Stay At Home and Stay With Me Spell Kits, Honey Jars, and Painted Bottle Spells Questions and Answers

[DaniellaG]

I just don’t want me to become the one obsessed when doing the work on him that’s why I’m unsure if it’s that important to put my name over his.

[Miss Athena]

Hello DaniellaG,

You want to direct his desire towards someone, which would be you. This is why you would include your name over his.

You would be the object of his desire, you would not be the one doing the desiring. You should be fine.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[DaniellaG]

Miss Athena,

Thanks for clarifying. Also last thing before I start tonight. I only have a few love oils from lucky mojo..I have chupparossa and bewitching only...and I have the do as I say sachet powder...would u say I can use any of these for more affection and passion from him? Or 1 of the 2 oils? I'll also be putting cinnamon, cardamom, coriander seeds, catnip, sugar, and ginger root in the jar. Is there any herb I'm missing that youd feel would give a good kick to a guy who's not contacting me now and calls like every other weekend for sex? And on the candle I'm not sure if it's better to roll it in do as I say sachet and then crush all those herbs together and also add it to the candle or the herbs on the candle dont need to match the herbs inside?
Last thing... I have vanilla bean as well as vanilla extract. What would u say is better to put in the jar? Or I guess more potent.

Thanks!!

[Miss Athena]

Hello DaniellaG,

Use the Chuparrosa oil to engender ideal love with this man, not the occasional booty call.

Your herbs sound fine. You don't need the same ones on your candle as in the jar. Do not overload your candle as this can lead to a fire hazard.

You can add a vanilla bean if you wish. Do not add oils to your jar if you wish to cook with the honey, which is a traditional method for doing this kind of work.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[DaniellaG]

Hey Miss Athena,

So quick update and advice needed... I couldn't take him ghosting me all week after we just had tue most intimate night together in all of 20 years since we were kids and after i made the jar...i lit a votive on it...let it burn half way before i clipped it for further use. But the next day i felt this impulse and rage to go bang on his door if he was gonna keep ignoring me. So I did while our kids were in school. He opened the door terrified of me because I threatened I'd curse him before for treating me like this and he began crying at the door saying he just wants to be left alone and isn't feeling well and looked like he hasnt showered in all week and felt embarrassed for me to see him like that...he does have depression and bipolar that he refuses to treat and a severe skin condition that covers his entire body and he cant stop itching and it doesnt go away. Hes all beat up. I understand hes going through shit. But ignoring me for a whole week when I keep texting even the most mundane questions got me to a point where I needed to go to his house and ask him what's the deal or if he wants me in his life or not. He ended up taking a shower immediately when I came over cus I guess he felt gross and dirty when I saw him. As hes showing I'm standing there talking to him about how I feel and how if he doesnt want me other than to screw then say so. He said that's not it but he knows me for 20 years and said I know him better than anyone and I know hes not stable right now for any relationship and it's not just me but with anyone. On the other hand he did admit that I am his soulmate and I am the only one hes been with or interacts with in the last 4 years since him and his baby mama broke up, and that's since I became a single mom too. So we ended up about to have sex again after he came out the shower when he stopped himself because he claimed he didnt wanna start when his Sons school kept calling and he may need to go there. He stopped right as he was about to put it in. Later I did a reading and found out it's because hes afraid I'm gonna do work on him now. Hes terrified of witchcraft and spells of any kind. He is your typical guarded mysterious and fragile cancer man. Hes a single dad with a lot on his plate and although hes not capable right now of having a stable relationship...he doesnt need to call me every other week only when hes feeling better either. I know him for 20 years to still play this game. He told me it's not personal but he just doesnt wanna talk to anyone and he started crying (he has a lot of issues and past trauma) ...when I left he didnt wanna kiss me on the lips this time but on the cheek and told me hell contact me sometime next week....2 days later he responded to me briefly about some funny video I shared and about his skin condition and thanked me and that was it...now he continues ignoring me again. I know hell come back again and he told me himself he always will cus he cant help himself...and I told him when he does I wont give it to him anymore. So my question now is...I never continued working tue jar after the first day I started it because I went to see him the next day and curbed my urge of obsessing and wondering...but now I wanna make him still show me more passion and affection and be free and vulnerable around me and idk if I should start working that same jar again which was for more passion and affection, or I need something else like either reconciliation? Or love me? Or road opener? Theres def something going on with him that's blocking his progress with me. So I'm wondering at this point do I need to work on enticing him more and adding more sparks to his feelings where he cant hide anymore or do something to remove his pessimism and depression? What's a good petition and working to go with if not go back to the jar I already made last week?

Sorry for this being so long. But I really hope you can give me the best possible Avenue to proceed with. If I need to buy any additional oils or herbs from luckymojo I will do so.

Please tell me what you think I should do now. My birthdays in 3 days and id really love to hear from him...as I havent seen him or heard from him since last week again.

[Miss Athena]

Hello DaniellaG,

Yes, that was rather long and difficult to get through. If I understand your situation correctly, don't overload him with any more love work. He's afraid you're doing work on him, so adding to that will likely cause him to retreat even further.

If you're going to do anything at all, I suggest work to help him overcome whatever obstacle is in his way with regard to reconciliation. Do some Block Buster work, then follow it up with Clarity to help cut through the cloudiness of his depression. That should help calm him down enough to start thinking more clearly.

That's what I would do. Good luck.

[runrabbitrun]

Hi!

A man who I am close friends with I was interested in for quite some time (have done other love work on him) finally came over and slept with me (WOO!). Plot twist - this isn’t looking for advice on how to get him to sleep with me again! Though, the end goal is yes, more sex and a relationship.

He has received a job offer in another state he is strongly considering. Obviously, I don’t want him to move away. Ideally i’d rather accomplish this by helping him find a better job opportunity here rather than taking away his job opportunities.

Is a Stay With Me kit the right thing here or should I be looking for more work oriented things?

Thanks!

[Evan Lionhart]

Hi runrabbitrun,

A Stay With Me kit sounds perfect for this situation. You may also want to work it in tandem with a Road Opener or Steady Work kit so that while you're working him to stay with you, you're also helping him find a job closer to your location!

[runrabbitrun]

Thank you Evan!!

[Rev Ernest]

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[catherineyronwode]

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