Spells to Bring Out Truth, Expose Errors, Force a Confession, Remorse, Apology, Reparations, Repercussions

l_espoir · Unread post by **l_espoir** » Mon May 28, 2012 6:56 am

Knowing him and from past experiences with him, I believe the apology would be.genuine. I think at the root, it's easier for him to act cowardly.

thank you so much for your advice. ”pay me” looks like a road worth exploring.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon May 28, 2012 4:52 pm

Nice analogy Mister Hob. Pay Me to get something owed or expected that is not of a financial nature.

CheekyKittyChan · Unread post by **CheekyKittyChan** » Sun Jun 17, 2012 1:59 pm

I have a doll-baby going on someone, and my desired outcome is for them to tell any and everyone who will listen, family included, about every misdeed they've done me in order to move their career forward, so that they will see the truth instead of their lies, and at the same time, I want to gain further momentum and forward motion on my own brand (which they are attempting to steal; many are confused, I'm losing ground) and career so I will eclipse and obliterate them. Is a combination of Essence of Bend-Over and I Can You Can't a good one to use on the doll-baby in this instance?
Apologies: I wasn't sure if this was better here since I am mainly asking about Compelling oils or if I should have posted in the Doll-Baby thread... :·/

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:02 pm

(I just am so infatuated with your little kitty avatar) ...while at the same time trying to understand exactly what you are asking.

CheekyKittyChan · Unread post by **CheekyKittyChan** » Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:39 pm

LOL...! Thanx for that; I needed it.
Hmmm...in a nutshell (this is the best I can do, I think, please bear with me) the target has done me many kinds of wrong, and has many people believing the opposite. They are STILL doing it. I want them to confess all these things rather publicly because it will humiliate them after years of lying to everyone about how the situation really is. Part of this involves theft and infringement on my brand, which is hurting my career. I would also like to hold them back since they seem to be trying to make themselves visible all over everything I am doing to get ahead. I would eventually love to eclipse them.
I was considering using both Essence of Bend-Over and I Can You Can't on the doll-baby to get them to confess/publicly humiliate themselves, and keep them from getting ahead of me. I was asking if those were the two oils to get the job done, or should I be using something else?
Sorry if I wasn't clear...

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:55 pm

I would add some compelling conjure to the mix; read about the spell here <http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html >

You can use the doll baby to trip the person up and to bind them from influencing your success. Tie the doll baby's hands to bind them, tie feet to trip them up, blindfold it so your target will not know who is cursing him; and/or twist the feet backward to undo any progress and trip them up.

CheekyKittyChan · Unread post by **CheekyKittyChan** » Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:33 pm

Tie the doll baby's hands to bind them, tie feet to trip them up, blindfold it so your target will not know who is cursing him; and/or twist the feet backward to undo any progress and trip them up.

Wow.
You must be able to see my dollie, LOL...because that's exactly how it is, but with black tape. Hands bound, feet bound, eyes covered, and feet facing backwards.
Thank you for the info. I'm going to have a look at that link!

emdeluxe · Unread post by **emdeluxe** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:21 pm

Hi-I'm going through a pretty traumatic breakup, and I haven't been treated with honesty or respect. Can anyone recommend some work to make him see and feel the pain he has caused me and others (as well as giving him guilt.) I'm not looking to permanently damage his life. Would a skull candle be appropriate? Any help would be welcomed and appreciated

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:36 pm

I think you may be happy with the crossing spell kit, you can work it specifically for this goal. If you have personal items like cum or anything you can freeze or tie them up to make it not possible to get hard. You could put his pics against two mirrors and tie it up to make his evil ways reflect on him.. really a lot of options it depends on exactly what you want to do. Guilt in my oppinion is not something you can give him, either you have morals or you dont.. sorry I have an ex like that broke my heart twice, swore to love me to death and never understand why I was upset. You either have that or you dont.. But you can still punish him, look at the bright side!

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 8:50 pm

I suggest the revenge love curse spell known as "The Intranquil Spirit." Bear in mind it is a very dangerous spell and not good for people not familiar with spirit conjure. This spell will make him suffer for specifically you and because you. Can't sleep because of you, keep thinking of you etc. The whole idea is to keep ignoring him while the Intranquil spirit torments the target to keep wanting you.

When done without enough protection the Intranquil spirit from hell can turn on you as well, and you will be feeling what the target feels. Not pleasant.

Yes, come to think of it I second J to just buying the crossing spell kit.

Oh and yes, a black skull candle can be used for crossing as well. Add in plenty of poppy seeds to mess up his mind.

emdeluxe · Unread post by **emdeluxe** » Sat Jul 07, 2012 6:19 am

Thank you both! Is there anything else I should add to the candle? How would I work it? I'm pretty new to this, so I think my abilities are not enough for the intranquil work.

Unread post by **Jaguarwoman** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:14 pm

I want to get even with a woman who was having sex with my husband. I only know her name, zodiac sign and the town she lives in and I can get her picture off the internet, but no personal concerns. I want her to feel remorse, guilt, shame, and self hatred. I really dont want to jinx her per se, that something bad happen to her, I just want her absolutely consumed with these feelings. What way do you think I should go?

Unread post by **ProfessorAmes** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 3:51 am

There is a spell that involves a plant called the shame brier, but as I recall it needs to be done with a live plant and finding one might be more complicated than it's worth.

My suggestion is to use a mirror and her picture. You can use some Clarity powder or oil to dress the picture, write her misdeeds across the face of picture (or you could just take a red marker and put a bit Scarlet Letter A on her) and place it facing the mirror. Write your petition on the back of her picture: "You will see the pain of your actions and feel the guilt and shame and burn with the pain that it has caused." or something of the sort. On top of this you can burn a skull candle which is good for affecting someone's mind. Dress the candle with clarity oil, King Solomon Wisdom or Influence oil, or a combination of them. This should help her to see clearly the wrong she has done and perhaps instill some wisdom to never go after another woman's man again.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 4:37 am

for how long you do this spell? 7 or 9 days?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 8:39 am

I recall cat or a moderator posting about a mirror box for revenge where you take new mirrors ( dont look into them) and break them then glue them all over the box then hang the picture inside and this will cause them to have a distored view of them and life.

Unread post by **ProfessorAmes** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 10:52 am

I would do it 7 or 9 days either one, or until the candle burned down.

Usually mirror boxes are to turn work back on a person, so if they've done evil, then evil will be done to them. It could also be used with this work and is very similar, although the usual description of a mirror box involves making a poppet (doll) rather than just a picture.

Here's a thread that you can read up on it:
mirror-box-spell-questions-and-answers- ... ml#p107713

Unread post by **Jaguarwoman** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 7:49 pm

That sounds excellent -- what color skull candle would I use? black? red?

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 4:22 am

Well last night i did this spell with the candle, scarlet A and picture facing the mirror, everything was fine the light was hight and beautiful but when i went to check the candle in the midle of the night this fly felt in my candle and burned then now in the morning i found a pool of wax every where in the picture and the candle holder. ProfessorAmes is that a good or bad signal in this kind of spell?

bfly30 · Unread post by **bfly30** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 9:20 pm

I know this will resonate with a lot of ladies who want payback.

I want a combination of things. I want someone to think of me constantly, morning & night. I want him to lose sleep. I want thoughts of me to consume his mind. I also want him to feel remorse & guilt for how he treated me, so much so that he not only wants to find me but also want to make it up to me, sort of begging.

what spells can I do?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Aug 19, 2012 6:55 am

It sounds like you want to try the Intranquility Spirit Spell kit:

http://www.luckymojo.com/intranquility.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

bfly30 · Unread post by **bfly30** » Sun Aug 19, 2012 6:56 am

Thank you @MaryBee I'll look it up right now

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Aug 19, 2012 8:45 am

Or a Contact Me Spell:

contact-me,-call-me,-reconnect-spell-qu ... t2982.html

bfly30 · Unread post by **bfly30** » Sun Aug 19, 2012 9:06 am

catherineyronwode I was reading the thread on the contact me spells & trying to better understand how to do it, I think it's a good idea thank you

nowherelass · Unread post by **nowherelass** » Sun Aug 26, 2012 10:53 am

I need my boyfriend to have respect for me; he thinks I'm not as smart as he is and has been really disrespectful to me lately, pushing my buttons on purpose and not even sleeping in the same bed. His emotional abuse is really wearing on me, and I want him to see how he is in the wrong, and for him to recognize just how much I do for him.

So, any suggestions for respect and for him to see (and REGRET) what he's doing to me?

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Aug 30, 2012 12:25 pm

Hi nowherelass,

I think there may be more than meets the eye in your situation. For starters, your Forum name is not particularly positive and it certainly won't help your self-esteem. Rename yourself SupremeBabe or ExcellentWoman or DeservingLass: you DESERVE to be treated well and respected by your boyfriend. If this man is emotionally abusing you and it's a regular occurence, leaving him may well be the best alternative.

That said, we don't know the details of your relationship nor all the different contributing factors which are at play. To gain better insight, a reading by a fine AIRR member can no doubt help. Overall however, there aren't 100 ways to work the situation, but before doing the work - Crucible of Courage, Clarity and Healing for yourself sweetheart. Work on feeling entitled to respect and knowing that 100%. Once you do, you won't tolerate less.

For him, well, there's sweetening work or controlling work. Honey jars to get him to come around nicely, or Do As I Say and I Dominate My Man worked into his laundry and on a doll of him. Those are just a couple of ideas amongst many possibles in each category of work.

But frankly, Cut and Clear may well be the best favour you could do yourself and I know that's probably not what you want to hear.

Here are the links to some of those products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Blessings, Strength and Beauty to You.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Aug 30, 2012 7:21 pm

Start working on your own self-esteem and doing what you want to do. Spend less time with him and stop doing things for him, especially if you are not living together. Even if you are, pursue your own interests and spend time doing activities you enjoy. Refuse to listen to any of his negative talk; use Stop Gossip to shut him up. You might also try Jezebel products to get him to give you the respect you deserve, or to find a man who will treat you right.

moneytakea · Unread post by **moneytakea** » Sat Sep 01, 2012 1:56 pm

If you want something to really screw with him, then heck yes send a nice lil' unhappy intranquil after him. Just bear in mind it is an extremely difficult spirit to control and can go against novices. However if you feel the need then by all means , run to an experienced root worker and get started. You may also purchase a black Vigil Candle, take a piece of brown paper with a pencil, write his name on it, dress the candle with the appropriate oils for what effect you desire, then with a pencil or such insert the name into the candle. After that if you can write on the candle "evil to those whose names are listed" , pray before lighting it that your petition be heard and that the nearest evil entity take up the request. Offer them a glass of water, rum , or tobacco. After it burns to the name , immediately blow it out. The work is complete. Another reminder is if you can get a piece of their personal item such as underwear, you can get 3 black candles, prepare them in the same manner and place his item in the center of the candles. Make a triangle formation. Just remember with all evil spirits that they are hungry for materialistic things so one offering will not be enough, they will eventually want more and more, and if you do not satisfy their greed they WILL turn on you. A lesson for why Novices shouldn't tamper with what they don't understand. You could also make a mirror box spell if this seems too risky for you.

nowherelass · Unread post by **nowherelass** » Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:37 am

Thankyou so much for your advice, Mama Micki and aura!

I chose my username as a reference to the Beatles song nowhere man, and was hoping it would not be found by other people prying into my personal life as my last account was. But you're right, I deserve to be treated better and need to recognize that.

I just put in an order with LM and got both clarity and healing, as well as some personal power and attraction products. The root of his abuse is his mental illness, which I am helping to fix, but I need to also focus on myself before I focus all my energy on him! Once his mental illness is back in line and we've reconciled, I'm going to work on being more respected in the relationship by dominating him. If his mental illness is helped and his behavior is not, then I'll ditch him for someone I deserve. I got a reading with an AIRR worker and was advised that he is in great danger due to his current mental state, so I'm willing to work with him since it his illness and not his usual nature.

He still lives with me but is moving out in a few weeks. We spend almost no time together and I make an effort to always be away from our apartment. I'm going to thoroughly cleanse it after he leaves (the results are only temporary as long as he sticks around) and til then find balance in myself.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Sep 06, 2012 7:14 am

Thank you for the update noweherelass! It's good to know that you have an action plan and have consulted on the matter. Be good to yourself and keep yourself safe, mental illness is treatable yes, but until it's under control it can cause some serious havoc not only on the person who is ill but on his entire entourage. (And ultimately, unless he wants to improve and take the actions required for that, no amount of good intentions from the outside will help.)

For the moment, consider getting the fine folks at the Crystal Silence League praying for both you and him. The service is free and prayers go a long way: http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

As a final note, make sure that you set a limit on how long you're willing to stick around trying to make this work. You do deserve to be happy and treated right. Although I can understand your wanting to help him and bring him back to a better place, it's worth considering how long you can do that for without ultimately damaging yourself.

Many blessings and keep us informed

Brooke · Unread post by **Brooke** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 9:08 am

Hello All
I have read the threads on here about how to make a liar confess etc and in need of something similar. From what I have read on here compelling products and calamus seem to be what is the best.
My situation is I have recently spent a few hundred dollars on buying lucky mojo oils and powders and these are two items I didnt get (lol isnt it always the way) and cant really afford to make another purchase at the moment. I am wondering if a few of the products I do have that might be suitable for this and if they could be used instead of calamus and compelling. I have
Essence of bend over oil
Do as I say powder
Deers Toungue
Licroice Root
Restless powder (I am not sure about the crossing agents in this as it would be ok if it can be used to make the person restless till they fess up and start being honest but dont want to cross the person up completely in other ways as I do care for them)
Crucicle of courage (to give them the courage to make a full confession)
Controlling oil

If there are any others that could be used please let me know as I do have a large selection of oils and powders but dont think any of them other than what I have mentioned above would be suitable but never know.

While this is a person I do care for I am also ready to cut this person completely out of my life due to beleiving they are lying telling half and twisted truths and maybe being as dishonest with themself and much as everyone else. Divination and readings by 3 seperate readers all reveal the same thing more than once but the persons words and actions are totally different. I have reached a stage where I want the turth the whole truth and nothing but from the horses mouth so to speak of their true feelings about a situation past and present regardless of how bad or hurtful it might be I need to know the honest truth whether they confess all to me or another person close to us that will tell me doesnt matter.

Any ideas on what other products could be used in forcing the truth out of someone would be appreciated. I will be using a purple candle and following the spell on here that is described for the compelling one but any other ways to work it would also be appreciated. Also how do you dispose of this spell remains as I am trying to bring the truth to me do I bury this in my yard? rather than take it to water or crossroads.
Thanks Brooke

Unread post by **ProfessorAmes** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:46 am

It looks like you have enough things to do a good spell for this. Licorice root can certainly stand in for Calamus root. Essence of bendover, conrolling and do as I say would all be very good for this.

I'm not so sure about the deer's tongue - usually I think of that as giving someone eloquence (making them perhaps a better liar), I usually would go with slippery elm. Same with crucible of courage - they might have the courage to keep lying as well, but it's all in your intent and petition.

I would also keep the remains around and continue to do work on it. they can be folded up in a petition paper and placed where you can step on it frequently or you can have it sit under a big rock or brick to keep the pressure on them. After they confess, I'd dispose of at the crossroads or water. I don't think I'd want that around my house.

Hope that helps.
Professor Ames

Brooke · Unread post by **Brooke** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 11:03 am

Thank you Professor Ames that has helped alot and given me some good insight. I like the idea of putting the petition paper where I can step on it or under a rock. Would I do this with just the petiton paper with the oil on and pic of the person or candle remains as well wrapped in the petiton paper.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 12:13 pm

Brooke wrote:I have read the threads on here about how to make a liar confess etc and in need of something similar. From what I have read on here compelling products and calamus seem to be what is the best. ...
My situation is I have recently spent a few hundred dollars on buying lucky mojo oils and powders and these are two items I didnt get (lol isnt it always the way) and cant really afford to make another purchase at the moment. I am wondering if a few of the products I do have that might be suitable for this and if they could be used instead of calamus and compelling. I have

Essence of bend over oil

Unless you really want an element of harshness and humiliation, I'd leave out the Bend Over.

Do as I say powder

That's gonna hit the nail on the head, I think.

Deers Toungue

May actually be a little sweet for this job; see below, where I get into your use of Crucible of Courage.

Licroice Root
Restless powder

Excellent additions.

(I am not sure about the crossing agents in this as it would be ok if it can be used to make the person restless till they fess up and start being honest but dont want to cross the person up completely in other ways as I do care for them)

"Crossing" herbs bring bad luck and cause positive spellwork to flop over dead. "Restless" has a different aim.

Crucicle of courage (to give them the courage to make a full confession)

Crucible of Courage is both strengthening and soothing. It raises your go-getter energy while calming your mind. So, used with Restless, Do As I Say, etc., it might give him the power to resist!

So I'd split this into two spells: In one, Restless, Do As I Say, calamus and licorice, and maybe a drop or two of castor oil, to -- well, give him the runs, verbally; in the other, white mustard seed (for good faith), Crucible of Courage, Deer's Tongue (and maybe Healing or Blessing if you have them), so the act of truth-telling brings relief.

ProfessorAmes wrote:I'm not so sure about the deer's tongue - usually I think of that as giving someone eloquence (making them perhaps a better liar),

Just a wee reminder, Professor -- one of the traditional uses for Deer's Tongue is to inspire a proposal of marriage.

Brooke, I don't think you'd need Controlling oil, but if you choose to use it, add it to the Restless/Do As I Say work.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 12:14 pm

interesting idea, I my self have also thought about doing something like that before on an ex, not sure if yours is over a past lover or not. The reason I never did it was because of two truths that I realized. The reason I wanted to do it was either a) because I wanted to hurt them by hearing it and then rejecting them over it ( getting even) or b) wanting to hear it to validate myself and my position (i was better then what you did). Also I have noticed over the years, sometimes the only thing that keeps me and an ex coming back is my anger, if I let them unleash how they feel and what they did, in the end I can become vunerable and forgive. When you are truely done you dont care about revenge or the truth you care about them being out of ur life forever. So if you do go ahead with this work think about why you want to do it, what you want from it, and what you will do after you have it. Cut and clear is a great product to help move on.

Brooke · Unread post by **Brooke** » Sat Sep 08, 2012 11:12 pm

Thank you Miss Michaele that has been helpful I will leave the crucicle of courage out of it I hadn't thought of it working in that way but can see how it could.

j82 my situation is very different to what yours sounds like it is not about trying to hurt or revenge anyone. I know exactly why it needs to be done and is actually quite the opposite. This is a person in my close friends/family circle that I beleive has been lying and deceiving not only me but others close to me as well. I want the absolute truth from this person and to give them a chance to explain before I decide if there is room for forgiveness or if I cut them out of my life completely which would lead to alienating them from others as well which would hurt the person and I dont want to do that if I am wrong. The only way I will forgive and not wipe the person from my life is by a full truthful confession so doing this spell is to give them a chance to come clean about many things.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:07 am

While working on this person you may want to use slippery elm and or stop gossip products on you and the other family members to prevent from being hurt from these lies. I recall a spell on here but I dont remember where. Basics, to make someones words and actions reflect back onto them you take two of their pictures and past them back to back. then get two new mirrors ( dont look into them) and put them face to face with the picture in the middle, then wrap it in black thread. This will make their actions and words reflect back onto them.

Brooke · Unread post by **Brooke** » Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:58 am

Thank you j82 for that sugguestion I do recall seeing that or similar on here so will have a look for it. I do have stop gossip so yes that could be an idea as well. I also have healing oil which in the long term could be good for all involved.

nowherelass · Unread post by **nowherelass** » Mon Sep 10, 2012 10:19 am

Thankyou! I've requested prayers to heal him on the Crystal Silence League, and I've had an overwhelmingly positive response.

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:44 pm

A' group of us are looking for someone who committed a terrible crime many years ago. He has a new identity and he has managed to keep it a secret for many years. The best and possibly only way for us to find out this identity is for him to show himself and say who he is. He will be very reluctant to do so because he has carefully kept hidden. It is worth a try though. I would like advice on the products and spells that I should use in order to make this happen. Thanks in advance.

Unread post by **ProfessorAmes** » Sun Sep 23, 2012 12:24 pm

I would recommend creating a poppet (doll) that you could use as a proxy. There are lots of different ways to work him that way. A mirror box would reflect back his evil doing onto him, but you could also nail him down to a board or bury him at a police station, court house or at the grave of a policeman, soldier or judge. Those are all complex operations, but there should be lots of posts on each aspect on the forum.

Lucky Mojo has dolls with various options stuff/unstuffed, fixed/unfixed.

If there was a victim involved then the ancestors of that victim (or the victim themselves, if they are deceased) can be called on to help seek justice.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 9:39 am

Elegant advice, Professor!

ProfessorAmes wrote:Lucky Mojo has dolls with various options stuff/unstuffed, fixed/unfixed.

You can find them on this page:

LUCKY MOJO CURIO CO.
COMPLETE OCCULT SHOP INVENTORYhttp://www.luckymojo.com/lucky-mojo-inventory.html

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Nicola29 · Unread post by **Nicola29** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 4:46 pm

Please, I need help. I am 28, and when I was a child my stepfather abused me. This has had such an impact on my life that I have tried ending things, and I shouldn't be like this. He stole my life and is still with my mother, and as I am getting older I find it very difficult to talk to her. I blame her more than anything for not stopping it. I don't know if she knows, but deep down I do as I am a mother now. I trust nobody; I have stopped my mother from watching my daughter because I know he will do the same to her because she is mine. He used to say I'm not his real daughter so it was ok. He has ruined my life.

I would like a spell or something to tell my mother what he did to me as I suffer every day while he lives the high life carrying on like it never happened. I need something to make him to open up to my mother, as I do believe deep down she knows because she was horrible to me. Is there something I can do to end my suffering? I feel if she knows I can move on.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 4:55 pm

Get some Crucible of Courage and Power oils. Dress a purple candle with them and wear them on your body. Confront your mother and tell her you think she knew about the abuse. Confront your stepfather too if you can. This will put you on the path to healing.

You can work with St. Dymphna, who was the victim of a mentally ill father who tried to have sexual relations with her, and Archangel Zadkiel, who helps with emotional healing. (Lucky Mojo Healing products have a picture of an angel on the label.)

heartexalted · Unread post by **heartexalted** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 8:39 am

And, if you want them to understand (as in, truly understand) their own roles in all of this, you can always go ConjureMan Ali's white skull spell. More generally, I want to recommend here the use of Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom products for making them (or at least just your mother) see the truth in this situation.

Being a survivor of abuse and general mistreatment myself, I can attest that one of the biggest obstacles of addressing these issues is the mindset of the perpetrator(s) - a mindset of denial, excuses, invalidation, and obfuscation. Even though you did not specifically ask about influencing their mindsets, I wanted to include that suggestion in case you might find it helpful.

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:26 pm

I need help! I am in such a depression and feel that nobody cares to help me. I don't smile anymore = - ( I am completely broken every day and I have 2 little girls to raise. Please, please, PLEASE help me!

It all starts with the person who I thought was my soulmate and best friend (who now I am married to and separated from). He completely hurt me in too many ways to mention and abandoned me and my children multiple times leaving me alone about 95% of our marriage. He has let them down and me down on so many different levels. And anytime he and I did try to patch things up, he would put everyone before us and be very unfair to us which only caused more problems.

I'm not asking to bring him back. I'm not asking for him to love me in an intimate way. I am asking for severe help because I absolutely need him to understand and truly look at all the things he put me through and hurt me with. I need him to see how good I was to him and how he did not respect me or appreciate me. I need him to quit lying to himself and be honest about all the years of hell I went through.

Why? Because I am an emotional wreck. I've done everything I can to be okay and I'm not. I've done the cut and clear and yes, I may need to do it again, but I feel so deeply in my heart that I'm never going to be okay.

Just for the justice of everything I gave to this man including my heart and soul, please help me. Please help me make him be honest with himself and see his issues all along and exactly how he did me. Even if all that comes of it is us being on good terms. It truly means the world to me and will set me free from this hell I've been living. I know there is someone who can help me and be here for me I've just not found somebody to help me with this yet. I don't have the money to get a bunch of work done by a rootworker. Yes, I've had a reading and I was told that "love isn't lost". This person said she actually could not see why he would treat me in such ways when he loved me. It's absurd!

So I'm not asking to bring him back to love me. Please help me to finally open his selfish eyes and to get the burdens he's caused in my life including abandoning me with our two kids to take care of on my own including financially, emotionally, etc. He has never even helped me with them or picked them up to give me time to myself. Beings that I've had them without any help, I've lost every bit of life I had. That has made me a depressed person who is always tense and stressed out because of how much I go through. Even though you don't mean for it to, it takes a toll on your life and your happiness. Instead of being a normal human being I'm consumed with sadness and I'm always overwhelmed. Please help! Every day I die a little more inside.

Please help me make him realize his part on everything and atleast be a decent human being to me after all I've given and all I've lost because of him.

I would never wish this feeling of emptiness and pain on anyone.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:04 pm

Use a skull candle with some Clarity, Influence, and Reversal Oils. Make him see how he has hurt you, if it is worth it to you. If this is something he continuously does you make look into doing a Mirror Box with him inside of it. Your situation also sounds like it could HEAVILY benefit from a Cut & Clear spell...I have seen this work wonders to cleanse the hurt and attachment you still feel.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 6:09 pm

I have done the skull candles. They worked very well at first, but then he'd always fall back into believing he had done nothing wrong - and blamed me for all of his failures as a person, as a husband, as a father. At this point, maybe I don't have the energy or maybe he's so far into believing the way he has done me was okay that it'll never change.

I'm emotionally drained.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 7:33 pm

Joseph is right with a Cut and Clear.

Also consider working with professional medical help, first.
Saint Dymphna, if you work with the Saints, would be highly recommended.
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Good luck and take care.

Tammie Lee

Unread post by **LongIslandConjure** » Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:46 am

Hi misslady123, in addition to the awesome support above, please consider posting a prayer request on the Crystal Silence League website.
http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/
It has been a huge help to me personally and tons of others.

FoxGlove · Unread post by **FoxGlove** » Thu Oct 11, 2012 10:06 am

MissLady -- I can feel the hurt and desperation in your post, and I'm sorry for it. I would recommend doing some Clarity work as well -- even if it's just burning a candle dressed with the oil. It has helped me a lot in the past, and I feel it might help you see the situation more clearly. While it might seem that if he could just see the error of his ways, and how much he's hurt you, then it would improve your state of mind. The thing is, though, ultimately you cannot be dependent of him (and what he owns up to or does not own up to) or ANYONE for your peace of mind... You must get that peace and contentment from YOU -- regardless of his actions or feelings. Best of luck -- things are going to look up for you. You are already taking positive steps.

Allure22 · Unread post by **Allure22** » Wed Oct 24, 2012 3:16 pm

moneytakea wrote: You could also make a mirror box spell if this seems too risky for you.

What is a mirror box spell and how does it work?

Allure

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Wed Oct 24, 2012 5:13 pm

Allure22: You can read all about Mirror Boxes here: mirror-spells-and-mirror-box-spells-que ... ml#p111771

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Oct 24, 2012 8:24 pm

I'm not trying to be ugly or mean regarding any of the advice offered above. I don't agree with any of it. Do a cut and clear and be gone with this man.
The intranquil Spirit will bring him back tomented and like "pet cemetary" (it is so primative but this is an analogy )
You could do a reversal spell... but the cut and clear will just "be gone".. "time for you to move on".

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Take care and good luck.

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Aprilward · Unread post by **Aprilward** » Sat Dec 08, 2012 10:15 pm

I need advice for my ex to hurt. He was leading me on the whole time we were together. I put my heart in it and let down my guard with him. I did love spells; it worked for just a short while, then it stopped. Once we broke up for a while we started seeing each other for sex only, and that is when he told me that he was seeing this women. That broke my heart because he told me that I was it. He was going to change his old way and be with one women. He lied to me and said that we have to stop having sex because he doesn't do that anymore. He wanted to be with one women. I said when he told me that he was still texting women behind my back.

I just got a Cut and Clear spell kit, a Clarity candle, and a bath and house cleanser. However, the pain still hurts because this man has joined my church, and I had let my children think that this man was good for me. Now I feel a ashamed to go to church and see him there. He has cut me off, he changed his numbers, and has laughed at me and said I was stupid.

I was going to do an Intranquility spell on him make him think about me all the time, but is that the best thing to do? I want him to feel the pain and hurt I feel. I cry at night, thinking about him 24/7. It hurts my heart so bad. I never cheated on him at all. He is so stubborn and very self-centered. I wanted to do something so he won't hurt another woman's feelings like he has done to me. He has told me that he has done this in the past but is trying to change.

Please, any advice to make him feel my pain I will do. I don't want to go backwards if I see him every time I go to church. My kids see him ask why he acts like that to us. He doesn't even speak to the kids .
April

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Dec 09, 2012 2:22 pm

I moved your post to "Ending Relationships and Moving On" because that is what you need to do. You could do a Reversal spell to send back the hurt he caused you, but a better use of your time would be to do the Cut and Clear and give it time to work. Stop obsessing about him; he's not worth it. Consider yourself lucky that you have the opportunity to find someone better when the time comes. You and your children deserve better.

Get involved with activities you enjoy. Does your church have any volunteer projects, such as making food baskets for needy families? I am guessing that your ex is too busy running around with other women to actually think about the less fortunate.

When you go to church, hold your head up and ignore him. Tell your children that you and he are no longer together and that it is not their fault.

During this Christmas season and the New Year approaching, it is time to prioritize and release that which is not serving you. Don't let past hurts keep you from living the life you want.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Sat Jan 12, 2013 6:45 pm

I would like to know the best approach to take to gain someone's sympathy. This particular person is disconnected to any of my concerns that he has no care in the world for what I go through. Is there any spell I can cast to get him to feel and understand what I go through? I just want him to be supportive of me, and not be so dismissive.

Thanks

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:15 pm

Hello Maduro01,

In the goal of affecting or influencing the mind or will of another. I prefer to use Skull Candles. A good Skull Candle Ritual can be a very powerful thing.

More on them here: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

Best of Luck to You!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:02 pm

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Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:06 pm

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