Greetings to you all,
I hope your day is going well. I have a scenario/three parter question. The scenario is that my boyfriend is so very downtrodden that he cannot find a job. It coming to the point where he needs to sell plasma or sperm to get money. He has put in applications after applications. He has quite a few interviews, but nothing comes out of them.
He has his bachelor's in history-theology, a Master's in education, and he just graduated in Dec. on top of his class for an electrician. However, no matter how hard he tries he cannot obtain a job. Not even a temp job. He is currently in class trying to go for his LE. Which means, he can wire up commercial and residential houses. He seems happier when he is a productive person and is able to help others. Must be a Virgo thing?....
I want to do something for him. Not quite sure what, but I want to help him be happy, healthy, and obtain a job that is in his field.
Mind you, he is a newbie so a lot of requirements ask at least a year of experience. Hard to have experience when no one won't give you a chance. The other thing is he is struggling with alcohol addiction. He is willing to get help but that requires money to pay for the co-payments. Kinda hard to do that when your flat broke! Wouldn't you know it? The dilemma with his job search is he also has two dui's from 6 or 7 yrs ago. Where we live it can last up to ten yrs on your record. So that is another show stopper on his part even though he paid for his crimes a long time ago.
My ultimate goal is to approach this cautiously in a positive manner. I'm not doing this for self-gain. I like seeing him happy. I want to see him prosper and become a better person because as his girlfriend that is how I want to challenge him. How can you become a better version of your self? This is what I tell to him, myself, and others.

I want to help him become happier with himself, w/others, healthier, and obtain a job that satisfies him plus protect him keep him out of trouble/harms way. I know that there are several herbs such as High John, or bay leaves that can help. I have been doting on this for about two to three months on and off since the blood moon. Which I did a happiness/prosperity spell during that time.
However, it seems things got topsy turvy here lately for the both of us. His drinking had gotten so bad that I had to send him back to his own house to live in again. That did hurt because I like being around him. Sometimes you must detach with tough love. However, we are on the mend. I'm kinda liking being the queen of my palace once again minus eating alone. That sucks! I like to cook and share food.
Anyways, I'm not sure if I screwed up, or it is the Mercury retrograde rearing it's ugly self unto us? So, in short, How do I do this safely so no harm comes to him and nor to me? I know it is all in the intent and wording but any advice/help would be golden for me. I'm not sure where to start and I am a little bit rusty so to speak. Hoodoo is the last remedy for me when all else fails. When you've tried everything. When you've to rattle your little brain over all hours of the night for. Kind of like a break in case of an emergency ordeal. So it has been awhile.
Thank you for your time. Brightest blessings to you all.
Very Respectfully,
Sahira A.