How to Use Honey, Sugar, and Sweet Jars Questions and Answers

[starsinthesky7]

"BePos,

No See above
Also, many says it's better to do the honey jars with reconciliation candles. I don't have one, but I have ordered some pink candles along with the honey jar spell kit. So I am wondering if I can use those to do a reconciliation candle spell, and how am I supposed to do it?
Follow the directions that come in the honey jar spell kit. Pink candles are used in reconcilation. Do a forum search on how to do more reconcilation work besides on the honey jar

For the reconciliation oil came with the honey jar spell kit, is it for one time and one candle only or I can use it until it is all used up?
You can use it for as many candles as you want until it is all gone.
Last, what's the best way to dress the candles for reconciliation work?
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[esmeluv]

Hello Everyone
I am making a new honey jar and want to make it even more powerful since I had great success with the first one... I am trying to collect as many personal concerns from my target as much as can. For example I have a used sock and his own hand written signature. Just about 5 days ago while having sexual relations with my target instead of finishing inside of me he finished on my tummy and then we cleaned it off with a towel.. can I still use pieces of that towel even if the sperm is all dried out? Thank you so much in advance for you help.. Im really trying to get things right...

[MysticRootworker]

I used some toilet paper that had his semen on it. I placed it in my honey jar. Yes it was dried. It still holds the essence of him. I guess thats how to put it. lol I am new but I am completely fascinated with everything I'm learning on here.
Good luck to you- Or should I say good conjuring?

[esmeluv]

Thank you soo much for your response!!

[ConjureMan]

You can certainly use the towel. Try to remember that move concerns don't always equal better, rather certain personal concerns are better suited for certain type of work. The sexual fluid should be enough to get a good taglock on your target. Good luck.

[BePos]

Thanks Starinthesky for your answers.

I have one more question about planetary hours. I've checked and see one of the Venus hour of today is around 1:30 am tonight. But it's passed 12:00am, so I'd like to know if that still counts as the venus hour of monday, or that's tuesday's venus hour? Thanks!

[starsinthesky7]

I was taught that Monday does not end until the sunrises the next day. So if the sunrises at 6:00am on Tuesday. that is when monday ends. I used to have a program that did the planetary hours all you had to do was put in the longitude and lattitude. It operated under the same concept. So to answer your question it is still part of monday.

[BePos]

I was taught that Monday does not end until the sunrises the next day. So if the sunrises at 6:00am on Tuesday. that is when monday ends. I used to have a program that did the planetary hours all you had to do was put in the longitude and lattitude. It operated under the same concept. So to answer your question it is still part of monday.

Thanks a lot for explaining it to me!

[BePos]

Just done with my Honey Jar, but something really scary happened during the spell. The candle was burning fine for about half hour until I placed a moonstone in front of it. Then the wick split into two and one of the wick went all the way down making the wax melt into some circle shape on my side ( I placed a pic of me and my exboyfriend underneath the honey jar). However, there was still flame burning with the wick that's split from the main wick. The flame of the main wick almost went out but then joined with the one that's split from it and burning as one flame again. But after a little while, the flame started to flare and release a little bit of spark, and both black and white smoke to the air. But after a couple of minutes, the flame calmed down again and burn without much wax left.

I've tried to interpret this by following: http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdiv ... ml#signsA1. But it seemed like there is someone working against me from my interpretation. Or what makes me really worry is if 'The candle tips over and flames up into a fire hazard' is actually as how I described when the wick split. Because in that situation, it means the spell failed and there is danger ahead. So if anyone can explain my situation to me, I'll appreciate it. Thanks!

[starsinthesky7]

There could be someone else in the picture that is keeping you and your ex apart. My best advice is for you to get a reading on the matter to see what is going on, and to address your worries. This is why it is imperative to get a reading before starting any work. It is important to do so to address any for seen obstacles.

[BePos]

There could be someone else in the picture that is keeping you and your ex apart. My best advice is for you to get a reading on the matter to see what is going on, and to address your worries. This is why it is imperative to get a reading before starting any work. It is important to do so to address any for seen obstacles.

Someone gave me one a little bit more than a week ago. He told me he just has low interest in me. And I did one with tarot for myself last night: http://www.ifate.com/tarot_reading.html ... 10561250B1. It would be crazy if someone else is in the pic, I just hung out with him a couple of days ago.

Thanks for answering my question anyway.

[starsinthesky7]

Not to be mean...but I would not consider this as a REAL reading. however, if this is your reading. the 10 of wands is out there..And I see this as not looking good for you. The interpretation of these cards say that basically that someone is living in the past...your target is resisting your work, and that there are obstacles. It is going to take some work to bring this person back. And that cup of love is empty. Low interest in you is resisting the work. Did you ask why he has low interest in you and why he is resisting to you.

Furthermore, just because you hang out with someone does not meant that there is not someone else there either that he is dating, or someone of interest he may like OR even someone that is talking in his ear about not wanting you.

So I would get another reading regarding this candle work specifically AND to see why he is not interested in you. In addition, you need to be told if spell work is even going to help. Reconciliation work is difficult (not impossible, but difficult) so you need to see what you need to do.


Also, if you and him are hanging out...then that seems to be enough reconciliation done. I mean you and him seem on pretty good terms enough to be hanging out. So seems like A) you need to get a reading to see why he is being resistant towards you in the way that you like. B) You might be doing the wrong kind of spell. I would be doing a love me kind of step...something to draw him in as a lover rather than just a friend.

[BePos]

Not to be mean...but I would not consider this as a REAL reading. however, if this is your reading. the 10 of wands is out there..And I see this as not looking good for you. The interpretation of these cards say that basically that someone is living in the past...your target is resisting your work, and that there are obstacles. It is going to take some work to bring this person back. And that cup of love is empty. Low interest in you is resisting the work. Did you ask why he has low interest in you and why he is resisting to you.

Furthermore, just because you hang out with someone does not meant that there is not someone else there either that he is dating, or someone of interest he may like OR even someone that is talking in his ear about not wanting you.

So I would get another reading regarding this candle work specifically AND to see why he is not interested in you. In addition, you need to be told if spell work is even going to help. Reconciliation work is difficult (not impossible, but difficult) so you need to see what you need to do.


Also, if you and him are hanging out...then that seems to be enough reconciliation done. I mean you and him seem on pretty good terms enough to be hanging out. So seems like A) you need to get a reading to see why he is being resistant towards you in the way that you like. B) You might be doing the wrong kind of spell. I would be doing a love me kind of step...something to draw him in as a lover rather than just a friend.

I'll take you advise to do a reading because I am very confused about the situation. He acted like we were still together when we hung out, but he kept saying he doesn't wanna get back together now because he wants to be single, while I found his profile on a dating site. Your explanation about the cards makes a lot of sense. I know he will tell his ex ex(the one before me) about the girl he's dating. And we kept fighting about he was talking to his ex and eventually we broke it off. And I always think this ex has been saying bad things about me.

[ConjureMan]

A reading is definately needed. There are so many factors that need to be addressed. Your ex shows no interest of being in a relationship with you, but then is on dating profiles. These conflicting messages means more than what you see is going on. A reading will also give you the ability to talk to a professional about the best course of action. You could spend months working a honey jar when the rootworker could have saved you the trouble and told you that what you really need is to increase the passion.

The reading will also help with the candle interpretation. Usually when the candle splits and drops down, melting the wax quicker, while also creating a snapping and crackling effect it means that your work is either being helped by the spirits or that there are other parties involved (you possibly getting a rootworker involved soon :-p). Its actually not a bad sign, not one of resistance, nor interference, but does need a real reading to clarify the situation. Especially since candle readings are difficult to do in the first place.

[BePos]

A reading is definately needed. There are so many factors that need to be addressed. Your ex shows no interest of being in a relationship with you, but then is on dating profiles. These conflicting messages means more than what you see is going on. A reading will also give you the ability to talk to a professional about the best course of action. You could spend months working a honey jar when the rootworker could have saved you the trouble and told you that what you really need is to increase the passion.

The reading will also help with the candle interpretation. Usually when the candle splits and drops down, melting the wax quicker, while also creating a snapping and crackling effect it means that your work is either being helped by the spirits or that there are other parties involved (you possibly getting a rootworker involved soon :-p). Its actually not a bad sign, not one of resistance, nor interference, but does need a real reading to clarify the situation. Especially since candle readings are difficult to do in the first place.

I am finally relieved a little bit from what you said. Thanks a million! I am gonna get a reading because I don't wanna be sitting here heartbroken without knowing what is really going on.

[starsinthesky7]

Good luck and keep us posted.

[BePos]

Good luck and keep us posted.

Thank you! Will do!

[hoodoo curious]

I've been working it two weeks straight now... I'm seeing some results but not sure of everything I'm trying if it's the honey jar... but regardless I think it has some hand in sweetening him. That and the IS

I noticed my picture inside the jar is turning black - is this normal?

Sometimes the candles run down the jar other times they burn clean no wax at all left over... what does that mean? He's away again with the other woman... does that mean he cries for me? This time it hasn't been me doing the crying. He's been emailing me for the past two days tells me he misses me like crazy, I'm his best friend, and he needs to see me when he gets back if I am willing.

Should I play hard to get now to let the IS to take full affect?

[ConjureMan]

Playing hard to get makes his torment worse. If that is what you want, then act accordingly.

Candle divination is very subjective so I usually advise to not look for anything, but if something jumps out at you then take note of it.

Some candles burn clean some leave some residue. For example the 4" candles from LM burn clean almost every single time for me, but the 6" candles always leave a bit of residue at the bottom. Whether it burns clean or not should be seen in context to the other signs. Don't worry about what goes on too much on the inside of the jar, simply keep your focus strong on your intent. Honey jars sometimes get a milky substance build on the inside from the heat and the oils, sometimes they have odd colorations, but it's usually normal. It depends on how you are working the jar.

Wax running down is again contingent upon what type of candle you are using, but usually means that there are tears involved in the work.

[skyme714]

I have a question. What is the difference between putting us both AND putting only him in a love honey jar?
BIG thanks ahead!

[ConjureMan]

If you are doing some type of honey jar with the intent of sweetening the individual towards you, especially for you, putting a picture of both of you happy, together, or one that you've made to kiss with honey is a great way of getting your intention across.

[hoodoo curious]

Thank you ConjureMan...

I don't want to make him suffer... I just want to truly realize I'm the one and he needs me and wants to be with only me not going back and forth between me and the other woman.

[skyme714]

But there are cases when sealing and fixing the jar firmly can be a part of the work. I would then use the wax from the first candle to seal the jar, by melting the first wax around the lid.
I do not shake mine. In some cases (like reconciliation), which often require some dominating ingredient, I blow cigarr smoke on the jar instead and set the candle on top as usual.


Johannes

I saw many posts on the forum about blowing smoke on a candles. Can somebody please explain, what is it for?
Thank you!

[ConjureMan]

Tobacco smoke is considered a spiritually potent ingredient in spell work. Tobacco itself is considered a great offering to make to the spirits and draws its roots from the Native American influence on conjure. Tobacco smoke is used for a great deal of different things from court case, spiritual communication, and sometimes controlling. You blow smoke on candles, at skull candles, figurines, doll babies to send your message to the person and get them to do what you want. Some people blow Tobacco smoke into jar spells, others use the herb on a candle to send a message, while others blow the smoke while speaking their commands to the target. Its a potent herb with many different uses.

[skyme714]

Thank you for explaining, ConjureMan! I read description of black candle tobacco on LM, but still dont get it how to use it. Do you burn tobacco like insence or you can also buy a cigarr? Is cigarette the same as sigarr? I know they are different smokes I mean tobacco-wise. Thank you!

[skyme714]

Ok, when I made a bottle spell last week, I saw target in my dream the same night - which was def a sign!
I made a honey jar last night, and since 3-4 days ago, I steadily keep seeing this actor in my dreams!!!! Not that I watched his show yesterday or the day before.. (2 weeks ago I would watch the whole season in 1 day, later 1 or 2 episodes, but for 2-3 days - none!).

My question is - can it undermine the power of prayer as well as honey jar on a target if I dream or think about other guy (consciously or subconsciously)?

I mean obviuosly Im never gonna have anything with this actor in real life, my guess is that dreams are just escape in that reality to have that. But not intentionally, I dont think about him when I go to bed! But he just comes to me )

[ConjureMan]

Fantasizing about an unknown stranger, like an actor may not undermine your work, but the signs of the subconscious are important for our daily life. Do some introspective work to find out more about why you have dreams of this other person. If your mind is divided between an unrealistic crush and your target then it may effect the power behind things. In general you have nothing to worry about until you spread your power too thin.

[mamigrl]

Update...I chucked the honey jar and the guy finally sent me a text later apologizing. When I asked why he acted like that, he said he spent a lot of money etc on our dates and was mad I broke it off before we got to be intimate. Can you believe that? Aren't we a bit too old for that? Now I am really glad I chucked the honey jar.

[Mama Micki]

Good for you. Now you can concentrate on finding someone who is right for you.

[greenejoy]

Conjureman....

I have a sock from my targets house. I have spent the night at his house twice since your last reply to my post. Do I cut a small piece off the sock and add it to the jar? I also bought some "come to me" oil and started a come to me love spell. I stopped working the spells for a week but now that I have the sock I am going to start again. In the last 6 months I have been seeing a psychic and she keeps saying that we will be together in a committed relationship but the timing of this relationship was February. I so wanted it to be sooner. Do you think the sock will help?

[Literarylioness]

Update...I chucked the honey jar and the guy finally sent me a text later apologizing. When I asked why he acted like that, he said he spent a lot of money etc on our dates and was mad I broke it off before we got to be intimate. Can you believe that? Aren't we a bit too old for that? Now I am really glad I chucked the honey jar.

Well, it looks like you wanted to use him and he did not like it. He may have seemed childish to you, but you seem pretty immature too.

Mary

[skyme714]

I have another question about honey jar. On a second day I burned a candle. I saw this dream: to mek it short: 2 cars by the side of the road. In one is my boyfriends, in another me w/ somebody. Im a passanger. It was agreed between all of the parties that I would transfer in my bf's car so he will give me a lift. As soon as I walked to his car, he turned around and drove off in opposite direction, leaving me just standing there. Another car drove off too. It seems to be a sign, a bad one.. but I wanted to hear from you guys.
Also should I keep working the jar even though I got this kinda dream/result? Or re-do it?
I just dont want to invest energy in something that maybe I should start over.

[hoodooTom]

I've used a candle that is slightly bigger than a tea light, but it doesn't have the metal container around it like a tealight. I burned it, but the wax ran all down the jar and left about 1/4 of the candle still on top not burned. It will not relight to try to burn the rest of it. On wednesday when I burn a second candle, do I remove the unburned candle wax from the top so I can set the new candle on it?

Thanks in advance.
I read many posts on this, but it seems that some are saying there should be nothing left of the candle and then I see others saying 2 candles melted together to form images which means that they didn't get complete burns..So I'm confused and the work I'm doing is very very important to me.

[jwmcclin]

hoodooTom...it is your choice is remove the wax before lighting another candle. As for the post your read a clean burn is always best but it also depends on the type of candle you burn. Review cat's webpage for further details
http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

[thelightfantastic]

The candle is suppose to drip down on the jar. Some people work a particular honey jar for so long that the jar itself is no longer visible, so candle wax dripping down the jar is ok. As for the second candle, you affix that to the remainder of your first candle. You keep repeating this process for as long as you work the jar.

Don't get too caught up in reading candle wax signs in the beginning. Unless you're adept at reading the wax, you're only going to worry about things that probably aren't important. Different candles burn different ways and no two people are going to get the same results. I recommended buying some good candles (yep, LM sells some good ones) and using those on a regular basis. That way you'll get the feel of how they burn and when something is a sign, it will be apparent. Cheap or poorly made candles only end up being more trouble than they're worth really.

If you do think something is a sign, get a reading to see if it's actually something or just basic physics at work. Good luck.

[lovehim]

I'm menstruating should I use some of my menstrual blood too. I have a photo of him plenty I think I should use the one I took at my place. I have a picture that he took of his penis He wasn't nude maybe that one should be better. I researched it. Should I use syrup or honey ?>

[MysticRootworker]

I never thought of the pic thing... what if you have a nude photo that they sent of their penis? (I cannot believe the questions I ask on here sometimes) lol
Thanks

[Devi Spring]

In my opinion, a picture is a picture. A personal concern will ALWAYS be a stronger a more desirable link to use in a work. With honey jars you want to try and match concerns, so a hair for a hair, sexual fluid for sexual fluid, etc. If you only have pictures, then fine, use them. But if there is any way to get a real dna taglock from the person, GET IT!

[MysticRootworker]

I do have in my honey jar some semen on a tissue. It will be 3 wks this coming friday- well thursday actually. I actually feel very good with the honey jar going. Even if we are NOT talking at this very moment. I believe it is working and I know it is slow so I am being patient. Its odd, but just looking over at it with or without a candle burning on it, I just feel good about it. I saw her post and thought hey- I do have a photo that he sent... lol

Anyway thanks for taking the time to help us newbies. I love this whole process and I love the spiritual side of it. I guess thats the way to put it. The fact that it IS a way of life really. Before I would do a little spell work but it was lacking something for me. This is something that feeds my soul and I love the whole process of learning and making a connection with people of a like mind. Makes my day better getting on here and learning and talking to the members on here.

Thanks Devi

[faith2008]

MysticRootworker,

I know exactly how you feel. I was raised in the south so I will always be a God fearing Christian but I have always been drawn to the mystical or magical side of things. I studied Wicca for a short time but it was missing God for me. I also tried Catholicism which is where I learned of saints but it still wasn't what I was looking for. Hoodoo put everything together for me. I finally feel like I've found my place in this world. I just love the people here. Everyone has been so nice and so very helpful. Everyday I learn a little more. I really appreciate Miss Cat for all the work she has done in puttting all of this together for all of us and making a place where we can all come together and learn.


Hope

[MysticRootworker]

Hope

I know I feel the same. She is definitely changing so many lives by doing the work that she does.

[hoodooTom]

actually I had 2 4 inch altar candles and I used 1 of those today and it left absolutely no wax! nothing dripped on the jar and there is almost no evidence that there was a candle stuck to the lid.

[MysticRootworker]

I have a question- On my honey jar I have been burning the 4" spell candles in a candle holder. It's one of the holders that I think they make just for them. So it fits in it perfectly. I usually have just a small amount of wax left in the bottom. Just a little. But other than that - no tears, flame is perfect. Is that still considered a "clean" burn. It seems like it is just the way the candles burn. Plus the wax is kinda like a build up. I don't usually clean out the residue from the previous candle. I know this question is a repeat in alot of ways. I am just really new to this. I do appreciate everyones help.
thanks

[thelightfantastic]

actually I had 2 4 inch altar candles and I used 1 of those today and it left absolutely no wax! nothing dripped on the jar and there is almost no evidence that there was a candle stuck to the lid.

Every candle is going to burn different. As I said previously, get the feel of the type of candle you're using that way you'll be able to tell if something is a sign or not.

I have a question- On my honey jar I have been burning the 4" spell candles in a candle holder. It's one of the holders that I think they make just for them. So it fits in it perfectly. I usually have just a small amount of wax left in the bottom. Just a little. But other than that - no tears, flame is perfect. Is that still considered a "clean" burn. It seems like it is just the way the candles burn. Plus the wax is kinda like a build up. I don't usually clean out the residue from the previous candle. I know this question is a repeat in alot of ways. I am just really new to this. I do appreciate everyones help.
thanks

A little bit of wax left is ok. Remember that simple physics do come into play with candle burning. Sometimes the candle holder prevents the candle from burning completely away and that's fine. If you want additional assurance, I suggest a reading.

[MysticRootworker]

You confirmed what I suspected. I try to go with my intuition on this as well. But it is so nice to have people such as yourself here to help with my questions.
Have a nice evening and Thank you.

[Literarylioness]

ok so theres this guy i go to school with and he's really amazing and he's just kool and he's hot
but he's straight, so i was thinking we could just be friends. i have a few pictures of him and i was thinking of putting together a honey jar
however there was a lot of rumors going around about me and him around the last few weeks. would the honey jar be able to kind of bring us together as friends despite the rumors or would i have to wait for this stuff to die down? also
What kind of herbs would i put in there? how would i go writing my petition paper? please help
im new to hoodoo and rootwork

I am supposing you are a gay man. A honey jar would be a good option with some sumac berries, cloves, and balm of Gilead. Write the petition paper that the two of you would just be friends. Honey jars can sometimes take a while, but they are worth it. They have a lasting affect.

Mary

[sofia]

Hi I need a little help please!! I made a honey jar with two rose petals a picture of me and one of him and paper from a brown bag with his name and my name written on top and of course the honey. I would like to know if its really essential for me to get his hair because I dont think I can get it I just cant. Will it still work without it??? Also I'm doing this for my boyfriend to sweeten him because lately he has been very controlling with me my phone constantly looked at banning me to talk to people from my old job, curfews. Holding a grudge against me cause I wouldn't give him my passwords for my phone and voice mail. So I was hoping that this would work for my present situation!! Please help!!

[Brida]

Sounds to me like you need to do a spell to get him to chill out. Add some compelling powder, deer's tongue to make him talk sweetly to you, and light some blue candles on the jar to add peace to your relationship. A relationship with someone controlling is not peaceful.

Make sure that you understand WHY he behaves in the manner that he does to you. Is he the jelouse type, do you give him a reason to feel insecure? What is he so insecure about? It is always good to understand the motivating factors of a person's behaviors. It helps in conjure, so that you address the appropriate issues for successful work.

I hope that helps.

hugs,
Brida

[jwmcclin]

You can sure another personal item... and also to get more detailed information do a forum search...lets' face it, the honey jar is a great spell and yes it works nicely with focus and intent.

[sofia]

Hi Brida!!
Thanks for your answer now do I add that stuff to the jar, can I open it and just add that stuff in the honey jar after its been closed? He is the very jealous type and he has sort of a "god complex" I never give him any reasons for him to feel this way. I always want to be with him always calling each other on the phone. Cancelling my plans to go out with him.
It all started with him seeing an email from one of my girlfriends over a guy she wanted me to talk to who I had no intention of doing, you know you cant control what other people do which I've explained to him but he doesnt believe me. Since then he wants my passwords which I refuse to give him because I feel its a violation of my privacy but that justs makes him worse. Plus he is also married and I was also married when we started but I am divorced and its been 7 yrs since I've been with him and never been with anyone else.

[ConjureMan]

A honey jar can definately be used to help bring about friendship. Working a Stop Gossip conjure on the side might help to settle things down.

[kmew1315]

Are you SURE you can't get a hair of his? All you need to do is be alone for a minute with a comb of his. If he has a comb in the bathroom, you have no excuse at all to not get a hair or two (or three or four or five - I was in the bathroom with my targets brush, I grabbed a whole chunk of hairs and hid them in my wallet... just in case I need them, lol).

[Brida]

Is he still married?

-Brida

[sofia]

yes

[Brida]

Well, if you cheated on your husband with him, perhaps, his thinking is that you will cheat on him, too. Also, he is cheating on his wife with you, and you seem to be okay with it. You kinda dug your own grave here if you see what I mean.

I can see his insecurity base now.

Did you leave your husband for him? Is he in the process of getting a divorce? The power and craft of conjure does not cancel out common sense.

-Brida

[Brida]

Also, remember honey jars take a lot of time to manifest. So, you can't expect a turn around after a few minutes. A honey jar can be opened and added to until you seal it. Once sealed with wax, I think you are not supposed to open it. If you do, the spell is broken. Someone correct me if I am wrong, please.

-Brida

[sofia]

I understand your point Brida my husband left me because he didnt want any kids with me which I did, but anyway at that time he was also going through a separation which never went through so we both kind of got toghether through our messiest points in our relationships.

[Brida]

Looks like you have a lot of work in both the conjure and physical world to do.

I am not even going to ask if there are children involved. Though, if there are, please becareful.

hugs,
Brida

[sofia]

Thanks so much for your help Brida.
He has two boys

[Brida]

Poor kids. No wonder kids today have so many psychological issues. The adults in their lives don't take responsiblity for in modeling self-respect, let alone respect for family units.

Well, LM sells Commanding and Bend over products. You may want to add that to your jar, so you be the dominate one in the relationship.

-Brida