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beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:45 pm

Lord SP wrote:You should check out Do as I Say,Commanding or Essence of Bend Over from the Lucky Mojo line. I personally love Essence of Bend Over and every time I seem to where it people just seem to do as I ask them to do. Hope that helps and I would also recommend reading through the forum as you will find some really cool things that you can try out. Good Luck and Blessed Magick

sounds good. i have commanding oil. i love that one personally because it smells so good. i'll definitely give that essence of bend over a try in my next purchase. thanks.

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Wed Jul 04, 2012 8:18 am

In my situation, the problem person is my boyfriend's sister's best friend. There's some rumor that the sister and this person were involved intimately, but I can't say that for sure because I've never seen anything personally. It would explain their own toxic relationship, but it could also be other factors between them.

Anyway, is separation work the best way to go? As an aside, this problem person prostitutes herself to make a living and is also invovled in other criminal activity that the sister is involved in, so I was thinking of some form of court case work.

Suggestions?

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 3:48 am

Hi Psychic Mimi,

Start with separation products and then escalate if that doesn't do the trick. If you really want to get her gone with no hope of return, you could always hot foot her away.

For the court case work, you may want to do that separately on the sister only. And if she's happy in her employment in the sex trade, then rather than court case, Law Keep Away products and work would be better. You can get a honey jar going for her and in it put a business card or earth from the police precinct and courthouse affected to her work zone so that they leave her alone and are sweetened and helpful when they do encounter her.

Blessings and best of luck.

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 9:04 am

Excellent! Thank you!

nesamathis · Unread post by **nesamathis** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 7:29 am

My daughter is in an unhealthy relationship. What could i do to separate them? This relationship is not good for her.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 4:27 pm

If you want them to gently separate without a fuss and fight, use Separation products. Get the sachet powders and dust the insides of her shoes with them, praying that she will separate from this man. You can also have a Separation vigil light set at Lucky Mojo, and put your daughter's name and the guy's name on the candle.

http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

montecarlogirl87 · Unread post by **montecarlogirl87** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 3:52 pm

There is a woman that is causing issues in my life and my (ex)boyfriend's....he and I were very serious, we were planning on getting married...until this person joined his group of friends and I fully believe started buzzing in his ear. Around the time of her appearance his actions changed, the people he hung out with changed and he and I became strained until he finally broke up with me. (Although we are still in close contact and both have admitted we still love/want each other.)

I believe she continues to influence his actions with her underhanded ways (she's even contacted me behind his back).

They are not an actual couple (she has a boyfriend) but I know she's also been involved casually with my ex. Since they aren't a couple per se, would a break up spell even be appropriate? Or should I work Hot Foot instead in an attempt to drive her away. (I planned to work Hot Foot anyways, with or without the break up spell.)

(I also plan on working a Honey Jar spell to keep/strengthen the feelings between he and I.)

Any help/advice would be appreciated as I am new to spellworking!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 5:25 pm

Your post reads as if you have made up your mind. Read the following recommendations including your intention.

Hot Foot Spiritual Supplies helps to drive unwanted persons from your life. (http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html)

Separation Spiritual Supplies used to cause a couple to calmly move apart or stop seeing one another. (http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html)

Cast off Evil Spiritual Supplies rids yourself or your loved ones from the corrupting influences of wicked so-called friends. (http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html)

montecarlogirl87 · Unread post by **montecarlogirl87** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 5:54 pm

I hadn't seen the Separation of Cast Off Evil pages, thank you for linking those! I'm trying to read as much as I can before I decide what to purchase and what spells to work.

I was just unsure of whether the Break Up spell would be the best choice or work as intended seeing as they are not an actual couple.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 25, 2012 2:28 am

I would do a break up spell which you can do to break up any kind of relationship not just a romantic one. Along with that I would do some stop gossip work so that she does not have any more influence in talking in his ear.

www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 25, 2012 2:30 am

I agree with this work as well as doing some king solomon wisdom and clarity work to help your daughter clearly see this situation is not for her. Also, to help her make a better decision to move away from this relationship.

moneytakea · Unread post by **moneytakea** » Fri Aug 31, 2012 2:24 pm

Also if that never works you could do the more "harsh" yet potent method and dominate her so that she will listen to your suggestions. Not recommending it, just throwing it out there for your info.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 9:44 am

I am usual pretty good at 'finding' old post, however I need help here. I'm looking for the trick that involves addressing a letter to send people away. I maybe simplifying it somewhat...
Thanks for any help.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 10:02 am

If you want to send them away by letter, address it to somewhere far away from you, like Paris or something. Then send it. Or, find an address that doesn't really exist (like on a street corner) in some city and mail it there. It'll go to a dead letter office and poof: they'll be gone

Mary Bee

Unread post by **Stellablue** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 1:40 am

I have recently been doing a lot of harsh work to separate a close friend of mine from someone she had been romantically interested in-- this romantic interest had been causing tremendous problems in my life and my friends' lives, and I wanted her gone.

I started by putting the target on a black devil candle that was dressed in banishing and inflammatory confusion. Weeks after, the target had a huge falling out with almost all of my friends-- for several different reasons.

My most recent and final work was a vinegar jar-- it is filled with pins, needles, hot foot, goofer dust, black dog and cat hair, lemon juice, peppers, and 4 thieves vinegar.

During the execution of this spell, two strange things happened. First of all, I was burning a break up vigil candle during the preparation of the vinegar jar-- somewhere in the middle of its burn, the candle went crazy-- although the flame looked ok, the entire candle was black with soot-- and my whole bathroom had a layer of soot on it too. I was burning the candle in the bathtub and the toilet and mirror had so much soot on them that they had to be washed before they could be used.

Tonight, however, something even stranger happened. Right before I was planning on taking the jar to the crossroads, I had a dream that the person in the bottle (the one I'm trying to chase away) and I performed a ritual together where we both placed dressed lodestones in a container together. She also offered me some kind of tobacco. I was left with a very peaceful, pleasant feeling after the dream. This was the first time I have ever had a dream involving this girl or rootwork.

I am confused now, and feel as though I should not deploy the bottle or I should somehow undo the spell, that someone or something was telling me that this work is a bad idea and that working for peace would be better.

For what it's worth, I very much doubt that this girl would be working on me, she is very much a skeptic and also, I would imagine, has no idea that my feelings towards her are so intense.

Unread post by **duchess** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 5:13 am

Hi Stellablue,

After reading your situation, my first impulse is that you should definitely get a quick reading from one of the AIRR members.

In my experience, dreaming during rootwork is very common and something we should pay attention to. Spirit is certainly trying to tell you something. It may be that this work is not justified or that there are other ways to handle this situation.

Hope this helps!

duchess

plex wendy · Unread post by **plex wendy** » Fri May 17, 2013 9:12 pm

Hi, my brother is married and has two lovely kids. His wife is not so bad but she is under the command of her mom and brothers, so she ends up forcing them on my brother. He has to feed them, and they spend most of the time in my house (the one i lend to my brother). He hasn't got any freedom because his mother-in-law is interfering in every thing and giving him orders to him. Because of her he doesn't speak to any one in the family and won't visit his old mom ( she lives alone at 75 years). He starting to avoid me; he said to me that his wife doesn't like me so is not allow to talk to me. Now after years, he is so low that he started drinking, and when I try to talk to him, he said that was the only thing that makes him forget about his in-laws. I want to separate them from my brother and his wife that they can live there life happily. I suppose that my sister-in- law has put a commanding spell on him. Which product shall i use and how?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri May 17, 2013 9:24 pm

Since you own the house, cleanse it with Chinese Wash. You can also use 13-herb bath and Uncrossing bath crystals in the mop water.

It appears that you have been letting your brother and his family live rent-free in the house. You and your brother need Crucible of Courage to help you stand up for yourself. He is a grown man and certainly does not need to be ordered around by his in-laws. His wife need to put him first.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon May 20, 2013 8:31 pm

You might want to get a Crucible of Courage mojo bag, too. And consider doing some Crucible of Courage work on your brother, with plenty of John the Conquer in it.

Miss Michaele

Lolagirl1974 · Unread post by **Lolagirl1974** » Tue May 21, 2013 1:33 pm

Ok,
Im new here and have a question. My husband has a few dead beat, druggie, trashy, alcoholic cousins and friends. My hubby is hardly like those deadbeats, yet they keep coming around. Would it be ok to place all of their names in a vinegar jar along with my husbands and cause them to separate once and for all.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue May 21, 2013 1:39 pm

You could. You can also work with Cast Off Evil products to help your husband get rid of these guys. You could also Hotfoot them.

http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

notlaura · Unread post by **notlaura** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:18 pm

My 20 year old sister is in an abusive relationship with a 32 year old man. He is extremely controlling, doesn't even allow her to see any of her friends or family without his supervision. He is constantly calling her awful, vulgar names and treats her like garbage although he says he loves her. She's not allowed to have a phone, or Facebook, or any other means of communication. He is unemployed. She works full time and he takes all her money and spends it on pills and beer.

I don't think he is a bad man. He has moments where I can see he is not evil, just very messed up, he was raped as a child and has much anger inside him, too many demons, and it's not my sisters job to fix him! She loves him too much and feels responsible for his happiness. They are currently engaged to be married and are trying for a baby, although my sister has had a miscarriage once before a couple of years ago.

Should I try to break them up? Prevent her from getting pregnant? Try making him nicer?
I don't want to hurt him if I can avoid it, I just want him to either get better or leave her alone.

Please help. any advice is very much appreciated.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 4:17 pm

notlaura,

Let's get one thing straight. Many people here have been raped. as children and adults.
So, lets not pull the sympathy card here. That's like saying, "Oh I had a shitty childhood..."so in essence they are telling you they can pull the " poor me, I can be an a hole because I was an abused child card."
We've all have bad childhoods, if not, we will.
I'm not buying it for a lot of reasons, that there isn't a lot of time. nor do I have the patience to listen to one more poor me my ( whoever abused me card) wow, that is a great card to pull isn't it? Yawn. Trust me, I was there for many years.
You don't want to face a real relationship so you go back to the "story" of your life.
The Added benefits, you get to be a non committal jerk to your lover and blame it on your childhood.
How is this working for you so far?

Your man isn't a bad man. He is like a lot of us are, confused, wanting to be connected to another human being who gets them.

You are very critical. Try : http: luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I get the feeling one of you is European. There are a few Euro members of AIRR who rock. Get in touch with them.
www.readesandrootworkers.corg

I do know There are a few excepeion tional workers who more than likely channel from Merlin himself.
This is what I'm getting, break them up. Use break up product. And work like hell to split them up. He is still vulnerable to you.

Give it one more chance, time it. 30 to 45 days then look for a new lover. He's on he horizon, I can see him.

Sorry to be so blunt. That's my heritage. I'm nordic by descent. No need for explanations.

Nice and quiet night.

I am rooting for you and am on you side.

For a quick reading go to www.hoodpsychics.com
www.readersandrootworkers.html

Never thought I'd say this, but you have a fighting chane here.

Hugs,
Miss Susan

JadeAngelov · Unread post by **JadeAngelov** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 5:15 pm

Hi,

I've been lurking around the board for a long time and have been a customer from LM for a while as well, so I have a few supplies. Now, here's my issue: my brother, whom I adore, is a successful man but rather naive when it comes to women. Now he started dating a new girl about a month ago, and she is a gold digger. She has nothing going for herself (not pretty, not particularly intelligent) and she shares absolutely NO interests with my brother (who is a geek) except running. That's not much to build a relationship on, and no one in our family likes her (for obvious reasons). Since she doesn't even have a real job right now, it is clear she jumped on him to get a steady source of income. We're all afraid she will get pregnant "by accident" just so she can get half his salary and be very well-off that way. She has got an iron grip on him, made him change his voice mail so it says "they" are not there, controls his every move, has to know where he is at all time and takes up all of the free time he has. He barely ever comes to see us anymore, she already booked all his weekends until Christmas. I doubt she hoodooed him, she doesn't seem to have any interest in the occult, but like I said my brother is naive, hasn't dated anyone in a while, and cannot believe anyone would be with him "only for money" and he is flattered by the attention so he glosses over the fact they have nothing in common. Now, I want her to leave, at all cost, and soon. I need to break them up, and chase her away in the most rapid and efficient way possible. I don't have any of her personal concerns, but I do have her picture. Any suggestions? I am pretty short on money right now so I cannot invest on figural candles for a moving candle spell to break them up, although I do have 4" candles I could use for that if those work too. I don't have direct access to his apartment as we live in different cities, but I can have access to his car once in a while. I want to go all out on this, to get rid of her fast, and I have no qualms about cursing her or using radical means. Any suggestions besides the moving candle spell? Would putting hot foot powder on the passenger side of my brother's car help or would that be too weak since it's just the car? I wanted to do a skull candle to make him realize she is no good for him, but again money is an issue and I only have regular candles (red, black, purple, white, pink, green, blue). Can they be used to influence thoughts as well, and if so what color would be best to make him think he'd better leave her? Thing is, I want her to leave my brother, but I don't want him to be hot footed along with her (e.g I don't want her leaving and him following her).Thanks in advance.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 8:01 pm

Good Evening, JadeAngelov,
Wow. All I can say is: "WOW".
Cudos to her as she moved in fast and hard. And, with people like this, they do indeed have something in common (as a rule): S E X. The type of great sex that naïve men have never encountered.That's my guess. Especially if he's naïve and probably not worldly in that department. I've seen that happen zillions of times when one is educated and/or successful and have spent most of their lives in their books (making them oblivious to the real world with the REAL vultures),
I can suggest this page for break up spells: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
And, you wanted to know about skull candles and influencing him. Find this here: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Take a good look at the break up spells and see if anything appeals to you. Then, when you have questions, we are here to answer them.
Wishing your brother the very best. He's very lucky that you've got his back
Take care

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 8:52 am

You can dress black candles with break up oil and burn them on her image. If it's an image of them together, use the break up oil to make a line on the image separating them, and then cut the image down that line. If it's only her, just burn the black candle on it dressed with break up oil.

You can do the moving candle spell with regular candles. You would want to personalize them by carving their names into the candles.

You could burn a white candle dressed with clarity oil to help your brother see the situation clearly. Just carve your brother's name into the candle, dress it with clarity and pray for him to see her for what she really is as it burns. You could do this alongside the break up spell.

Simplyme · Unread post by **Simplyme** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 10:23 am

My daughter is pregnant by a man that affected her with herpes. He is in the second stage but she is still in the first stage. He have affected three other women already, by him telling her it's not the end of the world she continue to stay and live with him in an abandon house sorta speak, without any gas. He manipulates her and make her feel like he is the only one in this world for her. The doctors told her to stop having sex with him because of some other issues at the beginning of her pregnancy but he will tell her he will find somebody else, mainly one of the three he affected not including her to have sex with. All the women found out he had herpes and they all was affected in August of this year.

I was a single parent her father was not present in her life and I believe she trying to hold on to him because of her father not being present. Well this guy has 3 children by 3 women and she will make the 4th. His other children is 5 and the last 2 just made 2 no they are not twins. By her Being with him she don't go to her doctors appointments, eat properly, bath and now she lost her job because of a no return back to work from from her doctor.

As I write this is seem like these are decision she brought on her self. Yea and No because she was not like this before she met him. She was really rebellious and he is as well, now I'm at the end of trying to steer her right I'm about to give up because I really don't know at this point what else to do. I want my grand baby to get here in good health but the rate she is going is like do she want the same. I rescued him and her from a run down motel but when he moved in for a month and a half he became real disrespectful so he had to go. Knowing if I put him out she would have eventually follow but by him not being able to go his family house they found a friends house without gas. I really believe she feels I'm going to do the same thing like rescuing him and her but I will not.

I'm in desperate need of some advice and spiritual information on how to get her away from him. There is another guy that wants to married her, be there for her and her baby and he in the Army. And Yes some woman last year affected him so he is aware of the situation. Might I add he is a really nice guy and truly love my daughter unlike this guy who can careless.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 12:50 pm

Break Up work is just the thing, but some folks end up getting back together because they love the drama, or because the makeup sex really is all that.

You could use the black and white skull candles: black for her, to bring out her inner bitch, and white for him, dressed with Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom.

Then, for him, get a red penis candle: or if you have any red candles, carve them into a rough but recognizable penis shape. You could make a label for a red glass candle, if that's what you have.

Anyway, dress those red candles with John the Conqueror, Attraction, lodestone grits and/or hairs,* and Look Me Over. Pile it on! Bring the women flocking!

Pair them with pink candles dressed with Crucible of Courage, John the Conqueror, and King Solomon Wisdom or Clarity, so he knows how to respond to those women when they come.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

*Lodestone hairs: magnetic sand that's been on a lodestone -- but not one used for money, in this case.

JadeAngelov · Unread post by **JadeAngelov** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 2:12 pm

First of all, I want to thank you all for the awesome replies

That's a whole lot of very interesting advice!

I will go ahead with the moving candle spell with regular candles then, but I checked the threads on that and I couldn't quite find what to do with the leftover wax. Would I throw the one from her candle at crossroad and bury the wax of my brother's candle at, say, my parent's house (we both visit there very often, it's still our "home")? Or would it be best to throw both at a crossroad so they will get "dispersed" in different directions?

Sadly I don't have any Clarity oil, and it can take a while before I receive any when I order (I'm from Canada). Would using powdered sage in oil be slightly effective for this until I can get my hands on the real deal? I don't want to sit idle while I wait for supplies.

MissMichaele, for the lodestone hairs, I have some from lodestones I used in a love spell for myself, would that be ok or do I need to get it from a "clean" pair of lodestone that have never been used in a spell?

Thanks again for all the good advice!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 4:29 pm

I would do some separation work rather than break up; break up is more harsh. In this case, I'd recommend contacting a rootworker to work on this situation since it is fairly complicated. Try one of the rootworkers at AIRR:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

In the meantime, I'd burn blue candles dressed with some type of healing oil on your daughter's picture, to promote her good health and the baby's good health through the pregnancy.

Also, post your prayer request at the Crystal Silence league and we'll all pray for you and your daughter:

http://crystalsilence.org

Good luck,
Mary Bee

notlaura · Unread post by **notlaura** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 5:07 pm

Miss Susan, I don't know if I gave the impression that I was the one in the relationship, but I'm not. It's my younger sister's fiancé, not mine. I will try a break up spell, and I agree, I was also abused as a child and it didn't make me a bad person. It's not an excuse for such horrible behavior. Thank you very much for your help and advice. Both of them are North American but European by descent. Do you mean a new lover is on the horizon for me or my sister? Either way, that's a good thing. Thanks again for your support.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 9:06 pm

Good Morning jadeAngelov,
You know, you can buy the magnetic sand separately www.luckymojo.com/magneticsand.html
But, I would personally not use the same sand (or stones) from another spell).
And not sure if Sage alone will do the trick; www.herb-magic.com/sage.html
You can call Lucky Mojo and see if they can ship faster to you. I'd rather do the spells completely correctly than to substitute.
Here's the number: (707) 887-1521
Also, you can use the time to plan out your spells so that they are meticulous.
Hope this helps
Take care

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 10:48 pm

You would want to us Bay Leaves for clarity. You can use the sage as well with it, but sage is more Wisdom, which is related but not necessarily the same thing.

Simplyme · Unread post by **Simplyme** » Thu Oct 24, 2013 4:52 am

Thank you Mary Bee I put the prayer on crystal silence and separation sounds good so they can remain friends at least.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 12:16 pm

Hi notlaura,

Sorry, I misunderstood. I think the break up products are a good idea.
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

I'm so sorry your sister is going through this. I know you are concerned about her.

You can also get a reading on the situation and magical coaching.
www.readersandrootworkers.org

or:
www.hoodoopsychics.com

You have my support.

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 12:29 pm

While I think everyone at heart is a good person, some people just operate from learned behaviors that are maladaptive to their situation. This sounds like the case for this guy.

Rather then "Break Up" products, I would recommend "Separation". What you have described about him is classic domestic abuse. She may not have said it, but I definitely think it's possible that he has hit her, as I have known several friends (of all sexes) who have managed to get out of domestic abuse situations from their SO or partner and all of what you have described fits the bill for the abusive partner exactly. As Break up is more "hot" and meant to trigger fighting, arguing and disagreements, it could quickly escalate this situation into some significant violence, which might result in somebody getting hurt, perhaps even serioiusly. Separation is much "cooler" and will allow your sister to walk away from the situation while hopefully avoiding any very explosive or potentially violent encounters with her abuser.
Your sister would also benefit from Clarity and King Solomon's Wisdom work done on her behalf, to help her see the situation clearly and honestly, recognize that she is not responsible for him, that all of this behavior does not mean it's her fault, and how to walk away wisely and securely.
I would also do some protection work for you sister, to protect her against any of his further actions.
You should also enlist the advice and aid of battered women's shelter, as I really strongly suspect that he is hitting her. That can probably give physical aid and assistance as well as therapy for your sister to recover from this abuser.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:49 pm

You could also add some Crucible of Courage and Power products to the mix, to encourage your sister to have the strength and power to leave him. Many women in abusive relationships are afraid to leave their abusers.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

BellyQueen · Unread post by **BellyQueen** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 9:48 pm

Hi Ms. Catherine and Moderators,

I love the forum, but there is so much information that I see double sometimes. LOL!

I want to get my boyfriend to turn completely away from a woman he lives with who takes advantage of him.
With the situation as it is, he lives with his mother & daughter, and she is there too. It is she who has to leave. The house belongs to himself & the mother. So she is the one to leave & her daughter.

This is the longest that he has ever stayed away from me. This had been going on since August of this year.

He has told me he is unhappy with her, but he does not seem to have the courage to leave her. She has access to his dirty socks, underwear & personal belongings. I know she has hoodoo him. I know it.

I want him never to return to her again. What can I do to bring him to me & completely turn his back on her?

There are so many break up spells. I need a powerful one to do the work. I intend to use all & only LM products. Something very strong is what I need to make this happen.

I appreciate your advice. Can you be specific as to the instructions I need to follow?

Thank you Miss Catherine and forum moderators.

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 10:27 pm

Do the Break up spell using figural candles

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

and make the break up bottle as well. You don't have to limit yourself to only one spell to get something done.

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 10:46 pm

Yes, Totally what Mary Bee wrote. ^ Include that as well

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Oct 31, 2013 4:42 am

You'll also want to be doing uncrossing work on him. You need contact with him again if you don't have any. To bring you both back into contact you can look into the spells in the following thread: contact-me,-call-me,-reconnect-spell-qu ... 66#p137556

Once you're seeing each other or speaking again, work on getting personal concerns that you can use to not only break them up, but bring you both back together.

nutter · Unread post by **nutter** » Mon Nov 18, 2013 11:34 pm

My sister is in a horrible toxic relationship. They make each other so much worse and it's destroying my family. He's controlling, and manipulative. I'd like to do some break up work to get them apart, and then some reconcilation work between her and myself.

I can't decide on a product to go with...what do you think?

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Nov 19, 2013 5:22 am

Hi nutter,

I'd say that a break-up spell kit would be a good choice to get the two of them apart. Reconciliation can then be worked via candles, in conjunction with some Healing and Tranquility.

If there's a lot going on, it can also be a good plan to get a reading from someone who will give you rootwork recommendations on how to best proceed in your situation. AIRR readers can be of help: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

Blessings.

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:16 am

Hello,

What can I purchase from LM that will help someone forget about a person? Problem is, I am far away from the person and only have pictures to work with. If I can't do this from far distance, whenever I do come in contact with the person. What can I do then, using his person concerns. I'd really appreciate the help.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Thu Nov 21, 2013 9:03 am

Hi God's Child,

Is the person who moved away involved with the person you want them to forget about?

Since you are far away from the person. You might consider these products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

You can also look at:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

If the person who is away the one you want to forget about then don't do anything intimate with them for the personal concerns. Just get the concerns by other means. Their foot tracks, hair, even a dirty sock.

Do some crown of success for yourself.
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html

I'm sure other people here will have some great ideas for you too.

Good Luck!

osingleton3 · Unread post by **osingleton3** » Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:22 pm

I plan to buy the hot foot kit , but in the meantime are there any herbs I can use in conjunction with herbs to seperate someone from my family

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:52 pm

Read the description of Hot Foot and you will see some of its explosive properties that causes a person to 'get away.' For example, Red Pepper Flakes drive people away, Sulphur also an ingredient in Goofer Dust drives people away. Also, Salt, an ingredient and in its own rite, is used in aggressive spells and as protection and cleansing.

Alternatively, if you want a less aggressive method of separation, Lucky Mojo, recommends Separation spiritual supplies that has a measure of healing and calming herbs resulting in a calm, strong path toward disentanglement with no fights, problems, or left-over hard feeling.

woodchick606 · Unread post by **woodchick606** » Sat Dec 07, 2013 9:20 am

I would like some help with my husband, he has been talking to a woman on the internet on a gambling site, how do i get him to stop talking to her and stop playing all the time. He plays from the time he gets home from work until late at night. I would like to order some supplies but are not sure which ones I need. I also need help with getting him to only want me, and to forget about past problems, we currently argue about things both of did before we got married, we have been married 16 years and he has trouble letting go of things. I have tried a honey jar, and peaceful home candle, but I am not sure if they are working. Any suggestions would be most helpful. Thanks in advance.
woodchick606

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Dec 07, 2013 11:40 am

woodchick606 wrote:I would like some help with my husband, he has been talking to a woman on the internet on a gambling site, how do i get him to stop talking to her and stop playing all the time. He plays from the time he gets home from work until late at night. I would like to order some supplies but are not sure which ones I need.

This is a LONG list of product lines -- you don't have to buy spell kits for each one.

For the gambling:

Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

Dress his computer (or whatever device he uses to gamble and flirt) with Cast Off Evil oil.

For the other woman: choose one of these product lines, which I have ranked approximately from gentlest to most harsh.

Separation Products -- individual products and candles; no spell kit available
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-separation.html
Banishing Products -- individual products; no candles or spell kits available
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html
Break Up spells and supplies -- full product line including spell kit
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

If you don't feel the need for a full-on Break-Up Spell kit right now, make a doll baby on your husband and dress it with oils or powders or smoke it with incense, as appropriate. You can even bathe it with the bath crystals, if it's waterproof (wax or loaded figural candle, china figurine, Ken doll or similar).

I also need help with getting him to only want me,

Stay With Me Spells and Supplies -- complete product line including candles and spell kit
www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Love Me Spells and Supplies -- complete product line including candles; the spell kit is a mojo bag kit, but pre-made regular and triple-strength mojo bags are also available
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
Healing Spiritual Supplies -- no mojo bag or spell kit; use as a supplement to your love work
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
Clarity Spiritual Supplies -- no mojo bag or spell kit; use as a supplement to your love work
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-clarity.html
King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies -- product line includes regular and triple strength mojo hands for YOU to wear. The honey jar spell kit is oriented toward success in school, but -- honey jar! How could it not be suitable for love work?
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

and to forget about past problems, we currently argue about things both of did before we got married, we have been married 16 years and he has trouble letting go of things. I have tried a honey jar, and peaceful home candle, but I am not sure if they are working.

That sounds like a good start. If you are "not sure they are working" rather than "sure they are NOT working," you may have seen a little movement? Perhaps the honey jar needs some King Solomon Wisdom in it. But do address the other problems too.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

woodchick606 · Unread post by **woodchick606** » Wed Dec 11, 2013 4:12 pm

Thank you Miss Michaele, I will try some of your suggestions.

gal204 · Unread post by **gal204** » Thu Dec 19, 2013 6:59 am

Hi
Im looking for a way to remove a woman from the guy Im with life. Shes basically just in the way of us being together and im not quite sure what kind of spell to do. I was thinking of using black seperation candles or something - im not an expert but shes very persistent and im not sure what way to go about it. Thankyou

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Dec 19, 2013 7:45 am

Hi gal204,

Depending on what relationship this woman has with your lover, it will change the best way to approach the situation. For fail of specifics in your post, I've merged the question into the existing thread on driving someone away from a lover or spouse. It will give you lots of ideas on how to work the situation. If it's an ex-lover or love rival specifically, then you can also refer to the following thread for ideas:
spells-to-drive-ex-lover-ex-spouse-away ... a2dc711d61
hot-foot-to-drive-away-rivals,-enemies, ... a2dc711d61

If you are new to the work, consider getting some magical coaching to help you with the specifics of spell-working technique. You can also tell us which of the spells you've looked into seem to speak to you most and ask how to adapt those (both technique and product lines) to your specific situation.

QematetSau · Unread post by **QematetSau** » Wed Jan 01, 2014 10:57 am

This is late but I hope other women in this situation can get something out of it.

I red flags all over this man. He likes attention from other women but he has a wife. Doesn't he know that he is married now, and should be comfortable only with his wife's attention ?! On top of that, trying to talk to you at 4am, while you are sick lets me know that he craves your attention and wants you to initiate reconciliation because he is a coward. He doesn't want to take responsibility for his wrongdoing. He seems a bit narcissistic to me (im married to one, so im well versed on their bs tactics).

Think hard about what you want to do because if he gets out of this one fine he will do it again. People like him crave attention and worship, and they will hurt anyone who either do not give it or injure his ego (<---not reconciling by kissing his ass).

cancermum · Unread post by **cancermum** » Wed Jan 01, 2014 9:30 pm

I just wanted some advice on how to break the bond/relationship between my ex step daughter and her aunty....the aunty is very manipulative, nasty and hasn't had anything to do with my ex step daughter and her dad and grandmother for years until the past 3years.

They are now inseparable!!! The ex step daughter is now displaying the same narcissistic behaviour as her aunt and her father can't do anything about it as she goes behind his back to maintain communication.

The only reason I am concerned is I have a son who is her half brother and he spends a lot of time with them and I don't want him developing the same traits.

I don't live in the same State as them and wonder what type of work could be done.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jan 02, 2014 9:05 pm

Hello, Cancermum,
I would do a Cast Off Evil Spell on the Aunt www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html
And, I would also be doing protection spells on the girl and your son www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall-of-protection.html
Additionally, maybe some one-on-one talks with your son would also help. Being honest with him and letting him know your feelings.
It doesn't matter if people are in other states. Spells will still assist in your plight.
I hope this helps.
Wishing you and your son the very best
Take care

cancermum · Unread post by **cancermum** » Thu Jan 02, 2014 9:18 pm

Thanks Miss Aida

I will look into Cast off Evil Spell kit and the talk with my son is on the top of my list of priorities when he gets home from school vacation.

AkashaMeadow · Unread post by **AkashaMeadow** » Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:59 am

I am sure this has been posted 1000 times so I apologize in advance for the repeating.

My situation:
My husband and I separated over a month ago. I had someone set lights in regards to our relationship. I have been meditating and in prayer over the marriage as well. He shows some signs of movement and then he pulls back. For example, he says one day that he wants to spend time with his step children then the next day he will come by the house and leave an item of mine in the car. Never coming up to the house. Then in the next breath he will make arrangements to see the kids over the next weekend, weird!

Sadly, I have had more than one reading done on the situation and they have all given me a 3 month back in the picture timeline. When I speak to my husband (usually by email) he seems to be pulling back more and becoming more independent in his new life with his room mate which brings me to this....

He is now living with his sisters boyfriend. The sister hates me and has been in his ear about why did he marry me in the first place. I am sure that they feed his ego as if he is doing the right thing in abandoning his family. I do understand that when we reconnect I would have to accept these people back into my life as well which is a nightmare in itself.

I sat here contemplating what I could do and I thought why not break them up? What can I do to separate this room mate situation between my husband and this man? I do not have anything that belongs to the other person. I only know his first name and the city he lives in.

Thank you in advance for any help you can offer in this situation, it is greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:31 pm

Hello, AkashaMeadow ,
Have you browsed through these 2 pages to give you some ideas of what spells you can perform?
I am looking at a whole bunch of spells you can chose from in just these 2 pages.
Another thing you could do is a hotfoot spell. Try this page: www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
And here's another page with an array of spells: www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
I hope this helps.
Wishing you the very best and I pray he comes back to you
Take care

Simplyme · Unread post by **Simplyme** » Tue Feb 04, 2014 10:46 am

Im having the same situation with daughter thats a new mother to a man of 3 kids already. He dated my daughter best friend now have a baby with my daughter. Affected 3 women including my daughter with herpes. He has 4 kids by 4 different women but is using another woman to help support them.

He ask my daughter to pay for hotel rooms to have unprotected sex with one girl to help put money in his pocket. My daughter can't buy her nothing to keep a high cell phone on to communicate with him.

His mother don't support my daughter but she loves them both dearly.

After she found out she have herpes he tell her it's not the end of the world. She still sex with him while he still sleeps with other women...unprotected.

She is now going against me applying for apartments to be with to keep him from being with other women. He don't want me to be apart of my grandchild life because he is not allowed to spend nights at my house. It really have her brainwashed.

She worked throughout her whole pregnancy while he did nothing. He have not brought her baby anything but water and milk when he need sleepers because all the clothes I brought was too big. She had a truck which he drove around his friend, different women and kids when she furnish the gas and her own insurance. She sat in the house the whole time while he was out hustling people. He even tried to hustled me. His license is messed up due to tickets.

I tell her the truth and he tell her to keep me out there business. Now that he wants her to get an apartment I'm beyond furious. He only wants it to have one of his kids by another woman to move in.

He separates from all her friends then if he can't they become his friends. He smoke a lot of weed, he drink a lot and tell her that any job or education direction is no good and that she can do so much better, when he is not working himself.

His mom don't have nothing to do with him she emancipated him at the age of 17. He fought my daughter when she was 6 months pregnant the manipulated to give him the truck because he put to much work into getting the down deposit. Well he was having sex with a girl which is very in love with him to get the money....yea my daughter was going along with it.

He convinced my daughter to take my grandson out in below zero weather to show he is in control on him, my grandson and most of my daughter. I'm tell things to get back on track with life and tell her unmeaning ful things. He is destroying her life because want to feel like she number 1 but he has that other woman that spends her whole check on him. His whole family turned their back on him and I asked my daughter did she ever stopped to wonder why?

I want my daughter to see him for he really is.....she has been rebellious.
I want her to break up with him and never turn back.
I want her to be successful not for can benefit....
I want her to Listen and stop rebellion against me.

Please help she is about to take her income tax to buy a car for him to get around. An apartment for him and his friends.
I want to send him far away just support his children the mature way.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Feb 04, 2014 11:08 am

Simplyme, I'm so sorry your family has to endure all this trouble.

Your daughter needs some Break Up work, but she also needs to fall out of love with this nasty leech, and to see the light, so do some Cut and Clear work for her. Make a little wax doll baby of her, and give it a black walnut bath. Then work a Cut and Clear spell kit for her.

Then add some King Solomon Wisdom and Crucible of Courage supplies to her part of the Break Up work.

Since Mr. Thing is working so hard to ruin your daughter's and other women's lives, it wouldn't grieve me to hear you had done some kind of revenge or enemy work on him. Burn a black penis candle on him, at least. A black dollbaby with pins in the mouth and the biggest nail you can find hammered into the crotch might give satisfaction.

If you do that, make sure you bathe in hyssop afterward.

After that, your daughter and grandson will need prosperity and blessing work.

This sounds like a lot of work, and it is; so you might want one of the gifted and ethical folks at AIRR to help you.

Cut and Clear spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
Break Up spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies -- product line includes regular and triple strength mojo hands for your daughter to wear.
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Crucible of Courage spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Male Member Genitalia (Penis) Figural Candles
http://www.luckymojo.com/peniscandle.html
COMPLETE OCCULT SHOP INVENTORY
http://www.luckymojo.com/lucky-mojo-inventory.html
Use "poppet" as a search term on this page to find and order that doll baby.
Order Hyssop from Lucky Mojo
http://herb-magic.com/hyssop.html
AIRR -- the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers
www.readersandrootworkers.org

May all your roads lead to blessings,

Miss Michaele