Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Sun Jul 05, 2015 8:07 am

Hello everyone!

I've posted before, long story short.. with a guy 5 years. We broke up. I had a reading by conjure man Ali (wonderful!) He told me we would get back together. I would see movement by may/ summer and I could get us back but I needed to work on it.He also told me he was seeing someone else. Well for a while we didn't communicate. I was told if I pushed he would resist. His father passed away so I tried to communicate more often.

We got into a huge argument last night via text. He told me he thought I was seeing someone else. This is why he went elsewhere for etc.. because I was coldhearted. Which is partially true because I had things going on. I told him I wanted my keys back and he blew up.
He's coming by this week so we can talk in person. Which is also huge because he has stayed away. He kept me up until 4 am this morning fighting on the phone and on text. He says all of the emotions i'm showing him now he wanted then. I talked to the doll.. in between our fighting. He says he is confused. I don't know if I should be stern with the love doll or sweet. It seems he likes to argue and fight. Like he was turned on by seeing me so upset. 7 hours straight of texting/talking/fighting!

I need to know what I can do before I see him...

( I've been burning my LM reconciliation honey jar, talking to the doll. I also have a scorpio candle burning on him NOW! And i burn my follow me boy incenses. ( In the beginning I did a come to me candle, and follow me boy triple spell with the reconciliation honey jar( 6 months) I still work with the honey jar.
(I also got a picture of the woman and did the LM freezer spell with a lemon).

So If I order new products from LM today, they won't arrive in time. I have some stuff here that I can work with.

I just need some advice!!!!!!!

Thank you!!!

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 12:09 pm

Ok, so now my ex keeps going back and forth, wants me and then says be friends. Driving me crazy. Want can I do to make him want me. I am very mad at him. Soon as some women found out that I am with him they are swarming over him. To much jealousy directed towards me and resentment from these women. Because he chose me and is with me 24/7. I talked to his ex gf last night in FB for a few hours. He never loved her, she even told me that. This guy wants me to stay with him, then go. What am I supposed to do?

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 3:07 pm

Hello,

My fiancé left me and our 2 year old almost 3 months ago. And so I started my honey jar about a month ago. it was a bad breakup and friends and family got involved because he has a big mouth and can't keep our problems between us. Anyways we weren't on speaking terms and a few days after starting my honey jar for reconciliation he called, then started coming around and we started getting intimate again. But he never stayed. It still seemed like he was keeping his distance cause he said I hurt him (with words when we fought).

I went to get a reading and she said the love is still there, there isn't anyone else but he basically ran scared cause domestic life got too much for him. She said we will go back and forth and he will probably come back in December. She also warned me that his mother was evil and hated me, that she probably dabbles in magic also.

Things were getting better between us but his mom keeps meddling and keeping him away. now it seems like everything is worse than it was.

1) Should I continue my jar or should I make a new one? I truly believe it was working but it feels like he is resisting or his mom is getting in the way.

2) Is there anything I can use on her?

Thank you....I really appreciate any help

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 8:43 pm

Hi blessedlady,

If it were me, I would be sweet to the doll and get it into a good mood so you don't end up arguing when you get together. You can continue to work your honey jar (burn candles on it). Dress yourself in whatever love oils you have from Lucky Mojo when you prepare to see him, and get some of that on him as well.

You might also want to have MISC light a Come to Me candle in time for your meeting with him, to keep that energy flowing for you.

http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... -mojo.html

Good luck!

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 8:46 pm

If she is playing with magic on you then do a protection spell. LM has the supplies. Fiery Wall of Protection might be best for you. Then when you are done working that do your love spells on him. Also you can use Blockbuster products. Hope this helps. I had lack belief in my work till I saw it manifest

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 8:48 pm

Hi mmachix,

To keep other women away from him, put them in a freezer spell. You can search the forum for advice on how to do that, and how to correctly word your petition.

To get him to want you more as a romantic partner vs. a friend, work with the enticing love products like Bewitching and Come to Me. This is a lovely combination and I have personally had great success with it in climbing out of the friendzone.

http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

Good luck!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 8:55 pm

Hi pooka17,

Was your reader a member of AIRR or Hoodoo Psychics? If not, I would suggest a reading there to better understand the nature of his meddling mother and how to neutralize her impact.

AIRR: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/
Hoodoo Psychics: http://www.hoodoopsychics.com

You should consider doing a thorough cleansing of your home with Chinese Wash, followed by a 13 Herb bath for yourself. Then put up protection to keep her from affecting you while you continue to work on drawing him back to you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Good luck!

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:49 pm

Thank you! Miss Athena! I will do all of the above & have them
Light a candle for me. Thank you!!

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 10:23 pm

Thank you Miss Athena and mmachix,

No my reader was someone local. She was very accurate but I think my emotions got the better of me because my 2yr old is taking it pretty bad. He used to be dependable till he moved back with his mom.

I'll be honest I'm terrified of her because ever since he left I've been having the worse luck. Just today I got a flat, no one had a jack to fix it, when I found one it broke a bolt that held my tires, i got levied, I came home to an early 3day notice and a notice from animal control, when I dont have any pets. This is just today. Every day it is something. They say you should not let the negativity get to you or you'll fuel it. But every day its something different and sometimes outrageous I'm embarrassed to tell people cause its like bad luck is following me. That my ex started thinking I was making it up so he can come to the rescue.

I am thankful for your advise and will do another reading from the links you posted and the cleansing. If there is anything else you think I should do pls let me know. My ex is a great guy and I believe he loved me. He is just being influenced because he is weak.

Thank you thank you thank you!

loststar67 · Unread post by **loststar67** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 3:35 am

Hello everyone.

I'm writing to you today on this forum ,because my friend needs help.

She has been married for 8yrs. Her husband decided to go overseas to visit his death mother's grave. There he met a girl , who just broke off with her boyfriend at a bar . They both started to talk & they hit it off so well that they exchange phone numbers.

They hooked up that evening and they had sex. When it was time for him to go home ,the girl started to cry at the airport and said you are not going back please stay. So he did, so he called his wife and told her that he lost his passport and send him some money, so she did.

Since then he got the girl pregnant & they have a baby now. And still he did not want to come back to his wife.
So wife still wants him back with her.

So what can she do to get him back?
Please help me.

Thanks!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 6:23 am

loststar67 ,

she needs a reading from an AIRR worker who can tell if this person is working any magic on him. I would do a cleaning of her ( the wife) and do a cleanse of him via proxy with a doll baby or a photo. Follow this with break up work, hot foot on the women, and a return to me work. She can have candles set my The church. Another job that is discussed often is freezing out the other people so look into the freezer container spell.

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 7:58 am

One last question....since my honey jar started weakening should I start a brand new one? I would see a lot of heart shapes on the wax which I thought was a good sign but we are not even on speaking terms. I have tried contacting him and apologizing but no reply anymore. maybe I'm burning too many candles. I burn one every day. It seems to calm me when I do it giving me positive thoughts and hope. But I read that I'm only supposed to burn the M/W/F am I overdoing it? Should I stop burning candles daily? Thank you

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 11:48 am

Those two love combos sound great. Thanks Miss. Athena

loststar67 · Unread post by **loststar67** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 4:45 pm

j82,

Thanks for the information.
I will let her know. I know she is very excited about doing the spells you mention.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jul 07, 2015 10:04 pm

Hello, pooka17,

Yes, you can definitely do that.

But I don't suggest disposing of the other one. I would recommended working both of the, or put the old one away for awhile.

Wishing you the very best

Tae care

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Wed Jul 08, 2015 9:22 am

Thank you Miss Aida,

I will do as you suggested. I really appreciate the help and info this forum provides. Looking through the LM products

Thank you! Take care!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Jul 08, 2015 9:33 pm

Hi pooka17,

When I have re-done a honey jar, I put the old one under my bed and worked the new one on my altar. It's worked very well for me, so you might want to try it yourself.

Good luck.

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Fri Jul 10, 2015 2:47 pm

Thank you Miss Athena,

I'll try that! I still would like to work on the first one also. I hope that's not overdoing it. I'm very hopeful but I just found out he moved to another state. I know he loves our daughter so I don't know how he could do something like move just to be away and be tempted to reconcile. His mother has such a strong hold on him I feel like I'm fighting a battle I can't win.

I'm sorry for being emotional its just we went from a fairytale story to this overnight literally.

Thank you again!

Alisha crosby · Unread post by **Alisha crosby** » Fri Jul 10, 2015 3:29 pm

Can someone please help.

Basically i was seeing someone and we had a little falling out because he completely over reacted over something and now he doesnt like me like he used to, he holds no grudges its juts he doesn't like me anymore. Whilst i currently love him. I need help im a beginner, never done a spell in my life and i need to get him back an ant him to like me/love me. I get confused at looking for supplies to buy a just need a basic kit , i dont have *that* much money so nothing extravagant but i NEED him back. can any one help me? what is mostly likely to work im very desperate and heart broken at the moment.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:17 pm

Alisha crosby ,

I am sorry for the break up, my favorite spell in reconcilation is to use a honey jar which LM sells to sweeten him and then turn to the reconcilation kit and add a love oil like fiery love or kiss me now to enduce passion. then do the kit, which has you send a dressed letter to him and make a mojo and see what happens. otherwise Id suggest a reading from airr since you are new to this or hiring a worker but prices and rates vary. Cleansing you and him would help. Based on your experience I would order the products I mentioned and a dozen pink or red candles to burn on the jar.

Alisha crosby · Unread post by **Alisha crosby** » Sat Jul 11, 2015 4:15 am

Thankyou for your help. Why would i need a reading fom airr if you dont mind me asking? I dont think i could send a dressed letter to him as i think if it didnt work it would make matters worse and scare him off.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 11, 2015 9:28 pm

Hello, Alisha crosby ,

I believe that J82 was referring to obtaining magical coaching from a reader since you are new to magic.

However, the spell kits that are sold by Lucky Mojo give you step-by-step instructions that are PERFECT for beginners (as well as experienced folks)

Find them here: www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Wishing you great success with your spells

take care

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Sun Jul 12, 2015 4:25 pm

My situation is like really bad.i waited about a year and finally seen my ex, and he keeps saying that he wants to be friends. I have been asked to leave several times, then he will let me stay. He said I am not his type because I'm not blonde. He was telling people crap about me on Facebook today. I feel like I was belittled. I don't have any of my supplies on me to do nothing. I am at the point of what I I do. I thought that if I connected with him agin it as gonna be magical. one minute he wants me, the next he don't. I feel that I am being used sexually and financially. I really wanted this guy back, now I don't know what to do. I have his personal concerns. I did give him money to stay.this is just bad.

Classy · Unread post by **Classy** » Mon Jul 13, 2015 1:53 am

What am I doing wrong? In the past (and I still do), I've used a honey jar on my boyfriend. I've also used dressed love votives on him also. And, Deacon Millett set some candles for me, Bring Me a Dream (for his ex girlfriend) and Reconciliation Vigil Candles, Kiss Me Now, and Fiery Love Candles for us. When I began working with Deacon Millett, my boyfriend and I were not talking because of interference with his ex girlfriend. After working with him, things became much better -he started spending more time with me (including inviting me to family events) and when invited vme to go on vacation with him (and his family ). Thanks, Deacon Millett!

When we went on vacation for the holiday last week, things were great until the day before we left. Please allow me to explain what happened...my friend called me and I texted her back a few days later. My friend's first cousin likes me, but I am in love deeply with my boyfriend. In the text, casually, I told her that her cousin called his best friend (who was on the trip with us). I told her for no reason, and I realize that I shouldn't have brought up his name. Anyway, she had also told me some personal information concerning her marriage. While she and I were texting, my boyfriend did something that he's never done before -asked to see my phone. I didn't let him see it because I didn't want him to misinterpret what I texted her (because he would have ) and I didn't want him to see where she talked about her infidelity (and repentance ).
He insisted that I was hiding something and wouldn't take my word about the texts. I explained that he is everything I want and need. When we returned home, he asked me to screen shot the conversation and send it to him - I did (minus the text that I erased). NOW, he has BLOCKED my number and I can't call or text him. He was very hateful and refused to talk to me when I went to see him to try and talk things out after we returned from the vacation. His sister, who used to call me 10 times a day, has become distant. And, he sent his ex girlfriend a friend request on Facebook.

Here's what I've done since the vacation:
1. I am literally holding a honey jar that I've had previously for him. I constantly flip over the jar. I keep it in the bed with me for that reason.

2. I have been mixing the Reconciliation Oil and Return to Me Oil in my lotion (I had on some oil yesterday when his sister went with me somewhere - after I literally begged her to go) and she has started mentioning his name when she and I are on the phone and he calls her. Today, she met me at church and I had on the oils again. After church, she went to his house and when she talked to me, she said, "I just saw your boyfriend" - something that she hasn't said in almost a week.

3. I've driven by his house and blew Reconciliation Sachet Powder and Return to Me Sachet Powder toward his house as I passed by.

4. I've purchased more candles to be set, Bring Me a Dream and Break Apart (for the ex gf) and Reconciliation candles for us.

4. I pray to God and I make requests to Mars and Venus for assistance. I pray to Mars that he gets no rest, no peace, no sleep...

5. I have his picture on the pillow (on his side of the bed when he's here).

6. I shook the sugar up in a container that I've had for him for some time.

7. And, last Thursday, I shook a Breakup Bottle that I've had since August for my boyfriend and his ex to stay apart.

8. I have blessed my house with sage.

9. I petitioned St. Expedite, although I didn't have any of the supplies that are suggested. I plan to order them.

Would the actions of his sister (with whom he's VERY) close be a positive sign? I checked today, and my number is still blocked. I miss him so much. Please help!

Thank you for reading this long post - please don't condemn me...please offer assistance.

Classy

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Mon Jul 13, 2015 5:03 pm

Classy

Should of just showed him the phone. Yes the interaction with his sister is a sign.Try influence to change his mind on a skull candle with his photo. I have had so much success with that product but only Lucky Mojo has it

I know exactly how you feel. One minute it's sooo good, and the next it's really bad. I have a similar situation. I have women all over my man, and they can't take the hint that I am living with him, moving in, and he chose me. Trust me, try the Influence, the oil, the incense. I love it. Smells so good, and it's powerful!!!!!! Oh yeah, don't forget to state your intention when you apply the oil, and light the incense. Like as you anoint the candle with the oil say this influence oil is to change (his name), thoughts about me, and he wants me back, and can't stop thinking of me. The powder can be blown where he lives, and the incense use the same time you burn the candle, you can add Return to Me! and Love me, Bewitching, or Follow Me Boy

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 13, 2015 9:15 pm

Hello, mmachix ,

I am so very sorry.

What is it that you want to accomplish with spell work?

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Thu Jul 16, 2015 8:46 pm

Hi Miss Aida,

I think it was me who double posted. I'm sorry my reception at home is not very good.

I think I may be getting too emotional because I feel like my honey jar isn't working as well as it was. I haven't spoken to my ex fiance for maybe 3 weeks now. He looks happy living the single life and going out with friends. Its like he is a totally different person now. He used to like staying home and doing family stuff. Idk maybe he is going out to take his mind off things. I was looking through the LM products but I'm not sure what I need. I truly believe that the honey jar works. But I think maybe its me.
I think he called at 4am this morning with a blocked number cause no one calls me that late or with a restricted number. I have tried emailing an apology recently and texting. But his wall is high up and his family give him horrible negative advice. Is there anything I can add to my jar or anything I could get from LM to help?

Thank you i appreciate any advice or help. I am planning on getting a reading this weekend from an airr worker. I think it would help me a lot

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jul 16, 2015 10:35 pm

Hello, pooka17,

I am so very sorry. Your heart must be broken and I feel so bad for you

I really think that a reading is an excellent idea.

And maybe it's time for a spell kit. Keep up the honey jar but, work other spells

www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

I pray all works out for you and that your spell work is successful

FaithB11 · Unread post by **FaithB11** » Sat Jul 18, 2015 12:53 pm

Hey there,
So I have an ex of mine who DOES still love me but he thinks, regarding me, he doesn't feel like he doesn't connect much with me, which is weird then, why do you love me if you do not connect with me? Kind of odd, heh, I've tried honey jars and it has sweetened him up to me, but the thing is, how do I get him to officially return to me? I mean I got the sweetening part down and i do have a lot of his hair shavings... But now where do I go from sweetening to.."returning" ? I'm kind of lost at this part and i need some guidance. I'm sorry if this is in the wrong place, I'm VERY rusty with forums.

Thank you so much!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 18, 2015 7:59 pm

Hello, FaithB11 ,

Welcome to the forum.

We o ask that you not start new topics on questions unless nobody has asked the question before.

I have merged your post over to the reconciliation/return to me thread. There are 75 pages here with spell ideas. After reading them, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask

Take care

misskitty49 · Unread post by **misskitty49** » Sun Jul 19, 2015 10:47 am

Are Return to Me products appropriate for a target you have been separated from for an extended period of time (6 months+)? I see my target several times a week, but we broke up some time ago, and the more I read the more it seems like Return to Me is for fresh breakups. Would Come to Me products work better in this situation?

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Mon Jul 20, 2015 3:13 pm

Hi Miss.Aida

I left New York and have returned home this past Thrursday. We were fighting way too much ,and I really do believe that I have been crossed and many women have given me the evil eye cause they want this man and he chose to spend three weeks with me non stop, and ditched them. I cried on the way home, and he has no clue that I have left, and still thinks I am there. I showed up where he worked and he was like moody, so I left. He text me yesterday wanting to see me, but I blew him off. When he does text me I will take hours to reply, and only text him once in the morning and once at night (my choice).

I felt sick on the way home like throwing up. I am very thankful that I grabbed some personal concerns. Today I carefully did a red doll baby. I put many herbs, his pic, powders. Rose quartz, heart shaped pink and red beads, bewitching, love me, and follow me boy oils, powders for love, and of course his hair and a petition hoodoo styled paper. Took me a good hour to make this doll.

What should I do now? Put the doll under a candle? Or should I just talk and sleep with it tonight? I read everything on here about it but so much info I cannot recall everything.

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Mon Jul 20, 2015 5:34 pm

I heard that honey jar spells do not backfire but my ex seems more mad at me than ever. Am I doing something wrong? He just texted me to never contact me again. He is extremely mad and bringing up past arguments. He said he loves me so much but he will never let me hurt him again. I'm not sure what he is talking about. Should I continue the honey jar or start the reconciliation spell? Please help I feel so defeated.

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Mon Jul 20, 2015 6:43 pm

Just have a question. So my red doll baby is all made. My target text me decent text messages, not bad ones. I am being a a flake and didn't reply to the last ones. It was just text of what I cooked which was his favourite meal, and he text "nice" back to me. And that he loves my recipes. I never replied back.

I am currently laying around with the doll baby and talking sweet to it. I put it near my private and felt frisky? What does this mean??? Is he feeling that? Or is this just in my head? I am gonna dab love me oil on the heart area tonight. Talk to it for a few minutes and sleep with it beside me?

Does anybody think what I felt could be what he is feeling?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 20, 2015 7:27 pm

Hi mmachix,

It's very difficult to tell whether what you are experiencing is indicative of what he is also feeling. You could get a reading done on this for more clarity.

http://www.hoodoopsychics.com
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Talking to it sweetly, loving it up, burning candles over it and generally treating it as his proxy is the way to go.

Good luck, keep us posted!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 20, 2015 7:33 pm

Hi pooka17,

I am so sorry to hear this. You must feel terribly hurt and confused.

I would get a reading on this, to find out what is behind his sudden change of attitude. You are correct, spells do not backfire. The worst that could happen is they simply don't work. This about-face is perplexing, and a good rootworker can read for you and help you understand what else you could do to turn things around.

Find someone at:

http://www.hoodoopsychics.com
[url]http://www.readersand%20rootworkers.org[/url]

At the very least, you should consider a Reconciliation spell kit to help get that energy working in your favor again.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

I wish you the best of luck, and hope you will keep us posted on what happens.

SugarLoveHoney · Unread post by **SugarLoveHoney** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 9:45 am

I'm going to be doing a figure candle spell with pink candles dressed with reconciliation oil and healing oil and a reconciliation vigil candle as a master candle. I was wondering if it would be appropriate to add Van Van oil to the pink figure candles as well? Thank you!

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 12:10 pm

Hello SUgarLoveHoney,

Is the pink candle for you or someone else and whoever it is for have they been having bad luck in love? If the target has been having bad luck I would say yes to the Van Van oil.

Peace~

Nathen

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 12:26 pm

Before I even did my doll baby I got many signs. I was driving and saw a street sign with the name of the town he is from. I also saw somebody moving into my building and they had wall pics of New York with them. Today this is after I made the doll baby, I was watching something and a commercial for make up came on with New York City in it. This is wild. I take this all as a sign to do work. I plan on going back in a few weeks to New York and taking my supplies with me so I can work continuous

Butterflyheart · Unread post by **Butterflyheart** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 1:31 pm

What are some good herbs to add to love work to speed up the spell. I know spells don't work over night but what would be something to add that extra boost to the spell so if the target is stubborn an resistant they are overcoming that quickly I have dragon blood oil that I got from Lm an reconciliation oil an come to me oil. I wanted a herb since I have so many oils already. Thank u in advance for ur response.

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:43 am

It depends how gifted you are. My spells usually manifest or make progress within three days and I get signs before I even do a spell and rough out the spell. Make sure you state your intent when using the herbs. One herb I used was Honeysuckle

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Wed Jul 22, 2015 7:55 pm

Hi my doll baby is not working! Should I re-baptize it? Add more herbs? I've worked with it for months now. (Not everyday) he hasn't come. I don't want to over do it. We do talk. But only if I initiate. He did call me. But that was only because we were arguing over text. I didn't answer because I was crying hysterical. Need him to be sweet and listen to me when I talk to the doll. I've gone through the thread & tried talking to him sweetly & stern... Nada!!! Help! Thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:19 pm

Hello, Butterflyheart,

Here is a quick guide to the herbs and oils: www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

I hope this helps

take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:22 pm

Hello, blessedlady,

Yes, re-baptize it and yes, you can add more herbs.

The doll isn't going to work at all, however, if you're arguing with him in the mundane world. You behaviors compliment the magic and visa-versa.

So, I would bite my tongue and be sweet no matter what he says to you.

I hope it works this time

take care

Ariesinlove · Unread post by **Ariesinlove** » Fri Jul 24, 2015 1:40 pm

I am in love with what may be the most stubborn man on this earth. We were connected through a mutual friend 5 years ago. Due to strange events, we never were able to meet face to face. He ended up moving away to another city, getting married and having a child. He came back late last year, divorced and eventually struck up a conversation with me in April. Neither of us were looking for real love - I'm busy with my career and he was just starting to get over his divorce and bitter custody battle.

Within days, we realized that there was a connection that was so powerful it was almost scary. We finally made arrangements to spend a weekend together but when the day came, he was withdrawn, shy and awkward -until this point he'd been none of these things. We'd been speaking to each other throughout the day on the phone and messaging nearly constantly when we couldn't actually talk. We discussed everything under the sun.

After several starts and stops, being declared "just a friend" - I ended up staying with him overnight because I needed to travel to his city to handle some business. We had a wonderful evening, everything was warm and fun - but he insisted that I sleep in the bed and he sleep on the couch. I agreed but after I showered and dressed for bed (modestly) I went out to he living room and asked him why on earth he is so scared of me. He replied that he likes me too much and he just has to shut down his emotions because he's not ever going to let himself fall in love. It's rather obvious that he is, in fact, in love with me. I won't go into all those details but I know he is.

I need a spell to get him over his reservations or mental blocks about this. Any suggestions?

here is what I was able to gather secretly while I was visiting:
hair from the sink - it's very short and most likely facial hair.
a paper towel that he cleaned himself with after we had intercourse - from the wastebasket
a shirt that he'd worn and not washed yet
the underwear he was wearing before and after our intercourse
and
soil from a footprint but not the entire footprint.

The blue moon is next friday. Would that be helpful for performing a spell?

Edrin · Unread post by **Edrin** » Sat Jul 25, 2015 7:32 pm

To cut the story short, we broke up. Despite my attempts to get her to sit down and talk things through, she just packed up and walked out. I know there are quite a few threads on this topic, I have read them through. However, I have no wish to hijack somebody else's thread.

I know there is a Reconciliation kit that I am most likely to use. Apart from Reconciliation, I am also considering of topping it off with either Compelling kit or Essence of Bendover or even both.

The challenge is that - she no longer stays with me and I have no way to talk to her/meet her. Will this still work? Can I do two or three spells all at the same time?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 25, 2015 9:05 pm

Hello, Ariesinlove,

Well, you certainly have the right personal belongings!! Good for you.

Just remember, don't use everything you have for one spell. Especially if you have to keep a little extra (in the event that you hire a rootworker).

The moon is fine and Here is an array of Love spells to chose from: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

Now, you might also want to also consider some healing spells on him if he is so scared:

www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

I hope this helps.

Keep us posted on your spell work progress, please

Take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 25, 2015 10:05 pm

Hello, Edrin ,

I am so sorry that this happened.

I would do the reconciliation first.

The follow it up with compelling (or add compelling to your reconciliation work).

If that doesn't give it the "kick" that you need, then follow that up with the more aggressive work as the Bend Over. And here is a list of more persuasive products/spells

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

I hope all works out for you

take care

pooka17 · Unread post by **pooka17** » Tue Jul 28, 2015 10:54 am

Hello everyone,

I just wanted to say thank you! The honey jar worked. He came back a week ago and has been so sweet and affectionate. Things are probably better than it was when we first started dating. I first became way too emotional and just relied on the honey jar to do everything for me. But I started reading the replies and realize that for this to work I need to work on myself also and remember the things that made us fight, how I handled our arguments and totally evaluate our relationship and what went wrong. The day he came back he cussed me out telling me he hated me. There was so much hate in his words that I realized how much I hurt him. So I kept calm and instead of firing back with the same hate, I returned his words with love and understanding. All he really wanted was to take care of me and for me to appreciate him. I work a lot and so I guess I took him for granted and didn't give him the affection he needed.
I am going to continue my jar and my positive thinking. I am also scheduling a reading with Deacon Millett.

But I wanted to keep you posted and give my thanks for helping me and guiding me. This forum saved my little family and I am forever grateful.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 29, 2015 7:16 am

Hello, pooka17,

That's WONDERFUL news!

CONGRATS!!!!!!!

Ariesinlove · Unread post by **Ariesinlove** » Wed Jul 29, 2015 9:49 am

Thank you for your reply Ms. Aida! And my apologies for the double post. I came back later to see if anyone had answered and I couldn't find my post. I assumed I had done something wrong and hadn't completed the post. I did not realize that it just hadn't been approved yet. It won't happen again!

I really do appreciate your answer.

Star Anise · Unread post by **Star Anise** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 2:48 pm

I'm starting to worry that my honey jar isn't working... Since starting it, it seems to have had the opposite effect... My target has become more distant and standoffish, and after getting angry with each other about something petty (I told his friend about our breakup before he could and he's super mad at me about it), he won't even talk to me. I've apologized and opened up the lines of communication, saying I'm open to talking whenever he's ready, but I do know to give him his space...

I just want to know if there's something else I can do.

I hate not being able to talk to him, and I miss him so much... I just want us to be on good terms again so we can work on building the closeness that we had again.

My honeyjar is full of our hair, rose buds and oregano right now, and I've made an order from Lucky Mojo to get lavender, periwinkle, catnip, balm of Gilead, deer's tongue and raspberry leaves. Is there anything else I can add in the meantime to give it a little oomf?

I also did have a few readings that my efforts will have success, to not close this door and to not process it so much. Perhaps that's my problem, that I'm not letting it go enough...

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 3:33 pm

Star Anise,

Magic and hoodoo are not harry potter, more often then not it takes time. Cat suggest with the 3 days for signs, 3 weeks for movement and 3mo for manifestation. this would help you. Also, and suggested before, smuggeling an ex who is seeing someone else and kissing their butt is not going to change. Its counter-intuitive I know. You think, let me be sweet they love me, ill be their , they will run back. However to him it means, she is needy, she is smothering me, I need to run further. Keep burning candles and pray 23 pslam to bring love into your life with ( name) and luck in doing so and pslams 42 to reconcile. All you need to do is be patient,. I would suggest doing two to 3 works such as a honey jar to sweeten, a break up to ruin them and a sex spell to ignite the passion in them. Miss Aida told me this and it has been great advise, sext them then move into love. Hope it helps.

Butterflyheart · Unread post by **Butterflyheart** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 5:12 pm

@j82

I love that idea, I already have done vinegar break up, break up skull candle, and my honey jar. I also try to back up my work by the missionary independent church. I recently ordered a block buster Hopefully that kicks off everything!

I would really love to do a sex spell, is there anything you suggest? Or that Miss. Aida recommended for you>? Please do share

I havea napkin with his seman from a year ago think i had saved it that time thinking I might need it in the future and am so glad i did!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 6:02 pm

Butterflyheart ,

I would like to see you make a doll baby with the personal item. Kneed the clay as you pray for him and you and talk all hot and sexy. Add herbs which you prayed over and kneed them in.. then add oils like kiss me now, love me, follow me boy, just a few drops and kneed it in, this process will take like an hour or so to make it soft and items in it. then stick the personal item in the top as you form the head and shape the rest of the body downward. stick some love herbs where the heart is also...dont add a lot because it can make it break. I use clay from a store and it can be cooked so follow instructions. I only use LM oil and herbs as well. when it is cooled I baptise it and talk to it and tell it as God made adam from clay so did I make you. There after its the person and talk to it and love it as that person. I suggest using the doll with red candles, penis candles or 7 knob dressed with ur fluids and dressed with love oils and do them along with working the doll.

Butterflyheart · Unread post by **Butterflyheart** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 7:36 pm

Wow! What a amazing idea! Thank you @j82 sounds like you really know what your doing, I definitely have to do some research about the clay doll baby as I have never made one but I wanted to clarify before I start do you put the herbs an oil after cooking the doll baby? An how do you cook it? Like you have a figure representing your target then boil it? Sorry... Idk if I sound stupid but I don't want to make mistakes. Will you please advise a little more ? Thank u in advance

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 8:08 pm

Hi Butterflyheart,

There are different kinds of clay you could use to make a doll baby, assuming you want to make one from clay. Some require "cooking" in an oven to harden and others are self-drying. Do a little research and find what would work for you.

Alternatively, you could make one out of cloth and insert your napkin with his personal concerns into it. Either way, you can stuff the doll with appropriate herbs, then save the oil until it is completed and use that to anoint it as you talk to it and work it.

Hope that makes sense. Good luck!

Butterflyheart · Unread post by **Butterflyheart** » Tue Aug 04, 2015 8:42 pm

thank you miss Athena, makes complete sense

Star Anise · Unread post by **Star Anise** » Fri Aug 07, 2015 8:51 am

J82,

Thank you for the info and pep talk; really does help!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Aug 09, 2015 12:21 am

If a reconcillation vigil is burning 100% clean and clear is that ALWAYS great news????

Could it also mean that the ex doesn't even think about you at all and therefore there is NO resistance because the ex doesn't even think about you or feel that you even exist?

Sigh....things with my ex was going well until I took a 3 week vacation in July.....my ex just recently got a new job in the hospital and I just texted him and GOT NO response!!!!! But my reconciliation vigil is 100% clean and clear!!!! I am confused by this!

Unless of course it means I don't even exist to him anymore and therefore he has nothing to resist at all....

Sigh....he is so damn stubborn!