hot foot candle work yet as I wanted then to have the funds to leave before I did so
I performed prosperity work first. It was a dressed beeswax prosperity candle that burned high and within 3 days. The wick curled over about halfway through. I had to blow it out because the flame was so high it was burning the glass.

January · Unread post by **January** » Sun Jan 20, 2019 7:20 pm

Hi all,
I have been married for almost 3 yrs and my mother in law(mil)and sister in law (sil) lives with me. My sim is elder than my husband and unmarried. She is extremely extremely moody person and always seeks attention. Second day of our matriage she started crying that she cannot share her brother with anyone and blah blah. My mil doesn’t say anything to her. My sail is soooo arrogant and my mil treat her non sense also like she is the only one in this world who is right in every way. They have not leave me and my husband a single day alone and doesn’t even go to her other sons. My soul doesn’t want to marry though she got good proposals too but she thinks she is too smart to marry anyone. Every 15-30 days she creates a big issue and there is a huge fight in our home. Because of this my marriage life is paused and doesn’t go further. I just want them to leave this house and me and my husband as she always says that she can find a good job and doesn’t want to live here but she is not even leaving us. Plz tell me what can I do to get rid of my mil and sim so that they leave our life and esp house.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Jan 20, 2019 7:32 pm

Hello January,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are glad you have found us.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation with your in-law family. I have moved your post to the correct topic about getting family members to move out. In the future, please do a search of the forum to find the topics that are best suited to the questions you have.

This thread is full of advice and information than can help you. Please read through the posts here and then if you still have questions, feel free to ask us.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Sunnylove · Unread post by **Sunnylove** » Thu Feb 21, 2019 10:13 am

So for the hot foot work would she have to be near us because I live in California and she’s all the way in New York! I’m guessing the candle for the hot foot work will help her go away?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Feb 21, 2019 6:34 pm

Hi Sunnylove,

It could work so it's worth a try. I like to ensure that my target gets in contact with Hot Foot, preferably on the soles of their feet or shoes. Could you mail her something she will touch? or wear? A nice pair of socks or slippers for these cold winter evenings would be a great choice. Dust the insides with Hot Foot powder before mailing them, and use just a little to avoid detection.

If it would arouse suspicion to send her such a gift, then why not a greeting card or other piece of mail? You could smoke it in Hot Foot incense and dust the card very lightly with powder, using swiggly lines with your fingers.

Tricking items like this is very traditional work, so give it a try. You have nothing to lose, except for her toxicity.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Sun Apr 28, 2019 3:54 am

Good afternoon everyone,

I have a really difficult situation at present. My fiancé and I are getting married in August, but I can’t stand one of his friends who is attending our wedding. In a nutshell, she sent me a very abusive text message last year after three of my friends and I went to a restaurant and she felt she was “left out”, even though she didn’t like the type of food they served there. She also accused me of saying things to her husband (who is my fiancé’s best friend) which are untrue amongst other things. The whole thing was ridiculously childish and uncalled for.

Fast forward nine months on, and I decided to be the bigger person and message her to try and settle things, especially since we would both be at big events with our other friends. We met up and, although she never apologised, she said she would move on and things seemed to settle. But it seems they haven’t since. She appears to have put some sort of post limitation thing so I can’t see her posts on Facebook (when she posts a lot), and has ignored me at two events we were both at but pretending nothing was wrong. In addition, she invited my fiancé to one of her events but ‘accidentally on purpose’ excluded me.

I’ve had enough of the childishness. I have felt so anxious around her she’s caused me to have panic attacks and constant rows with my fiancé (who can’t see a problem). I want her to stay away from us and our wedding!

I’m thinking Hot Foot definitely as I’ve had excellent results before, but is there anything else that would work well in conjunction with this situation? Can Hot Foot be used to make someone stay away from an event as well as an individual? Thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Apr 28, 2019 1:15 pm

Hello Nony65,

I worry that if you try to Hot Foot her, she will be gone from your life and take her husband with her. That would create trouble with your fiance, who is his best friend.

A gentler approach would be to put her in a honey jar with you, and add Balm of Gilead to smooth over past hurts. This will help to sweeten your relationship and help you co-exist more peacefully.

For advice on how to construct a honey jar, please read the following link:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

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That is what I would do. She is likely to be at your wedding given her husband's relationship with your fiance, so work to sweeten things vs. try to drive her away. I would worry about the consequences between these two men.

I hope this helps, and I wish you the best of luck (and a wonderful wedding)!

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Mon Apr 29, 2019 1:48 am

Thank you for your response Miss Athena

when we first arranged to meet, I wore Reconciliation oil on my wrists and she did seem ok. But.. it’s just been for the past few times with her childish behaviour that I’ve had enough when I have enough worries at present with planning a wedding!

When we didn’t speak before, it did not affect him or his best friend other than ‘it’s a shame they don’t get on, as we can’t do things together’. So do you think Hot Foot is too powerful to use on her in this instance, even just to Hot Foot her away from our big day?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Apr 29, 2019 5:40 pm

Hello Nony65,

You could try that and hopefully it will keep her away so you won't have to worry about her on your wedding day. The choice is yours if you wish to go that route.

I hope it works! Please keep us posted.

spade · Unread post by **spade** » Mon Jul 22, 2019 6:14 am

hi all,without revealing too much for my friends privacy recently her awful parents took away her internet and just now her ipad completely unfairly. with that being said they're also terribly controlling and very abusive to her emotionally. im really worried about her so i was wondering if there was a way to conjure a way to get her parents to stop being so awful to her and get her internet and ipad back? please help asap! i've tried honey jarring but i dont think it was very affective on them since i dont know her parents names;; any suggestions are very welcome and im very much in need of them.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jul 25, 2019 1:38 pm

Hello spade,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're happy to see you here.

I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to respond to you. It's been a very busy week.

For help with controlling family members, I would work with Peaceful Home products. See what you can do to get these into her family home, either by lightly dusting something to send there, or by visiting and lightly dusting things like door handles which they are all likely to come in contact with...you get the idea.
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

This should help to get them started in shifting their energy to a more cooperative state.

You could also put her and her family into a honey jar, to sweeten their relationships with each other. You can find information on how to do that here:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

panini81 · Unread post by **panini81** » Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:56 pm

I need help finding working to deal with my boyfriend's mother, She is mentally ill and making everyone's life a living hell. She has abused her son his whole life, she has sabotaged his efforts in all aspects even having him arrested on false claims, she has kept him from moving away from her and when he does it's only for a short time til she finds a way to get him thrown out of whatever living situation he arranges for himself. She downright steals from both of us despite that we provide for her everything she requests from food, medicine, household supplies even for her own entertainment. Hot Foot caused her to leave for 1.5 years despite that she kept begging for money even though she was not in a need at the time she was gone. I have to be careful working because I need my work to target her specifically and not my boyfriend. Boyfriend is completely terrified of her and will not proceed legally for fear of being falsely accused and loosing his job or going to jail. This is beyond a case of munchausen. I do not wish to harm anyone but send a clear strong message that she must leave and detriment will come to her if she continues to insert herself in unwanted ways in her son's life, possibly even sever her ties to her son.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Oct 14, 2019 8:21 am

panini81,

It sounds like a very complicated, difficult situation. If you haven't already, I would read this thread starting from the beginning to get some ideas on how you would like to proceed. You are right in that you will have to be careful not to sever ties with the boyfriend. You could do a Cut and Clear to cut ties with her if that is what the two of you want. The boyfriend will have to be on board with cutting her out too otherwise he will keep opening up that. door.

Another option is to control her. Do As I Say and Controlling are what you will need and I would recommend working with a skull candle to influence her. You can read more about them on this thread: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

You may also want to set up some protection against all the negativity she is causing in your lives.

Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **bythebeautifulsea** » Mon Oct 14, 2019 8:22 pm

Panini81, have you thought about putting her (doll baby) bound and tied in a mirror box? That is what I would do! If your boyfriend is close to her it would probably be easy to get her personal concerns.
Mirror box reversal work is wonderful, because it avoids the complicated issue of cursing and/or enflaming her further and causing collateral damage--but it WILL keep her in check. There are a lot of great resources on the Lucky Mojo website for reversal work and mirror boxes.
Best of luck!

panini81 · Unread post by **panini81** » Thu Oct 17, 2019 4:53 am

Thank You borh @TerraRising and @bythebeautifulsea I will look into both methods and search the posts

Serena_17 · Unread post by **Serena_17** » Tue Dec 31, 2019 9:56 pm

My mother is a volatile, and unpredictably violent person. She has on repeated occasions cursed out my younger siblings and only does this when I'm not around. I'm the eldest child and have never tolerated this behavior, so she has developed a pattern over the years of attempting to hide and conceal all of her violent outbursts. I want to file a restraining order against her, but I do not wish her harm. She recently had an outburst that happened in front of my 9 year old daughter and my younger brother called to tell me all about it. I have had enough of her dramatic emotional energy sapping and the stress from her behavior over the years has taken its toll. I have to protect my daughter, first and foremost, from this behavior. I have decided to keep my daughter away from my mother, and in the past I have done this once for a 3 year period, only to have my mother stalk and harass me to see my child.

What spell(s) can I use to keep my mother at bay without harming her while also protecting my child?

Unread post by **FreyaRose** » Thu Jan 02, 2020 10:16 am

Hi Serena_17,

As someone who also has a volatile mother who I had to cut ties with, my heart goes out to you and your family.

Have you thought about a freezer spell? That's a good way to freeze someone in their tracks without harming them:

general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

You can also find information about protection spells for your child here:

general-protection-spell-questions-and- ... 8-120.html

Best of luck, and great job drawing up boundaries!

Nini555 · Unread post by **Nini555** » Wed May 13, 2020 9:35 am

Happily married 10 years with beautiful children.

The problem.

A crazy evil ex of my husband and my 2 grown self-entitled asshole step-sons.

I went to church one day, and some one came up to me, pulled me aside, and said I was being cursed. All the problems I was going through were being caused because of this women who wants me and my husband to separate because she feels that I am living the life that she should be living. Her and her family have been known to see people who practice black magic.

The self-entitled asshole step-sons have threatened to kill my children, have hit me and my children before, and have said the absolute ugliest things about me and my family including my husband, who is their father.

(And for those wondering, when those things were done I told my husband. They denied it and made me look like the crazy one. I had to go to extreme measures and be on audio recordings after that.)

I don’t want these people in OUR lives any longer.

I don’t want them calling for money, I don’t want any of them bothering us, I want them to leave us alone.

Please help.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed May 13, 2020 1:36 pm

Hello Nini555,

I'm sorry to hear you're going through all of this.

You are in the correct topic area of the forum for your situation. Have you read through all of the posts here? If you go back to Page 1 of this thread, and read from the start, you will get lots of ideas and advice that can help you.

If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Nini555 · Unread post by **Nini555** » Mon May 18, 2020 6:06 am

Miss Athena,
I’ve read through some, but I’ll go back and re-read.
I was thinking of getting a reading done by someone from AIRR. I feel very strongly about what I wrote, I sometimes am afraid to do something bc of the repercussions that can probably come back to me and my small children, I don’t know how all of that works. But I would like to think that if I’m doing something for the good of protecting my marriage/ family, then why would I be punished for it?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri May 22, 2020 1:19 pm

Hello Nini555,

You are looking out for the protection of your loved ones. This is of paramount importance.

The concept of repercussions or karma is inherent in Eastern religious traditions, but is not a part of hoodoo conjure. Your work won't blow back on you so please put that concern out of your mind.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Wed Sep 14, 2022 12:28 am

I have searched where to post this and this appears to be the right thread.

My friend just left my house. She showed up on my doorstep in tears earlier because her son did something else to her today. She is in her early 50s and he is 25 (am bringing this up because she's not a minor). She has been a single mother all of his life because his father was abusive to them both. He was so bad when she went to court that the judge eventually took his parental rights.

However no matter how good of a mother she's been, nature beat out nurture and he's turned out like his father. He's just as verbally, mentally and physically abusive. To top it off, he doesn't work, takes money from her to pay his bills, and spends what little money he has on drugs. There is no helping him because he takes no responsibility and uses having ADD as an excuse to do nothing (he's on medication and has a therapist). He stresses her out every day.

I arrived at her house once and found her on the ground, gasping for air. He had choked her before I arrived. She's so ready to give up that she wants to harm herself. We had a long talk after that where she told me everything. She was very sick for a long time (during which he abused her) and was hoping to finally live her life, but he's literally sucking her life out of her. Every day she wakes up to problems from him. She recently changed her life insurance because she couldn't say for sure that he wouldn't kill her and if he stresses out to the point of death, she doesn't want him profiting.

She wants him gone to where she doesn't have to deal with him anymore. She doesn't want him to die, of course, but she doesn't want anything to do with him anymore. She has trepidation in having him sent to jail because right now he drives her car and lives with her, and that could make her life even worse. I have no clue where to start.

Please help me help my friend. She's sacrificed everything for this kid and he's killing her slowly.

Thank you.

The 2 links on the first page that are supposed to go to "getting rid of new unwanted person living in your home" and "stop unwanted people at my house" are dead links and do not go anywhere.

Mr Christopher · Unread post by **Mr Christopher** » Wed Sep 14, 2022 5:24 am

Hi MrsSchaeffer2020,

I am so sorry to see your friend suffering. I would say her son is in pain, and is unhappy with how his life has turned out and has in his head that he is married to his mother, not in a taboo way, it's a mental thing. That is not an excuse to lay hands on his mother. Here are a few suggestions.

1. Fierywall of protection around your friend. https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-w ... ction.html

2. Sour milk jar,
-Put a doll of him, some milk, and vinegar in a mason jar.
-Nail a hole in the lid, and cover it with tape.
-The milk will sour, leave that in the sun for 3 days.
-Take to a graveyard and remove the tape, and turn it upside down in the dirt.
-As the milk drains he will move out of her life.

3. Put a picture of him, in a jar with Salt and Pepper, yell into the jar, for his leave, thou shalt respect thy mother father, whatever comes to mind. Do that for a week, then put it in a dark place.

4. Hotfoot him. Give him something with Hotfoot on it, could be candy or a bag of chips, just put some hotfoot oil on the wrapper.

5. If he's doing drugs, some dirt from a police station on his car, even if just bark chip from a planter, drop it down the windshield.

Here are the links to the items mentioned:
Fiery wall of protection- https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-w ... ction.html
Hotfoot - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-hot-foot.html
Bottle Up and Go - https://www.luckymojo.com/bottleupandgo.html

Best of luck,
Mr. Christopher

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Thu Sep 15, 2022 12:11 pm

Hi MrsSchaeffer2020
That sounds like a tragic and horrid situation for your friend. To get away from an abusive husband and fall into the hands of an abusive adult son.
He is attacking her physically, choking her, and harming her. She needs to call the police and report it. For her to get peace in her life, I really think that is the most important action to take. She should also take legal action to evict him from her home and get a restraining order against him.
Taking that action and supporting it with hotfoot spells, Legal spells to get the law on her side (which shouldn't be difficult IMHO) Fiery Wall of Protection spells to protect her from him, etc. Once she has her peace, if she wanted to, she could work on him to reform, stop doing drugs etc, but her safety and peace of mind are more important than his situation at this time.
Once he is out of the house, she should do a cleansing and blessing on her home to restore peace and tranquility to it, but she won't be able to have that until he is gone, and the most expedient way for that to happen is to have him arrested and have a restraining order against him.
Peace and Blessings,
Br. Christopher