Spells for Engagement and Marriage Proposal, to Bless and Assist Matrimony, Stay With Me, Stay At Home

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 07, 2009 7:11 am

In regards to the fastest, and most powerful way, this is dependent upon you. The energy of the spell travels the least resistant path to the goal. Meaning however long it takes is however long it takes. If you speed up, the results to the spell, then your results will not last long.

Now how you will approach this is dependent on the CAUSE of her behavior. If it is something that YOU have done, then I suggest that you work on yourself. She is probably just responding to how you have treated her.

As for what you should do now, I would recommend doing a sweet jar (search on the forum it has been talked about). Also, i would suggest cleansing your house, and the relationship from the negativity.

As for kits, I would use the reconcilation spell kit, love me spell kit, peaceful home spell kit, stay with me spell kit.

It seems that you are more concerned with the power and control rather than having cooperation with your wife. Having power and control over your wife is not going to get her to love you, or anything of that sort. Well, at least it will not be genuine love or intimacy. Making her obsessed over you is going to do anything either and probably wont solve your problem. It is important to actually solve the problem both spell wise and not with spells. And controlling someone is not going to make them want you for the long run.

Anyways people are not "cold, nasty, and avoids any physical contact not to mention sex" without a reason, and obviously the reason is something that you have done. I would suggest to get some divination such as a tarot card reading to see exactly why she is revolting against you. But i have a feeling you know the reason.

tinkerbell · Unread post by **tinkerbell** » Thu Oct 15, 2009 9:19 am

I am new to this my husband and I are experiencing a divorece. I am seeing a pshychic and she is great but I need something that works fast for me. I was unfaithful to him and he is very hurt. I made a big mistake and all I want is for us to be a family again and to be happy. My question is will the reconcilation oil work and do I need a diffrent oil to stop the divorce. Please someone help!!!

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Thu Oct 15, 2009 12:30 pm

You need to break your work down into steps. Reconciliation oil alone will not fix your problem.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:06 am

Well, I would really think about the possibility do you think that you could be faithful to this man? I mean if there is even an inkling of you doing this again, or you did not resolve the conflict that made you cheat in the first place. Then there is no need to do any work. You need to resolve the issues that made you cheat anyways. I mean I understand that you made a big mistake,but it is essential that you are not embarking on this work due to selfish reasons.

Now I would probably a sweet jar and work with that continuously with a pink candle, and some reconcilation oil/herbs/powders. Then I would do a spell to perhaps change his mind such as a bend over, or even a domination spell. If you would like work with St.martha to dominate him to not want to get a divorce. Then follow up with a stay with me spell kit.

tinkerbell · Unread post by **tinkerbell** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 7:53 am

I know I can be faithful to him. I was for seven years. I love him and I made a bit mistake. I don't plan to do this again and would not do this again. I am not trying to be selfish. I love him and I know he loves me and that is the reason I would like to give it another try.

Hopefully our divorce gets delayes. We have our first court on November and the lawyer said it won't be final until february or March and many things can happen during that time. Thank you for your advice.

sadgrace · Unread post by **sadgrace** » Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:47 am

Hi Im new in magic and rituals but I really respected and believe
it If any can help me to cast or cast for me a, banishing and love return I will really thank you
My husband of 10 years started a new job we were separated but happy working things out to save 4 a new place we have a child and exactly 14 days ago he wrote to me a beautiful letter remaiding me of all our ups and downs saying how much he loves me and that he can wait no more & we should moving back now that we are spec ting our second child( twins)...we spend time togueder we even spend Thanksgiving together. then all of the sudden I got sick in the hospital and our mutual friend visit me and said tome that he was worried about him because he told him the day before crying that he met some girl at work and he can believe that he is not able to resist her &that he was suddenly very confused.well I was in the hospital 4 days and he told me for the first time in 11 years that he is moving on with his live and is over,this coming from a person that used to call me at work up to 4 times a day and call 3 or 4 times just to talk to the baby,and this was just 14 days ago . the baby got sick last nigth & after I told him, he had not call to ask for her at all, even his mother has call me worried, looks that he can get in deep trouble if he gets involve with this person he can loose his job, carrier etc.he is usualy very serious and center but in a matter of 13 days have changed completely
Please if anyone can help I will thank you for ever, If anyone can help me casting for me I will provide you with the necessary details as I said Im very inexperienced

I need advised to what kind of rituals to follow etc
grace

Unread post by **Mother Mystic** » Thu Dec 10, 2009 11:18 am

I would suggest you have a reading before starting any kind of magic work. The other woman may have done some magic work of her own that needs to be undone.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:57 pm

A reading is highly recommended. While some of us here are professional rootworkers and readers, this isn't exactly the place to find someone to cast for you. I sympathize with your situation, but what I'd recommend is go to www.readersandrootworkers.org and find a reader that really sounds good to you and set up an appointment to get a reading and consultation done. They'll be happy to read for you, give you magical coaching, and even cast on your behalf. Miss Bri seems to be popular around here and seems talented in love spells so you might want to try her, though I believe Ms. Robin and Dr. Kioni are known for having a good hand in separation, justice, and reconciliation work, especially in this context. Those would be my recommendations, miss bri, ms. robin, or Dr. Kioni, but feel free to go with whoever you like. You may also contact the proprietor of this board herself, miss cat, she does lovely readings and can even point you in the direction of someone who can help you with your case. Good luck!

nivedita · Unread post by **nivedita** » Tue Dec 29, 2009 12:01 am

Dear All:

I am very new in the world of magic and spells. I believe firmly in the fact that things happen for a reason and I have been guided by my divine spirits and angels to the site/world due to a reason.

My only and main concern is my relationship with my husband. Over the last 2-3 years things have turned very bitter between us. Although I have been really trying hard to work at the relationship, the progress is very slow and discouraging. I know that when things turn sour, one must be patient and heal things at the pace that the Universe deems fit. However, I really need help to ensure that I am getting back on track.

Not only does my husband seem completely disinterested in me, he has become obessed with a girl. I really do not trust this girl and I believe that she has cast some spell on him. In fact, I beleive that she has given some of her menstrual blood to him. Is there some way to reverse or nullify the effect of (i) the menstrual blood spell cast by her and (ii) ensure that she goes away from our lives.

I have read about the freeze spell and wash away spell. Will they help. Also should I mix my menstrual blood in my husband drinks when I am on my next cycle. Will it help nullify her effect?

I want to have a happy life with my husband and want to conceive a baby by april 2010?

Please help me

Niv

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 29, 2009 12:25 pm

Well - I would put off your plans for having a baby until you get all this figured out with your husband. Babies do not solve relationship problems, and it certainly won't make a complicated situation any easier. You want that pregnancy and that baby to be calm and contented - so put that on the backburner until this is resolved. At least that would be my advice!

I would get a reading on the situation to find out what is going on. There are very different ways to proceed if he is bound up by her, or if he is just plain cheating - so you need to know what's going on so you can know how to proceed correctly. If you are new to the work, then depending on the situation, you may need a worker to do some of the more heavy hitting if it's called for.

Look through the workers at the AIRR http://www.readersandrootworkers.org and get a consultation from one that resonates with you.

Roro2 · Unread post by **Roro2** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:23 am

hi ,

I need help to cast a very powerfull love spell...Im involved with a love relation for more than 6 years now and we are facing horrible problems now...so i need him to love me again as before.

Rania

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:28 am

I suggest that you get a reading done before you attempt any work. In addition, there is not such thing as a very powerful love spell. What may be powerful and successful for someone else may not be powerful for your situation. Every situation is different. If you want to hire a professional, then you can hire a rootworker. But get a reading first. In addition, it would help if you elaborated on your problem just a little bit enough to get some help.

Roro2 · Unread post by **Roro2** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:29 am

hi all again,

sorry i forgot to ask what is the better thing to order from mojo to help me in that...it is my first time i dont know really what to do..it seems im desperate

Roro2 · Unread post by **Roro2** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:30 am

thank star for helping me...but as I told you it is my first time..never tried any thing before and i need to know how to hire a rootworker?????????????

Rania

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 4:05 am

Roro wrote:thank star for helping me...but as I told you it is my first time..never tried any thing before and i need to know how to hire a rootworker?????????????

Rania

You can go to www.readersandrootworkers.org and read about a number of readers and workers who take on clients. That's what I suggest you do.
Good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 4:19 am

I agree with Bri. And if you want feel free to PM different members here about their experiences with people they have gone to. In addition, I do not know much about your problem. So I cant give you any suggestions on what you can do on your own. But for starters you could do a sweet jar. Search the forum on how to do one, and search the luck ymojo site as well.

Roro2 · Unread post by **Roro2** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 5:09 am

thank you Bri and Star as well...
star , please I need you tell me how to contact th lucky mojo site to cast me candles for my case and light it in their church ....

thank u so much dear

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:57 am

Roro wrote:thank you Bri and Star as well...
star , please I need you tell me how to contact th lucky mojo site to cast me candles for my case and light it in their church ....

thank u so much dear

You can contact Missionary Independent Spiritual Church for the candle setting services by going here: http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html
take care,
Bri

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 8:44 am

Well seems the questions has been answered.Setting lights are okay, but remember you might have to set several lights, and/or get some more work done if this is slightly time intensive.

A reconciliation light would be great to work in your case,and perhaps you might want to light a sweet jar dressed with some reconciliation oils and herbs.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 8:54 pm

Look into the Missionary Independent to set lights for you. Look into LM's spellkits they come ready for you to use right out of the bag. You can look at the honey jar that they've got all ready for you, the Love Me, Come to Me, and the Reconciliation Kit.

A reading is highly recommended for more personalized advice. www.readersandrootworkers.org will give you a list of rootworkers and readers who can help you with your situation. Look at the profiles, see who draws you the most.

LilCassandra · Unread post by **LilCassandra** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:24 am

What's the difference between stay with me and stay at home products? It seems they do the same thing. Also, with stay at home, what counts as home? If the person stays in the city with you but just as often lives with his parents, what counts as "home"? Would using stay at home make him go back to somewhere else? Stupid questions but confused...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:53 am

Stay at home is to keep your lover or partner at home with you rather than running the streets or going out a lot. Stay with me is to keep your partner, or lover with you, and faithful to you. I would think that both places would count as home. The fact of the matter is it will keep them to spend more time at home rather than out or too much time away from home. Stay at home...makes them stay where ever they reside. Home to me means...Where does the mail go? Where does he keep his clothes, and his personal belongings? When doing this spell, I would say may so and so stay home with me and/or his parents. Manipulate it to suit your needs.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-stay-at-home.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

gemini2 · Unread post by **gemini2** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:09 am

Question: If I use 'stay at home' would that fall under just hang out with me in general? I mean I'd like him to want to stay home with me but when I want to go out, go to the movies with him and go to things around town will he kick up fuss? or would he just want to stay home all the time literally, even if i want to go out? I want to spend quality time but i dont want to be a shut in! I'm wondering if this would be best then. Is there a 'take me out' product i could buy ^.^

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:05 am

Hi gemini,

I am learning as well, but I think it is safe to say that whatever your intentions are is what you will get. If you do the spellwork wanting him to be under you all the time then he will be. If not, specify that. I see stay at home as just staying out of the streets, not hanging out with "the boys" as frequently; doesnt necessarily mean he will be under you all the time either, I think that goes more into controlling, bend over work, which is a whole different work in itself.

I think once you get him to stay at home more you will be able to get him to take you out more anyway, and if not, you can always put some compelling or controlling on him to get him to do so.

I could be wrong, though.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:41 am

sounds good mommystwin27 but controlling and essence of bend over are a lot more cohersive than stay at home or stay with me.. Quality time is important to maintain any relationship but to make him think he has the idea is more compelling than controlling and I think stay at home is more appropriate for gemini than stay with me. If that is what you are asking but please remember you get what you ask for...some men just like hanging out with the boys and still come home...

gemini2 · Unread post by **gemini2** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 9:25 pm

I'll have to think on it. It's complicated >.< lol. He does stay home but just wants to do his own thing or sit in front of the tv (I'm so not a tv person) but i was afraid to use anything to get him out of the house incase he would start that and leave me behind! ..I think some reading on each is in order! lol. Thank you both, your responses were much apprecited!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:59 pm

If he's staring at the TV all the time and you want some loving, use Fire of Love or Dixie Love to get more sex. If you just want him to pay more attention to you, try Look Me Over. If you want to go out on the town with him, use Follow Me Boy and tell him you'd enjoy his company.

Good luck.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:12 am

Look me over and follow me boy are great for what you described.

Sephie31 · Unread post by **Sephie31** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 6:59 am

I'm getting ready to do a great deal of work on my marriage to partner with counseling and practical work. However, I've hit a bit of a conundrum and I thought I would ask you all for some help.

I have a variety of spells that I want to do (uncrossing, fidelity, strengthening our relationship and compliance- cause he needs to keep his promises), and I've got everything worked out save for one thing- I normally like to petition a spirit to help me out.

I would petition the lwa (I like to work with the Guede from time to time), but I don't know if what I want to do will be appropriate, considering there isn't much room where I am to give them the kind of ceremony I feel they deserve.

However, I did come upon La Santisima Muerte, who I read helps with a little bit of everything and tends to be a kind spirit, as long as one is respectful and does their best. Honoring her (for the duration of the spells, however long that might be) along with my ancestors wouldn't be a problem, so I wouldn't be worried about shirking her in attention or thanks. I was wondering if this would be a good idea, if anyone had some experience with her they wanted to share? I'm pretty confident that it wouldn't be a bad idea, but I always like to check in case I am wrong (which happens more often than I'd like.

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Any help is welcome. Thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 8:08 am

I would be cautious of working with Santisima Muerte along with the Lwa. Just do a divination to make sure she won't feel it is any kind of conflict, as she does tend to be a fairly jealous spirit.

Why not just petition your ancestors for aid in this case - they love you and would wish the best for your relationship and would likely be very willing to help your cause.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:28 am

Sephie31 wrote:I'm getting ready to do a great deal of work on my marriage to partner with counseling and practical work. [...] I did come upon La Santisima Muerte, who I read helps with a little bit of everything and tends to be a kind spirit, as long as one is respectful and does their best. [...] I was wondering if this would be a good idea, if anyone had some experience with her they wanted to share?

Santisima Muerte is a Mexican Holy figure/Saint/Spirit that is used to deal with issues of infidelity, specifically infidelity of the husband and more recently is also petitioned to protect those engaged in the illegal drug trade or other unlawful activities. None of the Mexican workers that i know would describe her as a "kind" spirit -- she is a spirit that a wife petitions to sexually bind her husband and keep him faithful only to her. So if that is a concern for you in your marriage, working with her makes sense, but if you are dealing with other issues and are not concerned with infidelity I would stay away from her.

good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:44 am

Your question, unfortunately, is only marginally connected to the subject of this forum, which concerns using Lucky Mojo spiritual supplies in conjure work according to the practices of African American hoodoo of the US South.

Because the US shares a border with Mexico, there has recently been quite a bit of interest among Catholic hoodoo practitioners in working with the Mexican goddess / folk-saint Santisima Muerte / Holy Death for marital fidelity. You may read about her here:

http://luckymojo.com/santisimamuerte.html

Lucky Mojo makes a full line of Santisima Muerte products, including oils, incense, candles, and powders, as well as stocking medals and other small amulets bearing her image,

Group discussion of Santisima Muerte can also be found in the section of the forum here on "altar work" in which Mexican folk-magic is discussed.

For advice on working with the Lwa / Loa, please see your own clergy at your own Vodoo / Vodou religious center.

For spells in the US hoodoo tradition and other cultural systems of folk-magic that help with a variety of marriage situations, please see the following "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice," "Lucky W Amulet Archive," and "Arcane Archive" pages:

MAGICK AMULETS, CHARMS, and TALISMANS for FAITHFUL LOVE and MARRIAGE

How to select, create, charge, and empower love charm amulets and talismans from many cultures to keep your spouse, mate, wife, or husband faithfully at home and stop them cheating.

http://www.luckymojo.com/munaiwarmi.html
Munaiwarmi (Love Stone) Charms, Quechua

http://www.luckymojo.com/marriagemilagro.html
Copper Marriage Milagro from Peru

http://www.luckymojo.com/magneticdogs.html
Magnetic Dogs, American

http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
Nation Sack, hoodoo

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:46 am

Here are some more "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice," "Lucky W Amulet Archive," and "Arcane Archive" pages on marriage spells:

FREE MAGIC LOVE SPELLS for FAITHFUL ROMANCE and MARRIAGE

Easy Love Spells that you can perform for yourself to keep your lover, mate, partner,
wife, or husband faithfully at home and stop marriage cheating; the information is free!

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#lodestonelove
Lodestone Fidelity Charm Love Spells

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#committedlove
6 Love Spells and Charms to Celebrate Marriage, including La Chuparosa Divine Hummingbird Spell

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#hoodoonature
How to Hoodoo a Lover's Nature So He or She Cannot Be Untrue

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... iejackball
"Love Me or Die" Jack Ball to Goofer a Man

http://www.luckymojo.com/gau.html#lovespell
Love Spells in a Gau (Tibetan Buddhist Prayer Box)

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
The Honey Jar Love Spell for Sweetening a Lover to You

http://www.luckymojo.com/esoteric/occul ... pells.html
Love Spells from Various Traditions

http://www.luckymojo.com/altmagickfaq/fuckspells.html
The alt.magick reference file of love and sex spells

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:48 am

Here is a third and final batch of "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice, "Lucky W Amulet Archive" and "Arcane Archive" pages on marriage spells:

SPIRITUAL SUPPLIES USED IN LOVE SPELLS for FAITHFUL ROMANCE and MARRIAGE

Information about how traditional anointing oils, incense, and candles are used in
stay with me and stay at home spells for fidelity and loving faithfulness, plus free magick love spells you can try for yourself.

http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html
Chuparrosa Hummingbird spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
Dixie Love spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
Follow Me Boy spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/lavenderlove.html
Lavender Love Drops spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
Love Me spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html
Marriage spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Peaceful Home spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html
Stay At Home spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Stay With Me spiritual supplies

http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html
Figural Candles for Fidelity and Marriage Love Spells

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:54 am

Others have given excellent advice and Miss cat has given you plenty of links to help with your situation. I would only add that while the Guede are a popular family, not many houses would ask for their assistance with human marriage wanga. This falls more clearly under the domain of a number of other lwa, depending on which ones your house serves.

rvd_2 · Unread post by **rvd_2** » Thu Apr 29, 2010 7:09 pm

Hi,
im new to this forum...I just did a honey jar spell for a man i love. Our situation is complicated because we are both committed. Things have changed lately, he doesnt call me like he used to and it seems like he's avoiding me. I would want him to come back to me like he was before.Is their anything i can do aside from my honey jar spell?pls tell me and give me instructions so i can order.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Apr 29, 2010 8:17 pm

First step is to get a reading to see what is going on to cause him to be distant. The honey jar is a good start to sweeten him to you. Do you have personal concerns of his?

rvd_2 · Unread post by **rvd_2** » Thu Apr 29, 2010 10:18 pm

the personal concern is a tshirt of his which he gave me. i got a small piece of the shirt and placed it in the honey jar. What is the best way to have a reading?

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Thu Apr 29, 2010 11:55 pm

rvd wrote:the personal concern is a tshirt of his which he gave me. i got a small piece of the shirt and placed it in the honey jar. What is the best way to have a reading?

Contact a reader/rootworker through AIRR:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

thickred · Unread post by **thickred** » Sun May 09, 2010 2:46 pm

i met a guy who is great and i want to keep him what will keep him with me

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun May 09, 2010 3:53 pm

Look at the Stay With Me line of products to encourage fidelity. Adam and Eve is a good choice for encouraging a long-term relationship. Throwing in a little Love Me will make a nice 3-oil combo.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun May 09, 2010 3:54 pm

Start with a reading if you have not had one to see what is needed thickred. Have your read the pages on domination love spells? http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html... You may also want to read Hoodoo in Theory and Practice which includes many more love spells...found here http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

nOriL · Unread post by **nOriL** » Sat Jul 24, 2010 7:12 pm

Hi everyone my name is Nat & i don't know much about this stuff.
I have always had a hard time keeping a relationship. They never work out for too long.
Recently I met a guy & things are rocky already. I want to keep him around & pursue a relationship but don't know how to go about it.
The other day i passed by a place that stole lots of candles & different sort of things, a Bontanica i think it's called & the lady gave me
a red candle, told me to write his name & call Saint Martha's name on it. I did it and when i burned it it burned half way then stopped.
I don't know if i did something wrong but i would love to know the correct way to do it.
If anyone knows can you please help and explain. Thanks guys-*Nat*

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jul 24, 2010 7:45 pm

To learn more about Hoodoo, I will suggest cat's online book: Hoodoo in Theory and Practice (an introduction to African American Rootwork click the link here>>>>http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

Additionally, have you considered a reading on issues described (above)? Lucky Mojo (LM) has great readers/rootworkers found here http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Additionally you will learn the appropriate color candle to use and information about Saint Martha from reading this forum alone. Good Luck on your journey and welcome to the forum.

Allsgood · Unread post by **Allsgood** » Sat Aug 07, 2010 5:13 am

The father of my child wants to leave me. He has actually said that it was over between us and that he just wants to care for his child. It is making it extremly hard because 1. We still live together, he sleeps on the couch (by choice) and I'm not sure when he'll be leaving. I'm not sure what's going on with him this was like an overnight decision and now he's really tryna prove to his sister that he will no longer be with me. He is cordial to me, brings me food, even gives me a kiss or a hug if I ask and even says he still loves me but on the other hand he says it's over and it just won't work btwn us. I've tried the menses in food thing and waited for results, went on vacation but didn't see a difference. Only texted me once to see how his child was. I'm confused because I love him and want more then anything for us to have a happy family but if he doesn't want to be there I don't want to keep him there. I want to in a way give him what he wants (to be without me) and let him see his child but it's hard given our living situation And especially with all of the emotions tied into it.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Aug 07, 2010 7:05 am

You really need to get a reading to see what is behind this - whether he's simply not in love and not into the relationship anymore (it happens), or whether there's something else going on (like a new woman, or something). A reading can help determine his motivations for this change, and also provide you with ideas for how to change things.

At least he wants to be honorable and take care of the child! That's a rather rare commodity nowadays, sadly. Though if you are not married, I would go to court right away and get an order for child-support to make sure he is legally bound to continue that no matter what happens with the relationship between the two of you.

As stated in the menstrual blood thread, it's not the be-all end-all answer. It just binds the man to you, it doesn't necessarily make him love you and want to be with you. In a sense he is already bound to you very strongly since you have a child together that he loves and cares for.

If you actually do want to let him leave you, you can use Separation products to gently get him to start moving more away from you. If he's still not making moves to leave the house, then you could add Banishing products to it to encourage him to get out.
Put him and the child, or the 3 of you into a Peaceful Home honey jar. That will help keep things amicable and respectful between everyone.

But go ahead with a reading to figure out what's going on. You can find a reader at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Allsgood · Unread post by **Allsgood** » Sat Aug 07, 2010 2:23 pm

Wow, okay... as much as I am afraid of the truth I will get one. Thanks. I think I may do a honey jar.

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Mon Aug 16, 2010 6:14 am

try stay with me, love me and chuparrosa products. I was where you are not long ago, and although the relationship is not where i want it to be yet I dont think he will ever leave me and our baby

Hoodooudo55 · Unread post by **Hoodooudo55** » Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:59 pm

I am new to this forum and would like help in
1. Stopping my divorce
2. get my husband back
3. Break up my husbands and his GF

A year ago my husband of 25 years told me he wanted a divorce and that there was no one else. We were living in two different states due to our jobs but were trying to relocate to be together again. We kept talking about where to live when we retired up until the day he gave me divorce papers and said there was no one else. I was devastated because I was in a state where I had no family except my daughter. I later found out he was seeing a younger woman who worked under his supervision (her boss). After confrontiing him and the denials she convinved him to tell me the truth or she would tell me herself. So he did. When he told me how the affair got started I realized she had this all planned and her method of manipulating him was transparent. My husband is a weak man and did not like living alone and she knew he was married and had a family. She stuck to him like glue and would not let him out of her claws. Well I have decided to fight back and try to get him back. I am extremely angry at how he has treated me and at her for interfering with my marriage. I want that no good hussy out of my husbands life and kill whatever feelings he has for her, and to stop the divorce. Please help! I already have a honey jar going and have had a reading that only revealed that I fight for him.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 2:45 am

You need to get a reading as this is a difficult situation. I would recommend getting a reading from www.readersandrootworkers.org...I would recommend that you get a reading along with a consultation to help you decide what you should do. In addition, please do a forum search to see how others have dealt with the situation of divorce

1. I would recommend that you do some reconciliation and return to me work. In addition, you might want to do some work to change his mind about getting a divorce, which can be done through bend over work.
i-need-help-to-stop-my-divorce-t8270.html
www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
www.luckymojo.com/bendover.html

2. You need to do some break up work. On the break up page there is a good spell at the bottom of the page that helps reunite a person to you while cutting the other person out.

www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

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Hoodooudo55 · Unread post by **Hoodooudo55** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 8:20 am

We are on speaking terms and he has visitied our daughter. He asked if he could stay at our house and I fixed a room for him. I did read about the spell to cut her out but I also send her to some other man while I am cutting her out? I did get a reading from one of the readers and root workers association. I ordered some products from Lucky Mojo and ordered some goofer dust, inflammaatory confusion and the oil, hyssop, I have been so hurt from him and her that I put some of the inflammatory confusion oil in his after shave and mixed the goofer dust with it and sprinkled some in his shoes and socks. I bought it for a break up spell I was going to try but don't know if I was supposed to do something or say something along with it. He is leaving today and I wanted him to come in contact with the powder. I am still so mad about his deception and want him to suffer since he has always been protected by people who cover for him. He hates to be alone and is afraid of the loneliness and I feel if I could try to break them up and draw her to another man this would really hurt him.

faith2008 · Unread post by **faith2008** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 8:37 am

St Martha would be good to work with in this case. You can do a search on her as there is already a lot posted about her. Her day is Tuesday and her candle colors are green or red but I believe most people use red. She is very good at bringing husbands under control.

Good luck to you!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 9:05 am

Okay if you have gotten a reading then what did they tell you...you could possibly do for this situation? I think you need more along the lines of a consultation.

And yes you can send her to another man, but if you are just starting out...I would recommend doing it in pieces rather than doing something that might be overwhelming to you. So you could do something to cut her out, and then you could do an attraction or come to me spell to attract another man to her.

If you are upset, then that is fine...but seems like you are more hell bent on getting revenge rather than getting this man back. It seems like your anger is getting in the way of actually doing what you need to do to a certain degree. I understand you are made, but you have to focus and calm down so that you can effectively execute what you need to do . If you cannot do this then you need a professional to help you back up what you are doing.

Hoodooudo55 · Unread post by **Hoodooudo55** » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:04 am

Starsinthesky,
the AIRR reader told me I could fight for him if I wanted to and recommended starting with a honey jar to sweeten him to me. Since we are going through the divorce she recommended a honey jar to sweeten the parties to me since the judge and his attorney are against me. Then a confusion vigil to confuse him and hopefully not appear or call on next hearing which the Judge would dismiss. She recommended a break bottle and since I had all this anger I told her I could probably do this spell myself. I also asked her about St. Martha the dominator since I read alot about her but the reader said she didn't do coersive work. I bought a St. Martha the dominator candle and lit it last night since it was Tuesday. I made an altar, put a white cloth on it, a glass of water and cleaned the fixed vigil candle, and burned some sage. I admit I wasn't quite prepared but wanted to start some communication with her. On the vigil candle it says to write my name nine times on a oiece of paper and then put it under the cande. I started with a prayer I read on one of the postings. Then prayed that she give me a sign if she would work with me. I didn't do a petition and was unclear about this. Do I do a petition after she lets me know she will work with me or should I hade done that initially?

Starsinthesky, I want to make it clear that I do love and have loved my husband very much, but I feel the way the way he went about this was wrong and selfish and very harmful to me. The hussy made sure she kept him with her everynight, and when he finally exposed the affair and the divorce she made sure shortly after, that he move in with her after he lost his job so he wouldn't go through it by himself. When I asked him if he even thought about what this would do to me since I was alone in a state without family or friends? To this he replied that it was easier for him because I was away and he didn't have to see me. From one woman to another I saw what she was doing and I couldn't fight for him from over here and the agony and hurt of this younger hussy interfering and me being tossed out like an old worn shoe was devastating. I took a back seat to my husbands career and now facing retirement and realizing this divorce is going to leave me broke. I worked hard and supported him throughout his career and wanted to do more in mine but he would tell me "no, don't worry, I''ll handle making the money and you just worry about the kids." Now that I am at the end my retirement is hardly what his is. I thought he and I would be enjoying our later years together and enjoying our grandkids but now I am looking to being by myself and broke while she steps in my shoes and pushes me aside without going through the hardships and furthermore gets to enjoy a prosperous life with my husband. Classic case, I know,,, it happens all the time. I wouldn't ever do this to another woman and have been hit on by married men but never would I do this because I don't believe in it. Sorry, Starsinthesky the emotions just started flowing out. Never thought this would happen to me but here I am. So after a year I decided to fight back now that I am emotionally stronger.

Ms_Glama · Unread post by **Ms_Glama** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 5:48 pm

Hi everyone I am very excited to be here..and confident I will be helped. My divorce to my husband of 3 years is on monday what can i do to stop it?? We have a son together. I grew up with my mom being my mom and dad and dont want that for my son. My husband changed and a year went by and he did no try to salvage or marriage i knw he loves me but he doesnt have faith our marriage will work, i have given up so much and even changed my religion for him..the problems we had was his fault and he admits but he doesnt want to try,,pls tell me what i can do to change his mind..

Darth Rosa · Unread post by **Darth Rosa** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:00 pm

The first step is to focus on cleansing. As of right now, you should take a hot bath and release any pent up emotions you're feeling. Then you should light some white candles, relax, breathe, and meditate. This should help to give you clarity.

Ms_Glama · Unread post by **Ms_Glama** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:06 pm

thanks..i will when my son goes to bed

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:18 pm

You need to contact a reader/rootworker as soon as possible. To be frank you don't have much time. The divorce is this Monday and you are asking for help 3 days before. While I am not sure the divorce can be stopped what you can do is see if a rootworker is willing to work something to help delay court dates and get things mixed up enough so that you can delay the divorce, hearing, and what not. This will help buy you time so you can plan on whether reconciliation work is feasible at this point.

Also, I heard someone mention something great. Just because you get divorced doesn't mean you can't salvage your relationship. Again which approach will help you can be determined by a reader/rootworker at www.readersandrootworkers.org

Ms_Glama · Unread post by **Ms_Glama** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:30 pm

If i cant stop the divorce, what can i do to make him realize he is losing his family and to build his faith back in our marriage..

Darth Rosa · Unread post by **Darth Rosa** » Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:47 pm

Ms_Glama, check out these spells from Lucky Mojo's free spell archive that you can perform for your situation. http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html