Reconciliation Spell Kit Honey Jar Kit and Painted Bottle Spell Questions and Answers

Astariell · Unread post by **Astariell** » Mon May 25, 2009 2:55 pm

That makes sense. I didn't consider the 72 hour thing....too much on the brain lately.......That is what is so good here...Glad this forum is up and running....Thanks for the advise. I agree to that....Tuesday then....

Ginger777 · Unread post by **Ginger777** » Mon May 25, 2009 7:19 pm

lol...I can understand that...I lose my brain lots of times!

jewel · Unread post by **jewel** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 4:51 am

We still talk everyday and he says he loves me. But he isnt as cuddly anymore. So do I still need the reconciliation kit anymore- The next problem I have is that I have no place where I can leave everything out without cleaning it up. ANd for
sending him the letter, his mom opens his mail and reads it before he does. So what should I Do? I really just want him to be more affectionate with me.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:00 am

If you want further reconciliation then you do the spell, if you do the spell you commit to doing the spell entirely. That means that if you have to be sneaky to do it, you be sneaky, if you have to find a place where you can do it uninterrupted you find that place. Often the effort that we put into spell work is a good indicator of the effort we are willing to put into the situation. If he is not worth the work then he is not worth your time and if he is worth your time then he is also worth the work.

good luck,
Bri

jewel · Unread post by **jewel** » Mon Aug 31, 2009 3:52 pm

He does look through some of my things to see if i am doing any spells. HE gets curious when he smells candles. So how do i do it without him knowing?

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Tue Sep 01, 2009 11:07 pm

I say do it when he is sleeping, so if you have to get up at the Butt crack of dawn to do it then do it. I would say when he is at work, but if you guys' schedules don't match up the way they are suppose to then that makes it difficult. If he asks, tell him it's a candle ( cause that's what it is). Try and take off the label if you have a label on it. Tell him that you are trying to do something new, meditation and tell him that he is interrupting you; let him know that that is your special time for yourself, let him know how much that time means to you. If he gives you problems then maybe you might want to reevaluate because he isn't giving you something that you want and really need.

I tell my roommate when I'm doing my candle burning that. I'm meditating, so I can't be disturbed for however many minutes or hours that I'll be doing my work for.

As for the letter you could take a tip from the past and write him a note and hand deliver it to him, so his mother doesn't read it. Besides what's it to her how you feel about her son and all. It's between you and him, and she is one of those mothers that can't let go, so work with what you got.

Good Luck! :>)

jewel · Unread post by **jewel** » Mon Sep 07, 2009 3:51 am

I have a couple questions. Can the letter I give the person be a caard and instead of mailing it after i throw bath water out on the last day can I give it to the person the next time i see them or do I mail it out like said?

jewel · Unread post by **jewel** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 5:14 am

I need help with the reconsile spell kit. I was reading the paper and it said after the nine days collect everything and wait for three days before doing anything. I have read other places that after the nint day send your letter without waiting. Which is the correct and most effective way?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 6:12 am

I would use the directions that came with the kit - those have worked for plenty of people, or those instructions wouldn't be there. So wait 3 days and then send. Don't second guess yourself. You want all your energy to be positive and confident in the work.

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 6:52 pm

(All right, I've searched and have learnt how to avoid spamming with posting new topics that are already here!)

For shapes in dripped off wax, I've got a seal, a mouse, and the most obvious, a phallus (erect.) Phallus probably means sexual desire...? Not sure about the other meanings for the mouse and seal.

Any ideas on wax shape meanings? And yep, I checked the Lucky Mojo part of the site on candle stuff.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Sep 20, 2009 3:32 pm

How about looking up the meaning of a seal and a mouse in terms of dreams. I would do a good search on this. Otherwise you need to get some divination done through a reader.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Sep 26, 2009 12:02 pm

Yes, a card is fine. The idea is to get them to touch it. A great deal of conjure magic depends for its efficacy on physical contact.

Reconciliation Spell Kit

Use in Magic:
Have you and someone had a foolish quarrel? Has an enemy jinxed your romance? Try Reconciliation to forgive and forget past problems, fights, and break-ups; to repair friendships; to restore love affairs; and to renew peace in the family and harmony in the home.

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SPL-KIT-RECO
Reconciliation Spell Kit
$65.25

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heaven · Unread post by **heaven** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 11:18 am

I am starting the reconciliation spell kit today and my love will be gone for the next few weeks and I will be unable to write a letter and mail it to him. I wrote him a letter and dressed it appropriately and dropped it off where he will receive it tomorrow since this would be the only way to have him read a letter. The kit specifies that it be done at the end and to mail it, my question is, is this okay to do it out of sequence especially since I am not starting the spell kit until tomorrow before dawn? thank you

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 11:45 am

As long as you compensate for it, sure. Spells are put down the way they are due to tradition, but tradition doesn't always conform to the realities of life. Therefore we make do, we change things, we make them work for us. You may just have to refocus your intent a little differently, but I see no reason why you can't make it work.

heaven · Unread post by **heaven** » Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:05 am

thank you!

Christeina · Unread post by **Christeina** » Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:48 am

Somebody recommand me to buy a reconsilation spellkit through U and now I got it.

Do I have to use all items??? It is a problem to go to a crossraoad in a big city a throw my bathingwater over the left shoulder, and the loveletter I don´t know about, because have already tried to contact him several times. Any suggestions?

I have:
1 pink bride and gromm candle
1 pair matched loadstones
1 packet magnetic sand
1 packet reconsilation Incense powders
1 packet reconsilation bath crystals
1 packet reconsilation sachet powder
1 bottle reconsilation oil
1 packet Balm og Gilead Buds
1 pink flannel bag with metal dove charm

Looking forward to hearing from U

Unread post by **Mother Mystic** » Sat Nov 07, 2009 8:16 am

You should follow all the directions in the spell kit if you want results. You don't have to carry a lot of bathwater to the crossroads, a paper cup full will do. Get up early in the morning when there's not a lot of people around, or people are in an un-caffeinated blur and no one will notice if you toss a small amount of water over your shoulder.

If you've tried to contact him several times with no results, then maybe this spell kit is not for you. You should get a reading on the situation from a reputable practitioner who can tell you if there is a chance of this guy coming back or not.

newgirl2 · Unread post by **newgirl2** » Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:52 pm

Hi, I'm new to spell casting and hoodoo. But, a couple of days ago I did a honey jar spell for my ex boyfriend. I just really want things to be reconcilled between us. And, I want him to learn a lesson from the way that he treated me (this is why I also plan on performing a vinegar jar spell as well). Well, after doing the honey jar spell I burried the jar in my back yard under a tree - I have no Idea why I decided to do this, I just got the feeling that I neeeded to.

Then today, I decided to dig up the honey jar in order to work it-since it is a new moon. I wanted to light a red candle on top of the jar.Well, I didnt have a lighter, and had to borrow one from a neighbor. But each time I tried to light the candle it wouldnt take. Finally, the candle lit, but the fire alarm went off in my room. So, I had to remove the jar from my room, and set it in the livingroom. The candle was still lit, so i decided to return the lighter to my neighbor. But, after about a minute or two or remaining lit, the candle went out. My question is, do you think that all of these things are a sign that i shouldnt work the honey jar? Or, is my target(ex-boyfriend) simply resisting the spell? Why would he be resisting? He doesnt know anything about spellwork. And although our breakup was pretty bad, we're still on speaking terms.

P.S.
I also did the spell on a wanning moon if that means anything

And the first time I did the spell, the red candle burned all the way out
-confused

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:10 pm

When people are new to spellcasting they often take quite a bit as signs, try to remember that though various forms of divination can be done through the candle flame, the placement of the wax etc, that it should be something that takes time developing as its a subjective interpretive art. It all could have simply been bad candle manufacturing and bad luck, but you could do a reading to find out why you were having such difficulty with the casting, but it could easily be attributed to a simple fact: reconciliation work is just that, work. A reading is advisable simply because you want to know if your avenue of work is really worth it.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Nov 17, 2009 3:56 am

You posted this is another section already. It isn't necessary to post in both. Point in other posting...get a reading. This is a board simply to seek advice in general. If you want insight to your particular spell work...then you need to get a reading.

snake · Unread post by **snake** » Tue Nov 17, 2009 5:00 pm

I bought the Reconciliation kit figuring that I could adapt it to reconcile with a friend. Any suggestions as to how I could do this? Or should I just do the spell as-is? I do feel a lot of love for the friend.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Nov 17, 2009 7:41 pm

the kit can be used for friends as the product says to reconcile lovers or friends. its really the intent that you put into the oil and the petition that will determine how its reconciling..being you both were never lovers id not worry about this making them fall in love with you lol. do the spell as it says sending the dressed letter and burn the candle with the intention of you being close amazing friends again.

Krueger · Unread post by **Krueger** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 6:13 pm

I apologize now as I'm sure this has been asked, but when I did a search, I couldn't find anything.

Is it possible to use the Reconciliation spell kit and the Reconciliation honey jar kit at the same time? Or is one preferable over the other? My other half and I have decided to try and work things out on our own, but I would like something to maybe aid the process.

Thank you so much for your time.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 6:14 pm

Yes, you can use them at the same time. The Reconciliation honey jar can go on the altar with the rest of the material, and the jar can even be used as a base on which to burn candles as part of the larger Reconciliation spell.

jancy · Unread post by **jancy** » Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:53 am

My ex and i broke up because of issues we had with our families. So theres a few obstacles between us and because of that he doesnt want to get back together (at least not now, he says). he says he misses me and often thinks about me.

what can i try to get us back together?

p.s. i only have clothing and pics of him. I cant get hair, sweat, semen etc..

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jan 20, 2010 11:54 am

Probably http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

Though I would recommend getting a reading before beginning any new work to make sure that you know the whole story, and that there's still a good chance. They can also provide advice specific to your case.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jan 20, 2010 11:55 am

Well if you guys aren't on speaking terms or things are tense you can look at the Reconciliation spellkit, but since you guys are already talking you might consider Love Me or Come to Me. I would recommend getting a reading to help gauge the dynamics of this situation better. From there the reader can point you in a direction that will work best for your situation. YOu might also need to work on the family situation and other road blocks. Consider things like a honey jar for his family, Road Opener conjure, and maybe even a doll baby.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Fri Feb 05, 2010 3:37 am

I was once told or I read it somewhere....

That when u start doing wk on people (i.e the person ur trying to get back with) they become angry. As if they are fighting the work that is being done. They are unusually rude, fast & quick towards u - dont wanna talk with u etc.,)

Is there any truth in that???

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Fri Feb 05, 2010 6:20 am

Its definitely true for some people and some work, but it is by no means a universal truth.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 05, 2010 7:04 am

People do respond to work being done on them in various ways. Sometimes you have to work them from different angles.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Feb 05, 2010 1:47 pm

HD said it well. That does happen sometimes, but sometimes is the key. It depends on the type of work you do, how they are "resisting" it (are they protected, is your focus scattered..) and other factors. However, it is by no means a universal sign.

Rourou123 · Unread post by **Rourou123** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 3:56 am

dear all,

i need to order from LM things for love reconciliation as I broke up with my man from 3 days now...so please help me to tell me what you tried and very powerfull ....

thanks

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 8:46 am

The Reconciliation Spell Kit is the most comprehensive thing to order and the best bang for your buck.
Good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 8:20 pm

All work is powerful if you focus appropriately. In addition, I hope you are in the right state of mind to do this. Sometimes being too emotional is not a good thing.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 8:42 pm

Sometimes cleansing and healing are in order for the spell to be effective as Starsinthesky7 said 'emotions get in the way' when you are working this type spell.

Javi623 · Unread post by **Javi623** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:42 pm

So i am very interested in buying the reconcilation spell kit.....but read in a blog you should also do a reconcilation letter and send it to your ex lover.

Does the spell kit also include the supplies needed for the letter?
Also, Does it working faster or better than a honey jar spell?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:49 pm

You can read further about reconciliation here Javi623 http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
To answer your question, the paper is not included but is discussed on the previous webpage...

In terms of the spell working faster or better ... I wouldn't say...it has been discussed that a honey jar is slow reacting and is an ongoing spell used in conjunction with other spell work for example reconciliation.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:19 pm

Honey jars are known for taking a bit of time, but they are great for long-term love work.

As for sending the letter, the Reconciliation kit should include instructions on how to send the letter. You merely need to perform the spell over the course of days, write the letter then dress it as indicated (bath water, powders, and/or sexual fluids-all discreetly done) and send it to her.

Rourou123 · Unread post by **Rourou123** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 12:15 am

thank u Miss Bri...i will order the spell kit and the honey jar right away
and i also i will do the bath cleaning first...

and please if u have any suggestions for other products from LM tell me ...

thank u all

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 9:00 am

Rourou123 wrote:thank u Miss Bri...i will order the spell kit and the honey jar right away
and i also i will do the bath cleaning first...

and please if u have any suggestions for other products from LM tell me ...

thank u all

Whenever I do reconciliation work I add healing products into the mix. The focus is usually on getting the person back, but there is usually a core issue that has hurt one or both parties to the point where the break up happened in the first place, so adding a healing component, like blending in some healing oil with the others, is always a good idea.
good luck,
Bri

Rourou123 · Unread post by **Rourou123** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 5:29 pm

Sorry miss bri I'm really new in the work. So please would u tell me what to order for that too please. And please I'm not christian but when I asked saint expedite for something he did it . So when I get my orders how should I pray it is so confused to me

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:07 pm

pray to st. anthony to help bring back a lost lover. healing oil is just that or you can use blessing oil both work to help heal a broken heart. reconcilation oil and return to me oil with love me oil is a good mix on candles also to help him cometo you and love you. the kit is a good start ( rec kit) to get him back you write a letter asking for rec along with a mojo with balm of gildead buds which are amazing at getting people to forgive. a honey jar ( u can order) also would help sweeten him to you. dress the candles with the rec return and love me oil add one of the healing oils also.. look on LM website for more info on dressing candles to get more detail on that aspect. if you search the forum their are many convos on rec work which will give you more insight

Natty · Unread post by **Natty** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 3:50 am

I want to share with you guys about a spell I've done last night.

I was in an argue with my best friend about 2 months before and we were both very stubborn of being reconcilation. I placed a large order from Lucky Mojo few weeks ago and I finally received the package few days before so I did a contact spell last night of wishing my friend contact me and feel sorry of what he've done to me. Guess what~ I received my friend's SMS today morning and saying sorry to me. Woo~ It working so fast, I mean I just did the spell last night and I received his SMS today morning~ Isn't it amazing~

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 4:20 am

Glad to hear you got immediate results. Keep up the good work.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:54 am

These are the types of outcomes that keep us empowered.

keirith · Unread post by **keirith** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 1:25 pm

Congratulations on your success.
Its nice to hear these things as it gives us all the confidence we sometimes need.
You should move (or perhaps the moderators can move) this post to the Testimonials page so it doesn't get buried here in the 'ask for help' forum.

ThatOldSycorax · Unread post by **ThatOldSycorax** » Sat Feb 27, 2010 9:00 pm

So there's this guy that I've like for a really long time and he denounced me the first time he found out I like him but things have changed since then. I think that he was so cruel to me was because he was struggling with this own sexuality. I was wondering what the best honey jar to use would be and what to use. I would really love if the jar started us on the path towards friendship and then perhaps a romantic interest.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Feb 27, 2010 9:14 pm

First, have a reading done, going by what you posted in your other thread I'm guessing your a gay or bi male and he is hetero identified? Have a reading done, if he is straight no amount of magic and prayer in the world will change that just because you desire him. The people at the AIRR will give you an honest read, not just what you want to hear. For the honey jar, assuming the reading checks out go with things like Balm of Gilead buds, and Cloves for friendship. However if it doesn't check out, do a Cut and Clear and move on with you life rather then pine after what you can not have.

The AIRR

Honey Jars

Cut and Clear

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:04 pm

Hello All,

Did a search for this because I think this may be happening with my target right now. I think it's happened to me in the past too but I wasnt as sure. This time, it's a DRASTIC change in attitude toward me! My target and I were close friends and co-workers, before I moved on to a new gig. We left off like we were going to see each other a lot. I was under the impression we would begin dating or something, but then I did not see him for a month now! He texted and emailed me a lot with jokes, etc...obviously interested in maintaining contact with me. So I started doing some work on him to push him along...get him to ask me to get together and/or be willing to get together if I asked him.

I got a reading with the green light to do some light work on him, as the reading revealed he was interested and definitely saw a relationship with me but felt "challenged" by me. I did a cut & clear on myself to rid myself of my fears with pursuing him. I also did a blue candle to enhance communication between us (more for myself) before I started a honey jar on him with figure candles. I then moved on to a Come to Me candle which is currently burning.

Now, ever since I started work on him, he is not only distant, but RUDE to me and obviously going out of his way to avoid me. I find it strange since I barely ever speak to him. I think the past 3 weeks I has asked him if he wanted to get coffee ONCE (which Ive never done before) and sent him an email with some work leads since he is looking for more work soon. He asked me to send him any info I knew of since we are in the same field. He responded to the coffee request with a very rude response...saying to stop texting him cause he was busy at work. 1 text!

Now I found out that the job he wants is looking for people so I emailed him again asking if he got my previous email and if he had gotten in touch with them because he would definitely get the job!

No response! Not even a thank you! This is very strange. I couldnt have done anything to make him mad because I nevr see him and barely speak to him. Last we spoke we were very flirty and jovial and he's always responded to texts and emails from me. He's not the flaky type.

Could he be resisting the work? I am scheduled to have another reading done tomorrow and am very excited about it. It is with Miss Bri who I havent had a reading from before. I hope this should clear it up but I'd love to hear more instances of this happening....or even if it's really true that a person can feel the feelings and thoughts of you and indeed become ANGRY with you. It makes sense that it could happen but I'd love to hear more opinions and instances from you guys...

Warmly,
Rose

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:10 pm

I'd wait to see what the reading reveals.

However, you mentioned that you only remained in contact through texts/emails, but never saw each other. It's possible that your work was building his desire up, but that he got desire from the fact that you never showed interest in physically meeting up for an entire month. Of course I coud have misread your post.

Also it might be an underlying issue like fear being intimidated etc. Sometimes people act out rudely when they start having strong feelings for people that they can't seem to make any sense about. He may also be slightly resentful about your moving on to other work..

I'm sure the reading will be more illuminating.

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:18 pm

ConjureMan wrote:I'd wait to see what the reading reveals.

However, you mentioned that you only remained in contact through texts/emails, but never saw each other. It's possible that your work was building his desire up, but that he got desire from the fact that you never showed interest in physically meeting up for an entire month. Of course I coud have misread your post.

Also it might be an underlying issue like fear being intimidated etc. Sometimes people act out rudely when they start having strong feelings for people that they can't seem to make any sense about. He may also be slightly resentful about your moving on to other work..

I'm sure the reading will be more illuminating.

Thanks ConjureMan!

Just to clear up my post a little, HE was the one that seemed to not want to meet up physically, which is why I started the work on him. Give him a little nudge. (we had been intimate a couple of times - forgot to include that) since he definitely indicated interest on some level.

You've got a point with the underlying issues though. Thanks. He did know I was moving on to other work for awhile but I cant see how it would make him resentful because I had gotten let go (freelance) and he was above me so that's why he stayed on that project longer.
I mean, it COULD be true since he HATES the job and he knows i'm happy and successful where I am now. People cant resent for all different reasons.

Good Point!

Still interested in this whole idea of the target resisting! It's so interesting to me!

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:19 pm

i meant to say people "can" resent for all diff reasons

. sorry

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:47 pm

if anyone else has had experiences like this or some more info, id love it!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:51 pm

I have NOT had this experience.

When i have done work on people, either it "got" them or it failed, but i have never seen them become angry at me unless they were very adept rootworkers and i failed to hide the fact that i had thrown for them. If they caught the vibe, they would certainly throw for me -- but if they were smart enough to catch me out, they were also smart enough to lie and grin in my face and not act rude.

Some of these so-called "rules" -- that people will get angry, that your spells will "back fire," or that God will punish you -- are just stories that some people use to frighten other people off of doing magic, you know.

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:03 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:I have NOT had this experience.

When i have done work on people, either it "got" them or it failed, but i have never seen them become angry at me unless they were very adept rootworkers and i failed to hide the fact that i had thrown for them. If they caught the vibe, they would certainly throw for me -- but if they were smart enough to catch me out, they were also smart enough to lie and grin in my face and not act rude.

Some of these so-called "rules" -- that people will get angry, that your spells will "back fire," or that God will punish you -- are just stories that some people use to frighten other people off of doing magic, you know.

Thank you Miss Cat.

That's interesting. Yes, I definitely do not believe in the whole backfiring thing. I try not to even read about that as I feel it sabotages my positivity. So you don't think that a target could be angry that they are all of a sudden being flooded with thoughts of you and trying to resist? Or are you just saying it never has happened to you? Just curious.

Warmly,
Rose

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:13 pm

I'm saying it has never happened to me. I had one guy calling me up and begging me to take the feelings off of him, but he wasn't angry, just a guy who knew his hoodoo and knew he'd been gotten. He said, "Hey, did you put something on me? -- because i can't stop thinking of you all the time, and that ain't natural for me." I told him, oh no, i had not, and then i did take it off, because in the meantime i had found another man i wanted more anyway.

Rose · Unread post by **Rose** » Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:20 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:I'm saying it has never happened to me. I had one guy calling me up and begging me to take the feelings off of him, but he wasn't angry, just a guy who knew his hoodoo and knew he'd been gotten. He said, "Hey, did you put something on me? -- because i can't stop thinking of you all the time, and that ain't natural for me." I told him, oh no, i had not, and then i did take it off, because in the meantime i had found another man i wanted more anyway.

hehe

On one hand I think it's cool when you can do that to someone else who knows their hoodoo. But on the other hand, I find it great that all of my targets know nothing about hoodoo

My target isnt "angry" exactly. May have exaggerrated a little. Its not like we fight and yell, etc....he just became very unresponsive, quick and cold with me. Showing less interest, basically. I hope it is because he is feeling the work! He is quite stubborn and never likes to admit weakness or "being into someone". Intense fear of rejection on both our ends.

I'll see what my reading has in store for me!

Warmly,

Rose

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:08 am

Rose wrote:My target isnt "angry" exactly. May have exaggerrated a little. Its not like we fight and yell, etc....he just became very unresponsive, quick and cold with me. Showing less interest, basically.

This reminds me of another post we had not too long ago with a woman trying to get a date with a man. As soon as she started working on him, he backed away. He just disappeared.

If the target starts getting goofy, such as arguments and disappearing, when the works starts, I take it as a sign the work failed and move on. Magic tells you where the wind blows in these situations. Sometimes people are "out of sight, out of mind" people, which means once a person is gone he/she moves on and you might want to think about that too.

Many moons ago I worked with a guy who was so sweet while we worked together, but once I left the job, I might as well have died! He gave me his number and visa versa, but he just never felt the need to continue our friendship even though he said otherwise. Cest la vie. People are strange.

If I were you, I would not waste too much more time on this guy.

Mary

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:18 am

I had a somewhat similar experience last year. I worked a Love Me bottle on a guy - three days later I got a sign that the spell failed, and soon after the guy grew distant, unresponsive, etc. Not long after that he did/said something very annoying and I broke it off.

With ongoing love work, the target can respond then resist esp. when they reach a point where they have to reflect on their feelings or make a decision. But if you get such negative response or signs when you've just started, it pretty much means failure. I've worked on men who're very stubborn and/or scared, but if the connection is there, there's always some kind of positive movement within a month.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 9:17 am

Experiences differ and so does interpretations of impressions.
What ideas to put these experiences and impressions in is the most important choice a magician face.
In more simple terms it means that choosing consiously of what to believe can be of great importance.

The belief (or thought if you want) that it either works or doesn´t is more fruitful in the long run. The same goes with all similar belifs of backfiring, three fold laws and whatnot. They are not useful in magic that aims for a clean result. But if for those in the business of magical or religious drama, it is like carrots for an ass.

People do not need to be hoodoo practitioners to feel that someone put something on them. They just need some self knowledge and attention. And that is quite common.

At least in my experience and my way of interpreting right now.