Reverse Revenge or Crossing Against Abusing Cheating Spouse Lover Ex-Spouse Ex-Lover

QueenofHeartsK · Unread post by **QueenofHeartsK** » Fri Mar 14, 2014 1:46 pm

My ex has hurt me, sometimes I feel like more than anyone could another person in the world. I've caught him cheating more than once & in numerous lies. He's a F'd up person and has no regard for they way he treats people after he feels like he's done with them. I learned he has done the same to women in the past & it's a never ending cycle. He woos women falls for them, make them fall for him then Viola the evil in him comes out.
recently he has the nerve to contact me about how he's happy with someone new & she will settle him down. Watch you'll see were his exact words. It makes me uneasy all over again because I know he was sayin it to be hurtful. I have never wished him bad & forgiven and taken him back in the past. Today was my last straw.
I DO NOT want him back! I want him to suffer like he's made me & others suffer.

I had a reading about this man & our situation. (My reader said he'd probably be like this for the rest of his life) and it's over between us & I'm fine with that. Consolidation bath, Black walnut bath & cut & clear! Got it...what I'm lookin for is revenge. He thinks he's so cunning, untouchable & my reader even said arrogant .

I ordered a break up bottle from LM & some hot foot powder amongst other things

I've never done crossing work so I'm ill prepared. I want to make his life hell right now. The easiest thing seemed to be a vinegar jar for right now but I'm open to other spells/suggestion. I have a few person concerns of his (semen, nail clipping) & a photo of him. I also have graveyard dirt from my Mommas grave (unfortunately she was killed & that wasn't her fault but she loved me, she was strong, protective & I know she'd help with this) I have a few herbs & candles. I don't have any oils (they're on there way from LM). I want to take action now while I'm waiting for my shipments. Thank u

Unread post by **Miss Kerry** » Fri Mar 14, 2014 11:59 pm

Hi QueenofHeartsK

I can understand your hurt and frustration over how you've been treated by this man and can empathise as someone who in the past was destroyed and hurt by a serial shit I was engaged to. The best revenge you can have on this man is finding a new love who makes you happy and believe me in time this ex will seem like a none entity and chalk it down as a lesson learned. I appreciate that your emotions are raw and your angry. But as you've not done any crossing work before, I would think long and hard before sending this man to the graveyard. I would put him in a vinegar to sour his life then throw him in the river out of your life for good. Take your root workers advice cut and clear and a black walnut bath and work on healing and moving on, that is your best revenge.

I wish you all the best and hope that the love you need come to you real soon.

Unread post by **Miss Kerry** » Sat Mar 15, 2014 1:09 am

Hi QueenofHeartsK

If you really feel that the vinegar jar, cut and clear and black walnut baths is not for you and you still want Revenge on this dog of a man. You say you don't have any spiritual supplies and are waiting for shipment of your order, I would use the personal concerns you have and make a doll baby, you say you've got his toe nails put them in the feet of the doll along with Chilli powder (if you can wait till you get your hot foot powder use that instead) and put chilli's in each leg of the doll as well so that every step he takes when he goes to meet another woman burns him and removes him before he can hurt another. Put the semen on a black thread and with the black thread tie a knot nine time and state, I tie your nature so that you won't pleasure another! where his crotch is on the doll, sew an X to cross his nature. You have his hair put his hair in his head with Black Mustard seed or Poppy seeds so he will be confused in mind and stitch his head to the left of the doll so this sends him crazy if he wants to mess another woman's life up. As an added touch put him in a mirror box, as a real belt and braces approach so as well as messing up his life, his nature and his mind any harm he projects out to anyone gets sent back unto him..... Nettle, Agrimony and Blackberry leaves in the mirror box seal it with black wax and bury him at the crossroads!!!

I don't want you all to think i'm a lady hearted worker. So if the first approach isn't for you, you may favour this one.

Best of luck.

Unread post by **veggiekiller88** » Wed May 14, 2014 5:53 pm

I have I have a friend whose ex has been exceptionally cruel to her and messing with her head. She wants to curse his love life and make him as miserable as he has made her. Obviously I would do a reading before undertaking something like this, but I have a couple of questions. First, does anyone have some good spell suggestions? She has an unwashed shirt of his and some other stuff he gave her. Second, I an trying to decide if she should do this herself or if I should do it for her. She has no magical experience or knowledge, but I have done work for her before. I also know our target and hate him for what he has done to her. Then again, he's HER ex. Any thoughts? I'd appreciate some input.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu May 15, 2014 9:45 pm

Hello, Veggiekiller420,
You know, you could both do the spell together. She can learn from you and there would be more energy placed in the spell.
That crossing kit (as I have mentioned in this subforum) would be PERFECT because you could both work on this together, you could lead her, and every single step is written out so that she doesn't mess up. www.luckymojo.com/spell-crossing.html
Of course, there's a zillion other spells you cold do: freezer, mirror box, etc.
Check out this page. There's some crossing spells here too: www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
She's lucky to have a friend like you who cares
Take care

Limekisses · Unread post by **Limekisses** » Mon May 19, 2014 8:49 am

Hello,
I have a question regarding some work that I need done. I have a husband and we've been together for over fifteen years. He is a psychologically abusive liar and cheater and has done so many things to try and destroy me.

1.He has had my house robbed in the past.

2.When I was unemployed he dashed off to his family's house without notice.

3.He controls me and believes I should be cooking/serving him for the rest of my life( how he was raised).So he doesn't want me to work even though he can't provide for my household.

3.He has cheated with multiple women and even took a bonus check he had,spent it on them getting hotel rooms.We had no money and so therefore our gas was cut off.

4.He goes out of his way to NOT acknowledge my BDay or Mother's Day. He actually was trying to hookup with his nephews wife, so he called her to tell her (specifically) happy mother's day. Then told me about it.

5.When I was diagnosed with breast cancer, he didn't even care. He didn't go with me on ANY of my appointments/surgeries. He actually seemed glad I was diagnosed.Thankfully I had my son's support.

I mean I could go on for a long time about the stuff he has done. I've tried for years and years to get a job, in order to get away from him. I always seem to run into obstacles. I've taken classes,faxed countless resumes and filled out applications to no avail.

I'm going to be honest, I want to eliminate him from this earth w/ magic and I feel like I'd be free. Is it possible?

Sarafina · Unread post by **Sarafina** » Tue May 20, 2014 7:55 pm

is there any reason why you cant divorce this horrible person?

Limekisses · Unread post by **Limekisses** » Wed May 21, 2014 9:53 am

Sarafina wrote:is there any reason why you cant divorce this horrible person?

He refuses and on top of that financially I can't support myself ATM.

Sarafina · Unread post by **Sarafina** » Wed May 21, 2014 10:03 am

Please get a reading. Im assuming there's something getting into your way..blocking you from jobs etc

Contact an AIRR worker

http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

whomever appeals to you from the list on the side, Miss Cat etc. Many start from $10.

or Hoodoo Psychics which is abit more expensive but faster: http://hoodoopsychics.com/

OR try to get on the weekly Sunday radio show, there you get free reading and rootworking advice from 3 experts including Miss Cat

then you can know what is the best product(s) for your situation

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Good luck!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed May 21, 2014 11:26 am

Limekisses, I really like the radio show option. Readings and rootwork prescriptions by THREE gifted readers - at no cost to you!

They have plenty of life experience, too, so they can also give you practical tips on how to deal with your situation.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

xsofiix3 · Unread post by **xsofiix3** » Mon Jul 07, 2014 5:52 pm

Hi,
First of all forgive me if I'm posting this on the wrong place but I have some questions.

First let me start by explaining why I decided to do this, after almost 3 years of me and my soon to be ex-husband being together he decided to leave over some stupid shit (me not letting him have my car) a couple of weeks after I found out he was cheating on me while I was at work, we have one son and another baby on the way soon to be born during this weeks. Anyways lol he left me for some old bitch that's almost twice our age and has 3 kids and is now pregnant by him too, I been trying to get back at him but I don't know how to, and I read about goofers dust ( don't worry I'm not planning on killing him or anything ) I was wondering if I could dust the car title saying or wishing what I want to happen to him before I send it off, or would it be better to write on a black candle his name and what i wish for to happen to him, or if I could do both? I mean he really deserves it he used to hit me while I was pregnant with my first child and with this second one he came over and tried to stab me with the screw driver because i wouldnt let him have the car, so I thought what a better way than to let him have the car and cursing him at the same time. I also wanted to know if i could do the candle thing too to his old biach. Thanks in advance and again sorry if I'm posting it on the wrong thread.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 09, 2014 9:34 pm

Hello, xsofiix3 ,
This is just so terrible, What an absolute horrible thing to happen to you and you're expecting. I feel so bad for you and your son and your baby coming.
Just makes my heart break.
Yes, you can do all of these things.
If you check out the forum. there's a lot of crossing spells you can do in addition to using Goofer Dust.
Go to this page (for a mass array of WONDERFUL ideas): ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-cursing,-c ... 681d0563d7
Again, please accept my sincer and heartfelt thoughts for you.
Wishing you GREAT success in your crossing/cursing/revenge spells on a person who TRULY deserves it.

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Thu Sep 04, 2014 5:47 pm

I got this man that pretended to be my best friend, my soulmate...and he betrayed me in the worst possible way...It hurts like hell and it's impossible to feel positive about it. He destroyed my life in all aspects and mocked my confidence in him. I never did to him any wronging, but to kindness he answered with evil deeds. I am at lost... I want him to regret his decision, to be tormented and to obsess about me, not to have any peace and pleasure in life, to feel the result of the torment he put on me for so many months a hundred times stronger. I saw the black scull suggestion, but is there anything stronger (I'm not comfortable of unleashing an Intranquil Spirit)... I'll Cut and Clear after this. I did a reading about the work, and it says that it is justified. Please help!!!

Unread post by **J-Mo** » Fri Sep 05, 2014 8:12 am

Hello Dragonfly72,

Sorry to hear about your situation. I merged your post here as it had to do more with revenge than healing. There is a lot of information in this thread that can help you reach your desired goals. Feel free to ask any questions you may have.

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Fri Sep 05, 2014 6:50 pm

Thank you, J-Mo! I've read the pages, but can you suggest something concrete to torment him; I want him to long, suffer and be unhappy without me...I cannot find anyone else and look happy as long as I am not avenged...The link Miss Aida provided is not working...I've used Hot Foot and Break-up powders/oils, but need other strong ideas, I want him to be restless and to suffer...What was the story about using feces? Thanks and blessings!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 05, 2014 11:15 pm

Hello, Dragonfly72,

I just posted some good advice on the mirror box subforum for someone else. Take a look at the last post (which is mine).

post153975.html#p153975

Enjoy!

aradia71 · Unread post by **aradia71** » Sat Sep 06, 2014 6:04 am

Whn using the spell posted by Literary Lioness,

Do you need to anoint the scrap of clothing with any oils, and do you wrap it inside something else or just bury it as is? Where do you bury it, on a grave or near a grave or anywhere in a cemetery? Do you say anything over the scrap before or after you bury it?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Sep 07, 2014 6:52 pm

Aradia,

No, the cloth is not dressed.

No, you do not wrap or put the cloth inside of anything.

You bury it in a grave, and the grave should be selected for this work.

You curse the person to die.

You may also take some dirt from the grave and touch it to the person you are cursing.

katie80lo · Unread post by **katie80lo** » Tue Sep 09, 2014 11:19 pm

my ex is liar. i been kicked out of home in 2012. i got kids age 10. my ex's mom told him break free go wild leave me. i have a disease. i sleep lot. we was togeather 17 yrs. i had sex last sept with him, broke that doormatt thing off.

he pays suport but not enough. im supose to be gettin ready for court. he talk to me las night.

reader say he wants me back but dont no how.

i am pretty tired of being in limbo. he is their real dad but a whore, but im sure hes regreat now cause court comming up.

1) what do i do? i want my kids money and apology or either for him to go away and give me his rights.

2) question is i really want to know if we got back togeather would it be so he wouldnt have to pay or would it be cause he loved me?

3) and can he be faithful?

i need reading dont have paypal. i can call shop. can someone instuct me? i do cleansing after my work. i almost want to curse his ass and move on but its a small chance of hope. am i pipe dreaming?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Sep 10, 2014 1:29 pm

Real repentance doesn't need to be punished. Fake repentance needs the whole nine yards of pins, needles and black candles, in my opinion. You need better information before you can decide, so a reading is the best thing for you.

Miss Cat is booked up a couple of months in advance; other AIRR readers, not so much. And not all of us insist on PayPal.

Go to www.readersandrootworkers.org and email the readers who most appeal to you. Email those readers, asking if they would accept a postal money order, which can be deposited just like a check -- I've done it myself many times.

For future reference: if you have a debit card, a PayPal account takes about 5 minutes to set up.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

katie80lo · Unread post by **katie80lo** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 12:52 am

thanks never thought of emailing each one.

yes its real and need adressing pins needles and i guess dolls but ill need coaching on the dolls im good with candles but a reader sure would help like i said.

i have had a few on other sites and at home had readings spent much money on products from lucky mojo. i have black arts oil destruction oil goofer confusion return to me a protection sack for me and kids when they have to go visit him.

he is off the chart at mean the yellin cussin. id call dhr but in ala if u dont kill your kid your a fit parent.

spent much on lawyer its at a stan still.

im going to curse the hell out of him and try to get a reading asap.

any tips on how to begin? i have a human candle his pic hair all the oils from lucky mojo.

thanks for any advice

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 2:07 pm

katie80lo --

You have two issues going on here:

1) Revenge or cursing on him for his lies. We will address this in this topic thread.

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2) Court case, custody, and child support issues. We can address those in another thread in the forum, here:

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Okay, as far as your cursing goes, you have the right products, you have personal concerns, and you have a justified situation. Start by reading this thread from page 1 onward, to see some spells we have mentioned. Also read this web page:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#black

When you get there, you will see links to MANY pages of cursing spells. Click those links and read those pages, then select the spell that seems best suited to you and that most resonates with your mind-set. Remember that you can use the products you have in the way that works for you, and combine them as you see fit.

Good luck.

AnnabelleLeeToo · Unread post by **AnnabelleLeeToo** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 5:22 am

So, is there a spell to expose a cheater's infidelity to the world, so he can't lie his way out of it to the wife? In my case, I am the wife. I used to be a trusting wife, now, not so much. I don't want to be thinking my husband has betrayed me if he hasn't (we've been married 28 years, don't want to throw that away if he is indeed innocent). I need a spell to definitively expose him to the world if he has carried on a physical or emotional affair with a woman....or a few women over the past 17 yrs (when we moved to where we live now).

I don't care if the exposure costs him his job either. I just want to know one way or the other so I can relax and trust him again or make the choice to divorce him. The only way to make the right decision for my life is to know the truth. Plus, if he has betrayed me it'd be an added bonus for everyone to know about it.

I was thinking something along the line of having the other woman's husband ( one, of whom I suspect) get "wind" of it and "proof" to back it up then kick the crap out of my husband at work (exposing her too) Or, something even more embarrassing.

I might also add, that in the past 6 months I've ordered the hotfoot kit, the Nationsack and a couple of skull candles from Lucky Mojo, and yet, they're still sitting there unused. I think what's holding me back is this "not knowing for sure" thing. If he's already betrayed me then do I really want to use the Nationsack and have him stuck to me like an annoying tick? I don't think so. And if the other woman or women have had him already, what's the point in hotfooting them (too late) I'd be better off doing a cut and clear and getting a road opener spell for me. Then torment them all from a distance with the skull candles.

I'm hoping he is innocent but either way I'm tired of this inner turmoil of "did he or didn't he"? It's exhausting on my emotional well being and has negatively affected my health. Not knowing for sure is the worst!! I'm 53 now and will be really pissed if he has and has kept me at home doing his dirty laundry, cooking his meals etc, etc, from the time I was 36 (still young enough to have had a lot of life left; when we move to this hell hole, while conducting a double life until I've reached this age). But, I'm not dead yet and if he's guilty I might want to reclaim the rest of my life for myself. If he's innocent then I'll relax and not feel like I've wasted my life.

Innocent or guilty, exposure would be a win win for this "getting older by the day" lady.

Unread post by **natstein** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:28 am

Hello Annabelleleetoo,

I would suggest taking one of your skull candles and working it on your husband to get him to tell you the truth! I think a white skull candle would work best. Take it and and baptize it in the name of your husband. Then speak to it nightly, preferably while your husband is asleep. Say things like "speak the truth to me and if there is anything I should know you will tell me" . Things like that. You can anoint it with influence oil while doing this. (http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html). DO this for no less than 7 days. One the 7th day you can light the candle and let burn. You could also use influence powder on things your husband will handle saying a prayer for him to tell you the truth.

While you re doing this I would also suggest to burn a clarity light for yourself to help you clearly see what is happening. You can see Clarity products at this link (http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html). I would just keep a vigil candle for yourself going during the time that you are doing this work.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

AnnabelleLeeToo · Unread post by **AnnabelleLeeToo** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:56 am

Thank you Nastein. That sounds helpful but logistically, in my situation, I would not be able to burn the candle while he is sleeping. He is a very light sleeper and often when I can't sleep I'll ease out of bed, trying not to wake him, and yet, within minutes he has gotten up to come see where I am. Because he doesn't sleep well or long himself, he is often tired during the day so I was wondering, would the candle be effective if I burned it during the day while he's at work?

He can be a real bully when he is on the "hot seat" too, he likes to have control, so I don't have much faith in methods that push him to confess anything. And I know, from reading these forums, that faith is a factor in hoodoo. Spells to affect things outside his range of control, imo (from spending nearly 3 decades with the man) would be more practical for exposing any wrongdoing. While he can bully me to a certain extent he can't bully those outside our home who he has spent years "schmoozing". I'm thinking that if I could do a spell/trick? like that, after a reasonable passage of time, if nothing happens, I'll err on the side of caution and give him the benefit of the doubt, try to relax and then do the Nation sack.

I am willing however, to try the candle spell you suggest if you think it'll have any affect on a person who is awake. I think the clarity spell and vigil candle are an excellent idea for me.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 3:12 pm

Hi AnnabelleLeeToo,

natstein gave you most excellent advice.
To add to his suggestions I'd also encourage you to obtain a reading from a qualified reader.
www.readersandrootworkers.org

I suggest this because my feeling is that you may not be objective in this case.
If you've been living with a controlling person for close to 30 years, you may not be open
to what spirit tells you. Someone who can be objective will be able to tell you what you want or
need to hear.

Also, the answer to your question about if a candle spell will affect a person who is awake is, yes.
You may want to back up your work by having the Lucky Mojo work a candle for you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

I'm sorry you have been going through this for so long. He does sound like a bully.

Many Blessings to you!!

AnnabelleLeeToo · Unread post by **AnnabelleLeeToo** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 3:51 pm

Thank you Susan. I'll take your advice and contact a reader. Would you recommend any particular one for this type of situation?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:37 pm

Hello, AnnabelleLeeToo ,

We don't recommend particular readers on the forum.

Just go to the AIR webpage and see who would best suit you. Or you can e-mail them and tell them your predicament and see who would read for you.

Take care

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Dec 08, 2014 5:11 am

Hi AnnabelleLeeToo,

Just click on the link I gave you: www.readersandrootworkers.org
You'll be able to choose which reader you feel a connection with that specializes in your situation.

You can also get a reading from a member of Hoodoo psychics at: www.hoodoopsychics.com

Many Blessings to you!

Susan

Owlsee · Unread post by **Owlsee** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 4:54 pm

I ordered a candle service... for my ex to endure career troubles (because that's the only thing that will make him see himself) until he repents to God for his mistreatment of women. Apologize to me and changes his ways.

The candle service hasn't started yet. My guess it will start in a day or two.

I also think I should now cut-the-cords to get rid of any residual feelings so that I can draw in new love. Do I need to wait until the first work is done by the worker? Or can I do this work immediately.
I am kind of worried if I cut the cord before the first work is done, that it won't be as effective if my anger is gone.

I plan to do the cut the cords at home to save money.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 6:11 pm

Owlsee,

It is completely acceptable to cut the ties now and move on with your life. A great way to do that is the cut and clear spell LM has on their page. Setting and forgetting work is the best way to let it manifest as well. You may want to add more work then just a candle service, though the service is a great job, I would also consider sprinkling powders at his home with the intention of ruining him, putting where he will step or touch, oil on his door knows with intent to ruin him. A great one is a vinigar jar to sour his life and burry upside down under his stoop or porch ( or close to it) to slowly sour his life. I like to burn black figure candles washed in vin then dressed in the oil and rolled in herbs, I use a graeyard nail to carve it. This can be done along with the work. this way you are attacking from multiple aspects. Once done with the work, take a bath in hyssop to cleanse and move on an expect fantastic results.

Owlsee · Unread post by **Owlsee** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 6:27 pm

Unfortunately he's out of the country for work and gave up his apartment until he gets back. So the revenge work near his residence isn't possible. I did a freezer spell with vinegar on his work yesterday.

I look into the cut and clear products mentioned. And take the cleansing bath tomorrow before the revenge candle starts. Thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 8:32 pm

Hi Owlsee,

If you can't deploy your jar on your target's property, you can always deploy it in a cemetery or crossroads.

Good luck.

Owlsee · Unread post by **Owlsee** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 9:04 pm

Ok. I don't have experience (newbie) to go to cemetery so I'll consider the crossroads. I live in the city, so I'd have to figure that location out.
It feels good to not leave it up to karma. Although, every guy who has ever messed over me went through hell via karma or maybe an ancestor that I am unaware. But this was an engagement so I'm not waiting on karma.
Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jun 06, 2015 9:13 pm

Hello, Owlsee,

We don't conform to the concept of Karma in Hoodoo. We don't worry about karma if we perform certain spells.

Just saying...

Take care

Owlsee · Unread post by **Owlsee** » Sun Jun 07, 2015 7:21 am

Great, I can start erasing the karma concept from my psyche. I like that he's gonna pay. I'm done with being nice and people stepping on my heart. I won't do things just to do it. Only in really foul situations. This isn't too harsh because my goal is to effect what I know will be a wakeup call with the result of him changing and not doing the same to the next woman.

Dhanu · Unread post by **Dhanu** » Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:28 pm

Hi all,

I am just hoping to get some advice on a matter that I have at hand. I am not looking for a reading - more of what is the better course of action.

I've had a man in my life, a friend who at the start was a wonderful person but 6 months or so into the r'ship turned. For the last 18 months, it has been very up and down - the good is really good but when its bad its truly bad. He is intentional emotionally abusive and often will do the very thing that I had told him hurts me. I have spoken to him, apologised for my mistakes when I have made them but always have done above and beyond to support and care for him, as I didn't want to be vindictive and mean.

Things came to a head earlier this year - when I made a decision to not put up with it so I delivered an ultimatum. He wanted my help to change, asked me to help him, I asked him multiple times whether he was sure he wanted this and he assured me but then rejected any support or advice I would offer. I also spoke about ending the relationship amicably but he chose to hold onto it. A few weeks ago, out of the blue when I had not contacted him for weeks as I was beginning to give up - I received a threatening 'Do not contact me' message. I later realised that this was a meddlesome friend who is no longer in the picture who was trying to manipulate the situation to his benefit - he is no longer in the picture. But all the anger was taken out on me. Very personal things about me have been shared but it seems his anger is based on the fact on made up lies my friend had said.

I am unable to clarify it and at best had a friend messenger the fact that it wasn't me or my thoughts. But he has still insisted that on ending this without clarifying things or realising/owning his part in this. Ending the relationship was never my issue as I had offered it multiple time, however I never wanted to end it badly because I never wanted it to be uncomfortable when we had to be around each other or saw each other.

Readings have always indicated that it was going to be hard work, but if I would put the work in, this could work out and much of the workings over the last year have paid off in the short term. But he is very very stubborn and guarded - and nothing works in the long term.

His behaviour over the last year has caused me to really suffer emotionally and physically - and every time I do - I turned the other cheek, gave and looked after him.

I know a Cut and Clear is best here as my story sounds similar to Cat's and others and but I want some retribution - real retribution. I want my power back and my investment back if I can - he has my things and has not had a the courtesy to return them. I want him to realise his mistakes and apologise - I don't really want a relationship but I want him to want it - to realise how good I was.

Recently, I had a rootworker perform a IS working and she is following up with a domination working. She said it was fine for me to reinforce this with my own work. So I was going to get MISC to set me some IS candles along with a destruction candle - supporting that was protection and cleansing candles for myself. I was considering a vinegar bottle as well. I have some IS powder and Graveyard dirt. In 3 months, I was going to do a Cut and Clear.

Any thoughts or advice? Can I do anything else to support this? Spellwork at home is difficult and I am not experienced enough. Any constructive advice would be great. This has consumed my life, there is something rancid about this person and I want his sourness to affect him now.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:13 pm

Hi Dhanu,

If you are currently working with a rootworker, your best bet is to consult with them on any additional work you could be doing on your own. We don't want to provide advice here that may contradict the work they're currently doing for you.

Good luck.

Unread post by **Santiago** » Thu Jun 18, 2015 8:50 am

ConjureMan Ali wrote:I deal with such people slightly differently. I work a conjure aimed at forcing people like this to take a good long hard look at themselves to expose all their delusions. For someone who is a Narcissist forcing them to look at a mirror that reveals too many of their flaws is both devestating and can be healing--it is a fit punishment though, usually.

Take white skull candle. Carve it with "Your wickedness exposed to yourself." Dress it with Clarity oil and spinkle it with Sage so that it helps him see his mistakes and flaws. Place this candle on a bed of Salt and pray over the Salt that it bring his flaws to the surface so he can see his mistakes. Place the skull candle in front of a mirror and command it to take a good hard look at himself and that all his actions will reflect back on him. Light the candle.

As the candle is burning read Pslam 7: 14-16 "He who is pregnant with evil and conceives trouble gives birth to dilliusionment.."
As you are reading this Psalm heat up some pins and drive them into the skull. This will force him to see himself for what he really is.

Take the Salt and wax residue and toss it on his property or where he will walk.

**Edited to correct typo ***

I'm getting ready to do this work, and I have a couple of questions. Should the candle burn completely through in one setting, or should it be done in 15-20 minute intervals until gone? Would any type of cigar or cigarette smoke being blown into the skull assist the work? Also, I had wondered if adding compelling oil to the clarity oil be a complementary addition, or if it would take away from the intention?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jun 18, 2015 11:09 pm

Hi Santiago,

Some rootworkers like to keep a skull candle going for several days, burning it at intervals over the course of time, to wear down someone's mind. Others work it in a night to put that energy out to the universe as quickly as possible. It can be a matter of personal preference, so do what feels right to you.

If you are using lit tobacco for your spell, I would use a good quality cigar. That's just my personal choice.

I would suggest you stick with the oils indicated in the spell. You don't need to add anything else. Simplicity can be a powerful thing in magic.

Good luck.

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Thu Jul 09, 2015 10:51 am

I would like to know how I can get my good for nothing baby father's girlfriend to cheat on him to the point he suffers in public like he did me. He turned his back on his child and made this girl call his child evil names. I do not want him but I want him to feel suffering. I want her to cheat on him with his friends to the point he can't bear to stand it anymore. Is the three candle spell good at this?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jul 09, 2015 9:12 pm

Hello, Warriorsoul ,

Yes, yes! moving candle spells.

I get one to represent her, one to represent him, and a couple to represent other men.

Then, have his candle facing the others while she goes to one and to the other (and never to him). At the end, have the 2 men merge with hers. During this whole spell, he' just watching and never gets any action.

You might even make the other 2 men red penis candles and hers a red vagina candle....

Just a suggestion

Good luck!

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Fri Jul 10, 2015 7:01 pm

Thank you so much miss Aida. I will be using your suggestions.

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:31 pm

have a question regarding this spell. What color would his candle be and what color would the couple candle be? And as for a couple candle do I get an actual couple candle like man and women grooms candle? Sorry If I come off wrong im trying my hardest to get this done right thanks in advance.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 11, 2015 9:19 pm

Hello, Warriorsoul ,

Use single figural candles.

Black for her. White for the Baby father and red ones for the other men

This is a moving candle spell. So, you ant to keep him standing still while he watches her move to the other men

Take care

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 7:46 am

Hello,

I would like to know will a Destruction and Intranquil Spirit spell followed by a Cut and Clear spell be a good combination?

My intentions are to curse my ex while torturing him to come back to me. Then, Cut and Clear. Any advice will be helpful. Thank you!

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 12:27 pm

Hello miziluvhoodoo,

My understanding of the Intraquil Spirit is that it will being the person back to you. Since you are following up with a Cut and Clear spell it seems like bringing your ex back to you is not necessary. Otherwise if you are wanting to cause him trouble the destruction alone will certainly do the trick. After you have cut and cleared though you may find that you do not have the need to cause your ex pain.

Peace~

Nathen
Nathen

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 5:44 pm

@Natstein

Thank you for the response. That makes a lot of sense. I'll definitely take your advice.

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 6:19 pm

@natstein

Thank you for the response. That makes a lot of sense. I'll definitely take your advice.

Kuntrygirl90 · Unread post by **Kuntrygirl90** » Fri Oct 09, 2015 11:30 am

Hello....
I need some help.... My Ex must pay!!! I usually walk away and am the bigger person, but not this time! My ex is Arrogant, Cocky, a Liar and got a big ego. Think he’s Mr. Untouchable. Although I don’t know who it is, I know there’s a new woman on the scene and he’s obviously feeling her because he only text me, but hadn’t been over quite some time now. He sent me a message today saying I should’ve woke him up if I wanted to see him because he keeps falling asleep. Today he text me and said he don’t know when we’ll see each other because he be so tired and then asked me was I mad?

I told him I wasn’t expecting him so why would I be mad and I’m not about to remind No Man to come and spend time or have sex with me. He text back “Lol, yea you mad!” As you can see he found humor in his actions

. I won’t go into deep details how he got me pregnant with Twins then ran off after I told him. Unfortunately yea I was dumb for taking him back and now once again he’s doing the same old stupid stuff. My gut tells me I’m right, my intuition and heart tells me I’m right and most of all His Actions tell me I’m right

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Spell Help: So I want a spell where he becomes Impotent with this woman and every other woman he’s sleeping with until and unless he returns to me because he thinks his beefcake is made of platinum and gold. I want him to be miserable where everything around him starts to crumble, so that when he thinks about me he’ll regret how he treated me. I don’t wanna do a cut-n-clear I want him to come down off his high horse

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Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Oct 09, 2015 8:07 pm

Hello, Kuntrygirl90 ,

I just saw a post of yours over on the Tying the Nature thread.

So, I will go there and see what you wrote (as I was going to send you there anyway!)

Take care

Kuntrygirl90 · Unread post by **Kuntrygirl90** » Sat Oct 10, 2015 11:30 am

Thank you so much Miss Aida i truly appreciate it

. I have been trying to watch closely where i put my questions so they are in the right section. I will indeed go to my other post and see the advice that you left for me.

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 9:34 am

Ok, so although I am with someone ten times better than my ex, I still think my ex should pay given what he put me through. Initially, I had a rootworker put an Intranquil Spirit on him which appeared to work initially but now it appears not to be working as well as he appears happier.

I have the Lucky Mojo Jinx Maker incense and also the Revenge incense. My plan was to go to his as he lives in a flat (apartment) with a buzzer which lets trades in during the day and he's not there during the week. I was going to sprinkle this everywhere over his door mat and wipe some on the door handle so he touches it. Is there anything else I could do to really ensure revenge is given spiritually, anything that can be said which will up the effects of the curse? Want him to pay for his wrong doing! Thanks!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 3:38 pm

Hello, Nony65 ,

This link may help you: www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html

I just swear and curse and demand whatever it is that I want

Wishing you the very best with your revenge!

notmycircus · Unread post by **notmycircus** » Tue Oct 27, 2015 10:06 am

I'm assuming this would be the correct forum to post in. I definitely want help, and I definitely want some serious revenge. It's very justified also.

This is in regards to my ex-husband. Who I'm still legally married to. But yes, I'm going to continue referring to him as my ex-husband.

The first time we separated was a few months after we were married. Actually, it wasn't a separation, it was him telling me he was going to run an errand and taking everything he could while I wasn't looking and just disappearing. I had three children from a previous marriage (widowed) and was left with nothing, basically. My dumb ass ended up taking him back about a year or so later and to make a long story short, there were a couple of incidents of cheating, he was emotionally abusive (I didn't recognize it then), and two incidents of physical abuse. Second incident of the physical abuse, I kicked him out and moved on. For a while. He was ordered into anger management, completed that, tried to come back and I said no. Months later, again I'm a dumbass and let him back again. Then he gets arrested and charged with molesting his 11 year old stepsister, and insists to me that he is innocent, but instead of fighting it, pleads to the lesser charge of corruption of a minor or something along those lines, admitting he gave her and her friends a few cans of beer. At that point I WAS completely done. He spent about a year in jail, I moved out of state. Two years later, I moved back into the state, somehow he found me, and had his mom come and talk to me. His mom swore to me that the stepsister, now 14, had admitted after the fact that she made the whole thing up and that he was completely innocent, and he wanted to make our marriage work again. My dumb ass had been going through a terrible bout of depression at the time, and was in counseling for depression, and I thought it was a sign. SO I LET HIM COME BACK AGAIN. Biggest mistake of my life. It lasted less than a week before he didn't come home and I caught him at a hotel with another woman. But that isn't the bad part. The bad part is that during that week, I was cleaning houses for income, and there was ONE day, ONE DAY, that the kids made it home from school before I did. Four years later I found out in that one day what he had done to my oldest daughter, 11 at the time. Two years after that I found out what he had done to my youngest daughter, 6 at the time. According to the state, I had no case and there was nothing that could be done.

He never would sign divorce papers, and I didn't have the money to hire a lawyer and pursue it, and at that time, I was done with all men for eternity so I was like "fuck it" and dropped it. In my heart and mind we were divorced and that's all that mattered.

Three years later, I started hearing rumors that he had re-married. I knew of the girl, and knew she had young girls from a previous marriage. So I dug around, and sure enough, found a marriage license in both their names. I found her on facebook, contacted her, and told her what he had done to his stepsister and to my girls. I told her I realized she probably would not believe me, but begged her to please listen to me and protect her girls. She said she was a teacher and that she had been trained to recognize that sort of thing and she would keep it in mind. I left it at that.

Four years after that...last year...I got a message from her on facebook, saying "we need to talk, can I please call you?". So I gave her my number and she called immediately. He had been arrested for molesting both of her girls. The older one found out he had been touching the younger one, and was horrified and told. He's been sitting in jail on several million in bond in California since then. His trial is coming up soon. Her babies may have to testify. My girls, now grown, may have to testify. I may have to testify. None of us want to. Her babies especially should not have to. He even has gone so far as to try and represent himself at one point, which meant he would be questioning ALL OF US. And more...there are other women and their children that have been found in the process of the investigation in the years in between.

I want him gone. Wiped off the face of this earth, preferably by his own hand. I want him to spill out the truth first. Every disgusting horrible awful ugly secret, every injustice he has put on every victim. There is NOTHING good or salvageable or of any sort of worth whatsoever in this piece of shit. I don't even want his organs able to be donated for fear he'd infect someone else.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Oct 28, 2015 11:29 am

Hi jenn,

First of all, I am very sorry you are going through this, and that children have been involved. It is a terrible situation.

I have moved your post to the appropriate thread on revenge on an ex. Please read through these pages, where I am sure you will get ideas and advice on exacting revenge on your ex. He sounds like a piece of work and deserves what he has coming. If you still have questions after reading through this thread, feel free to ask us here.

I wish you the very best with this. Good luck.

notmycircus · Unread post by **notmycircus** » Thu Nov 05, 2015 7:17 am

Well I think the universe must be with me on this one. About six weeks back, I did a sort of road opener spell on him in preparation for when I had the chance to do something. I had found an old blog of Cat's that mentioned poppy seeds, carrier oil, a name paper, personal item (if available) and appropriate oils (if desired or available), and adding all these to a jar and putting in the freezer. I didn't have the personal item, and I didn't have any oils, but I did add licorice root, calamus root, and bergamot essential oil.

About a week after I did this, I was looking everywhere for some old tax papers, thinking I had his signature somewhere still, and I could use that. I couldn't find the papers anywhere, but I was going nuts for a couple of days wishing like hell I had those papers. Then I just let it go.

Yesterday, I got a letter in the mail from him, from jail. At first I was all up in arms about it...I still highly dislike the fact that he got my address, and the letter is disturbing as all get-out, but hey, I have his handwriting and his signature. I also have two orders in the making...so let the games begin.

A personal thank-you to Cat, by the way. That old blog of hers is what got me into this area of workings to begin with...hoodoo just resonated very strongly with me, and I started seeing results much more quickly and effectively than other methods of "magic". It's also what ultimately led me to lucky mojo's website and when I found out she was associated with it, I then had enough trust to order the products.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Nov 05, 2015 7:13 pm

Hi notmycircus,

What a great story! Spirit has a way of providing to those in need when the work is justified, and it is certainly justified in this case. You got the personal concern you need, so unleash the hell hounds.

Hoodoo attracts many people because of the organic nature of working with roots and herbs. I'm glad it speaks to you so strongly. You should look into cat's course, it is absolutely fantastic!

Best of luck to you and please keep us posted.

WarriorMom · Unread post by **WarriorMom** » Thu Dec 10, 2015 10:01 pm

I am writing to ask about a death spell for my ex-husband. We have an eight year old child together.

He tried to kill me twice. I suffered extreme abuse at his hands, and he is now abusing our child. All legal avenues have been pursued, restraining orders etc, and they in all actuality don't work. Even if i DID prevail in court somehow, he would just kill me. He lives to torture my child and I, there is no level of misery that would ever satisfy him.

I am happy to give details, but the main point is, I need some good strong death spells, and I need to do them immediately and concurrently. It's escalated and every day counts. I do not want revenge, or to cause him pain, I need him gone. For good. Spells for swift and true death is what I desperately need. I welcome any questions/comments/suggestions. PLEASE HELP MY CHILD AND I! Thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Dec 11, 2015 9:51 pm

Hello, WarriorMom

I am so very sorry. How terrible.

Have you contacted a shelter for abused women? They will find ways to protect you.

Also, child protective services.

PLEASE do this immediately.

Magically, please protect you and your child. www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Here is the link on the DUME spells: www.luckymojo.com/DUME.html

And here is another great page with lots of links:

www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#black

Wishing you great protection and, hopefully, getting away from this monster

Take care