Spells for Polyamorous Open Non-Exclusive Relationships

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 2:56 am

I would get a reading and see if any of these individuals are even attracted to you. You may have feelings for them but neither or maybe just have feelings for you. So you need to get a reading in advance to see if you can pursue them.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:23 pm

Help, Help, Help!
I have never loved more than one person at the same time. I have been obsessed with an ex love and trying to reconcile with him for quite some time. The biggest obstacle is that he lives in New Mexico, and I in Wisconsin. Last January, I met a very attractive man through a mutual film project we were working on. He stared at me so hard and so often that it made me uncomfortable and I asked that I work with another team for the remainder of the project. He is incredibly handsome and successful. I maintained professionalism to the highest standard...that's just how I am. However, after the film project was over (it lasted 3 weeks) I couldn't stop thinking of him.
I am madly in love with my ex, but things haven't been working out, even with the aid of rootwork. 3 Months after the film project, I couldn't get this new guy out of my head. I found my self going to great lengths to find him on facebook, which I never do. I am a bit old fashioned, though I am not old. I believe the man should pursue the woman, or at least he should make the first move. Anyhow, I eventually was able to find him on facebook. I "friended" him and he accepted.
Then, get this...I found out from his profile that he's married and has 2 children. I decided that was enough to get me to abandon any ideas about a relationship with him. Still, I constantly view his profile and initiate conversations with him. I find myself trying to place myself in the same place & time as he is...This is NOT my style. I pride myself on my stingent morals and standards. I don't know if he does hoodoo, but possibly is in to something else.
I don't have a lot of money to request a reading. I am a single mother and have been unemployed most of the year thanks to the slumping economy. I recently started working, though only part-time, and xmas is coming, we've got bills that piled up, and all that. I can't afford a reading right now.
I dream of this guy, I daydream of this guy, I think of him all the time, and I often have steamy sexy dreams and daydreams of him. I also sit, wasting time, imagining us talking together and having a relationship, as if I am watching a movie in my head! I'm starting to freak out. I have done baths and things to remove love-messes that may exist, but it does not stop.
I didn't think any one could pry my attention away from my love for my ex. In fact, I still Love and Want him too! to the extent that I am thinking of doing the square-nails-triangle so I can have them both! Then I was thinking of doing and keeping 2 separate Nation Sacks for these 2 men! Is that even advisable??? THIS IS SO NOT ME! I have never "2-timed" it in my life! I am a 1 guy type of girl! I am so mixed up and I feel as hot and bothered as a two-peckered billy-goat! lol! But I am not kidding! I think of sex all day long and I am SOOOO confused that I don't know what spells to cast. My baths aren't working and I need to be able to focus and concentrate on other things (ahem, LIFE!) not daydreams, sex dreams, and sex-daydreams! Can some1 please help me??? I heard that AIRR sometimes does free readings as a public service...though I am sure you get asked like constantly for free readings. I honestly do not have the money at this point in time to pay for one. My head is all twisted up! And I can't save myself, I've been trying! I feel delirious when I think of him (the new 1) Even, right now I'm smiling! for no apparent reason! Some Body Save Me!

AoD · Unread post by **AoD** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 10:22 am

Have you tried a cut and clear spell to stop obsessing over both of those men? I'm pretty new at all this but I think that should do the trick.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 10:39 am

I'm with AoD. You are obsessing about two unavailable men, perhaps to escape from your present situation. Concentrate on money and job work instead, which will open up the opportunity to meet someone more suitable.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sat Dec 24, 2011 1:49 pm

I don't know if cut & clear is what I'm looking for. This other guy, I haven't done anything to him, I just feel like maybe he's hit me with something because It is waaaay out of the ordinary for me to behave that way. Especially with how dedicated I am to my ex. I used the word obsessing but I did not mean for that to be interpreted in any way as an actual obsession. I believe my ex is my soul mate, and I have always been given to use of dramatic wording

I haven't done any work regarding the new guy, nor have we ever been romantically involved, ever. So, I am not sure that a cut and clear would work for this situation.
I know myself very well and this behavior is soooo not me. I feel like there is something else going on. I am looking for advice on how to handle the situation. And, I am certain a reading is probably necessary to see what, if anything has been done. I also find it significant or telling that the time frames in which the events transpired with "the new guy" fit the 3-days, 3-weeks, 3-months rule. Also, I was not interested in him initially. I asked that I be placed on a different crew than him because his overt staring made me very, very uncomfortable. I am sooo not obsessed with this guy. I am actually afraid that he did something 2 me that I am not equipped to undo. As for me and my soul mate, well that's another ball of wax entirely

Wild at Heart · Unread post by **Wild at Heart** » Sat Dec 24, 2011 4:35 pm

There are uncrossing products available in the form of kits and vigil lights. There's also the 13 herb bath, Chinese wash- if you think you've been hoodoo'd, look into these. And the standard advice seems to be getting a quick reading- be it through e-mail, or a ten minute phone call to determine if this is what is happening, or if it's something else entirely.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Mon Dec 26, 2011 2:53 pm

I did uncrossing baths (13herbs), and last night I did some protection work...now I feel soooo sad. I feel sick to my stomach with grief! what the heck? I am not going to undo the protection work or anything. I can draw another uncrossing bath tonight and I have LM candles, etc on hand. I really need help, I think. I don't know what's going on.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 8:26 pm

These products would not cause you to feel bad. Perhaps you need to some guidance, and I would possibly look into getting a reading to see what could help you best to move on from both of these men.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Wed Dec 28, 2011 11:24 am

I don't think it was the products making me feel bad. I am a gifted empath, and I pick up on the psyche/energy/feelings of others from all 5 of my senses, and from my emotions. It's like I "feel" what others feel in all the ways that we can possibly feel. I think that the bath worked. That's why I was feeling so sad...like I was love-sick or something. Which, as an empath, would mean One of the guys is feeling love-sick. I now feel much better! Another forum member offered me a free reading and did some work on my behalf. I am feeling well and very free and open...I am grateful for her help! thank you Paradox

I knew there was something in my aura stew, just wasn't sure what...

luckyboy · Unread post by **luckyboy** » Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:19 pm

There are two men I am interested in can I cast a come to me spell on two different people at the same time? I would like to date both and see which I like more. Also one of them has expressed his interest in me to a friend should I use come to me on him until we go out on a date or should I use something else! Thank you guys.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Mar 28, 2012 7:50 pm

Yes you can do that if you wanted to. But you may run the risk of having two different lovers at once. So be aware that you may run the risk of liking them both. In any case, you can put them both in a honey jar. Or you can use the come to me kit. Another option is doing a moving candle spell. Have a candle that represents you in the middle, and move two candles that represent each guy and have them move towards you. Watch to see how each candle burns and which candle burns the fastest. The candle that burns the fastest is probably going to be the person that is going to respond to the come to me magic the most and the one that is going to come to you quicker.

luckyboy · Unread post by **luckyboy** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 5:08 am

Thanks so much for the response and helpful tip will definitely do it.

LightTheWorld · Unread post by **LightTheWorld** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:11 am

Hi LM family!

Does anyone have a suggestion on how to clearly and simply word a petition in a polyamorous situation? There are a number of configurations that I'm sure could get complicated. My particular situation is relatively simple, but still the wording causes me headaches.

The goal: I'm seeking wording that is specific in drawing my partner closer to me and making him immune to the approaches of certain rivals, but without affecting a specific other relationship.

The situation: My boyfriend is married, and yes his wife is fully aware of and gives full consent to our relationship. So he has two relationships, his marriage plus me.
I am involved only with him at the moment, however I am open to a 2nd relationship with a woman, if I met one who interested me. He is fully aware of this potential and consents to it. However he would not like me to find another man, nor do I want one.
Hope that lays it out clearly enough - I guess it is "poly fidelitous" in that it is not open to whoever whenever, there are limits to the multiple relationships.

So far, what I have been doing is small sweetening works to strengthen and deepen the connection between my bf and myself. In the wording I have concentrated only on the effect between us, such as "love me, adore me, cherish and protect me" and that is fine. All is going well.

Now there are some other women we both know who have taken notice of him and become envious of our relationship, and they are trying to get his attention and being all flirty and come hither, trying to draw him away from me. (Two of them are also trying to put me down, and yes I can take care of that in a different work)
So I want to add a little protective wording to my love work to keep other women away and to keep his eyes fixed on me, not them.

When you can use wording like "desire only me" it is simple. However I can't do that in this case, as that wording could cause him to lose interest in his wife as well, which was not the intent. I have every respect for his marriage and would never interfere with that or damage it in any way.

So I've been looking at wording it in such a way that I include his wife (call her Jenny) in with me (eg: desire only me, and Jenny,) which feels like I'm working her into it when I don't need to, or I state at the beginning something to exempt her from the women who I'm keeping away, such as "excepting only Jenny, desire only me", but these are clunky methods and I feel they are not as clear or direct as they could be. Please does anyone have any suggestions as to how to word it more elegantly?

Thank you for any/all suggestions.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:56 am

Hi LightTheWorld,

working a freezer jar on ''all romantic rivals'' (rival being the operative word - this would exclude his wife since she admittedly isn't a rival but a co-conspirator) could work very nicely in your situation. It would just leave them out in the cold, literally.

For the honey jar, an elegant wording which would work if you also have a personal concern from ''Jenny'', is ''desire only us''. Wording is the same, it's simple and the intention is crystal clear. No clunkers.

Also keep rose petals on hand to steep in your ''romantic baths'' as they'll unjinx ur BF in love if he's being worked on by other women. Alongside that, regular baths of raspberry leaves for you are excellent for continued fidelity and if you drink them as tea, they're also a wonderful tonic for the female system.

Blessings and best of luck in your relationship.

LightTheWorld · Unread post by **LightTheWorld** » Tue Jun 19, 2012 6:50 am

Thank you very much for your reply, aura.
I like the bath suggestions very much and will make use of that.

Regarding putting "Jenny" in the honey jar, this option just doesn't sit right with me. I would do that if I were looking to keep her happy with the arrangement I guess, or even a separate honey jar for that purpose, and that is a possibility, but my focus is solely on deepening and protecting my relationship with him for this working, and making it a 3 way jar isn't where I want to take it. Their relationship is good and strong already, and doesn't need my help to keep it so.

While I appreciate the suggestion, I don't want to be petitioning on her behalf as well as mine. I just don't want to affect her accidentally while cutting these women out of the picture.

I like the freezer jar for the rivals too. The problem I have is in being 100% positive that my petition is clear. I agree she is not a rival, but I don't want to leave grey areas, or have it come down to subjective interpretation. For that work, I guess I could just name the people who I want on ice.

Just thinking ... if a person wanted to affect a number of people in a group (say, a bunch of enemies at the workplace) but to exempt others in the same group... how would they best word it? I guess that's "all my enemies" isn't it?

oneword · Unread post by **oneword** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 10:34 am

I hope this hasn't been covered somewhere else. At least, I haven't been able to find it.

So. I have a manfriend who was in a monogam-ish relationship when I met him. His wife was ok with us sleeping together a few times, but then she decided that she was uncomfortable with it and prohibited us doing anything beyond kissing. Three years later, I am still so very into him -- he turns me on like no one else! And the thing is, I do NOT want to take him away from her. I just want to play with him. But I don't want to do so against her wishes, as I know that would make him feel bad, as well as put our friendship in danger. I mean, she is a very powerful woman and I don't want to provoke her. Also, I just tend to prefer openness and honesty.

So... I want to influence, not coerce. Getting him interested is not the problem. I don't want to entice him to cheat, and I am not trying to break them up, I just want to encourage her to share.

The one that I thought of was road opener, but I would like to add something to that to make it more specific. Any ideas?

This is sort of my last ditch effort to get this worked out, because I really need him to either be my lover OR I need to work on clearing him out of my energy (maybe cut and clear), because being so hot for him and unsatiated is not working for me.

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 11:31 am

Hi oneword,

Your specific situation hasn't come up before, but polyamory has been dealt with in a few different threads. A couple of ideas which you might try include:

-An influence honey jar on the wife to sweeten her to the two of you.
-Doll-baby work could be an effective adjunct to the work. Make a collage of two naked guys together from a porn mag and substitute your and his face in the pictures. (if you have a dirty photo of the two of you together even better). Then wrap the dolly in that photo when you're not working it. When you do work the doll, tell her that she's fine and safe letting the two of you being together and smoke her in a combo of Do As I Say and Compelling incense powders along with a bit of LMs love herbs mixture.
-Work red skull candles on the wife with the same incense powders as above + some tobacco or cigar smoke and the love herb mixtures.

That said, you may also want to get a reading to see if it will be possible to get to the ends you seek prior to beginning. Another interesting thread you may want to take the time to read (not your situation but it does have some interesting ethical discussion) is the following: trick-to-make-a-wife-comply-with-her-hu ... 19665.html

Blessings.

Wild at Heart · Unread post by **Wild at Heart** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 3:14 pm

While you're looking in the above linked thread and making purchases, be sure to buy cat's book, there she has a spell she references: http://tinyurl.com/d7qete2

oneword · Unread post by **oneword** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 9:23 pm

I will definitely get Catherine's book.

So, although I am not new to magic, am confident in my abilities to effect intended outcomes from my work, and although I have been lurking on Hyatt's rootwork yahoo mailing list for a long time... I really am a beginner at Hoodoo. I have not practiced much. I did read enough about working with dolls to realize that I am not ready to work with a doll right now (at least I know enough to know that I don't know!). I am ready to think about it. He's not going anywhere, and this situation has been going on for a long time. I think that I am going to work with the anointing oils on myself and on tea lights and get to know them better, and get some books and read them, and maybe get a reading as suggested. Pray some prayers over tea lights. That is what I am up for right now.

Thank you sooo much guys for pointing me in the direction of more research and for entertaining my newbie questions. Maybe in a month or two I will be ready to delve in deeper. If/when I do that, I will report back!

P.S. Aura was the suggestion to wrap the doll in a gay picture because you thought I was a man or is there some other reason? Perhaps his wife would feel less threatened if I was a man?

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Aug 19, 2012 4:37 am

Hi oneword,

Yes the suggestion on wrapping the doll in a gay couple picture was because I though you were a man, I'm sorry for the mistake. A picture of a straight couple would be what to use since you're a woman. My apologies.

Elle · Unread post by **Elle** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 2:00 pm

First, please, English is not my first language, so, if I’ve commited any mistakes, I’m sorry.

One of my best friends from school was always a "rootwork fan" and, by that time, she gave me several amulets and mojos. We've been apart after the end of second grade, we keep in contact thru internet, but just it. I've been missing her gifts and I started research about it for my own. My interest started because, in a very informal conversation with a new friend, he ask me how i've been keeping my boys so faithful, and I remembered of one of the mojos the school-friend give to me to keep my school sweetheart with me.

I've been living in “ménage à trois” for a while. I have two boyfriends, and we live together. It’s not a new situation for me, I have had other relations with more then one man, and with this two I have had even more boys at the same time. It's uncommon, I know, and full of rules. The boys always know about the others and I never “got a new one” without introduce the new guy to my boyfriends, and the new one need the approval of all boyfriends. It's not about have many “colorfull friends”. It's common some guys come to me thinking that i'll sleep with then and just it, but the fact is that i just take the ones that i like, that treat the other ones well, and that are ready to assume the relationship knowing it all. All the families of my boyfriends know me and know how the things work.

And there are rules about cheating, of course. I tell then "who is who" ‘cause i dont want fell I’m cheating. They must accepted the other ones, or there is no deal. They can say no. But i am not free to sleep, or kiss, not even flirt with other people, as long as i don’t let then do this. I love both my boys. In different ways, but is love.

Like any relationship, this one have good and bad moments. And in the past months, we've been having a hard time. A friend of one of then showed interest in me, but instead of talking to me, he told my boyfriend, his friend. I think my boy started feeling uncomfortable, he said he is ok, he is just surprised, he wasn't expecting a friend to do this, but I know him, I think he don't want his friends chasing me. Perfect acceptable.

The other boyfriend didn't seen to like this ‘new one’, so nothing more happened with him, I preferred forgot about the boyfriend's friend, cause the two have my preference. The friend is a very nice boy, and very good looking, more then his-friend-my-boyfriend. I would like to know him better, but I think it's better keep the thing like they are now.

After my friend asked me about their faithfulness, I’ve been thinking about a mojo the have a better relation with them. Less jealousy, more confidence and trust.

but the real question about it all is: should i have one mojo for each boyfriend, or one for the tree of us?

i "feel" i should do only one for us all, but the fact is that they don’t have nothing "beetwen then", they are not lovers.

That’s the only reason i can found to do two mojos, cause the romantically/sexually relations are with me only. i dont even know if a love mojo would work for 3 instead of 2.

Thanks, and i am sorry for too long post.

Miss_Styles88 · Unread post by **Miss_Styles88** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 4:11 pm

Hopefully I'm putting this in the correct thread, if not please let me know. Okay, so earlier I asked if the Come to Me products can be used to attract more than one lover and I was told that yes it is possible so I want to ask a few questions.

1. Can someone suggest other products me? I know that I'm interested in doing a candle spell, along with a mojo bag. I want products that will be open, honest, loving and passionate. I was thinking the Lavender drops one (since I want to attract a male and a female lover).

2. I don't have any names of potential lovers, so should I write a list of attributes that I desire in an ideal lover? Would I cross my name over that list? Or would right "come to me" instead?

3. How long should I keep the spell working?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 6:31 pm

Miss_Styles88 --

1. In addition to Lavender Love Drops, there is also Q (for "Queer"). If honesty in love is a priority, always consider blending in Chuparrosa.

2. I would describe and then name the lovers by office, so to speak, referring to each one as "My future male polyamorous partner" or some such. No need to write your name over the names of the people -- you are not trying to control or rule them, as you have not yet even met. "Come To Me" is good, though.

3. Until you find satisfaction. No spell of magic is guaranteed, but to manifest a lover out of the random 7 billion people on Earth can take a while. Three months is a good length of time to work a spell of that sort, including both the initial altar work and then wearing or carrying a mojo.

Good luck!

Miss_Styles88 · Unread post by **Miss_Styles88** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 8:19 pm

Thanks you for the input miss cat!

Patgund · Unread post by **Patgund** » Wed Jun 07, 2017 12:04 pm

Miss Cat - "If honesty in love is a priority, always consider blending in Chuparrosa"

Hmmmm. I'm poly myself, so that's a priority in my life. Good to know.

BTW, I still have my copies of all 14 issues "The Dreamery"

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Fri Aug 25, 2017 11:39 pm

My boyfriend, who I've been with and lived with for twelve years, is considering having a baby mama and a family with another woman he also loves and has told me that if she wasn't comfortable raising the kid with all three of us he'll prioritize her. He's also said that if he's open to moving where she lives in Europe and they really decide they want a kid, he'll move to her country and effectively leave me. It's not a certainty that they're compatible as parents, but obviously I want him to keep me as his #1 priority! However, I have some health issues that make it really dangerous for me to get pregnant and bear a child. Also, he and I have some trust issues because when we first opened our relationship it was just for sex, but then I fell in love and it changed a lot. He loves me but he still holds onto that resentment even though I want to move past it.

Right now, while I still have time, I want to do some REALLY powerful, forceful work to make sure he knows I don't take him for granted and I always want him to be with me. Ideally I'd even like him to propose so we're bonded in spirit AND law!

My plan is this:
1. Do some healing and reconciliation work regarding his past hurt around me falling in love with someone in addition to him.
2. Do some peaceful home work.
3. Put the whammy on him with serious Love Me work.
4. Infuence/control/stay here spells? I'm not as familiar with these and could use some advice!

I'd like to honey jar and sweeten the other woman as well but it's hard, I don't have any personal effects of hers and she lives overseas. :/

Any advice? I'm quite anxious about it - he's the foundation of my life, and I don't want him to leave! Ideally I'd like whoever is his baby mama to move into a three parent co-parenting situation with him and me.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 26, 2017 8:36 am

Hello, ravenmaven ,

is this the same woman as before? Or is this a new woman?

All your spell ideas are good. I would go with Stay With me spells.

www.luckyojo.com/staywithme.html

And you ay want to go with influence spells because he is very difficult (from what you have said in the past) to control. You would want him to think it's his own ideas

www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

That way, you could try to influence into thinking your way

Wishing you the best

take care

Yanta · Unread post by **Yanta** » Sat Aug 26, 2017 12:46 pm

Hello
Me and my husband have been talking about polyamoury / open relationships cause this is what I would like. I have had them before and they work for me. We had a monogomous relationship when we first got together cause I was very hurt by my ex and then I got very very ill for many years. Now I have recovered I am finding myself and wish to be poly again. My husband however finds it unapealing and although we have talked and he is reading about it I want advice on a spell to push him towards my point of view. I know it seems unfair, but if he doesnt agree then I would probably have to leave our marriage which I do not want to do as I do love him, Im just capable of loving more than one person at a time.

Thank you
Yanta

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Sun Aug 27, 2017 12:10 am

Miss Aida,

This is a different man - THAT man I'm still working on, but counseling myself to be patient. The man who I'm talking about here is the man I live with and have been with for 13+ years is the one who wants a baby mama and I feel some urgency to lock him in so he doesn't leave me for the same of that pursuit. Thanks as always for your advice! Since I live with him I'm going to feed my my menstrual blood and sexual fluids at every opportunity as well as tricking his computer, phone, chair, shoes, and belt with Stay With Me, Dixie Love, Follow Me Boy, and Compelling oils. I'll also order the spell kits you mentioned.

Anything else you think I might be missing?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 27, 2017 9:04 am

Hello Yanta,

One idea would be to do a skull candle spell on your husband to try and get him to see the merit in this idea, using a white skull candle dressed with Influence oil:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

However, if at the core he is just flat-out opposed to this idea, it will be hard to change that. I'd also recommend very open communication with him about your needs.

Good luck to you.

P.S. I see that you're new to the forum, but you should know that posting new topics is against forum rules. Next time you have a question, please find the thread that best fits with what you're asking (you can use the search box at the top right of the screen), and post your question at the end of it by clicking "post reply." Thanks!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 27, 2017 9:05 am

Hello ravenmaven,

Miss Aida gave you some great advice--I don't think you're missing anything at this point.

Good luck to you in your work.

WillowVenus86 · Unread post by **WillowVenus86** » Thu Mar 22, 2018 2:03 pm

I’m wanting to be a sister wife. My boyfriend is on board, but it’s a matter of his wife letting me in. She and I are both mothers who are having trouble with our exes, and I feel we can

AnxtQfu · Unread post by **AnxtQfu** » Thu Mar 22, 2018 2:15 pm

How would love and marriage spells be made to work on 3 or more people, and how would attraction and love drawing conjure be made to work on women that are not open to polygyny?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:30 pm

Dear WillowVenus86

I am not sure what your question is. Are you asking for spell-casting suggestions?

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Dear AnxtQfu --

You started a new thread to pose your question, but we request that members NOT start new threads. It makes work for the moderators, who have to merge the new threads into existing threads. In this case i merged your post into the existing thread on " Spells for Polyamorous Open Non-Exclusive Relationships" -- and there are already 150 posts on this topic.

So, step one for you will be to read from page one and see if you get some good ideas and answers to your question.

Then, step two is to ask questions after you have read what we hav so far.

Best wishes for success....

WillowVenus86 · Unread post by **WillowVenus86** » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:16 am

I apologize, I accidentally sent it before finishing. Anyway, I’d like my boyfriends wife to be okay with me being around, change her feelings toward me. How can I do this, so we can be a family together?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:16 am

Hello WillowVenus86,

I'd recommend that as a first step, you read through this whole thread to get ideas for spellwork. And if you have questions after that, feel free to ask.

Take care.

AnxtQfu · Unread post by **AnxtQfu** » Fri Mar 23, 2018 2:12 pm

My apologies, the thread specified non-exclusive relationships and I didn't want to invade the area with exclusive relationship inquiries, thank you.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:27 pm

Dear AnxtQfu --

Now i am thoroughly confused. I still don't know what you are seeking -- to have people accept you as a friend or to have sex with multiple partners? Please excuse my confusion...

chrisredfield07 · Unread post by **chrisredfield07** » Fri Nov 02, 2018 1:57 pm

brand new here and as I been doing some digging I don't find many men on here it's mostly women so I thought I would make a post out of this.
what oil would you guys recommend for a man to use if he wanted to attract multiple women into his life sexually and romantically? I see that there is kiss me now which seems like it should be my go to oil for this issue but is that the case ? also what others can I use ? I see look at me now oil but it sounds like it's for women and not men.
my last question is unrelated but I don't want to make another post and clutter this forum up. so can I still wear my own colognes or would that conflict with me using lucky mojo oils ?
thanks again everyone

Unread post by **Edward T** » Fri Nov 02, 2018 4:38 pm

Chrisredfield07
Welcome to the forum. Glad to have you here. I would recommend the Follow Me Girl products . The name says it all. Yes you came wear it with your cologne. I fix it into my hair pomades and have my clients dress their hair with it. Here is the link for that product.
http://www.luckymojo.com/followmegirl.html
Enjoy. Edward T

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Nov 02, 2018 5:41 pm

chrisredfield07,

Many products may seem women centered as many women used products more often, but you will find it is used for both sexes to draw. Such as attraction- neutral in drawing, dixie love, come to me, love me, look me over, etc the image illustrates the ideal of the oil but is not exclusive to that. Follow me girl is a wonderful product for men wanting a lady. High John the Conqueror is used by men it looks like a nut, used for sex, money, luck. Sampson snake root is used by men, Master root, men can use their chamber pot or semen to control and dominate a women LM sells vagina candles, as well as penis candles that can be used for sex work or hook ups.

Yes you can wear it but the oil needs to be on the skin, or on a candle depending on how you use it. A mojo may also be a great additive to help you find these sexual connections you seek.

Oils
To attract, mix with kiss me now and semen and dress candles, mojos or your body: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-attraction.html
Fiery love for passion, hot sex: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-fire-of-love.html
To dominate a women: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-i-dominate-my-woman.html
Quick passion: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-kiss-me-now.html
Fast luck, mixed with kiss me now and sexual fluids to get a quick hook up: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-fast-luck.html
Kiss me now kit for lust spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-kiss-me-now.html

Herbs
To increase sexual nature and passion: http://www.herbmagic.com/damiana.html
To heat up love affairs: http://www.herbmagic.com/ginger-root.html
To draw lust or sex at a party or club: http://www.herbmagic.com/cardamom-seed.html
To draw sex, and a male dominate herb: http://www.herbmagic.com/john-the-conqu ... small.html
Male vitality: http://www.herbmagic.com/sampson-snake-root.html

Candles
To draw sex : http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-adam-and-eve-red.html
To draw sex and females: http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-vulva-red.html
Love candle to draw sex, red and in passion making: http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-lovers-red.html
Male penis to draw sex and use it in sex: http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-penis-red.html

Starrkid24 · Unread post by **Starrkid24** » Wed Nov 20, 2019 1:40 pm

I’m planning on doing a white skull candle spell on my boyfriend to make him more open to an open relationship, we’ve discussed it, but he is on the fence. I have been in previous open relationships and prefer them. I want to elevate his fear of losing me and open his mind further to the benefits of this type of relationship. I’d love some advice on the specific wording of the petition, as well as any additional herbs or oils that may be helpful. I have influence oil and was planning on using that.

Thank you in advance for the advice!

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Thu Nov 21, 2019 9:44 am

Starrkid24,

I'd say you are on track with the skull candle and Influence oil. You could also load the candle with calamus root. I'm not sure how far you would want to take this as far as convincing him. There are more coercive spells that might help in bringing him around to the idea. I Dominate My Man, Do As I Say, and Commanding come to mind. The petition would depend in if you are trying to apply pressure to him in a dominating way or to gently lure him into in open relationship. For the petition to lure you could just say the thought you want him to think. " john, you desire to have an open relationship, to see other people" It isn't so much the petition as it is you working the candle and whispering these thoughts to it. You could just load a name paper, his personal concerns to the bottom and baptize it in his name. Now it represents him, has his spirit and you can begin to influence his mind.

Calamus Root - http://herbmagic.com/calamus-root-chips.html

Also, he may be more open to it if you already had someone in mind instead of him imagination a total stranger with you. You may even help him get someone lined up as well.

Good Luck!

Starrkid24 · Unread post by **Starrkid24** » Thu Nov 21, 2019 10:25 pm

Thank you very much for the advice Terra!

Swamiguy · Unread post by **Swamiguy** » Wed Jan 15, 2020 8:54 pm

Hello, I have a very similar situation as the above poster except I’m the husband.

My wife and I recently started fantasizing together about having a threesome with another woman. The biggest obstacle is her fear of inviting trouble in our marriage. Nothing surprising there and I’m with her 100% about keeping trouble at bay.

After performing several divinations, and the desire just simply not going away for either of us, I want to make this happen.

What can I do to remove or resolve her fear of the unknown so that she’s at peace about moving forward? I’d rather not use any kind of coercive work here so I’m just not clear on if her situation really calls for influence work, tranquility or crucible of courage... All the above? I’m definitely wanting to start a longterm honey jar to always maintain peace, love and success in our relationship for general obvious reasons but to also help shield against the complications of adding more ‘fun’ into our bedroom.

The other half of my concern is attracting this unknown sexy someone to us that meets our criteria yet respects our boundaries, not to mention ensuring an amazing night for all involved, surviving it all and hopefully wanting more.

Would a moving candle attraction spell with a red marriage or lovers figural + a 3rd single red female candle with 1 male and 2 female lodestones be the best for this?

Any and all suggestions are very appreciated.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jan 16, 2020 11:57 pm

Swamiguy --

I suggest that iffear is driving her, you might try Crucible of Courage products. It is not coercive. Add it to Fire of Love or some other sexually potent formula.

Best of luck!

Swamiguy · Unread post by **Swamiguy** » Sat Jan 18, 2020 5:37 am

Thank you! I’ll get on it!

Just yesterday she said she’ll do it but in the future, not right now. I think that’s her giving herself time to work herself up.

mastersirius678 · Unread post by **mastersirius678** » Tue Nov 10, 2020 10:07 am

Question:

Can I use LM brought Lodestones, one representing me, and various other Lodestones representing different target females to work toward a harmonious polyamorous relationship?

Say I am Lodestone A, I attached Lodestone B to represent female A, then I attach Lodestone C to represent female B, and then feed this Lodestone cluster with the oils that they need to work toward that goal, which is both female A and female B involved in an open romantic relationship with me, and with each other between themselves.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Nov 16, 2020 3:55 pm

Hello mastersirius678,

Sure, you could work lodestones that way and see what results you get.

Good luck with your spell.

cihienahualli · Unread post by **cihienahualli** » Mon Nov 29, 2021 9:43 am

Hi everyone!

I've been suffering from an on and off involvement with two men. I've tried everything I could think of to resolve this, but I want to try a new angle now...

I'll call them L and O. L is a sweet, adorable boy, he makes me feel dreamy and soft, and O is bold and passionate, he makes me feel protected and cared for. I've been very confused about the whole ordeal, but at the end my conclussion is the same: I love them both. Both have qualities I like and which compliment me, when I'm with one of them I feel really good, but also miss the other man.

They both hate each other because of the jealousy, both want to be the one to have me and for the other one to dissappear. But that's impossible! I cannot give them that, recently I opened up with them and said the truth, that I love them both and I'm conflicted, but their response is pretty much the same..."if you love that guy so much, then go to him and forget about me".

Right now I'm with L. He's been living with me for a couple of months and we're doing amazing. I had contact with O, and he pretty much said that he'll wait for me, but that I have to leave L to be with him, or otherwise he'll leave and never forgive me. I can't do that! If I do it I'll just end up missing L again and then going back and forth over and over. I'm tired of this!

I've been getting several readings during this time,. The readers tell me that both of them truly love me, neither will leave, and the difference is O is more controlling and he's trying to manipulate me to come back and stay there, while L is being honest with me and letting me know he respects my feelings but all of this makes him feel insecure and replaceable.

Trying to settle with one and stay away from the other has been fruitless for a long time now. Some friends have told me "why don't you stay with both?" and I chuckle because of how impossible that sounds, I think they'd never agree to that, but it's literally the resolution that would finally end this trouble, it's definitely worth trying,

I ordered Miss Cat's book (she mentioned in this thread there's a good spell for keeping two men). Does anyone have any advice on how I could do this?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Nov 29, 2021 1:26 pm

cihienahualli,

I would ask an AIRR reader, "If I do magic to keep a lover and a Kid Man, what will be the result?" "will both men stay?", "will it be safe, loving". Doing the work will adapt the situation, one which one may choose to leave, or major conflict can occur. It is always a good idea to ask in a reading what will happen if i do X, Y, Z.

Miss Cats Book Down-Home Sex Magic is filled with real tricks to do this type of job. On a realistic note I would likely burn a candle with Peaceful Home Oil to keep things peaceful and calm at home.
https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-peaceful-home.html

On page 74 in HHRM- Miss Cat outlines a spell to keep a man and a Kid Man at the same time.

Adding Hoodoo to the kitchen would help, wether it be adding personal concerns to their food, or cooking with items to promote peace and happiness in the home. Such as Marjoram into the food to keep a house peaceful and filled with love. Adding Honey from a Honey Jar made for this specific purpose to the cooking.
Marjoram: http://www.herbmagic.com/marjoram.html
Hoodoo Food: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoofood.html

JayDee

strawberry_toebeans · Unread post by **strawberry_toebeans** » Fri Jun 07, 2024 5:34 pm

Hello everyone!

I've been working on a situation to foster a loving poly relationship with myself, a friend, and his wife. They've had an open arrangement in the past and brought the idea to me. I've gotten readings on it and done several workings with my airr reader's advice so far, and i'm preparing to work a pair of skull bottles on them that i will burn candles on.

My working thus far has been about reaffirming friendship, communication, affection, and trust, but i'm gearing up to do work to nudge the relationship towards more physical sexy affection. I have three honey jars already, one for each pairing (me and him, him and her, her and i) and a cooking sugar jar with all three of us in it. I took miss cat's advice from a previous post with the petition for the sugar jar by writing our names on each side of a triangle to keep things equitable and it felt very right. Had some really great signs and movement and even some completions!

I've purposely done the work slow and steady to build a good foundation between the three of us, as they are understandably wanting to maintain harmony in their marriage and none of us aim to invite trouble.

So my question is this, when writing out the petitions for their skull bottles, would it be a good idea that i stack concentric petitions that are supported by the inner petitions? first circle would read "i trust (spouse) and i trust (me)", next slightly larger circle would read, "i feel safe to open my marriage", third circle would read "i share (spouse) with (me) and it doesn't harm our love and friendships with each other". Oils would be ksw, chupparosa, crucible of courage, attraction, and fire of love (would adding tranquility douse that flame?).

Feedback is welcome!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jun 08, 2024 9:35 am

strawberry_toebeans,

The whole work is based on the assumption thus far that they do not feel safe sharing their marriage and it will cause harm. I have to ask is there a reason for this fear or is this you projecting what you think could be an issue? I personally would prepare the work for what you want, not what you are afraid could happen.

A skull with the three oils seeks true love and relationship, my petitions would reflect that "I am in love with (wife) and (you) in a poly relationship built on love and trust".

You do not have to load one working with everything, sometimes it is best to break things down into other workings that support your goals. IE When you come together work Peaceful Home, with Chuparrosa spells to make the relationships based on love and a peaceful relationship.

Peaceful Home: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-peaceful-home.html
Chuparrrosa https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-chuparrosa.html

JayDee

strawberry_toebeans · Unread post by **strawberry_toebeans** » Sat Jun 08, 2024 10:49 am

Hi JayDee,
I appreciate your response and insight! Their concern about harm to their marriage has come up in some of the readings and there have been some mentions of it in conversations among the three of us. I have had other arrangements in the past where people rushed in before fully exploring their feelings on sharing and boundaries and i don't want to get burned again because they didn't look before they leap. Your insight has me thinking i should do some healing and crucible of courage work on my own self

I love your rewording of the petitions and the inclusion of peaceful home, i'll definitely incorporate that. Thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jun 08, 2024 3:13 pm

strawberry_toebeans ,

It makes more sense now with your feedback. I suggest doing the work you want, to manifest your desire, not to counter what could go wrong. I would do the work you want and add helper candles around the work that represent those things you fear can happen. For example, you may do a honey jar on all three of you, and burn a Tranquility, Peaceful Home, Stay With Me, Love Me candles around it, adding helpful energy to the work.

I suggest a few spiritual baths to remove the emotional blocks or fears you have, this can be an Uncrossing bath, an herbal bath blend, or even a Road Opener. Then follow it with a Figural candle of you that is baptized and dressed with Crucible of Courage and Healing oil.

Uncrossing: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-uncrossing.html
Road Opener: https://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
9 Herb Bath: https://www.herbmagic.com/9-herb-spirit ... 1-day.html

JayDee